
From Hostage To Hero
Education Podcasts
Sari de la Motte is the host of "From Hostage to Hero" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Join us weekly as Sari shares tips that will help you up your game at trial and connect with your jurors.
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Sari de la Motte is the host of "From Hostage to Hero" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Join us weekly as Sari shares tips that will help you up your game at trial and connect with your jurors.
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http://www.saridlm.com/
Email:
info@saridlm.com
Episodes
[SPECIAL EPISODE] The H2H Method: Proven Steps to Master Voir Dire, Opening Statements & Verdict-Winning Strategies
6/27/2025
Jurors DONâT need a show.
They NEED a leader.
In this weekâs episode, Iâm handing you the entire back-of-house blueprint, so you can finally STOP faking confidence and START generating real influence â WITHOUT THE BURNOUT.
Ditch the fear-based prep.
Drop the performance act.
And lead the hell out of your next trial.
đ§ Hit play. Your real influence starts BEFORE the opening.
Love,
Sari đ
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VOIR DIRE MASTERCLASS WITH SARI DE LA MOTTE * * * *
đïž Date: July 24th - 25th, 2025
đ Train, LIVE, with Sari
đLocation: H2H Headquarters (Portland, OR)
đ° Investment: $10K - Expense it to your case!
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Duration:01:21:18
BONUS EPISODE â 8 Steps to an 8 Figure Verdict [Live Training]
6/20/2025
People always ask me: "How do I get big verdicts using the H2H Method?"
Well⊠this episode breaks it down.
No fluff.
Just the real, step-by-step story of how I used H2H to help secure an 8-figure verdict in a REAL case.
From the very FIRST consult to the moment the jury DELIVERED the verdict â this is exactly what went down.
In this episode, I walk you through:
đđœ What I focused on FIRST (before strategy, before storytelling)
đđœ The moment we THREW the closing in the trash (and what we did instead)
đđœ How we MADE the jury feel â not just think
đđœ Why âwe donât win cases, jurors doâ has NEVER been more TRUE
If youâve ever wanted a behind-the-scenes look at how the H2H Method plays out in the wild, this is it.
Youâre closer than you think.
Tune in NOW! đ§
Love,
Sari
Quote:
âWe didnât win because we had the perfect theme or the flashiest visuals. We won because we trusted the jury. We built a story that made them feel something, we showed up as our full selves, and then we got the hell out of the way. Thatâs the work. Thatâs H2H.â
âSari de la Motte
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Duration:01:21:18
Encore Episode â Why Confidence Is Overrated in Court (and What REALLY Moves Jurors)
6/13/2025
Waiting to feel confident before stepping into court is like waiting to get in shape BEFORE hitting the gym.
Cute idea, but thatâs not how this works.
PLEASE, for the love of voir dire:
â STOP rehearsing defeat.
â STOP letting fear run your case.
â STOP pretending some âbig nameâ lawyer is better for your case than you are.
đ§ Push past panic, polish your prep, and prove youâve got what it takes â because you already do.
Your clients hired YOU.
Donât you forget that.
đ§ Hit play now.
Love,
Sari đ
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Duration:00:18:36
Encore Episode â If Youâre Not Having Fun at Trial, Youâre Doing it Wrong
6/6/2025
Letâs be real⊠lifeâs heavy right now.
Trial?
Even heavier.
So Iâm bringing back one of MY favorite episodesâŠ
Because we could all use a reminder that joy is part of the job đ
Yep, I said it: If youâre not having fun at trial, youâre doing it wrong.
âïž Trial is serious.
đ Trial is emotional.
đą Trial is a rollercoaster.
But most importantlyâŠ
It SHOULD be fun too!
You can be a badass in the courtroom and have a good time doing it.
It does NOT have to be one or the other.
Come back to what made you love this work in the first place.
