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The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading men’s work facilitators and philosopher, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality. For more information about ManTalks go to: http://www.mantalks.com

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The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading men’s work facilitators and philosopher, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality. For more information about ManTalks go to: http://www.mantalks.com

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@mantalks

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English


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The Labors of Hercules: Ancient Lessons for Today’s Men

9/1/2025
Connor sits down with storyteller Jameson Olsen to dive into the myth of Hercules and uncover its relevance for modern men. From the legendary labors to the tragedy that shaped his journey, Jameson unpacks how these ancient myths reflect the struggles of responsibility, temptation, betrayal, and redemption men face today. They explore the crossroads between vice and virtue, the weight of personal choices, and the timeless lessons hidden in myth. This conversation challenges men to confront their own trials, learn from archetypal stories, and find meaning in bearing the burden of life’s hardships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:36 - Retelling ancient stories for modern times 02:57 - The trials of Hercules and lessons for men 04:52 - The Choice of Hercules: virtue vs. vice 08:15 - Modern vices and distractions 13:13 - Hercules’ origins and fatherless upbringing 15:43 - Tragedy: Hera’s curse and the loss of family 20:25 - Redemption through the labors 22:57 - The Nemean Lion: confronting the impossible 29:27 - The Hydra: breaking destructive patterns 40:16 - Cleaning the Augean stables 44:40 - The mares of Diomedes: consequences of carelessness 48:42 - Hippolyta’s belt and the gender divide 54:07 - Bearing the heavy burden of disaster 58:22 - Redemption, atonement, and moving forward 01:03:20 - Using stories as mirrors for personal growth 01:06:05 - Where to find Jameson Olsen *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at

Duration:01:07:24

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Why Most Men Are Invisible to Women (And How to Fix It)

8/28/2025
I dive into why many men feel invisible to women in the dating world and relationships, exploring the concept of sexual marketplace value. I break down the reasons behind this invisibility and share practical steps to stand out, from auditing your personal presentation to building a strong social network. Join me as I discuss how focusing on self-improvement naturally boosts your attractiveness and visibility to women. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Male Invisibility 00:52 - Understanding Sexual Marketplace Value 03:11 - Why Most Men Are Invisible 04:43 - The Choice Paradox in Dating 05:32 - The Storefront Analogy 07:23 - Importance of Presentation 09:20 - Value Dynamics for Men and Women 11:44 - Social Networks and Social Skills 13:12 - Actionable Steps to Stand Out 14:41 - Building Scarcity in Interactions 16:38 - Investing in Long-Term Assets 19:17 - Improving Physical Presence 20:38 - Signaling Value, Not Selling 22:09 - Overcoming Mediocrity *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:23:24

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Becoming the Authority Within : Men’s Work Session

8/25/2025
Listen to this episode for a raw and powerful conversation about loss, grief, and reclaiming self-trust. Together, we explore how childhood wounds shaped his sense of worth and authority, and what it means to step into becoming the true authority of your own life. This is a deeply moving dialogue about forgiveness, healing, and learning to finally trust yourself. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Welcome and introduction 00:49 Confronting grief and loss 07:10 Childhood trauma and its impact 14:30 Speaking to his mother 22:50 Reclaiming voice and feelings 29:10 Inner child connection 33:00 Choosing a new authority 36:28 Owning self-worth and power 44:12 Reflections on authority and healing 47:39 Closing thoughts *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:49:10

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The Masculinity Modern Men Have Forgotten

8/21/2025
I explore the character of Aragorn from The Lord of the Rings as a model of virtuous masculinity. I break down how he embodies the protector, the healer, and the humble king, and what that means for us as men today. Aragorn shows us how strength and gentleness, ambition and humility, can coexist—and why the world needs more of that balance right now. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 00:27 – The hands of the king 03:13 – The protector king 06:22 – The humility of power 08:24 – Strength with purpose 11:11 – Brotherhood and bonds 13:39 – Magnanimity and greatness 16:55 – Humility at the Black Gate 18:26 – Strong and gentle 19:23 – Redefining greatness 22:04 – Closing thoughts *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:22:41

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Facing Shame, Finding Strength & Leadership

