John Rushton

When we get to a Crossroads we are left at times with many choices and also at times indecision as to what to do and where to go. We discuss here options and ideas and a way forward that we need to take just to get the ball rolling. Doing nothing gets...

Attitude is everything. People will view us, judge us, accept us, reject us, help us, keep away from us, want us as friends, want to steer clear of us just based upon our attitude. Our Attitude is a culmination of who we are, it's in fact part of our...

This is the second audio on attitude as it is so important in our lives, we are who we are via our attitude. People who don’t know us initially view us or reject us based on our attitude, if they get it wrong it’s your fault not theirs. It is...

In order for us to go forward happy, secure in ourselves and full of vitality we need to think that way. This feeling and ability is within all of us no exceptions. It matters not what our upbringing, religion, culture of anything else told us, we can...

Being out of work is no fun, you can't spend on what you want you are tied to where you are and you can't contribute to society. It is also difficult for many as they are faced with people who are there to help but offer little if nothing because they...

We see today in the media created and concocted heroes, in reality you are your own hero, it’s you who manages your life and all the things you do within it.Don’t follow idiots and lose your own value, you have to go for and do what is expedient for...

There is much made about death / bereavement, but there shouldn't be because whatever you do or don't do after the death of someone, no matter how close, it is not going to make any difference whatsoever.Nor does a demonstration of opulence and...

There is much made about death / bereavement, but there shouldn't be because whatever you do or don't do after the death of someone no matter how close it is not going to make any difference whatsoever. Nor does a demonstration of opulence and...

Breaking free from narrow family pressures, evil religious doctrines, loveless situations, hopeless ways of life. We need to walk our walk not that of others, no matter who they are... No one has a right to tie you down with feigned responsibilities...

Whether you are a leader or a follower in life you have to make choices for yourself, for without making those choices life leads you, whereas it should be the other way around.Making mistakes is par for the course as long as you make your mistakes...

Understanding not only who you are but you are absolutely great just the way you are and that nothing need to change to make others happy. Self-imposed fears and inadequacies and upsets need to be dismissed. Religious families, cultural backgrounds,...

Aspects of race and culture that are steeped in the past. Ego’s, fears, stupidities, ignorance etc, all cloud certain areas because many people never grow up, they “adhere” to past understandings then wonder why others get on and they don’t. This...

Though provoking, interesting, factual, your life is yours to live no matter what that might be. If others don’t like you or can’t understand or get upset – remember that’s about them and NOTHING to do with you. We migrate to those who love us...

Thoughts, feelings, understandings, fears, etc about “Coming Out”. The audio goes through life around you, no one else just you, after all it’s your life and you are entitled to live it your way not how others want you to live it. You are not a toy or...

A continuation from the first audio, discussing additional areas of life and your total and utter right to be the person you are. No emotional blackmailing from parents, evil religions, stupid backward cultures etc, you were born to be you, you are...

If we can't communicate we can't express our love, our dissatisfaction, our ailments, what we want to do or where we want to go, etc. And it is how we communicate that can make a world of difference to whom we are and our current happiness. Author -...

Our emotions enhance our life walk, we have love, joy, happiness, pleasure, kindness, and all that makes life worthy of what it is. If we ever let our emotions take over then we lose the ability to reason and see the bigger picture which is what...

When we get angry, upset, depressed, lonely, etc, we can often think or "talk" to ourselves in our minds as a release or discussion as to our predicament or situation.If we are not careful we can create a monster that only we know about and one that...

We all get rejected from something or someone in our lives, it happens more frequently than you think. How we deal with it, anger, upset, forlorn, dejected, etc, is how we regain ourselves. Remember we too reject people and things also.The audio...

Many people are "desperate for love" as if it will solve all their problems, well it won't. It might be a dream come true but it won't change life you have to do that. Those with that "I've got a lot of love to give to the right person" are usually...

Emotional hurt is what we get when our minds are not at peace with life or what is discordant within us. It expresses itself differently in everyone. However the bottom line is much of the hurt we perceive is down to ourselves.We cannot take hurt on...

Religion is a man made construct, our ethnicity is who we are from a source point of view, colour, creed, mentality, location, etc. It is often intermingled and here lies the problem for many where repression as opposed to freedom is the norm.God is...

So many people have a hard time coming to grips with having failed or something not having worked out. Far from being what it seems or appears every successful person has had a number of failures under their belt, however they are successful because...

Life throws spanners and stuff in our pathway which takes us off guard and makes us feel vulnerable. Whether it is financial, relationships, health, work, whatever it is. Turning that around and being the best and fabulous person you are isn't a feat...