Love,
Sari đ
Quote:
âWhen I say have fun at trial, I donât mean act like itâs a joke. I mean be in itâfully. Let yourself feel the fear, the pride, the anger, the joy. Thatâs what fun really is. Itâs not clowning around. Itâs being alive in the courtroom.â
â Sari de la Motte
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Duration:00:20:54
Encore Episode â Courtroom Confidence: The Power of Belief for Winning Trial Attorneys
5/30/2025
Jurors wonât follow a lawyer who second-guesses.
If dread runs your prep⊠itâs running your case.
Break the cycle before it breaks your case.
đ§ Hit play now.
Love,
Sari đ
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Duration:00:20:00
[TRIAL DEBRIEF] - How Scott Maucere Won a $2M Fraud Verdict Using H2H Trial Techniques and a Pink Pig
5/23/2025
Bringing back one of the MOST popular debriefs EVER on my podcast.
Scott Maucere had a complex securities fraud case â three state laws, seven claims, and 11 defendants.
And he shaped it into a sharp and simple story the jury didnât JUST understand⊠they BELIEVED in it.
And yes⊠he brought a pink piggy bank into court, pulled out a hammer and made the jury GASP. đ·
Verdict?
$2M, including $1M in punitives.
Hereâs what Scott shares:
đđœ HOW he distilled a legal jungle into 3 simple jury rules â so clear they quoted them back in closing.
đđœ WHY trying to âpersuadeâ the jury is the wrong move â and what actually works.
đđœ WHAT happened when he pulled out a hammer and made the jury gasp.
đđœ HOW honest voir dire, designed alliance, and a COVID delay turned strangers into a team.
đđœ WHY giving up your âbrilliant ideasâ might be your smartest move.
This episode is PACKED with heart, strategy, and proof that fun and truth still WIN in trial.
Love,
Sari đ
Quote:
âYou donât have to be a magician. You donât have to persuade people that lying is wrong. You just have to give the jury the truth and let them act. I went in with three simple rules: tell the truth, donât cover things up, and if you doâmake it right. We treated the jury with respect, let go of control, and they showed up every single day, even after COVID delays, because they wanted to do the right thing.â
â Scott Maucere
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Duration:00:52:36
Encore Episode â 7 Ways to Know Youâre Crushing It in Court
5/16/2025
Ever walked out of a courtroom feeling defeated and thought,
"Maybe I'm not as great as I hoped?"
I know youâve been there.
But I want you to remember:
đ GREATNESS ISN'T DEFINED BY A VERDICT. đ
Itâs defined by what you consistently choose to do:
đ€ You show up overprepared â not because you have to, but because you care.
đ€ You donât just fight uphill battles, you run toward them.
đ€ You turn heartbreak into fuel. Every. Damn. Time.
And it's THOSE choices â day after day, trial after trial â that prove your greatness beyond doubt.
In this week's episode, I'm handing you undeniable proof that you're already fucking GREAT, and that you donât need a verdict to prove it.
All that's left is for YOU to believe it.
đ§ Hit play now and shut that inner critic up for good.
Love,
Sari đ
* * * * JOIN US FOR COMMAND THE COURTROOM: 2-DAY IN-PERSON
OPENING MASTERCLASS WITH SARI DE LA MOTTE * * * *
đïž Date: June 12th â 13th, 2025
đ Train, LIVE, with Sari
đLocation: H2H Headquarters (Portland, OR)
đ° Investment: $10K - Expense it to your case!
ONLY 2 SPOTS LEFT.
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Duration:00:14:51
Encore Episode â I Turned 50. Hereâs What Iâve Learned So Far
5/9/2025
Yeah, I turned 50 three years ago...
BUT.
Everything I said back then?
Still true.
Maybe truer.
This encore episode is about what Iâve learned after five decades of building a life, a business, and a body that BEAT f*cking cancer â and what I REFUSE to do anymore.
If you're GRINDING your way to some imaginary finish lineâŠ
If you're WAITING to enjoy the life youâve already builtâŠ
You NEED to hear this.
Youâre so focused on the end, youâre missing the life happening right NOW.