8/18/2025
I sit down with Roger for a powerful conversation about intimacy, leadership, and the courage it takes to be fully honest in a relationship. We explore how childhood wounds can carry into adult partnerships, and the work it takes to break free from old cycles of shame and avoidance. Roger opens up with deep vulnerability, and together we unpack what it means to step into responsibility and create real connection. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening & Welcome 00:52 – Roger’s Relationship Struggles 04:08 – Intimacy & Connection Challenges 07:56 – The Cycle of Avoidance 13:29 – Childhood Roots with Mom 20:05 – Healing the Inner Boy 28:22 – Facing the Partner with Honesty 35:30 – Learning to Be Okay with Disappointment 42:35 – Separating Self from Validation 47:29 – Commitments for Change 52:19 – Micro Moments of Leadership 53:18 – Closing Reflections *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:53:43

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Why Your Shadow Self Keeps Destroying Your Love Life (Jungian Philosophy)

8/14/2025
I dive into how your shadow self might be quietly sabotaging your love life — and what you can do about it. Drawing from Jungian philosophy, I explore why we’re drawn to partners who embody the very traits we’ve disowned in ourselves. I share practical ways to spot your shadow at work in your relationship and how to begin integrating it for deeper connection and intimacy. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Welcome & Jung’s insight on fate 00:50 Your shadow’s hidden intelligence 02:37 What is the shadow? 04:20 How to know when your shadow is active 07:13 The nice guy/people pleaser dynamic 09:18 Nature abhors a vacuum in relationships 11:57 Relationships as mirrors for self-reclamation 14:17 Steps to integrate your shadow 15:19 Closing thoughts & final Jung quote *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:16:34

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The Collapse of Social Cognition with Anthony Rispo

8/11/2025
I sit down with Anthony Rispo to dive deep into social cognition, human behavior, and the cultural shifts affecting men and women today. We explore how disagreements can fracture relationships, the erosion of nuance in public discourse, and the role social media plays in polarizing people. Anthony also shares his insights on gender dynamics, the state of therapy for men, and the growing narrative around being “better off alone.” This is a thought-provoking conversation that isn’t afraid to push into complex and sometimes controversial territory. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Anthony’s background and journey into psychology 04:20 – Research interests and social cognition explained 08:51 – The impact of disagreement on relationships 14:14 – Political polarization and identity formation 26:09 – Gender differences and dating dynamics 29:09 – The brain’s role in social cognition 38:39 – Therapy, masculinity, and practical approaches for men 49:23 – Dark traits, therapy, and ideology 53:49 – Being alone and cultural narratives 57:52 – Consequences of rejecting traditional structures 01:04:35 – Anthony’s personal story and standing against groupthink *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:01:12:03

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Dealing With An Avoidant's Silent Treatment - What To Do

8/7/2025
I dive deep into the silent treatment often used by avoidant partners—and what it really means. I share why this behavior isn't always intentional, how it impacts you emotionally, and what practical steps you can take to respond in a grounded, respectful way. As someone who used to be avoidant myself, I get the struggle from both sides. If you’re trying to navigate this dynamic in a relationship, this episode will give you clarity and tools to build healthier communication. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Understanding the Silent Treatment 01:28 Why Avoidants Pull Away 03:09 Core Beliefs of the Avoidant Mindset 05:22 Nervous System Triggers and Silence 08:23 The Emotional Impact on You 10:35 Step 1: Ground Yourself 11:50 Step 2: Communicate Assertively 13:30 Step 3: Reinforce Choice and Set Agreements 17:45 Invitation Over Demand: The Path Forward *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:19:53

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How Your Sabotaging Your Own Masculine Energy

8/4/2025
I dive into the modern traps that disconnect men from their masculine core, like the "nice guy" culture and procrastination, which drain your inner fire. I share practical steps to rebuild momentum through small, daily habits, helping you reclaim your strength and direction without relying on motivation. Join me as I explore how to balance empathy with assertiveness and take action toward your goals. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Introduction: Feeling Disconnected (01:04) - The Nice Guy Trap (02:46) - Conflict Avoidance and Inner Fire (03:46) - The Procrastination Paradox (06:41) - Building Momentum (07:47) - Daily Habits for Masculine Energy (09:31) - Finding the Middle Ground (10:48) - Call to Action *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:11:41

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She Doesn't Want Your Vulnerability, She Wants This

7/31/2025
Talking points: relationships So many men fall into a very specific (and usually confusing) trap. They're asked to "be more vulnerable", they go way too far with it, and it ends up pushing the partner into the mother/caregiver/therapist role way too often. I've talked about this before, but let's go deeper. Here's how to interpret what's actually being asked of you. (00:00:00) - What a woman does NOT mean, and one of the paradoxes of dating (00:07:48) - What does she want, really? (00:09:01) - What can’t be filled by romance—and what it actually takes (00:12:14) - Don’t project spiritual meaning onto sexual instinct *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:14:16

