The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Are you curious about who’s at the core of the Swinging Lifestyle Community? If you’ve heard our show before, you’ve heard us say time and time again, “the lifestyle and swinging are not about the sex. It’s all about the people!” Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach, as we chat with Bonnie and Neil from BonesBackYard.com, all about how they discovered the lifestyle four years ago and made a conscious decision to immerse their work lives into the world of openminded parties, travel and a podcast, celebrating all aspects of the lifestyle community and all the wonderful people who accept this community as their tribe. On this episode we focus on the benefits of great communication skills and an open-minded attitude --- especially if you want to step out of your comfort zone, meet new people, make new friends, and expand your mind and spirit. Humans are social beings and need community and there’s no better place to find it than right here at Hedonism II where you can be as mild or as wild as you like.

What would you do if you accidentally ended up on a swingers’ cruise with 3500 open-minded guests without knowing anything about the swinging lifestyle? Would you be curious, willing to learn and ready to jump-in, or prefer to watch vicariously from afar? Join us from The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, as we chat with the on-board Comedian, Dylan Mandlsohn, who didn’t realize he had accepted a gig on a swingers’ cruise until the day he came abord… And he crushed it! He had us roaring with laughter. His performance focused a lot on his own ‘vanilla’ point of view - with his mind blown - after witnessing some real-life swinger experiences. Listen to PART 2 and hear the full, uncensored and hilarious comedy show Dylan Mandlsohn performed on the Bliss Cruise.

What would you do if you accidentally ended up on a swingers’ cruise with 3500 open-minded guests without knowing anything about the swinging lifestyle? Would you be curious, willing to learn and ready to jump-in, or prefer to watch vicariously from afar? Join us from The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel, as we chat with the on-board Comedian, Dylan Mandlsohn, who didn’t realize he had accepted a gig on a swingers’ cruise until the day he came abord… And he crushed it! He had us roaring with laughter. His performance focused a lot on his own ‘vanilla’ point of view - with his mind blown - after witnessing some real-life swinger experiences. Listen to PART 2 and hear the full, uncensored and hilarious comedy show Dylan Mandlsohn performed on the Bliss Cruise.

Are you ready for some self-reflection, self-discovery, and sexual exploration? Do you need some pointers to re-set your mindset into a more positive mode for growth and transformation? Join us with Sexologist, Speaker and Author, Dr Toni Bear as we review different ways for women to embrace their truth and uncover the obstacles that may be holding them back. We get into the importance of igniting your passion and embracing your authentic self while exploring the beautiful world of human sexuality.

Do you appreciate the fact that porn is entertainment and should NOT be a resource for sexual education? You need to find alternate sources for real information, whether it’s on-line, books, podcasts or blogs. Join us with Jackie and John Melfi, industry leaders in the world of open relationships, owners of Colette Swingers Clubs, and founders of Open Love 101 website and podcast, as we talk about the importance of real credible information when it comes to sex, sexuality, sexual health and relationships. This multi-talented duo shares stories about their beginnings and how far they have come as experts in their field, providing resources and a new community platform for discussing intimate personal feelings, and challenges when exploring the alternative lifestyles.

Do you have difficulty getting hard and staying hard in a swinger situation? Is performance anxiety a common occurrence and a source of shame that you cannot discuss with your partner or primary care provider? Join us with Robert Johnson, the President of Shameless Care, an online telemedicine company that is tailored for people in the lifestyle by people in the lifestyle. We dive deep into the need for privacy when discussing health care for non-monogamous people and the convenience of testing from home, and being treated by doctors who understand the lifestyle.

Are you perplexed by the idea of having multiple intimate relationships that include love, sex, emotion, romance and commitment with multiple people at the same time? Perhaps you’re trying to figure out how anyone can successfully manage multiple relationships to a satisfactory level when one healthy relationship takes up so much personal effort. Join us from Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we chat with a couple of guests who explain why traditional monogamous relationships simply don’t work for them, and how they discovered polyamory after episodes of cheating changed their outlook towards traditional relationships. We explore how and why they adopted polyamory as their preferred relationship style and what makes a successful, healthy partnership in this lifestyle.

Do you ever fantasize about being stark naked in front of hundreds of naked party-goers, leading the charge with pool-side sexy games and intimate sex challenges, exposing yourself in full daylight for the very first time in a sexually-charged environment? Join us with on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach as we chat with Topless Travel’s newest sexy entertainer who turned that daunting fantasy into reality when she agreed to work with Party Marc and his pool-side sexy antics. Experiencing her very own laundry list of “firsts”, she shares her personal stories about this week’s party activities and her rapid journey from Zero to Hero --- revealing how she will never, ever, be the same again!

Are you easily triggered by the simplest things? How about when you’re in a sexually charged environment and your irrational reaction spoils the sexy moment all together? Join us with Therapists, Catherine Scantlin and Meshai Olivares from Expansive Connection, as they breakdown the stages of a triggered emotional state and help us understand why our reactions are so extreme and out of control and how recognizing the cues that could set off the avalanche of emotions before they happen, is the best way to stay in control and not spoil the intimacy of the moment.

Do you seek motivation from leaders in the fitness world to help drive your passion for a healthy and sexy lifestyle, because you know that healthy is sexy? Join us at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica with CrossFit Athlete & Coach, Kate Gordon, from down under, as we get into the basics about how food directly alters the health of your body and how your food choices can actually improve your sex life. Eat Better – Fuck Better! Oh, yeah, and... We also get into some personal stories about Kate’s first time at Hedo.

