The Tantric Lounge: Sex, Science, and Spirituality
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Join renowned sex educator, therapist and coach, Jacqueline Hellyer, and her co-host Xavier Waterkeyn on the Tantric Lounge and discover the missing link to empowerment - your sexuality.brbr The Tantric Lounge is a space where sex is an art and sex is a science. It’s where sex, science and spirituality meet, and everything in between. In the Tantric Lounge you’ll explore the third wave of sexuality: beyond shame, beyond sleaze, heading towards true liberation. It’s sex for the seeker, for the explorer, for the thinker.brbr Jacqueline presents sex like no one else. She’s fascinating, funny and inspiring. Tune in to her wisdom and entertaining conversations with guest Sex Geeks from the leading edge of sexuality as they discuss everything to do with sex, love and intimacy.
Location:
Tempe, AZ
Description:
Join renowned sex educator, therapist and coach, Jacqueline Hellyer, and her co-host Xavier Waterkeyn on the Tantric Lounge and discover the missing link to empowerment - your sexuality.brbr The Tantric Lounge is a space where sex is an art and sex is a science. It’s where sex, science and spirituality meet, and everything in between. In the Tantric Lounge you’ll explore the third wave of sexuality: beyond shame, beyond sleaze, heading towards true liberation. It’s sex for the seeker, for the explorer, for the thinker.brbr Jacqueline presents sex like no one else. She’s fascinating, funny and inspiring. Tune in to her wisdom and entertaining conversations with guest Sex Geeks from the leading edge of sexuality as they discuss everything to do with sex, love and intimacy.
Twitter:
@TheSexCoach
Language:
English
Contact:
Jacqueline Hellyer Love to Live Pty Ltd 2/758 Darling Street Rozelle NSW 2039 Australia
Website:
http://jacquelinehellyer.com/
Episodes
Broadening Your Sexual Repertoire
10/2/2014
Broadening your sexual repertoire and opening up to the amazing life-enhancing potential of a fulfilled sexuality requires a strong basis. If we divide our sexuality into physical, mental, emotional and spiritual sexuality, it’s vital that our emotional sexuality and our spiritual sexuality are developed so that we have the safety and therefore the freedom to explore the physical and mental dimensions of our sexuality, to spice things up. Spice alone tastes terrible, add it to something fundamentally good and it takes it to new realms of experience...
Duration:00:57:23
Female Orgasmicness and the New Sexual Revolution
9/25/2014
Jacqueline calls it the Third Wave of Sexuality, today’s guest Sex Geek calls it the New Sexual Revolution. Alison Petrie is a Tantric Practitioner, Healer and Workshop Facilitator. Today we talk with her about this new revolution, what is it, why is Tantra such a big part of it, and what does women’s orgasmicness have to do with it? What is orgasmicness anyway? Find out here, on The Tantric Lounge!
Duration:00:52:42
All Tied Up in Japanese Bondage
9/18/2014
Shibari - the Art of Japanese Bondage has a long history, and has found its way into the kink and alternative art communities of the West. What is it exactly and what is its appeal to modern Westerners? Why are we discussing it on The Tantric Lounge? Because it is so Tantric in essence - it’s about deep connection, sensuality, beauty and poetry. Today we talk to Hebari, head teacher at the Rope Dojo in Sydney’s inner suburbs and curator of the Sydney Rope Festival. Listen and look at photos as he ties Jacqueline up during this episode...
Duration:00:53:00
Meet the Seven Goddesses of Sex
9/11/2014
On today’s show we’re not interviewing a Sex Geek, we’re talking to Seven Sex Goddesses! Or at least, Jacqueline is introducing us to the concept of the Seven Goddesses of Sex and how accessing their energies can help modern women come into the fullness of their gorgeous sexuality, with stronger self-image, more desire and greater sexual response! I've been working on this concept for over six years and I've just released the book. Each Goddess is accompanied by a fictional, historical erotic story to convey the feeling of these energies in a way that is accessible for modern-day woman. Then through 24 illustrative erotic stories readers follow the experiences of three fictional modern women as they experience the energy of each Goddess in their lives. I call it educational erotica - written to educate and inspire!