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7 Masculine Principles Most Men Have Forgotten

7/28/2025
Talking points: masculinity, culture Much like open pit mining, our culture has ravaged certain aspects of maturity and masculinity—and it's getting harder to remember what used to be the core components. Here are the most important principles I think most of us have forgotten to implement in our lives. I'd also love to get your thoughts on this. DM me on Instagram or if you're listening to this on Spotify, drop a comment! (00:00:00) - Learn to love and embrace the unknown (00:04:45) - Embrace discomfort (00:08:10) - Take responsibility and ownership almost to a degree that feels uncomfortable (00:10:04) - Build a brotherhood and honor your people (00:12:19) - Have dominion over your impulses (00:16:04) - Become emotionally sovereign (00:18:52) - Honor the feminine without resentment. Or pedestaling *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:22:54

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A Message For Men Ready To Give Up

7/24/2025
I was asked recently what I'd say to men who've been thinking about giving up. Who are at the end of their rope. Not an easy topic, and I don't have a magic bullet or tactical steps for you this time. But I do have a gentle reminder. (00:00:00) - Intro, and choice (00:07:42) - On suffering and gauging what you can truly change (00:15:31) - The risk of convincing *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:20:06

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Men's Work Session - Reckoning With Past Abscence And Anger

7/21/2025
Talking points: parents, anger, unavailability My guest this week came to work on how can't see any path other than "it's all on me", as well as a feeling of emotional distance from his father. But why? What's hidden in the shadow that connects the two? This is an excellent episode to get a feel for the work in action—and how we so easily bury certain parts of ourselves and others in the unconscious. (00:00:00) - Intro, what my guest is struggling with, and his family situation (00:10:30) - How my guest’s teenage self felt in the moment (00:19:16) - What’s really going on (00:27:01) - What my guest has realized *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:35:03

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The Key To Peak Performance

7/17/2025
Talking points: mindset, nervous system There's good, there's great, and then there's real mastery. I've had the privilege of working and talking with many extraordinary men. Masters of their craft. There's something that all of them do well—and it's what separates the great from the exceptional. Listen in. (00:00:00) - Intro (00:05:51) - What separates good from great, and great from exceptional (00:10:35) - The best part, and the crucial part (00:14:25) - The importance of slowness *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:20:53

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Mark Walsh - The Modern Crisis of Masculine Identity

7/14/2025
Talking points: culture, masculinity One of the more controversial episodes I've recorded. I think I'll just leave it at that. Mark and I cover a wide range of topics here, with some solid questions and concerns raised. Listen in, team. (00:00:00) - What is it about men’s issues that is so controversial? (00:12:59) - The difficulty in modern times of developing a deep sense of self, and what happened to objective truth (00:29:25) - The difficulties of cultural integration (00:38:07) - How modern issues affect men in general (00:48:34) - Practical advice on how to handle it all Mark Walsh is an expert in embodied learning, emotional intelligence, and practical psychology. His work focuses on helping individuals and organizations improve their performance and well being through the mind-body connection. He has a fascinating background, with extensive training in martial arts, mindfulness, and various psychological disciplines. Mark’s also taught in over 50 countries, including working with the UN and humanitarian projects in war zones. Connect with Mark -Website: https://embodimentunlimited.com/ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/warkmalsh/ -YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FeralPhilosophy_mw *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts |

Duration:01:03:44

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Why You're Anxious And Distracted—And What To Do

7/10/2025
Talking points: anxiety, attention, mindset What if the jitters aren't just from the extra coffee this morning? What if you're taking in too much info, courtesy of the never-ending scroll? There's something underneath it all, team, and building resiliency against that can be an absolute game changer. Here's how. (00:00:00) - What’s underneath all anxiety, and what it does (00:03:01) - Why this is relevant to men (00:06:38) - The Cheesecake Factory Effect (00:09:15) - So what do you do, and what real freedom involves (00:15:33) - Do it scared, and do it to completion (with a caveat) (00:19:43) - Find the joy in the process, NOT the outcome *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:22:33

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Stan Tatkin - You Won't Get A Secure Relationship With Secure Agreements

