Pink Kink

Inspired by the chaos at Sinners & Stardust, this episode takes a hard look at what happens when fantasy goes too far. From groping and flashing to tracking and harassment, we’re breaking down why fictional kinks never excuse real-world violations — and why consent still matters, even at cons. Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more! Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount https://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

“Submissive training” gets tossed around a lot in kink—but when Dominants use it as a control tactic or sales pitch, it stops being education and starts being manipulation. In this episode, Rara and Dara break down why Dominant-led training can be harmful, how predators exploit new subs who just want to “get it right,” and why coaching is teaching—so those offering it need to own that role responsibly. They also share healthier, collaborative ways to learn and grow in your dynamic. Because real training should build confidence, not dependence. Big shout out to our newest affiliate Love Blanket. Check them out at https://love-blanket.com/?ref=PINKKINKPODCAST and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off your purchase. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Not all kink happens in public spaces—and that’s perfectly valid. While dungeons, play parties, and community events are one way to experience BDSM, many kinksters explore power exchange, sensation play, and ritual entirely in private. In this episode, we unpack the stigma that sometimes surrounds at-home kink and explore why public visibility isn’t the only way to be “real” in this lifestyle. Whether you're private by choice, circumstance, or necessity, we’re here to remind you: your kink counts too.

Romance novels make kink look so easy—instant trust, flawless scenes, and zero talk about limits or lube. But real life doesn’t come with an editor. In this episode, we break down what’s fantasy versus reality and explain how to take what you read and bring it to life safely. We’ll talk about scene negotiation, bratty play, punishments, aftercare, and all the practical things your favorite books tend to skip. Learn how to turn those spicy pages into real-world experiences built on consent, communication, and trust. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Our birthday bash was one for the books! In this episode, we’re spilling all the details from our birthday scenes—what we set out to do, how we challenged ourselves, and the goals we crushed along the way. Expect plenty of laughter, some surprising moments, and maybe a few outrageous confessions. Because nothing says “happy birthday” like celebrating with a little (okay, a lot of) kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

We’re joined by Alicia M. Walker and Arielle Kuperberg, authors of Bound by BDSM: Unexpected Lessons for Building a Happier Life. Their groundbreaking book dives into the ways BDSM can teach us about trust, communication, vulnerability, and joy — lessons that extend far beyond the dungeon. We talk with Alicia and Arielle about what inspired their research, the surprising truths they uncovered, and why mainstream conversations about kink so often miss the bigger picture. You’ll hear how BDSM practices can foster deeper intimacy, improve relationships, and even reshape how we approach everyday life. If you’ve ever wondered what kink can teach us about being human, this is an episode you won’t want to miss. Get the book on Amazon at https://a.co/d/fUktGBG Connect with Alicia at https://www.alicia-walker.com/ Connect with Arielle at https://sites.google.com/site/arielletk/home Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

This episode is a deep dive into our personal journeys through the lifestyle. We’re answering 20 journaling prompts that explore how kink has shaped us, challenged us, and helped us grow. From scenes that changed the way we play to beliefs we had to unlearn, we’re reflecting on what it really means to become yourself through kink. Some lessons came through trial and error. Others through joy, community, and pushing our edges. If you're curious about what experience actually looks like over time, this one is honest, raw, and full of insight. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Kink isn’t just about play — it’s stress relief, identity, and connection. But what happens when life throws up walls and you can’t engage the way you want? In this episode, we talk about the realities of dry spells, why they happen, and the emotional toll they can take. We’ll bust the myths that make people feel “less kinky” when they can’t play, and share creative coping strategies to keep your dynamic alive during times of stress, illness, family obligations, money struggles, or burnout. Because kink isn’t a tally of scenes — it’s who you are. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

