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Join Jody Livingston, a dedicated Student Pastor with boots-on-the-ground experience, as he guides both new and veteran Youth Ministry leaders toward sustainable success in The Longer Haul podcast. Whether you’re a Youth Pastor, Youth Minister, or a volunteer in Student Ministry, Jody delivers principle-based, practical advice that transcends the typical how-to’s. Each episode is packed with actionable insights to help you foster longevity in your ministry. Delve into topics that bolster your preaching, teaching, and leadership skills, learn to forge stronger partnerships with families, and discover the best practices for building cohesive Youth Ministry teams. Jody’s hands-on approach to ministry planning and management will provide you with scalable tools designed to amplify your influence on teens with the gospel. By focusing on the core principles that promote staying power, this podcast is your go-to resource for thriving in a Youth Group setting, no matter your level of experie

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Join Jody Livingston, a dedicated Student Pastor with boots-on-the-ground experience, as he guides both new and veteran Youth Ministry leaders toward sustainable success in The Longer Haul podcast. Whether you’re a Youth Pastor, Youth Minister, or a volunteer in Student Ministry, Jody delivers principle-based, practical advice that transcends the typical how-to’s. Each episode is packed with actionable insights to help you foster longevity in your ministry. Delve into topics that bolster your preaching, teaching, and leadership skills, learn to forge stronger partnerships with families, and discover the best practices for building cohesive Youth Ministry teams. Jody’s hands-on approach to ministry planning and management will provide you with scalable tools designed to amplify your influence on teens with the gospel. By focusing on the core principles that promote staying power, this podcast is your go-to resource for thriving in a Youth Group setting, no matter your level of experie

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TLH152: Why Your 20s Aren’t What You Think—and Your 50s Are Better

9/2/2025
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Jody sits down with veteran youth pastor Paul Turner to talk about longevity in ministry—what it takes to stay faithful through the decades, the different challenges of each stage of life, and what youth pastors need most in their 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s. Paul brings nearly four decades of ministry experience to the table with vulnerable stories, practical insights, and honest encouragement for youth workers at every level. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN How youth ministry changes as you grow through the decades Advice for each decade of ministry (20s, 30s, 40s, 50s) Why 22-year-old you isn’t always your best self in ministry What brokenness teaches you about leadership and calling How to keep showing up, even when the dream falls apart What makes you more effective with age, not less Why surrender, self-denial, and listening matter more than trendiness LINKS MENTIONED Paul Turner's Website: The Disciple Project RESOURCES MENTIONED Lost in the Middle by Paul David Tripp Crucified by Christians by Gene Edwards Halftime by Bob Buford Staying Power by Jody Livingston JOIN THE YOUTH MINISTRY COLLECTIVE! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Collective: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:50:58

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TLH151: Burned Out After Summer Youth Ministry? Start Here

7/31/2025
In this episode, we dive into the crucial topic of rest and planning for youth pastors. As the summer winds down, many youth pastors find themselves exhausted from camps, mission trips, and events. Steve Cullum from the National Network of Youth Ministries joins the show as we explore strategies to transition smoothly into the school year. Discover practical insights on scheduling breaks, building supportive teams, and finding personal rejuvenation. Whether you're a seasoned pastor or new to the ministry, this episode offers valuable takeaways to help you thrive in your calling. Tune in for wisdom, encouragement, and actionable advice to ensure you're not just surviving but thriving in your ministry journey. What you'll learn Why so many youth pastors limp into fall What true rest looks like for ministry leaders How to build rhythms that sustain you year-round The value of mentors, margin, and letting go Where to start if you’re already running on empty This is the episode for youth pastors who feel like they’re crawling into the fall semester. LINKS MENTIONED Youth Leader Survey RESOURCES MENTIONED stevecullum.com National Network of Youth Ministries (NNYM) - www.nnym.org JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:47:25

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TLH150: What Youth Ministers Need to Last: The Story Behind Staying Power