Love,
Sari
Quote:
âThe point is the journey, my friends. Itâs not where weâre headed. Itâs not where we think happiness lies. Happiness lies in enjoying the journey.â
â Sari de la Motte
* * * * JOIN US FOR COMMAND THE COURTROOM: 2-DAY IN-PERSON
OPENING MASTERCLASS WITH SARI DE LA MOTTE * * * *
đïž Date: June 12th â 13th, 2025
đ Train, LIVE, with Sari
đLocation: H2H Headquarters (Portland, OR)
đ° Investment: $10K - Expense it to your case!
ONLY 12 SPOTS AVAILABLE
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Duration:00:18:22
Encore Episode â Mindset Mastery for Trial Attorneys: TrialâReady Hacks to Thrive Under Pressure
5/2/2025
Have you ever realized that every verdict youâve EVER won started BEFORE you âfeltâ ready?
That is becauseâŠ
⥠âREADYâ is a decision, not a feeling. âĄ
Take this 15-minute power shot and hit the ground running:
1ïžâŁ Myth-buster: Perfection â Procrastination â Fastest path to regret.
2ïžâŁ Mind-hack: Swap âsomedayâ for âright fâing nowâ by reframing this belief.
3ïžâŁ Action trigger: A 3-word mantra that karate-chops analysis paralysis right in the throat.
Count backwards from 3, then just. fucking. go. đđš
You got this. I believe in YOU.
đ§ Listen now.
Love,
Sari đ
Quote:
"You get to decide what âreadyâ means."
â Sari de la Motte
* * * * JOIN US FOR COMMAND THE COURTROOM: 2-DAY IN-PERSON
OPENING MASTERCLASS WITH SARI DE LA MOTTE * * * *
đïž Date: June 12th â 13th, 2025
đ Train, LIVE, with Sari
đLocation: H2H Headquarters (Portland, OR)
đ° Investment: $10K - Expense it to your case!
ONLY 12 SPOTS AVAILABLE
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Duration:00:18:00
FHTH Podcast: Encore Ep. Why Over Preparation is Killing Your Case
4/25/2025
Hosted by the one and only Kevin de la Motte â my husband, our lead mindset coach, and beloved âCoach Kâ to the H2H crew.
In this powerful episode, Kevin takes on a habit so MANY trial attorneys cling to: over-preparing.
And he shows you how itâs NOT helping your case â in fact, it might be hurting it.
Inside, Kevin breaks down:
âĄïž 3 damaging myths about preparation
âĄïž Why youâll never feel â100% readyâ â and why thatâs okay
âĄïž What actually wins cases (hint: itâs not your color-coded outline)
âĄïž The mindset practice that can shift everything in the courtroom
Youâve got nothing to prove.
But you DO have a powerful message to deliver.
Let Kevin show you how to show up as the badass you already are.
Tune in NOW! đïž
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
âYou think preparation wins cases. It doesnât win casesâyou do. Preparation is important, sure. But what wins cases is YOU. You, fully present. You, connected to your jury. You, believing in your case. Thatâs more powerful than 14 attorneys and unlimited resources on the other side.â
â Kevin de la Motte
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* * * * JOIN US FOR COMMAND THE COURTROOM: 2-DAY IN-PERSON
OPENING MASTERCLASS WITH SARI DE LA MOTTE * * * *
đïž Date: June 2nd - 3rd, 2025
đ Train, LIVE, with Sari
đLocation: H2H Headquarters (Portland, OR)
đ° Investment: $10K - Expense it to your case!
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Duration:00:22:28
[TRIAL DEBRIEF] â RecordâBreaking $77M Verdict: Natalie Woodwardâs Strategy & Historic Case Analysis
4/18/2025
In this special episode, Natalie Woodward shares the story of how she landed a đ„ $77.7 MILLION đ„ MED-MAL VERDICT for a mentally ill, drug-addicted plaintiff â one that became the LARGEST in Georgiaâs state history.
READ THAT AGAIN.