Do you ever wonder what it’s like to be a single male on a swingers’ cruise. Usually it’s a couples-only event, but when you’re the star DJ, they make exceptions. Join us on The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel as we chat with international DJ Steven B, reliving the sexy dance parties that he created with his keen music sense and talented skills, especially the amazing glow party. In addition, we hear first-hand stories of what it means to be single at the biggest party on the high seas. Also on today’s show, we engage a couple, Dee and JR from Lifestyle Lynx, who host their own sexy parties, as they take us through all the dos and don’ts when it comes to successful swinger parties and they share some of their best stories too.

Have you experienced religious sexual trauma? Perhaps you are looking for impactful ways to navigating healing and thriving after experiencing the effects of purity culture? Join Dr. Stephanie from Evolve Your Intimacy together with Sex Therapist, Dr. Tina Sellers as they delve into the challenges that individuals may face in recovering from religious sexual trauma and breaking free from the harmful messages perpetuated by purity culture. Through sharing personal stories, professional insights, and practical strategies, this episode aims to empower survivors and provide them with the tools necessary to heal, reclaim their sexuality, and cultivate a fulfilling life post-trauma. Join them on this transformative journey of healing and thriving as they navigate the complexities of religious, sexual trauma, and purity culture.

What happens when you have a positive herpes test? Does it mean your sex life is over? How can you continue enjoying a non-monogamous lifestyle? Join Ashley Manta from CannaSexual, together with Courtney Brame, founder of Something Positive for Positive People, the passionate powerhouse behind a non-profit organization whose mission is to break down herpes stigma by spreading credible information. They share their expert knowledge on living your best non-monogamous life while navigating a positive STI diagnosis. You’ll also hear personal stories, triumphs, and the lowdown on having the disclosure conversation. Plus, how cannabis can be a game-changer for managing symptoms and embracing self-love. Get ready for some real talk on STIs, non-monogamy, and a sprinkle of cannabis wisdom.

Does your sex life feel too routine? Are you looking for more ways to spice-it-up with your partner? Perhaps you need to change it up a little to get a kick-start into a new routine? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach, chatting with a seasoned swinger couple who decided to come to Hedonism instead of their regular sexy vacation spot. The change of pace, the change of location and the opportunity to meet new amazing friends fueled the fire to break the routine and add some newness to their sex routine. On this episode we learn how small changes can go a long way in rejuvenating old passions and how keeping an open-mind while trying new things can be a refreshing alternative to the status quo.

Are you looking for a long-lasting relationship that includes a touch of non-monogamy? Perhaps you need a mentor or a guide to take you by the hand through the stages of exploration so that you don’t mess up your already strong and healthy connection. Join us with Ethical Non-Monogamy Guide, Ally Iseman from Passport2Pleasure.com, as we talk about all the ways to avoid common friction and insecurities that can arise as you journey into the exciting yet obscure world of Ethical Non-Monogamy. We get into busting a bunch of myths and misinformation that cloud the reality of this erotic and intoxicating lifestyle.

Are you looking to explore your kinky side and learn more about anal play, spanking, and power exchange? Join us with Sex and Pleasure educator, Luna Matatas as she goes back to the basics with different ways to pleasure your partner using her tried and true tips and tricks. Her playful approach to sexuality draws on the creativity, confidence and communication skills we all need to fulfil our pleasure potentials.

Are you looking to explore your kinky side and learn more about anal play, spanking, and power exchange? Join us with Sex and Pleasure educator, Luna Matatas as she goes back to the basics with different ways to pleasure your partner using her tried and true tips and tricks. Her playful approach to sexuality draws on the creativity, confidence and communication skills we all need to fulfil our pleasure potentials.

Do you ever fantasize about being a porn star -- being fully confident about exposing your most private moments with the world? Perhaps you’re wondering what your “cum face” looks like in real time? Or how those thighs giggle beautifully when you’re doing doggy? Join us on board the Bliss Cruise as we chat with one of Topless Travel’s cutest host couples, Alina and Lay, as we discuss how they started in the porn industry as contributors, not actors, and how their sexy business has grown because of their authentic content as a couple in love, enjoying sex together. Instead of the typical produced porn, which is usually considered entertainment for the satisfaction of the male gaze, their videos are live, vibrant, scenes planned by two horny people in love, and appreciated by a broad audience of devoted fans. ONLYFANS @layndare

Do you ever fantasize about being a porn star -- being fully confident about exposing your most private moments with the world? Perhaps you’re wondering what your “cum face” looks like in real time? Or how those thighs giggle beautifully when you’re doing doggy? Join us on board the Bliss Cruise as we chat with one of Topless Travel’s cutest host couples, Alina and Lay, as we discuss how they started in the porn industry as contributors, not actors, and how their sexy business has grown because of their authentic content as a couple in love, enjoying sex together. Instead of the typical produced porn, which is usually considered entertainment for the satisfaction of the male gaze, their videos are live, vibrant, scenes planned by two horny people in love, and appreciated by a broad audience of devoted fans. ONLYFANS @layndare

Can you still access the benefits of cannabis topicals and extracts if you don’t have access to a dispensary? In this sizzling episode, discover the science behind cannabis-infused DIY delights. From pain relief to intense sensations, these personalized potions redefine intimacy. Join Cannabis Expert, Ashley Manta from CannaSexual with Cannabis Health Coach, Michelle Crawford from Canna-curious for some quick tips, creative concoctions, and firsthand experiences that make DIY cannabis topicals and extracts the hottest addition to your intimacy and self-routines. Spice up your intimacy, embrace a DIY revolution, and step into a world where pleasure knows no bounds.