7/10/2025
In this special 150th episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Chris Trent returns to the show—but this time, he’s asking the questions. Chris interviews Jody Livingston about his new book, Staying Power: 10 Essentials for Longevity in Youth Ministry. Together, they talk about the heart behind the book, what led Jody to write it, and why staying in youth ministry is more possible—and more important—than ever. This conversation is packed with honest reflections, encouragement, and practical advice for youth workers who want to serve with faithfulness for the long haul. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN Why longevity in youth ministry is so hard—and so needed The stories and convictions that shaped Staying Power How to persevere through discouragement, burnout, and seasons of doubt Why staying matters more than being impressive What Jody hopes youth pastors will walk away with after reading the book LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED Staying Power Book JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:01:02:42

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Reaching Gen Z in a Post-Christian Culture

6/3/2025
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Jody is joined by RJ McCauley to talk about what it really takes to reach the next generation—and why calling students to more than just showing up matters now more than ever. RJ shares lessons from years in youth ministry and gives practical advice on connecting with Gen Z in meaningful ways. They discuss the importance of gospel clarity, the hunger students have for truth, and how to create environments that move students from passive consumers to passionate followers of Jesus. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN How to reach Gen Z in a culture of distraction and confusion Why entertainment isn’t enough—and what students actually crave How RJ encourages students to own their faith and follow Jesus boldly The importance of building gospel-centered, intentional ministries Why we can’t underestimate the influence of the Holy Spirit LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED Staying Power Book JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:50:18

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TLH148: Navigating Change from the Second Chair with Jake Mulder

3/28/2025
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, we're joined by Jake Mulder to discuss what it means to lead change in youth ministry—especially when you're not the lead pastor. We unpack practical ways for you to influence vision, build trust, and lead transitions well. What You’ll Learn: How to lead effectively when you’re not in charge Key principles for navigating change in youth ministry How to balance innovation with honoring the church’s past Ways to build trust and cast vision for the future Practical steps for creating long-term impact in your ministry If you’re in youth ministry and looking for ways to lead through change while keeping your church moving forward, this episode is packed with practical insights to help you make a lasting impact. LINKS MENTIONED Fuller Youth Institute RESOURCES MENTIONED Books: The Future-Focused Church (BRAND NEW!) Growing Young by Jake Mulder JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:50:34

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TLH147: What Every Youth Pastor Needs to Know About Middle Schoolers

1/30/2025
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Jody sits down with Ashley Bohinc, a leader with over 22 years of experience working with middle schoolers, to talk about how to communicate effectively with this unique age group. Middle schoolers aren’t just “younger high schoolers” or “older kids”—they require a specific approach to teaching, engaging, and discipling them well. Ashley shares key insights into breaking down messages for middle schoolers, avoiding common mistakes, and making youth ministry environments more engaging. If you’ve ever struggled with getting middle schoolers to listen, connect, or apply what you’re teaching, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical strategies to help you communicate in a way that sticks. What you'll learn Why middle schoolers need messages that are broken down, not "dumbed down." The importance of engaging their senses and making messages concrete. How to balance structured teaching with the energy and unpredictability of middle schoolers. The science behind how middle schoolers process and retain information. Tips for leading mixed-age groups when middle and high schoolers are combined. If you want to better engage and disciple middle school students, this episode will equip you with the tools to do it well. LINKS MENTIONED Make It Middle School: MakeItMiddleSchool.com Ashley Bohinc’s Book - Communicating to Middle Schoolers: Get the Book RESOURCES MENTIONED Ashley Bohinc on Instagram: @ashleymariebohinc Ashley Bohinc on Facebook: Ashley Bohinc JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:45:04

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TLH146: Helping Parents Understand Today’s Youth Culture