If youâre ready to shatter old stereotypes and deliver results that surpass even your wildest asks, THIS is the game plan you need.
đ§ Listen now and discover how to turn what they call âimpossibleâ into your next big win. đ
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
"That's what we talk about in H2H: you've got to own your number. This is exactly how we teach our clients to deal with the money issue in wrongful death cases, by talking about what it meansâwhat does that verdict mean? Here, it meant that your verdict is a statement about mental health and addiction issues. When you communicate that clearly, it resonates with the jury and builds trust. It transforms a trial into a message that can change the way we view mental health care and substance abuse treatment."
â Sari de la Motte
* * * * JOIN US FOR COMMAND THE COURTROOM: 2-DAY IN-PERSON OPENING MASTERCLASS WITH SARI DE LA MOTTE * * * *
đïž Date: June 2nd - 3rd, 2025
đ Train, LIVE, with Sari
đLocation: H2H Headquarters (Portland, OR)
đ° Investment: $10K - Expense it to your case!
ONLY 12 SPOTS AVAILABLE
*spots are filled on a first-come, first-served basis.
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Duration:00:57:45
Encore Episode: Voir Dire Done âToo Wellâ? Secrets Every Trial Attorney Must Know
4/11/2025
So, you think you nailed your voir direâŠ
Jurors are bonding with you, theyâre engaged, and it feels like a REAL conversation instead of a STALE Q&A.
Then, OUT OF NOWHERE, one juror starts âhelpfullyâ suggesting random facts they believe you need.
If youâve ever seen a NEAR-PERFECT VOIR DIRE get blindsided by off-topic tangents, this episode is for YOU.
Weâre diving into H2H strategies like:
đŻ Stop, Start, String â The ULTIMATE TRIFECTA to smoothly steer jurors back on track.
đŻ Devilâs Advocate Tone â How to raise the defenseâs argument without confusing your jury.
đŻ Embracing Objections â Because a lively group discussion often riles up the defense, and thatâs a GOOD SIGN.
Jurors mean well, but if youâre not CAREFUL, their âhelpâ can blow up your ENTIRE opening strategy.
WANT TO KEEP YOUR MASTERPIECE VOIR DIRE FROM BACKFIRING?
Tune in NOW and learn how to nudge jurors back on track WITHOUT KILLING the connection youâve built.
Xo,
Sari
Mentions:
FHTH Episode #30 â How to Use the Devilâs Advocate Question
Quote:
âThere are three things I always teach when I talk about how to facilitate, especially when the conversation starts going the wrong way: Stop, Start, or String. âStopâ means you tell the juror, âIâm going to stop you right there,â and clarify itâs irrelevant or not part of the case. âStartâ means you shift the focus with a new question or direction. âStringâ means you connect a piece of what they said to what actually matters. With these three techniques, you keep the discussion productive and aligned with your case.â
â Sari de la Motte
* * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * *
THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
sariswears.com/jury
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Duration:00:19:23
Encore Episode: F*ck Time Management: The New Productivity Blueprint for Trial Attorneys
4/4/2025
Letâs get one thing straight: Time isnât your problem.
You donât need another planner, color-coded calendar, or âproductivity hack.â
What do you NEED?
A complete rewire of how you think about time â and yourself.
In this episode, Iâm calling bullshit on the time management cult and sharing what actually works when youâre ready to stop living in overwhelm and start creating the life you actually want.
If youâve ever said, âI just need to get through this day/week/month,â this episode is for you.
Listen now đ§
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
"You donât have a time management problem. You have a âdoing too much sht you donât want to doâ problem. The moment you stop cramming your life with tasks you hate and start filling it with things that light you upâthatâs when everything changes. Thatâs when time stops feeling like the enemy and starts working for you."
- Sari
* * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * *
THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
sariswears.com/jury
Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here:
Instagram:
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Duration:01:02:39
Encore Special Episode: Medical Malpractice Trial Debrief with H2H Crew Member Heather Mitchell on her $7.5 Million Jury Verdict
3/28/2025
Ever dread facing awkward courtroom moments or uncomfortable topics with jurors? đ„Ž
You're not alone.
