The Art of Love
We Teach People How to Treat Us09/10/14
A woman wants to know if she is disrespecting herself by sleeping with her ex-husband in order to continue to get spousal support. Lucia discusses what she should do and how we teach people how to treat us.
My Thoughts on the Mariah/Nick Split
Why are Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon divorcing after 6 years together? Can their marriage be fixed or is it a victim of the 50% divorce rate? Find out why dating/relationship expert Lucia believes the divorce rate could be a lot lower.
Just Be Faithful...Dammit!
Are there advantages to focusing on dating one person at a time, even though you're not exclusive, instead of juggling several people. What are the disadvantages of dating multiple people at the same time? Find out in this leading edge podcast by...
Is The Grass Greener On The Other Side?
Is the grass really greener on the other side, or does it just look that way because you're not close enough to see the weed? Should you leave when you're not happy in search of greener pastures or stay where you are and try to work thing out?...
Am I Attractive Enough to Date?
How important are looks when it comes to dating? If you don't feel good about your looks, should you even bother with dating? Find out if beauty really is in the eye of the beholder in this week's podcast.
Einstein and "The One"
How can Albert Einstein help you find "the one"? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how a law of physics can help you to find Mr/Ms Right or Mr/Ms Right Now. Hard to believe? Listen and decide for yourself.
How to Break Up
What's the best way to break up with someone? Should you let them know you're not happy or just end it? Should you do it via text, phone, facetime, Skype or in person? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the "correct" way to end a relationship.
No Guarantees in Love
Love can be the highest feeling you've ever had, which is also the reason that's it can also be the scariest. We all know there are no guarantees in love, no matter how much you love someone, or they love you. Find out more about this in this podcast...
Is he/she the One?
How do you know if someone is the one for you, especially if you have doubts or society doesn't agree with your choice? Dating/relationship expert Lucia uses a line from a recent Jim Carrey speech to illustrate how to pick the "One".
Sex With My Personal Trainer
This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to have sex with her personal trainer however he's not making any moves, even though she's given him the green light. Dating/relatiionship expert Lucia explains what's going on.
Why does dating start out as being fun and eventually burn out and turn into boredom? It's usually because you're doing one or more of these three "romance killers". Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what they are and how to stop them.
What Do You REALLY, REALLY want?
Why do you want a lover or a romantic partner? Why do you drive a certain car or dress a certain way? Dating/relationship expert Lucia believes the reason we do almost everything is to feel "this" way. Find out what "this" is, in this philosophical...
What should you do if you're sexually frustrated because you don't have a lover? Should you settle and just take whoever is willing and able or is there another alternative? Besides a cold shower, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to...
Online & Flaky
Are people on dating sites or social media flakier than the norm? If so, why and how should you deal with it? Dating/relationship expert breaks it down for you and explains why it's not you, it's them.
Do Jerks Really Exist?
Are most guys really jerks or is there something else going on? Why are guys so nice in the beginning and then turn into jerks? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers the question as to whether jerks really exist.
Less is More
When you first start dating someone, how often should you text or call? How often should you see them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to make sure you're not over-doing it and turning the other person off.
When was the last time you felt anticipation? Although most of the world may function on instant gratification, dating and relationships cannot and should not be rushed. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how anticipation can make a difference...
Nice but no Chemistry
What should you do if you're dating someone who is "nice" but there is little to no chemistry? Should you wait to see if things change or end it right away? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why "nice" is not always the best criteria for...
The 3-Day Rule is Dead
Does the 3-day rule still work, or did it ever? Should you wait to call someone when you get their number or is it okay to call within 24 hours? Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.
Dating Without a Job/Car
This week's email is from a guy who's interested in a woman on a dating site who seems to be out of his league. He currently doesn't have a job or a car and wonders if there's any hope. Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises him as to what he should...
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