1/23/2025
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Jody sits down with Walt Mueller, founder of the Center for Parent and Youth Understanding (CPYU), to discuss how youth pastors can better understand and respond to today’s rapidly changing youth culture. They explore the unique challenges students face, strategies for equipping parents, and how youth leaders can stay current without compromising biblical faithfulness. Walt shares insights on balancing relevance with truth, addressing issues like online gambling and social media addiction, and empowering parents to navigate cultural trends with wisdom and discernment. This episode is packed with practical advice to help you disciple students and support families in your ministry. What you'll learn How to equip parents to understand and engage with youth culture. Why staying current with cultural trends is essential for ministry. Strategies to balance cultural relevance with biblical faithfulness. Tips for addressing tough topics like online gambling and social media addiction. The importance of being proactive, not reactive, in addressing cultural changes. If you’re looking to grow as a youth pastor and support families in discipling students, this episode offers invaluable wisdom and actionable steps. LINKS MENTIONED Center for Parent and Youth Understanding (CPYU): CPYU Website Northeast Youth Ministry Summit: NYM Summit RESOURCES MENTIONED Youth Culture Matters Podcast: Youth Culture Matters Parent Prompts from CPYU: Parent Prompts Jonathan Haidt’s Book – The Anxious Generation: Get the Book JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:54:14

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TLH145: The Challenges and Joys of Being a Volunteer Youth Minister

1/16/2025
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Jody sits down with Ben Compton, a volunteer youth leader with nine years of experience building a thriving ministry while working full-time. Ben shares his journey of balancing work, family, and ministry, offering practical advice for volunteer leaders on how to manage time, recruit volunteers, and stay focused on discipleship. What you'll learn The unique challenges and benefits of volunteer youth ministry leadership. How to balance ministry, work, and family effectively. The importance of efficient time management and saying no when necessary. Tips for recruiting and empowering volunteers you can trust. How to disciple students through relationships and everyday life. If you’re a volunteer youth leader or know someone serving in this role, this episode is full of wisdom to encourage and equip you in ministry. JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:48:57

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TLH144: Making Changes in Youth Ministry Without Getting Fired

1/9/2025
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, we kick off 2025 with a practical episode on how to make changes in youth ministry—without getting fired. As youth ministers reflect on the past year and plan for the future, change often feels inevitable. But making changes can be tricky, especially when it comes to timing, communication, and managing resistance. I share actionable advice for identifying what needs to change, understanding the "why" behind it, and implementing changes with purpose, positivity, and clarity. Whether you're tackling a small adjustment or a major shift, this episode will help you lead change effectively in your ministry. What you'll learn How to identify what needs to change and why it matters. Why timing is crucial when implementing changes in youth ministry. How to navigate resistance by framing change as a win. Tips for clear communication with students, parents, and leadership. Strategies for making changes methodically to avoid unnecessary backlash. If you’re looking to lead your ministry into the new year with clarity and purpose, this episode is packed with practical steps to help you make meaningful changes without unnecessary conflict. JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:21:10

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TLH143: Staying the Course: Longevity and Mental Health in Ministry

12/19/2024
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Jody explores the crucial topic of mental health and longevity in youth ministry. Jeff Glenn, a veteran youth pastor with over 26 years of experience, shares in this episode practical ways to manage stress, avoid burnout, and thrive in ministry. What you'll learn: How to prioritize your spiritual and mental health for long-term success in ministry. The role of accountability and networking in sustaining resilience. Practical strategies for managing stress and navigating team dynamics. Why rediscovering your calling can reignite your passion for ministry. How to support students and leaders with their own mental health challenges. If you’re feeling the weight of ministry or want to stay grounded for the long haul, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable steps to help you thrive. LINKS MENTIONED National Network of Youth Ministries: NNYM Website Jeff Glenn’s Email: jglenn@nnyouthministries.org RESOURCES MENTIONED Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Pete Scazzero JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join the The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group: Join Now GET COACHING Interested in personalized coaching to help you thrive in youth ministry? Click here to learn more about The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching: Get Coaching