Duration:00:57:51
Sex in the Time of Menopause
9/4/2014
Menopause affects 100 percent of women who live long enough to experience it. But what exactly is menopause and how does it affect a woman’s sex life and the sex lives of her partners? In this show we’ll be talking to Heather Cameron, Director and CEO of the Menopause Resource Centre, a not-for-profit humanitarian venture dedicated to increasing awareness about menopause and to empowering women about their choices during what can be a challenging time of life and sexual life.
Duration:00:54:23
Sexological Bodywork
8/28/2014
Today Jacqueline and Xavier are chatting with two guest Sex Geeks - Deej and Uma, two of Australia’s top somatic sex educators and practitioners. They practice and teach Sexological Bodywork, supporting individuals, couples and groups to learn to direct their own erotic development, learn about their bodies, sex and sexuality, or work through sexual issues or concerns. It’s a fabulous modality for healing which includes breath work, touch, Taoist Bodywork, mapping, scar tissue remediation, and Orgasmic Yoga coaching. This is bound to be yet another fascinating conversation down, on The Tantric Lounge!
Duration:00:56:37
Sound Intimacy
8/21/2014
A great and often under appreciated aspect of sexuality is that of harmony, and one of our most easily accessed paths to harmony is through sound. In this Tantric Lounge episode sound therapist Lia Smith talks to Jacqueline and Xavier about how she uses sound to evoke both harmony within ourselves and with our partners. We also explore the issue of intimacy and how we align ourselves through sound and vibration.
Duration:00:56:46
A Mature Woman's Sexual Mission
8/14/2014
Our guest on The Tantric Lounge this week has a fascinating story. A good country Catholic wife, mother of seven, Trish Lehman left all that behind In her 50s to pursue her sexual awakening. Moving to the big city she became a, well, she’s not quite sure what to call herself, a sex worker, a surrogate, a bodyworker. Essentially she provides loving touch to those in need, often older men or disabled men, but she’s also amazed at the younger men who seek her services. She’s an amazing woman, come and meet her this week on The Tantric Lounge
Duration:00:57:10
The Future of Sex
8/7/2014
What is the future of sex? Join Jacqueline and co-presenter Xavier as they talk with futurist, Ross Dawson. Teledildonics, Virtual Sex, Quasi-holographics, are just a few of the technological innovations that could transform our sex lives. Fascinating stuff, but where does love, connection, spirituality fit in with all this techno-sex. Tune in for what is bound to be a fascinating conversation with a Futurist Sex Geek!
Duration:00:56:42
The Anatomy of Sex
7/31/2014
The human body is an incredible pleasure machine, the sensations and experiences we can potentially experience are incredible. Until recently though, it wasn’t really an aspect of science that was studied particularly thoroughly. Even today there is a lot that is unknown or unconfirmed. There’s a lot that is though, and it’s a lot more than you would have learned in school sex ed classes (if you were even lucky enough to get sex ed.) That was more about reproduction than sex, more about how to have babies and not have babies, than about pleasure, intimacy and sexual delight. We’ll be joined in this episode with another of Australia’s great Sex Geeks, Cyndi Darnell, who is creating a fabulous project on sexual anatomy. Join us to find out more about your fabulous body and it’s awesome sexual potential!
Duration:00:56:37
The Urge to Merge
7/24/2014
The urge to merge is a natural desire. We crave bliss and connection and fear isolation. Yet to merge requires letting go, and that requires trust and vulnerability. These qualities are often considered ‘weak’, but in fact they require great strength. Find that inner strength to be vulnerable and then you can actually fulfil your urge to merge...