From tickling in Florida to vore in California and cuckolding in Texas, this episode takes you on a kinky road trip through the most-searched fetishes in every U.S. state. Based on recent studies by FetishFinder and Clips4Sale, we break down what each fetish is, where it’s most popular, and what regional patterns might reveal about our private desires. Some results are expected, some are hilarious, and a few are just… huh. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Are you just going through the motions in your kink life? Feeling disconnected, uninspired, or like you've hit a plateau? This episode is your wake-up call. From navigating intense scenes to watching others step into their fears for the first time, this episode explores why self-challenge is essential in kink and how it can reignite your passion, deepen your dynamic, and reconnect you to the parts of yourself that crave more. We’re not talking about going to extremes or proving anything to anyone else. This is about choosing brave, intentional growth—and what happens when you do. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Have you ever felt like someone only wanted you for your kink? Like you didn’t matter—just what you could do for them? In this episode, we’re talking about what it means to be treated like a kink dispenser. We’ll look at how it happens, what it feels like, and what to do if you’re on either side of the issue. You’ll get tips, scripting, and real talk on how to set better boundaries and build stronger, more connected kink relationships. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Poly Littles can mean twice the fun, twice the Caregivers, and sometimes twice the crayons on the floor. In this episode, we explore the unique joys and challenges of polyamorous dynamics that include Littles—whether that means multiple Caregivers, multiple Littles, or both. We’ll talk about balancing different caregiving styles, keeping rules and routines clear, and making sure every relationship feels valued. Expect stories about shared playdates, overlapping snack times, and the occasional tug-of-war over stuffies. We’ll also share strategies for communication, avoiding favoritism, and creating a safe, happy space for everyone involved. This is poly life with a side of coloring books and cuddles. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Can a submissive say no to their Dominant and still be in service? Absolutely. In this episode, we’re challenging the outdated idea that submission means saying yes to everything. Instead, we explore how setting boundaries, speaking up, and honoring your own needs are essential parts of a healthy D/s dynamic. Saying no isn’t disobedience—it’s a powerful act of self-awareness that builds trust, reinforces consent, and protects both partners from burnout and resentment. You’ll learn why submission isn’t about automatic obedience, but about making intentional, informed choices in service of the relationship. We’ll also share examples and phrases you can use to say no with respect and clarity, along with reminders that you’re allowed to take care of yourself and be a devoted submissive. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Consent is the foundation of kink—but it’s not the finish line. In this episode, we dig into why “they said yes” shouldn’t shut down deeper conversations about safety, risk, and responsibility. What happens when a scene is so dangerous it could affect more than just the people involved? And who, if anyone, gets to decide what’s too much? Let’s talk about consent, community standards, and the cost of turning recklessness into a punchline. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Being a Top isn’t just about giving orders or holding the crop—it’s about holding responsibility. In this episode, we’re digging into what it really means to lead with care in kink. From medical safety and emotional well-being to ethical decision-making and community accountability, we’re calling in all Dominants, Tops, and handlers to step up and do better. We’ll break down why “they consented” isn’t always enough, why jokes about dangerous play can harm more than reputations, and how to actually earn the trust your role demands. This one’s packed with reflection questions, real talk, and actionable tips for showing up as the kind of Top your bottom deserves. Because power isn’t the reward. Responsibility is the requirement. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Feeling drained by your kink life? In this episode, we talk about what burnout looks like in the BDSM lifestyle, how to spot the signs, ways to prevent it, and how to come back from it. If kink is starting to feel like a chore, this one’s for you. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

What happens when abuse is disguised as kink? In this episode, we unpack the disturbing trend of powerful people—like Diddy and Marilyn Manson—using BDSM as a cover for coercion and control. We break down why that’s not kink, how it harms the community, and what ethical BDSM actually looks like. Spoiler: consent isn’t optional. National Sexual Assault Hotline - 800-656-HOPE Kink Aware Professionals - https://www.kapprofessionals.org/ Red Flag Radar Workbook at PinkKinkBoutique on Etsy https://fetlife.com/groups/149395/posts/11127573

When do you tell someone you’re kinky? On the first date? After sex? Six months in? In this episode, we break down the pros and cons of revealing your kink at different stages of dating, how to know when you’re ready, and tips for having that conversation with confidence. There’s no one right answer—but we’ll help you find yours. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

Who says you need a Caregiver to enjoy Littlespace? In this episode, we’re busting the myth that Littles need a Daddy, Mommy, or CG to feel valid. We explore the beauty of peer-based Littlespaces—where Littles support each other through creativity, connection, and care, without formal power exchange. From craft nights and snack rotations to setting healthy boundaries and avoiding burnout, this episode is packed with ideas, emotional insights, and real talk for Littles looking to build their own village. Because Littlespace isn’t about who’s in charge. It’s about who makes you feel safe, seen, and silly. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!

What makes a kink “extreme”? And why does that word cause so much harm? In this episode, we’re breaking down the myth that certain kinks are more real, more intense, or more valid than others. Whether your play leaves bruises or just leaves you breathless, your kink counts. We’ll explore the hidden hierarchies in the kink world, why emotional intensity matters just as much as physical, and how to stop comparing your edge to someone else’s. Because in kink, there’s no ladder to climb. You’re valid—at every level. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!