Han and Matt Know It All

After 10,000 years, Han and Matt have finally wrapped the show. To watch the episode with our lovely mugs and our disruptive kitties (which was recorded live on Facebook!), check it out here if you're able: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hanandmattknowitall/permalink/585309755619000/ Here's loosely what we discussed: From the Facebook Event: "Hello, lovely Hamkittens of the world! Han and I have decided that our long-awaited final episode of Han and Matt Know It All will be a LIVE Facebook event so that we can collectively and symbolically hand-off the spirit of the show to its new rightful owners: ALL OF YOU AMAZING PEOPLE! ♥ Seriously, y'all never cease to amaze me with your dedication to kindness and the work you've done fostering (so many!) safe communities. I'm a proud cat dad(dy) indeed. It's so immeasurably gratifying to see what y'all have done with the place since Han and I ghosted—err, since we've unexpectedly parted ways with you." From the bottom of our hearts: thank you so much for being a part of this with us. Given the chance, we would do it all again in heartbeat. Love, Han & Matt

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 9th, 2019, and beyond, including: NOTEAsk EllieWife's request for quiet time 'mindless' TV watching confounds husbandHarry Potter Totally SucksAsk EllieMy true love might walk away because of my ex's meddlingCarolyn HaxMy pregnant friend's husband needs to shut up already about her weight gainAsk a ManagerI ran into my new boss in the apartment of my one-night standAsk Dr. NerdLoveWhat Do I Do About My Irresponsible Boyfriend?SPONSORPodigyr/AITAAITA for flirting with 19 year old girls and defending myself when being called a predator.Listener NShoutout to Zoya AKA Zoe Fenson on APWI'm A Feminist Killjoy—And My Husband Loves itShoutout to Ask Real EstateCan a Building Charge You for Bedbugs?Shoutout to Miss MannersLet’s all shake hands insteadShoutout to Ask a Managerwhat tools help you focus on work when you’re in a loud or distracting environment? Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt are joined by climate change journalist and senior editor of Yale Climate Connections Sara Peach, columnist of the one-of-a-kind and invaluable Ask Sara! We interview Sara and discuss listener questions and topical questions from around the web on the topic of climate change: Sara Peach Columbia Journalism ReviewReporter explains local effects of climate change through advice columnAsk Sara on Yale Climate Connections #88 Han and Matt Sweat It Out Discussion on Ask SaraShould I tell my Republican friend that her Florida mansion is doomed by sea-level rise?Sara Peach on TwitterPeach ReportListener Zayime, Herald of DespairListener Berylglow, Estival SpriteListener The Feral LampreySPONSORPodigyAsk UmbraShould climate change be my new career calling?Captain AwkwardMy husband's extreme environmental beliefs are a problem. How can I get him to give up this obsession?Ask a ManagerI'm in trouble for re-sorting a coworker's trash — and I’m enragedAsk a Managerour new manager is pressuring the women on our team to use menstrual cups #111: Han and Matt Hail Brandy JensenSPONSOR:care/ofCare and FeedingDoes Climate Change Mean I Shouldn’t Have Kids?Shoutout to Slate's Old Climate Change Advice ColumnThe Green LanternShoutout to Raechel Anne Jolie's New Newsletter: "Radical Love Notes" Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Greetings, Hamkittens! Long time no see. But soon, we will be on the West Coast for our two-week vacation and coming to a bar near you! Check out all the details below, RSVP on Facebook, and we might even wow you by knowing your name before you even introduce yourself. Whoooaaaa! HAMKIA Bay Area MeetupSunday, May 19, 5-7 PMThe Golden Squirrel in Oakland, California HAMKIA Portland Meetup!Bye & ByePortland, Oregon HAMKIA Seattle Meetup!Optimism Brewing CompanySeattle, Washington And yes, things are still very hectic in Matt-land. We're taking a break while work chaos settles, but we do have at least one (guest!) episode planned for June. Stay tuned. Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 28th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS:San Francisco Meetup:Portland MeetupSeattle Meetup[CW: Self-Harm]Ask a ManagerWhat to say if a coworker asks about my self harm scarsAsk a ManagerShould I say something about my coworker’s old self-harm scars?Dear PrudenceI'm in a Happy Relationship With My Boyfriend but I Still Want to Date WomenSPONSOR:care/ofAsk Dr. NerdLoveDo I Have To Agree to An Open Relationship?How to Do ItA Nice Guy Suddenly Said Awful Things to Me During SexSPONSOR:LOLACarolyn HaxBigfoot, the yeti, the Loch Ness Monster — and the soul mateListener The Dauntless BadgerSPONSORPodigyListener Zerrek, Peacekeeper of Otopo UpdateThe Easiest Question We Could Find in the Inbox | Opinion Overflow #39Shoutout to Ask a Managerwhy can't I wear shorts to work?Expanding Your Religious Holiday Knowledge2019 Calendar PDFGoogle Calendar SettingsWe Now Know Who Patrick Is!Dear PrudenceWho the Heck Is Patrick?Advice Column AlertPoetry Rx Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 21st, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS:San Francisco Meetup:Portland MeetupSeattle MeetupMiss ConductThis children's birthday party has a cover chargeAsk NatalieFound out your engagement ring is a fake?Care and FeedingWho the Heck Is Patrick?Carolyn HaxTeacher frets that white Christian parents will whine about helping Muslim kidsAsk a Managermy office wants us to celebrate by wearing pink and blue by genderJudge John HodgmanOn Taco Bell PilgrimagesHow to Eat Vegan at Taco BellListener Lephra, Master ManipulatorSPONSOR: Podigyr/AmItheAssholeWIBTA if I were to dump my boyfriend for being a snobby movie critic?r/AmItheAssholeUPDATE: WIBTA if I were to dump my boyfriend for being a snobby movie critic?Shoutout to Dear Urban DiplomatHelp! My neighbour's kid has some serious Fortnite rageShoutout to Dear AllyHow do I improve compensation fairness at my company?Shoutout to Ask a Managerhow much money do you make?Shoutout to Ask a Managerupdates: the managers peeing dogShoutout to Interesting EngineeringBearded Men Harbour Significantly More Microbes Than DogsShoutout to Ask a Queer ChickHow Can I Get Excited About My Sex Life With My Girlfriend?Advice Column AlertIs This Normal Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of April 7th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS:San Francisco Meetup:Portland MeetupSeattle MeetupAsk The Salty WaitressI took home the unopened bottle of wine I brought to the dinner partyAsk a ManagerI wet my pants at my new job[CW: Weight Loss] Ask AmyWife's extreme weight loss tilts marriage[CW: Domestic Abuse] Dear AbbyMom Takes Action Against Daughter's Abusive BoyfriendCarolyn HaxBoyfriend wants him to tell off grandma after a chat with herKey & PeeleGay Wedding AdviceNPRThe End of EmpathySPONSOR: Podigyr/AmItheAssholeWIBTA if I were to dump my boyfriend for being a snobby movie critic?r/AmItheAssholeUPDATE: WIBTA if I were to dump my boyfriend for being a snobby movie critic?Shoutout to AutostraddleHow to Overcome Being an AriesShoutout to Beast ModeMy Hungry Cat Is Ruining My MorningsShoutout to Asking for a FriendThese Parents Are Making Little League Miserable for Their Son and for MeShoutout to Ask AmyArtist's Instagram request is insta-ignoredAdvice Column AlertDear AllyAdvice Column AlertAsk CrozAdvice Column AlertFishing for AnswersAdvice Column AlertCouldn't Be Me Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt and their most special