Duration:00:56:42
The Way of Surrender
7/17/2014
Imagine letting go and simply allowing what will be to be, without fighting or striving, with a sense of ease and flow. Surrendering... There isn’t really a word in the English language that has a positive sense to letting go of control, just allowing. Which might be one of the reasons why so many people find it hard to do. We spend our lives trying hard, working at things, wanting to achieve goals and success. And then in the down-time doing the opposite, zombying out in front of the television, zoning out with drugs and alcohol. It’s like the switches are set to full on or full off. There’s another way, The Way of Surrender. Think of it as trusting that the Universe is safe, has your best interest at heart, and if you allow it, life will unfold and flow just beautifully...
Duration:00:55:59
Sexual Etiquette
5/15/2014
What is the correct etiquette for sexual interactions? How do you approach an existing or prospective partner? How do you deal with response, positive or negative? How do you conduct the interaction? What do you do if it’s not going the way you’d like? Or if something horribly embarrassing happens?! Find out this week, down, on The Tantric Lounge....
Duration:00:57:34
Retreating with Luscious Women
5/8/2014
Would you like to be a fly on the wall at one of Jacqueline’s women’s retreats? Today Jacqueline goes through what happened at a recent retreat, sharing the activities and the insights of the participants. Get a taste of womanly lusciousness, down, on The Tantric Lounge...
Duration:00:57:56
Tantric Dominance and Submission
5/1/2014
We’re getting kinky down on the Lounge this week, talking about the Tantric approach to dominance and submission, pleasure and pain and all those delicious delights on the ‘darker’ side… Is this compatible with spirituality? Absolutely! Find out more on The Tantric Lounge…
Duration:00:55:11
Unleashing The Primitive
4/24/2014
Letting go through Tantra and opening up to sexual possibilities can take you to beautiful states of altered consciousness. It can also take you to wild states of primal consciousness - a place where the primitive is unleashed and the wild one enters. This is not civilization, it’s the wilderness - wild and ravishing, a beauty that is savage not tamed. Find out more this week on The Tantric Lounge….
Duration:00:55:36
Turn Your Whole Body Into An Erogenous Zone
4/17/2014
What’s your greatest erogenous zone? Your skin! So any part of your body can be an erogenous zone. We tend to limit sexual attention to only those parts of the body which we believe are ‘erogenous’, and limit is the word because there aren’t too many of them. When you explore ways to turn your whole body into an erogenous zone you open yourself up to a whole swathe of sensual pleasures….
Duration:00:56:50
Make Sex Your Hobby
4/10/2014
What is a hobby? According to the dictionary it’s “an activity done regularly in one’s leisure time for pleasure.” That sounds like sex to me! We all know that it’s good for couples to have a mutual hobby - cooking, gardening, sport, travel, outdoor recreation, decorating, traveling, study. It gives them something to talk about together, to experiment with and to enjoy together. You’re having sex anyway, so why not give it the same focus and attention that you give any hobby? Join Jacqueline Hellyer and her co-host Xavier Waterkeyn to find out more about how to make sex and intimacy your hobby, down on the Tantric Lounge…
Duration:00:56:30
The Magic of Mystique
4/3/2014
So much of sex these days is blatant. There’s no mystery, no mystique. What happens when couples share too much? There’s no room for desire, there’s no wanting to move toward, to discover more. Instead it’s dullness or moving away. How do you maintain the interest, through mystique, in a relationship? How do you ensure there is always more to discover? Find out this week on The Tantric Lounge…
Duration:00:58:08
Tantric Development for Men
3/27/2014
So much of my work is men is about how they can develop themselves sexually and spiritually. As one young man said to me recently, sex without the spiritually is empty. I love it when men come to me to grow in this way. There’s often a feeling that spirituality is somehow soft and unmanly - far from it! The young man just mentioned is a war vet who fought in Afghanistan, there’s nothing unmanly about him. Just as there is nothing unmanly about the tradesmen, truck-drivers, CEOs, doctors, lawyers, etc. who come to me for sexual and spiritual growth. Tantra is all about developing spiritually through the every-day, including through sexual connection. This means men need to grow in both their spiritual understanding and practice and in their sexual understanding and growth. Find out how this can occur in this week’s Tantric Lounge….
Duration:00:56:52