Reboundy Rules (for single men)

In this episode, I go deep into the wonderful topic of “Alpha” males vs “Beta” males. Fun subject, right? Never controversial, right? Not exactly. Why should you care about this? Because, despite what the internet tells you, no man is 100% “Alpha” or 100% “Beta” all the time. Plus, men who are both admired by men and attractive to women usually have some combination of “Alpha” and “Beta” traits. So, trying to be 100% “Alpha” or being 100% ANTI-Alpha can be counterproductive. Listen now for more on all of this. Episode Notes: RR25. Stop worrying so much about Alpha and Beta status. It’s not genetic. It’s just whatever. ----------- Quote to Remember: “Many of the guys you like listening to on YouTube or on podcasts are all actual modern era Alpha males because they’re teaching you something that makes your life better in some way. They don’t want to dominate you. They just want you to win.” Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about how your imperfections might actually help you with a lot of women. I also discuss how a lack of authenticity around attractive women can actually scare them away (sometimes, literally). Why do you need to know all of this? Because, most guys act too “perfect” around a woman to whom they’re attracted. Or worse, some guys try to be “real” with women and end up looking and sounding like pathetic sad-sacks. Learn how to talk about yourself in a way that makes you human and relatable - while still looking confident and attractive. Episode Notes: RR24. Don’t aim for perfection. Even for guys who are good with women, things are imperfect. ----------- Quote to Remember: “Be that guy you are when you’re around your friends and you’re having fun. That version of you NEVER acts perfect because he doesn’t have to. That guy has nothing to hide. That guy is just cool.” Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I go deep on three areas where men judge other men and where men judge themselves. I talk about personal strength, your money situation, and your ability to attract and date the kind of women you really want (i.e., might, money, and “mate-ability”). Why think about all of this? Because, understanding how these three areas are related (and NOT related) can help change your outlook when it comes to attracting women and dating them. That is, when you “get” these ideas, you’ll quickly be more confident with women - whether you’re rich, poor, or doing okay. Episode Notes: RR23. Understand that Might, Money, and Mate-ability can and should all be developed separately. ----------- Quote to Remember: “Never, ever get intimidated by guys who have more money or more muscles than you. Some of those guys are quite good with women, but most of them are not.” Forget about lame dating advice for men that never works. Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about how some mistakes men make with women stem from unrealistic expectations and impatience. I also talk about the importance of impulse control around women to whom you’re very attracted. Why should you care about any of this? Because, many times the “right” move with a new woman is the exact opposite of what you FEEL like doing. Once you understand this simple idea, you can improve your chances with new women - even if those women are very attractive. Episode Notes: RR22. Accept the fact that success with women often involves some waiting and some frustration. ----------- Quote to Remember: “Never forget that once a new woman starts liking you and you’re being patient with her, this only helps to build sexual tension even more.” Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I discuss why a feeling of shyness or awkwardness some men have around women is NOT really about the woman. Why should this matter to you? Because, if you’ve ever talked to or approached a very attractive woman and felt out of place, any weird vibes you had are your issues (and not hers). When you understand this (and avoid it), your confidence around very attractive women can go up in a massive way. Episode Notes: RR21. Find positive ways to be happy away from women and things will be easier when you're with women. ----------- Quote to Remember: “When you’re happy, you don’t wake up and immediately go on the internet looking for things to be angry about. When you’re happy, you have things you look forward to doing, and these things might be things you do all by yourself.” Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I discuss the value of talking to new people and the easiest ways to do that. More importantly, I talk about how to connect and bond with someone in a conversation so that your likability goes through the roof. Why is this important? Because, if you can practice connecting and bonding with new people away from women, you’ll be great at it when you’re with women. If you want to be more than “just friends” with that cute brunette from Tinder, that cool blonde chick you’re talking to on Hinge, or any other woman, listen to this episode carefully. Episode Notes: RR20. Remember that the best content for connecting and bonding comes from shared feelings. ----------- Quote to Remember: “Bonding over a shared feeling does not mean you have to solve anyone’s problems. No, you never wanna be a 'Listen, here’s what you need to do…' kinda guy.” Forget about lame dating advice that doesn't work. Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about why you don’t need to guess at what any woman likes or wants in a romantic partner. The reason that guessing is a waste of time is because some women take time to feel genuinely attracted to someone new. So, with any new woman, her current feelings for you may be a work in progress. Why do you need to care about this? Because, when you disregard this dynamic, you can make critical mistakes. Or, you might hold off taking some kind of action because you’re not seeing immediate signs of interest from the woman (the worst mistake of all). Episode Notes: RR19. Remind yourself that you don’t know what she wants because she may not even know what she wants. ----------- Quote to Remember: “You might be that 4 door car she wants because she’s sick and tired of 2 door cars. You THINK she wants a sports-car, but she really wants a sedan…and you’re like a new Honda Accord to her and she’s ready to buy. “ Forget about lame dating advice for men that doesn't work. Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about how to get your friend (or friends) to support you in places where you might meet women. Why is this important? Because, when you and your buddies all agree to help each other, there is strength in numbers - especially in places where there are single women. Plus, the company you keep can make you look bad or it can make you look GOOD (note: choose to look GOOD!). Episode Notes: RR18. Remember the three traits of a great wingman and make sure your buddies know them too. ----------- Quote to Remember: “If you’re hearing this rule and thinking, 'I don’t even have a wingman because I have like, zero friends,' that’s okay. Sometimes talking to women and dating around can be even easier when you have no real friends and you’re all alone.” Forget about lame dating advice for men that doesn't work. Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about the dreaded Friend Zone and how to get out of it. No, this may not be the solution you want to hear, but it’s the one you need to hear. Episode Notes: RR17. If you’re stuck in the friend zone, remember that the only way out is through. ----------- Quote to Remember: “See, you can't do anything to make her want to come back. You can only do things to make her NOT want to come back. I mean first you'll pretend not to care, not call - whatever, and then, eventually, you really won't care. Somehow, they don't come back until you really don't care anymore.” - from the movie Swingers (written by and starring Jon Favreau) Forget about lame dating advice for men for that doesn't work. Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about how you don’t need all women to like you to be happy; you just need one. This is important to remember because in the age of social media, it’s easy to compare your real life to some other dude’s fake life. When you do this, it affects your confidence level and your whole approach with new women. When you stop comparing yourself, real confidence can show up quickly. Episode Notes: RR16. Remind yourself that there’s no scorecard or trophy for dating or hooking up. ----------- Quote to Remember: “Meeting and dating someone great, someone you really like, someone who likes you back…it’s all just a process. It’s a bunch of little things along the way. It’s about fundamentals.” Forget about lame dating advice for men that doesn't work. Start the Reboundy Program for FREE here: https://reboundy.com/