guest yet tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 31st, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS:San Francisco Meetup:Portland MeetupSeattle MeetupAsk a Managermy boss brings her dog to work and he pees by my deskDear AnnieAlready at a good weightCaptain Awkward Guest PostWhen Woke Becomes A FetishAsk Ann CannonPet influencers make me feel inferior as a doggy parentSense & SensitivityCollege application scandal worries parentSPONSOR: PodigyListener The Fiendish SalamanderBustleShould You Put Your Pronouns In Your Email Signature? This Inclusive Workplace Trend Is Showing Up More And MoreShoutout to ¡Hola Papi!I’m in a Heterosexual Marriage. Do I Need to Come Out as Queer?Shoutout to Dear WendyIn the News: Bride is Furious Over Guests Cheap GiftShoutout to Captain AwkwardPersonal Updates & Introducing This Week’s Guest BloggerShoutout to Dan SavageI Rise to Speak on Behalf of the Unhappily Single or Miserably Partnered...Notes from White British People on People of Color in BritainReni Eddo-LodgeWhy I’m No Longer Talking to White People About RaceNikesh ShuklaThe Good Immigrant Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 24th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS:San Francisco Meetup:Portland MeetupSeattle MeetupCaptain AwkwardFox News, Immigrant Family, and the F******* Wedding Invite ListAsk APWWhy Didn't My MOH Invite Me To Her Wedding?Dear PrudenceHelp! I Found Out My Boyfriend Cheated the Same Week He Found Out He Has Cancer.ViceMussolini’s granddaughter would like everyone, including Jim Carrey, to be nice about her fascist grandpaMiss MannersFamily Dinners Call for a 'No Preaching at the Table' RuleAsk a ManagerMy coworker keeps mocking another coworker's accentSPONSOR: PodigyListener CalliopeShoutout to APWDo I Need A Good Reason To Skip A Wedding?Shoutout to Ask a Managerworking with anti-vaxxersShoutout to Dear WendyWomen Discuss: Deciding to Never Have ChildrenWashington PostIt’s not just you: New data shows more than half of young people in America don’t have a romantic partnerCNBCWorld population to peak by 2055: reportShoutout to Ask the StrategistPlease Queer-Eye My BoyfriendShoutout to ¡Hola Papi!Why Wanting to Be an Alpha Male is ProblematicShoutout to Ask AmyHusband's deep research into web comic isn't funny Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 17th, 2019, and beyond, including: WEST-COAST MAY MEETUPS:San Francisco Meetup:Portland MeetupSeattle MeetupWork FriendAfter Servicing a Home Can I Get Paid to Service My Clients Other Needs?Ask a Managermy team got matching tattoos ... and other lack of boundaries at my start-up[CW: Fat-Shaming] Sense and SensibilityIt's OK to talk to friend about weight gain[CW: Fat-Shaming] Dear PrudenceHelp! I Think My Co-Worker's Weight Is Impeding Her Career. Should I Say Something?Dear PepperDoggedly Pursuing SomeoneAsk AmyErotic fiction turns into catfishing realityThe CutThis Female Twitter Comic Was Actually a Man Pretending to Be His Own WifeSPONSOR: PodigyListener Telreshi, Domesticator of DemonsShoutout to Ask AmyParent worries about son's Michael Jackson fandomShoutout to Blair Braverman for Being the Second Jewish Woman Ever to Finish the IditarodShoutout to Judge John Hodgman onUnsanctioned Cat NicknamesShoutout to Carolyn HaxIt's a special therapists-behaving-badly editionShoutout to Ask A Native New YorkerWhy Do New Yorkers Complain So Much?Shoutout to Dear AbbyHe Dumped Me and Now Wants to Cheat with MeListener The Fiendish Salamander Has Some Kind Words For Us Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt were so excited to be joined by the one and only Brandy "Ask a Fuck-Up" Jensen! You may have seen her Tweets cited on every single topic on every single news outlet, and you'll be relieved to know that Brandy's brilliance is