Duration:00:53:27

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TLH142: Moving Students from Consumers to Disciples

12/12/2024
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Jody sits down with Dr. Dave Coryell to discuss his new book, Less Like Hippos, More Like Honeybees. They explore how to move students from passive consumers of faith to active participants who live for Christ every day. Dr. Coryell shares practical insights on empowering students, shifting the culture of youth ministry, and creating lasting spiritual impact. What you'll learn: How to empower students to live out their faith 24/7, not just during youth group. Practical steps to move students from being passive consumers to active leaders in their faith. The importance of discipleship that goes beyond youth events and into everyday life. Strategies for creating a culture of leadership and ownership within your youth ministry. How to partner with parents and the church community for long-term student growth. If you’re looking to rethink how you engage and disciple your students, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you lead a thriving, sustainable ministry. LINKS MENTIONED: Christian Endeavor Fernling Creative Re-imagine Student Leadership eBook RESOURCES MENTIONED: Less Like Hippos More Like Honeybees by Dr. Dave Coryell JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group GET COACHING: The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:59:54

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TLH141: 10 Common Youth Ministry Traps and How to Avoid Them

12/5/2024
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Jody explores 10 common youth ministry mistakes—and how to avoid them. These traps, from focusing too much on attendance to neglecting personal spiritual health, can hinder the growth and effectiveness of your youth group. Jody shares practical strategies to help youth pastors build sustainable ministries that thrive. What you'll learn: How to move from measuring attendance to fostering deeper engagement. Tips to empower volunteers and avoid leadership bottlenecks. Balancing fun with meaningful discipleship and teaching. Partnering with parents for effective youth ministry. Setting clear goals and welcoming feedback for ministry growth. If you’re looking to avoid common pitfalls and take your youth ministry to the next level, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you lead with purpose and focus. JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group GET COACHING: The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching

Duration:00:32:39

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TLH140: Developing Student Leaders in Youth Ministry—Best Practices for Impact

11/21/2024
In this episode, Jody and Doug Franklin explore the intricacies of student leadership and the importance of developing leadership skills among youth. Doug shares his journey in youth ministry, emphasizing the need for leadership development resources and the significance of understanding each student's unique gifts and wiring. They discuss the process of leadership development, the role of empathy, and the common mistakes youth workers make in fostering leadership in their ministries. Doug advocates for a holistic approach to leadership that includes understanding one's mission and the importance of serving others. Doug shares insights on developing student leaders in youth ministry. He emphasizes the importance of creating effective training plans, understanding the different zones of experience (comfort, growth, panic), and the need for clear expectations. Doug advocates for a model of leadership labs over traditional leadership teams, highlighting the benefits of personalized mentorship and addressing favoritism in leadership development. He also discusses the significance of long-term investment in students and recognizing potential in those who may not fit the typical mold of a leader. LINKS MENTIONED: LeaderTreks.org DeepDiscipleship.com Re-imagine Student Leadership eBook RESOURCES MENTIONED: Doug Franklin's Contact Information: Email: Doug@LeaderTreks.com Facebook Messenger: Available for direct contact LeaderTreks Refuel Retreats: Three-day intensive retreats on discipleship and leadership development, held across the country. JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group GET COACHING: The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching TAKEAWAYS: Leadership development is a process, not a one-time event. Every student has the potential to be a leader. Understanding one's unique gifts is crucial for leadership. Empathy is essential for effective leadership. Leadership principles can be learned and applied by all students. Students value service and impact over traditional leadership roles. Burden, passion, and vision are key to discovering one's mission. Building relationships is foundational in leadership development. Natural leaders often exhibit disruptive behavior that can be redirected positively. Common mistakes include failing to provide actionable steps after assessments. Youth workers often neglect the training component for student leaders. There are three zones of experience: comfort, growth, and panic. The growth zone is where students rely on God and their team. Clear expectations are crucial for student leadership roles. Transformational leadership development requires principles, experiences, and debriefing. Leadership labs are more effective than traditional leadership teams. Favoritism can be mitigated by combining students who don't know each other. Identifying leadership potential in troubled students is essential. Long-term investment in students can yield unexpected results. Investing in students who are often overlooked can lead to significant growth. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Introduction to Student Leadership 02:57 Doug Franklin's Journey in Youth Ministry 06:02 The Importance of Leadership Development 09:00 Starting Leadership Development with Students 12:13 Understanding Unique Gifts and Mission 15:02 Natural Leadership vs. Learned Leadership 17:55 Empathy in Leadership 20:49 Common Mistakes in Youth Leadership Development 22:39 Creating Effective Training Plans for Student Leaders 24:07 Understanding Comfort, Growth, and Panic Zones 27:27 The Importance of Clear Expectations in Leadership 28:41 Principles, Experiences, and Debriefing in Leadership Development 29:52 The Concept of Leadership Labs vs. Leadership Teams 33:39 Addressing Favoritism in Leadership Development 36:23 Identifying Leadership Potential in Troubled S...