I recently sat down with Heather Mitchell â a total badass trial lawyer who won a whopping $7.5 million medical malpractice verdict.
Her secret?
Bravely tackling tough topics like HPV, sexual history, and invisible injuries head-on.
Heather shares how she moved past her fear of awkward courtroom silence (cue crickets).
She reveals exactly HOW she shut down the potential "slut-shaming" defense before it got started.
Heather proves that vulnerability and authenticity aren't weaknesses â theyâre your greatest strengths in court.
Listen now đ§
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
"Fear is the saboteur. You have to get all those fears out of your head and remember there's always two cases: the one you litigated, and the one you actually try. A lot of what you're worried about won't even come out at trial. Letting go of that fear and believing in your juryâthatâs everything."
â Heather Mitchell
* * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * *
THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
sariswears.com/jury
Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here:
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Duration:00:53:32
Encore Episode: How Much Emotion Is TOO MUCH? Opening Statement Tips for Trial Attorneys
3/21/2025
The truth is, facts ALONE wonât get you the 6-FIGURE WINNING VERDICT.
If your voice is stuck in monotone (which I know most of yâall are guilty of, because thatâs one of the very first things we work on⊠AHEM!), youâre handing your jury an invitation toâŠ
MENTALLY. CHECK. THE. FUCK. OUT.
In this episode, we break down how to harness genuine emotion by diving into the minor mindset shifts and vocal tweaks that transform bland openings into compelling, authentic, jury-winning stories.
Tune in and learn exactly how to dial up the emotion (without tipping into full-blown theatrics) and MASTER the sweet spot that moves jurors from PASSIVE LISTENERS to ACTIVE BELIEVERS.
Xo,
Sari
Mentions:
On Becoming a Trial Lawyer â Rick Friedman
Quote:
âYou want big verdicts? Youâve got to go there emotionally. This is why the Crew exists, by the way. A big reason. Because we know that figuring out how to put an opening statement together or which voir dire questions to ask is just the start. That alone wonât get you where you need to go. âLet me put some emotion in my voiceâ is not going to do it. Why? Because youâre never going to put emotion in your voice until you feel youâre able to risk emotionally and be vulnerable. Thatâs what it takes.â
â Sari de la Motte
* * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * *
THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
sariswears.com/jury
Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here:
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https://www.instagram.com/saridelamotte/
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Duration:00:19:17
Encore Episode: Overcoming Burnout & Finding Balance as a Trial Lawyer - A Conversation with Jody Moore
3/14/2025
This week, Iâm talking with Jody Moore, a powerhouse trial lawyer who hit a breaking point and had to ask herself:
đđŒ Is it possible to be a successful attorney without sacrificing my sanity?
Hereâs what weâre covering:
â
The real reason most trial lawyers burn out (hint: itâs not the workload).
â
How to stop feeling like you have to âdo it allâ and still kick ass in the courtroom.
â
Why making small shifts internally can completely transform your career â and your life.
Jody went from overwhelm and exhaustion to building a practice that ACTUALLY works for her life.
If youâre ready to do the same, you donât want to miss this episode.
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
"I kept thinking the answer to burnout was externalâhire more people, take fewer cases, change something out there. But what I really had to do was look inward. Why was I overworking in the first place? Why did I feel like I had to prove something by pushing myself to exhaustion? Once I figured that out, everything started to shift."
Jody Moore
* * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * *
THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
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Duration:00:39:43
Encore Episode: Reclaim Your Time & Find True Freedom â Mindset Shifts for Trial Attorneys to Conquer Overwhelming Pressure (with Coach Jody, Coach Siria and Sara Williams)
3/7/2025
Ever catch yourself bending over backwards to seem perfect â only to feel like a phony anyway?
Sara Williams once said,
âFreedom is understanding that you cannot control how other people perceive you,â
Stop letting external opinions define your self-worth.