actually and rightfully rewarded monetarily on The Outline where she answers questions every week on one of the only good things to come out of 2018. Here's what we discussed: Ask a Fuck-UpBrand JensenTwitterThe OutlineI Can't Tweet for One Week and It's Killing MeBrandy Tweeting About Advice Columns9 Nov 2015Someone publish a piece on how the advice column has become the home of some of our generation's best writers2 Jan 2016I feel like if I wrote an advice column every answer would be "we're all hurtling toward death, I'm sure it will work out"6 Apr2016 Wanna start an advice column called Go Fuck Yourself where I just tell you to masturbate and see if that helps12 Apr 2017someone give me an advice column, I love telling other people what they should do9 Mar 2018I want to write an advice column called "Ask a Fuck Up" the premise of which is since I adamantly refuse to learn from my own mistakes perhaps other people canAAFUWith special guest Neko CaseAAFUI'm not as smart as everyone said I wasAAFUCan people change?AAFUI'm still in therapy. Should I be dating?SPONSOR: PodigyListener The Cyan SatyrShoutout to Ask a Managerour new manager is pressuring the women on our team to use menstrual cupsShoutout to Ask AmyPhone use at concert not music to their ears Who Now Has a BookAsk a Native New YorkerShould We Move In Together?Shoutout to Sexual HealingI met my girlfriend’s parents – and realised I once slept with her fatherAdvice Column AlertYours in Tenacity, Miri Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of March 3rd, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUPFacebook Event[CW: Fat-Shaming] r/relationship_adviceBoyfriend [25M] told me he used to ask out "fat girls" for fun. Am I [22F] right to be disgusted by him?Dear PrudenceHelp! I Caught My Day Care Provider Breastfeeding My Baby.Carolyn HaxShould a single try to burst her friend's couple bubble?Dear WendyI Kissed My Friend And My Boyfriend Called It Cheating!Ask a Managermy boss sent my client a flirty message from my email accountSPONSOR: PodigySPONSOR: care/of [CW: Self-Harm, Disordered Eating] Listener Kalvarin Ashmore, Renowned EuphomancerSuicide Prevention Hotline FAQShoutout to Hola Papi!I'm Straight-Acting and I Don’t Know Where I Fit InShoutout to Alison Green on SlateThe Guy Who Hid Tacos in His Desk DrawerShoutout to Ask PollyIs My Absence From Social Media a Red Flag?Shoutout to Ask Ann CannonHow can I dial back on digital life?Shoutoutto 'Cat Person' Author Kristen Roupenian WhoDiscusses New Book at Harvard Book StoreShoutout to Ask The Salty WaitressOur restaurant's repetitive music is ruining my workday Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt write a love letter to Reddit Relationships and have the honor of interviewing moderator Alex "ResidentBlackGuy" Spruiell! During the interview portion of the show, they discuss how Alex became a moderator, what makes r/relationships the best subreddit for advice, the worst partner so far of 2019, and much more! ResidentBlackGuyAlex SpruiellTwitterPodcastBlack & YellowSPONSOR: LOLA[BONUS Discussion for $5 and up patrons] #100: The Best & Worst Advice Column Humans of 2018 (Ft. Ask a Manager and Captain Awkward)Worst PartnerI[30] am having a mastectomy due to breast cancer and my boyfriend [29] of 4 years is having a hard time with my decision.Dishonorable MentionI'm [24F] on vacation without my boyfriend [33 M] because he missed his flight. Would it be wrong to live it up and ignore him for a few weeks?