Duration:00:53:11

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TLH139: AI Tools for Youth Pastors—What to Use and What to Avoid

11/14/2024
In this episode, Jody and Ryan Sebastian, from the Youth and Culture Podcast, discuss the intersection of AI and youth ministry, exploring how AI tools can enhance communication, streamline content creation, and improve overall ministry effectiveness. Ryan shares his journey in youth ministry, the challenges faced, and the innovative ways AI can be utilized to support youth pastors and church leaders. They delve into practical applications of AI, including writing emails, generating graphics, and creating small group questions, while also addressing potential pitfalls and ethical considerations. In this conversation, Ryan and Jody explore the role of AI in ministry, discussing its potential as a tool for crafting messages, brainstorming ideas, and saving time. They emphasize the importance of preparation and the need to maintain a personal touch in teaching. The discussion also touches on the balance between utilizing AI and ensuring it does not lead to laziness or technological dependence. They conclude with a call for wise and cautious use of AI in ministry contexts. LINKS MENTIONED: Youth and Culture Podcast: Youth and Culture Podcast on Facebook AI Episode of Youth and Culture Podcast RESOURCES MENTIONED: ChatGPT - for generating content, communication, and brainstorming. Grammarly - AI-assisted writing tool. Perplexity - for fact-driven content and research. Canva - for graphics creation and AI-generated images. Adobe - mentioned for AI-assisted audio clean-up. Google Docs - has AI capabilities for writing assistance. Microsoft Word - includes AI tools. Opus Clip - AI tool for video editing and clip generation. Riverside - used for podcast recording with Magic Clips feature. Headliner - AI tool for creating video snippets and audio highlights. Youth and Culture Podcast - specifically mentioned for an episode discussing AI in ministry. JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group GET COACHING! Check out how coaching can help you TAKEAWAYS: Ryan Sebastian is an associate pastor focused on discipleship and students. AI can significantly improve communication within church ministries. Grammarly and ChatGPT are useful AI tools for communication. AI can generate images and graphics for church content. Content creation can be streamlined using AI tools like Canva. AI can help analyze feedback to enhance ministry effectiveness. Youth pastors can use AI to write small group questions efficiently. AI tools are becoming integrated into common software like Google Docs. The landscape of AI in ministry is rapidly evolving. Ethical considerations are important when using AI in ministry. AI can assist in crafting messages but should not replace personal study. Utilizing AI for brainstorming can enhance clarity in communication. There is a distinction between using curriculum and creating original content. Preparation for teaching should come from personal study and heart overflow. The drive for platform in ministry can lead to unhealthy practices. AI tools can save time, allowing for more relational ministry. It's important to set boundaries when using AI in ministry. Over-reliance on AI can lead to a lack of critical thinking skills. Human interaction in ministry is irreplaceable, even with AI tools. Navigating the use of AI requires careful consideration of its impact on ministry. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to Ryan Sebastian and His Journey 04:59 Exploring AI in Youth Ministry 10:13 Effective Communication with AI Tools 15:03 Content Creation and AI in Ministry 23:04 Crafting Messages with AI Assistance 26:32 Curriculum vs. Original Content in Ministry 28:51 The Importance of Preparation in Teaching 30:38 Navigating the Drive for Platform in Ministry 32:56 AI as a Time-Saving Tool in Ministry 35:29 Identifying No-Gos with AI Usage

