Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com 00:00 - Start 01:01 - Tip 1: Pace It Out 03:31 - Tip 2: Fears and Expectations 06:17 - Tip 3: Get Uncomfortable 09:05 - Tip 4: Grow and Change 12:40 - Tip 5: Trust 21:34 - Lets talk about cheating... 22:47 - Wrap Up! Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Feeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel from Expansive Connection to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different. 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net Join our YouTube channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe7DmFew6-HGxq-4ocl61LQ/join 🔥 Whether it’s the same parties, same people, or just a fading thrill, this episode explores how to: - Recognize when your lifestyle interests shift - Embrace change without guilt or shame - Let go of self-judgment and outdated identities - Rewrite your story and rediscover what truly lights you up 💬 Kel—Certified Adult Chair Coach, Relational Life Therapy Coach, and Enneagram Coach—shares transformative tools to help you reconnect with your authentic self and reignite passion in your relationships. ✨ If you’re feeling stuck, burned out, or like the tribe you once loved doesn’t feel like home anymore, this episode is your invitation to something new. Sources https://www.expansiveconnection.com/ Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳 Join us as we reveal the shocking, raw, and completely unexpected story of how we became swingers. We were nervous, excited, and totally out of our depth at this "Share Your Wife" party with total strangers. Things got WILD. 😱 Curious about the swinging lifestyle? Want to know what it's really like to attend your first swinger event? We're sharing our unfiltered experience, from the initial curiosity to the moment we walked through the door. But be warned... there was a shocking and violating club entrance requirement we NEVER saw coming. 😨 You won't believe what happened! Whether you're new to swinging, considering exploring open relationships, or just love a crazy story, you won't want to miss this! Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed doors, this video will give you the confidence to take the first step into the swinger lifestyle. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive in! Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com With the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals and families. Brett shares how OPEN is working to end stigma, change laws, and support non-monogamous communities through workplace advocacy, municipal protections, and visibility efforts. Learn about the challenges facing swingers, polyamorous individuals, and other ethically non-monogamous (ENM) people—and how you can get involved to make a difference. 🔹 Key Topics Covered: ✔️ Legal rights and challenges for non-monogamous relationships ✔️ Workplace discrimination & advocacy efforts ✔️ The importance of visibility and cultural acceptance ✔️ How non-monogamous communities can support each other ✔️ Steps to get involved in legislative change Resources: https://www.open-love.org/resources Discord: https://discord.com/invite/5apvGGp3Qu Print Materials: https://www.open-love.org/print-materials Mixers Guide: https://www.open-love.org/mixers-guide Peer Support: https://www.open-love.org/peer-support Survey 2024: https://www.open-love.org/blog/open-2024-community-survey-report Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com You're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone! In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle. We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the pressure to perform, and how new situations, alcohol, and sensory overload can contribute. More importantly, we share real solutions—from mindset shifts and relaxation techniques to pharmaceutical options and lifestyle changes—to help you stay confident and present in the moment. Whether you're new to swinging or a seasoned pro, this episode is packed with practical tips to overcome ED and enhance your playtime experience. 🔹 Why does performance anxiety happen? 🔹 The impact of stress, alcohol, and new experiences 🔹 How to shift your mindset and stay present 🔹 Tips for handling ED gracefully in the moment 🔹 Viagra, Cialis, Trimix, and natural alternatives 🔹 Communication and consent: How to set the stage for success Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and pleasure can reshape our understanding of intimacy. Episode Links: A Sexplanation Trailer: https://tr.ee/y1QeX_KNhM A Sexplanation Film: https://tr.ee/muGR_SxEep Alex's Links: https://linktr.ee/asexplanation Hera Productions: https://www.herraproductions.com/about A Sexplanation Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Sexplanation Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks and hormone disruptions), and how it can influence consent and decision-making in intimate situations. Discover tips for navigating swinger events sober, building confidence, and enhancing experiences without alcohol. Whether you're curious about cutting back or just exploring a healthier lifestyle within swinging, this episode is packed with insights, humor, and actionable advice to keep you informed and empowered. Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or reflecting on your own journey, this candid discussion will inspire and entertain. Tune in for honest conversations, personal growth, and a touch of humor! #SwingerUniversity #SwingingLifestyle #FullSwap #OpenRelationships #LifestyleJourney #EmotionalGrowth #SwingingCouples #Relationships #LifestylePodcast #Communication #PersonalGrowth Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Navigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger University Can New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your relationship. ✨ What you'll learn: Discover how swinging can amplify connection, spark curiosity, and keep your relationship thriving—without crossing the line. 📞 Have a question or story to share? Call us at 916-538-0482, and your question could be featured on the show! 🎯 Keywords & Hashtags: #SwingerUniversity #NavigateNRE #NewRelationshipEnergy #SwingingLifestyle #MarriageTips #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositiveCommunity #OpenRelationships #TrustAndCommunication Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Discover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI prevention (including the dreaded HSV/Herpes), and expert tips for elevating your sex life. Whether you're looking to ignite passion in your relationships or expand your understanding of intimacy, this episode is packed with practical insights and advice. Tune in to this must-listen conversation and unlock your best sex life with guidance from a true expert! 🕑Key Moments: 00:00:00 - Welcome and introductions 00:01:42 - Ashley Manta, award-winning sex educator 00:07:23 - Sex and Cannabis and Swinging 00:16:52 - Consent in the non-monogamy community 00:31:56 - Some facts about STIs and the myths of "We're Tested and Clean" 00:46:46 - Skilled lovers vs. Novelty 01:09:17 - Wrap Up and Discount Codes Support the show 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Have you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal with new partners. Whether you're new or seasoned, you'll learn how to interpret subtle cues, handle ambiguous situations, and ensure you're always prepared for exciting possibilities. If you have ever struggled approaching a prospective date, you won't want to miss this episode! ☝️Remember to: like, subscribe, comment, and share your thoughts! ✏️This post contains affiliate links. #SwingerTips #LifestyleConfidence #RelationshipAdvice #SwingerPodcast #OpenRelationships #AdultEducation #SwingerUniversity Support the show Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community 🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comOur Website * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Are terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the challenges and stigmas tied to "DTF" and "FWB," and uncover how labels impact relationships. Whether you're navigating ENM, curious about swinging, or just seeking insight, this episode has something for everyone. 🔑 Key Moments: Support the show Our Links: PatreonSwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comSDC YouTubeOur WebsiteTwitterInstagramFacebookTikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compatible partners. Discover the fine line between healthy disclosure and TMI, and learn why "kissing and telling" in the swinger community is often more than gossip. Join us as we tackle questions like: Highlights: Origins & Social Standards:Swinger vs. Vanilla Perspectives:When to Share:Public Service Announcements:Tune in to hear real-life examples and valuable advice to make informed choices in your relationships. Hashtags #SwingerLifestyle #KissAndTell #EthicalNonMonogamy #Swingers #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositive #SwingerPodcast #SwingerUniversity Highlight Summary Intro to "Kissing and Telling"History and Double StandardsBoundaries in SharingWhy Sharing Matters in the LifestylePublic Safety ConcernsPractical Tips for Disclosure Support the show Our Links: PatreonSwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comSDC YouTubeOur WebsiteTwitterInstagramFacebookTikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Ever wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, and the valuable lessons we learned about boundaries, trust, and safer sex practices in the lifestyle. 💥 Highlights: [0:30][4:20][10:15][14:45][20:00]This episode is perfect for anyone curious about the lifestyle or looking to understand the importance of boundaries and open communication in intimate experiences. Call to Action: 👉 Like, subscribe, and share with anyone you think might find this conversation insightful or entertaining! And don't forget to leave a comment about your own thoughts on navigating lifestyle challenges. Top Hashtags: #SwingerExperience #LifestyleLessons #FullSwapFirst #SwingerParty #RelationshipBoundaries Support the show Our Links: PatreonSwingLinks.clubPhoebeSwinger.comEdSwinger.comSDC YouTubeOur WebsiteTwitterInstagramFacebookTikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

We don't often experience violations of consent in the lifestyle, which makes it all the more disturbing when it happens. Consent is so critical to the entire swinging experience because it specifically deals with trust, safety, and bodily autonomy. @SwingDownUnder @casualswinger SHOW NOTES: Support the showOur Links: PatreonYouTubeWebsiteSwingLinks.clubTwitterInstagramFacebookTikTok

Sadly we are packing up to head home today, but we wanted to get one more episode out to wrap up this amazing event. Fun, sun, playtime, and some really great content here that all the podcasters shared with the attendees. Thank you all for attending, and listening to us. A HUGE thanks to Cate for setting up and running this amazing event. We look forward to the next one, and we haven't even left our first. Support the show

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