[BONUS Discussion for $5 and up patrons] r/relationshipsMy [22F] boyfriend [24M] cut the tip of his finger OFF as a "joke" for my Valentine’s Day gift.Reddit Relationships in Three Nutshells Should I key her car? Is this a dealbreaker?Is it mean if I ask him to stop?Listener The Tireless Mind FlayerSPONSOR: PodigyAdvice Column AlertWho's the Asshole Here?Shoutout to John Paul Brammer on Columbia Journalism ReviewThe Advice Column RenaissanceShoutout to Yolanda, Cynosure of the Net (AKA The Golden One) for our first P.O. Box Gift at our New AddressShoutout to Broadway WorldTINY BEAUTIFUL THINGS at Long WharfShoutout to Dear DabbyHow Do I Work in Weed?Shoutout to Ask the Salty WaitressMy food came out suspiciously earlyShoutout to Ask a Managermy coworker is setting toilet paper on fire in the bathroom Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 17th, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUPFacebook EventMiss LonelyheartsDoes new girlfriend have eyes for hers or hims?Listener Wants to be Supportive, but Doesn't Want to OffendListener Mary, Veiled ReckonerListener SabrinaHannah and Matt Seek Legal CounselHow Do I Deal With a Sadistic Work Bully?H&MRecycle Your ClothesListener The Raging WendigoHumans of New YorkCheating McCheaterfaceSPONSOR: PodigyListener Dabrius the DecapitatorReference#103: Han and Matt Pursue Their DreamsShoutout to Dear WendyWomen Discuss: Polyamory and Open RelationshipsShoutout to Gigi Engle on Men's HealthThe Ultimate Guide to Making an Open Relationship WorkShoutout to Baggage CheckHow do I tell my sister that her beloved MLM is a scam??Shoutout to Ask Dr. NerdLoveHow Can I Tell If Someone's Flirting With Me?Shoutout to Ask a Managerwe have twice-daily mandatory group therapy at workSpark'Digisexuality' emerges as a new sexual identityListener Sasha Rowyintide, Arsonist of the Rugosa Clan Suggests: Pop Culture Trope Dissection!Advice Column AlertHow to Get FiredAdvice Column AlertThe Moneyist Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 10th, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUPFacebook EventAsk a Managerwe have twice-daily mandatory group therapy at workmy office has a mandatory feelings chartmy boss wants us to all share our mental health needs – at every meetingAsk AmyOffensive remarks too close for comfortCarolyn HaxAngry comments on news sites and Facebook? Thats my husband.Dear AbbySecond Wife-To-Be Wants Man's Name All To HerselfDear PrudenceShould I move in with my hoarder boyfriend?Miss MannersBusiness class welcomes all who can pay for the seatSPONSOR: PodigyListener Lygeia, Cunning MesmeristReference#50: Hannah and Matt Condemn Name ThievesShoutout to Entertainment WeeklyDumplin' author Julie Murphy previews delectable new novel Dear Sweet PeaShoutout to Beast ModeMy Cats Won't Stop Jumping Onto the CountersShoutout to r/dndnext/A min-maxer is destroying my group.Advice Podcast AlertThe Viall FilesTed TalksSex Needs a New Metaphor. Here's One. Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of February 3rd, 2019, and beyond, including: WINTER MEETUPFacebook EventAsk AmyBoyfriend disappears into dark webSourceAsk a Managermy boyfriend thinks only bad candidates prepare for interviewsAsk The Salty WaitressI accidentally called my female customer sirYinzBaggage CheckMy boyfriend is making me choose between him and my catsAsk APWMy Friend Bought Me A Used Wedding Gift That Cost $15Dear PrudenceHelp! Our Millionaire Relatives Only Gave $30 as Wedding Gifts.SPONSOR: PodigyListener LauraShoutout to The TexanistHas PC Culture Tamed the Texanists Tongue?Shoutout to Slate's Dear Mother GooseAn Advice Column for Children's Books CharactersShoutout to Vice ft. Lola Phoenix of the Advice Column Nonmonogamy HelpThe Truth About Jealousy in Polyamorous RelationshipsShoutout to Dear Wendy (Who Just Turned EIGHT!)I'm in a Polyamorous Marriage and I'm Anxious About My Boyfriends Abusive ExShoutout to Savage LoveWhere Can a Bisexual Woman Find a Bisexual Woman? Bisexual Twitter Is Here to Help!Shoutout to Getting in Bed With KristinReligion & Queerness Slowly Transitioning and a New Kitten!Shoutout to LA MagazineHow Heather