Duration:00:48:32

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TLH138: Why Youth Ministry Coaching Could Be the Game-Changer You’re Looking For

11/7/2024
In this episode, Brian Wallace joins the show to explore how coaching sparks powerful conversations with teenagers. He highlights the vital role of the Holy Spirit in these interactions, guiding both youth leaders and teens to gain valuable insights and awareness. Brian also contrasts coaching with consulting and teaching, emphasizing how coaching fosters deeper, more meaningful connections with your students. LINKS MENTIONED: National Association of Youth Ministry The Youth Cartel RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Coaching JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group Takeaways Coaching creates space for transformative conversations. The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in coaching. Insights gained during coaching can be profound. Coaching differs significantly from consulting and teaching. Transformation can be visually observed in coaching sessions. Meaningful dialogue is a hallmark of effective coaching. Awareness gained through coaching can lead to personal growth. Coaching allows for deeper connections between individuals. The process of coaching can lead to spiritual breakthroughs. Coaching is a powerful tool for personal and professional development. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Coaching and Background 07:21 Defining Coaching: The Process and Its Importance 16:01 Coaching vs. Counseling: Understanding the Differences 18:49 The Coaching Process: Initial Steps and Expectations 25:09 The Role of the Coach: Listening and Facilitating Growth 28:29 The Humbling Journey of Coaching 32:00 The Role of Coaching in Personal Growth 34:42 The Importance of Humility in Coaching 37:25 Navigating Challenges in Ministry 39:17 When to Seek Coaching vs. Consulting 42:16 Exploring Coaching Certification Opportunities 50:28 Coaching Benefits 51:28 Encouragement for Personal Growth and Community Engagement

Duration:00:52:58

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TLH137: Loneliness in Youth Ministry—Why So Many Feel Isolated and What to Do About It

10/31/2024
In this conversation, Jody and Zach Wyatt discuss the issue of loneliness in youth ministry and the importance of building community. They highlight the challenges faced by youth pastors and the need for support and connection. They provide practical steps for combating loneliness, such as networking with other youth pastors and finding local associations or denominations. They emphasize the importance of humility, intentionality, and protecting time for meaningful conversations. They also address the issue of sharing in a network and offer guidance on what to share and what to keep confidential. Finally, they discuss the unique challenges of finding community in rural areas. This conversation explores the challenges of loneliness in ministry and offers insights on finding community and support. The chapters cover topics such as finding community outside of the church, the role of online communities, supporting spouses in ministry, the dangers of isolation and loneliness, the importance of being known, and the need for authenticity and support. LINKS MENTIONED: Pray for Me Campaign Youth Leader Conference RESOURCES MENTIONED: Youth Leader Collective National Network of Youth Ministries JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group Takeaways Loneliness is a common issue in youth ministry and can lead to burnout and attrition. Building a network of supportive relationships is crucial for combating loneliness. Youth pastors should be intentional about reaching out to other youth pastors in their area and joining local associations or denominations. Humility and a willingness to learn from others are key in building meaningful connections. It is important to protect time for networking and to create a safe space for sharing and encouragement. In rural areas, youth pastors may need to look outside the church for community and support. Youth pastors and their spouses can find community outside of the church by joining Bible studies or groups in other churches. Online communities, such as Facebook groups, can provide support and resources for youth pastors, but it's important to be discerning and cautious about the advice given in these groups. Spouses of youth pastors often experience loneliness and should be intentionally included in community-building efforts. Isolation and loneliness can be detrimental to ministry, and it's important for youth pastors to prioritize their own community and support networks. Being known and fostering authentic relationships is crucial for combating loneliness and maintaining emotional and spiritual health in ministry. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:16 The Importance of Community 03:25 Loneliness in Youth Ministry 06:02 The Need to Thrive in Youth Ministry 08:58 Practical Steps to Combat Loneliness 13:06 Networking and Building Relationships 20:06 Guidelines for Sharing in a Network 24:32 Finding Community in Rural Areas 25:23 Finding Community Outside of the Church 28:37 The Role of Online Communities 34:19 Supporting Spouses in Ministry 39:11 The Dangers of Isolation and Loneliness 41:25 The Importance of Being Known 45:08 The Need for Authenticity and Support