7/7/2025
Talking points: relationship, attachment, culture I love Stan because he's able to cut through so much of the modern BS around relationships, and get straight to practical, tactical perspectives and advice. We covered a TON of ground here, from the importance of social contracts and mutual protection, to the need for shared vision and purpose in creating equitable and collaborative relationships. This is definitely a convo that will spark some discussion, so listen in, team. (00:00:00) - Intro and the nature of secure functioning (00:05:52) - Human Nature and Relationship Dynamics (00:10:01) - Impact of Technology on Relationships (00:23:35) - Creating Secure Functioning Relationships (00:35:06) - Predictability and Prevention in Relationships (00:36:51) - The Importance of Quick Repair (00:43:02) - Mutual Protection and Solidarity (00:47:20) - Compatibility and Relationship Agreements (00:51:59) - The Role of Attachment in Relationships (01:00:42) - Final Thoughts and Practical Advice Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a renowned expert in human behaviour and couple relationships, known for developing the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He is a global speaker and teacher on secure-functioning relationships, with his insights reaching over 1.7 million viewers through his TEDx talk. Stan has authored six bestselling books, translated into multiple languages, and has published numerous academic articles. In 2010, Stan co-founded the PACT Institute with his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD, to train therapists in integrating psychobiological approaches into their practices. His work has earned him the Educator of the Year award from the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists CA in 2014. Stan leads couples in creating healthy attachments through his clinical practice in Calabasas, California, and Wired For Love Couple Retreats. He has held academic positions at UCLA and serves on the boards of Lifespan Learning Institute and Relationships First. A former president of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Ventura County chapter, Stan is trained in various psychotherapeutic techniques, including Adult Attachment, Facial Action Coding System, and Vipassana meditation. Connect with Dr. Tatkin -Website: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstantatkin/ -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PactTrainingInstitute *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation |

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Why Men Cheat

7/3/2025
Talking points: relationships, infidelity Not the happiest of talking points today, team, but it's always worth discussing. There's no universal reason for it, but from my own experience and years of working with men, I've seen some common themes. Here's a quick breakdown of the top reasons, plus the underlying motivation for almost every man that's knocked on my door. (00:00:00) - Intro, and the underlying motivation for a majority of men (00:03:40) - Reasons that fall into this category (00:10:53) - One of the main drivers for my own infidelity, and how attachment styles can play into it *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

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Dr. John Oliffe - The True (And Troubling) Face Of Men's Health

6/30/2025
Talking points: mental health, masculinity, culture When Movember reaches out, you answer the call. I'm grateful to have interviewed Professor John Oliffe on a recent report co-authored by him—and spearheaded by the Movember Institute for Men's Health. Some of the stats they've released left me a little surprised; like 2 in 5 men in Canada die prematurely, and from largely preventable casues. Listen to this one, team. (00:00:00) - Intro, and the premature mortality of men (00:10:29) - On co-constructed masculinity, and how modern complexity affects how we perceive manhood (00:16:26) - On “protest masculinity”, and what’s causing men to die early? (00:22:34) - Depression, suicide, and getting upstream of the risk factors (00:32:120) - Why hiding what you’re going through so common, and why some men dismiss the healthcare system (00:40:06) - What Dr. Oliffe would say to the man reluctant to see a therapist (00:44:49) - The changes and diversity of modern masculinity Dr. John Oliffe is a Professor and Tier 1 Canada Research Chair in Men’s Health Promotion at the School of Nursing, University of British Columbia. Founder and lead investigator of UBC’s Men’s Health Research program, his work focuses on masculinities as it influences men’s health behaviours and illness management, and its impact on partners, families, and overall life quality. Findings drawn from his research offer guidance to clinicians and researchers to advance men’s health promotion in the areas of psychosocial prostate cancer care, smoking cessation and male suicide prevention. For those of you in Vancouver, check out the formal launch of John and Movember's work here: https://nursing.ubc.ca/community/events/2025/launch-real-face-of-mens-health-report Connect with Dr. Oliffe -Website: www.menshealthresearch.ubc.ca -LinkedIn: http://ca.linkedin.com/in/johnoliffe *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or

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Why Modern Relationships Are Failing

6/26/2025
Talking points: relationships, culture This might bother some of you, but I think it needs discussing, because I get it all the time in comments, emails, and DMs: serious disappointment and frustration with dating. From men and women both. There are a lot of reasons for this, both surface-level and deeper, but here's what I'm seeing the most. (00:00:00) - Intro (00:05:04) - What we’re not actually teaching young men (00:08:14) - Where do we go from here? (00:11:04) - A gap I see in most relationships (00:13:37) - Have the conversation *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

Duration:00:16:39