Havrilesky Became the Advice Guru Behind 'Ask Polly'Shoutout to Dan Savage in the New York TimesJeff Bezos, Please Release Your Dirty SelfiesAdvice Column AlertHow to Do ItAdvice Column AlertDear TaliaAdvice Column AlertCrazy Talk Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt make their return with a full batch of queer queeries and are joined by special guestpert, Nicole J. Georges AKA Queer Abby! We discuss queer impostor syndrome, being closeted for fear of bigoted parents, normalizing volunteering your pronouns, and more! Queer AbbyNicole J. GeorgesTwitterInstagramGraphic Memoir Calling Dr. LauraPodcastSagittarian Matters[CW: Bi-Erasure, Queer Gatekeeping until 25 minute mark] Queer AbbyI’m A Queer SnobSPONSOR: PodigyListener Closet ConundrumListener Confused QueerListener The Pestilent DrakeListener The Marauding WendigoListener Angry Latin Queer Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of January 13th, 2019, and beyond, including: BONUSAsking For a FriendI Only Have Two Friends. Is There Anything Wrong With That?Ask a Managermy coworker is a blood drive bullyAsk a Managermy office is requiring us to disclose all medications we takeAsk APWMy Family Told Me About My Boyfriend's Proposal SurpriseAsk APWWho Do I Invite From A Poly Squad?Captain AwkwardMy mom kidnapped my kid for 30 minutes. How fired is she?SPONSOR: PodigyShoutout to AAFUI'm still in therapy. Should I be dating?[Content Warning: sexual assault] Listener Thunder GryffListener Not a HuggerListener Zaphrus Sabresong, Stalwart Mystic UpdateReference#85: Han and Matt Report Your GrandmotherListener Ursial the Cyclone, Prizefighter of Faerûn Has Tips for Listener Winner Winner Chicken DinnerReference #103: Han and Matt Pursue Their DreamsShoutout to BuzzfeedHere's What It's Really Like To Be An Internet Advice ColumnistShoutout to Ask The Salty WaitressWhy won't restaurants seat incomplete parties?Shoutout to Savage LoveArts Patron Seeks to Donate Dildos for Trump Massive LikenessAdvice Column AlertAsk Annalisa Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of January 6th, 2019, and beyond, including: r/amitheassholeAITA for very rarely/almost never wanting to go to restaurants because my girlfriend makes food that's just as good, if not better, than restaurant food[Content Warning: cancer]Ask a Managermy coworkers complained that the look of my breasts post-mastectomy is making them uncomfortableDear AbbyMom Confesses To Undermining Scholar's Dream Of Art School[Content Warning: body shaming]Damage ControlCan I tell my overweight friend I’m worried about his health?Listener Winner Winner Chicken Dinner[Content Warning: sexual assault]Listener The Mellow MedusaListener Dabrius the DecapitatorUpdate from Listener HillaryOpinion Overflow #33 Tips for Adjusting to a New & Functional WorkplaceShoutout to Ask The Salty WaitressMy favorite restaurant won’t allow kids after 5 p.m.Shoutout to Ask a Managermy office mate asks me 75 questions a day — literallyShoutout to Carolyn HaxHubby’s unilateral decisions should have unilateral consequences Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!

Han and Matt are joined by Jessica Weisberg, author of "Asking for a Friend: Three Centuries of Advice on Life, Love, Money, and Other Burning Questions from a Nation Obsessed" to discuss this amazing gift to advice column lovers plus some bonus historical moments: Jessica Weisberg "Asking for a Friend" on Amazon10 Superb Questions on the History of Advice ColumnsJohn DuntonSPONSOR: PodigyBenjamin FranklinAdvice to a Young Man on the Choice of a MistressAnn LandersThe Great Toilet Paper Orientation Debater/legaladviceofftopicI trained an AI to generate /r/legaladvice post titles, and it asks "Is it legal for me to get in legal trouble?" Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!