Duration:00:53:32

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TLH136: Finding and Landing a Youth Ministry Job

2/8/2024
Brian Aaby, a veteran youth ministry leader now working with Slingshot Group, joins the show today to talk all about finding and landing a youth ministry job. We give practical advice for youth leaders considering a change in ministry roles or transitioning into their first ministry role. Brian stresses the importance of networking, preparing well for interviews, volunteering, and staying involved in youth culture during job searches. LINKS MENTIONED: An open letter to a departing youth pastor at BrianAaby.com BrianAaby.com RESOURCES MENTIONED: Seven Reasons You Should Leave Your Church Leadership and Self Deception by The Arbinger Institute Slingshot Group JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group

Duration:00:55:54

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TLH135: Essentials for Large Church Youth Ministry

2/1/2024
In this episode, Jody and Shay Osborne discuss the challenges and strategies for effective large church youth ministry. They provide practical insights and advice for navigating the unique dynamics of large church youth ministry. They cover the importance of community and building authentic relationships. Shay shares insights and personal experiences that highlight the benefits of being part of a supportive community. RESOURCES MENTIONED: Death by Meeting by Patrick Lencioni Getting Things Done by David Allen JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group

Duration:00:46:46

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TLH134: Multi-Site Youth Ministry

1/25/2024
In this episode of The Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast, Abram Haley joins Jody and they discuss the experiences, challenges, and benefits of working in a multi-campus youth ministry setting. Abram Haley joins us to discuss various topics, including communication challenges, managing teams, handling large-scale events, issues with volunteers and teams, and teaching methodologies. You'll also hear insights into the complexities involved in multi-site ministry, the perception of larger churches, and the importance of collaboration among churches. We dive into our experiences in youth ministry, share tricks on how to handle large groups, and provide resources to help you grow in your youth ministry. RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Leadership Pipeline by Ram Charan The Art of Disciple Making by LeRoy Eims JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group

Duration:00:50:49

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TLH133: Navigating Bi-Vocational Youth Ministry

1/18/2024
In this episode of the Longer Haul in Youth Ministry, Tommy Burkhart joins Jody on the show to discuss their experiences and insights into working as bi-vocational youth pastors. They dive into the core challenges in bi-vocational youth ministry, such as time management, financial constraints, and balancing expectations. They also discuss the advantages such as developing practical life skills, building relationships outside the church, and inviting participation in everyday activities to foster meaningful ministry. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:31 The Importance of Subscribing to the Podcast 00:42 Introduction to the Series on Different Contexts of Youth Ministry 00:55 Discussion on Bi-vocational Ministry 01:14 Future Topics in the Series 02:33 Personal Experiences in Bi-vocational Ministry 07:55 Challenges in Bi-vocational Ministry 27:46 Advantages of Bi-vocational Ministry 35:48 Practical Tips for Bi-vocational Ministry 48:50 Closing Remarks and Contact Information RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Myth of Balance by Frank Bealer JOIN THE PODCAST GROUP! Click here to join our Longer Haul Youth Ministry Podcast Facebook Group

Duration:00:52:12