Iâm gonna say it again.
đ„STOP LETTING EXTERNAL OPINIONS DEFINE YOUR SELF-WORTHđ„
This weekâs episode is all about saying goodbye to that mental straitjacket.
Ready to stop hustling for approval and start trusting yourself?
đ§ Hit play now and hear how small mindset tweaks change your entire legal game.
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
âIt takes work. We, as lawyers, need to talk more about therapy and mindset, because lawyering is more than knowing how to question a witness or structure an opening. To be more effective, you have to understand who you really are and get control of your mindset. Thatâs what I love about H2H. If weâre going to change the culture, we have to challenge ourselves to break free of that old-school path and really do the deep work, which makes us better advocates for our clients.â
â Sara Williams
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Duration:00:40:18
Encore Episode: How Documented Processes Help Trial Attorneys Thrive Under Pressure
2/28/2025
In todayâs podcast, Iâm diving into why documented processes (yeah, those boring SOPs youâve been avoiding) are actually the secret to scaling your practice and getting your damn life back.
đ« Stop micromanaging.
đ« Stop re-explaining.
â
Start running your firm like a CEO.
Xo,
Sari
Mentions:
The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks
Quote:
âWhy canât people read my mind?â I mean, you donât say that, but thatâs really what youâre wanting people to do. And so my answer to that is, because you havenât told them how to read your mind. Here is the big secret when it comes to getting people to read your mind: write it the fuck down. There it is. If you want people to be able to read your mind, youâve got to write it down."
â Sari de la Motte
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THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
sariswears.com/jury
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Duration:00:19:02
Encore Episode: From Presentation to Performance - How to Motivate Jurors and Own the Courtroom
2/21/2025
Most attorneys think their job is to present information to the jury.
But hereâs the truth: presenting isnât enough â you NEED to perform.
The best trial attorneys donât JUST deliver a case.
They OWN the courtroom, COMMAND attention, and MOVE jurors to action.
Hereâs what weâre covering:
đĄ The four levels of trial presentation â and why most attorneys never reach the final stage.
đ Why writing out your opening statement could be quietly killing your persuasion.
đ„ How to stop âpresentingâ and start connecting with jurors so they take action.
Most attorneys get stuck trying to âget it right.â
But when you MASTER this approach, you STOP performing for jurors and START influencing them.
Tune in now đ§
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
"If you think your job is just to present information to the jury, youâre already losing. Jurors donât give a shit about your polished script or perfect delivery â they care about how you make them feel. If you want to win, stop performing for them and start connecting with them."
Sari
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THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
sariswears.com/jury
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Duration:00:18:17
Encore Episode: Voir Dire Done Right â Jury Selection Strategies to Win Over Jurors
2/14/2025
Ever found yourself scrambling to come up with voir dire questions and hoping they land
Stop. Right. There.
Asking, âWhat should I ask in voir dire?â is like asking âWhat turn should I take?â without knowing where youâre headed.
Before you focus on the questions, you need to know the destination.
In this power-packed 15-minute episode, weâre breaking down how to craft a voir dire strategy that actually inspires jurors to take action in favor of your case instead of leaving them confused or disengaged.
đïž Tune in and fix your voir dire strategy today.
Xo,
Sari
Quote:
âAsking yourself, âWhat should I ask in voir dire?â is not the question. The question you need to ask is, âWhere am I going?â Or, as Sari says, âWhat principle are you driving to?â Before you even sit down and start writing your voir dire questions, I want you to think, âWhat do I want my jurors to give me? What am I sourcing from them?â Have an endpoint. Itâs kind of like going, âWhere should I go? Should I turn right or should I turn left on a road trip?ââ
â Sari de la Motte
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THREE POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO HELP READ A JURORâS MIND
Understand what the jury is thinking, so you can gain the confidence to trust them - and yourself - in the courtroom.
Get the training here:
sariswears.com/jury
Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here:
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Duration:00:15:50