A Jem of a Secret Podcast

This episode provides an exciting dive into the personal and professional life of Rob D. Bilder as they transition into a new phase - turning 39. We embark on a unique journey with Coco Jem Holiday as she celebrates her upcoming birthday and reflects on the many changes that have taken place since the last episode. Listeners are taken on a heartfelt exploration of community events, including a public birthday party and exciting plans to visit the iconic Xanadu in Astoria. The discussion moves into the realm of drag performance with a compelling interview about gender diversity, community, and the essence of drag art in today's vibrant queer culture. Explore the powerful intersection of personal growth, the dynamics of producing engaging drag events, and fostering an atmosphere of acceptance and creativity. The episode brims with excitement, laughs, and a profound connection to the thriving drag scene, making it a must-listen for long-time fans and newcomers alike.

Hop in and buckle up for The Drive Home, where drag meets drive! In this episode, we ride shotgun with a fierce and fabulous queen as she spills the tea on life behind the scenes, the magic of drag, and the wild adventures that come with the gig. From makeup mishaps to unforgettable performances, this is the ultimate ride-along for anyone who loves a little drama with their drive. Grab your wig and let’s hit the road!

Join us in this captivating episode as we dive into the transformative power of drag and the vibrant experiences at Misfits Bar & Lounge. Host Coco Jem Holiday shares touching stories, including a heartfelt moment at a queer-affirming event and a powerful message of inclusion and safety for the Black LGBTQ+ community. Explore the intersection of politics and identity as Coco discusses the current political climate, data leaks, and the impact on marginalized communities. With humor and candor, Coco reflects on the challenges of maintaining safe spaces and the importance of community resilience amidst adversity. From thrilling dance floors to intimate storytelling, this episode offers a unique perspective on empowerment, activism, and the complexity of human connections. Tune in for an engaging journey through the world of drag, personal growth, and societal change.

The conversation covers a range of topics, including branding, drag names, identity, mental health, and the complexities of social and political issues. It delves into the nuances of personal experiences, societal expectations, and the challenges of navigating various aspects of life. The discussion also touches on the impact of mental health on relationships and the importance of holding individuals accountable while recognizing the complexity of human experiences. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including activism, social media, cancel culture, and the long-term impact of advocacy work. It delves into the complexities of activism, the challenges of sustaining long-term engagement, and the different ways individuals can contribute to social change. The hosts, Coco Jem Holiday and Carlee J. Phoenix share personal experiences and insights, highlighting the importance of diverse approaches to activism and the need for understanding and support within the activist community.

Coco Jem Holiday relives a moment that happened with her at her day job as well as talking about small businesses with her aunty.

Coco Jem Holiday speaks about the recent Portland scandal around the HIV Awareness competition.

Coco Jem Holiday takes a deep dive into Cowboy Carter. NOTE: There were microphone troubles for the second part of the episode. Apologies.

Coco Jem Holiday sits down with Kourtni Capree Lady D.U.V. The Baddest ButchQUEENnDrag MC to talk about their Portland drag herstory as well as some of their upcoming projects. This episode touches on topics of sobriety and community advancement for da black kids, HENNY!

Coco Jem Holiday talks about the two year anniversary party at Triple Nickel Pub as well as her recent depression spiral over some events that happened in the Portland drag scene.

Coco Jem Holiday recaps some of the Portland drag drama and provides advice that no one really asked for. haha.

Coco Jem Holiday add her two cents to the conversation about Nicki and Megan. She also welcomes you into black history month

This episode is dedicated to Addam's birthday next week. It's a bit of a mushy episode so if you're not down, we'll see ya next week.

Coco Jem Holiday talks about physical health and detaching yourself from abuse.

Coco Jem Holiday interviews Poly Poptart about several subjects including her thoughts and opinions about what's happening in the Middle East.

We are skipping a week of the podcast as Coco is getting ready for the holidays.

Coco Jem Holiday recounts her response to Poison Waters as well as communicates about the recent incident at her home where someone tried to create havoc at her house.

Coco Jem Holiday and Carlee J. Phoenix bounce into the deep conversations about polyamory. You will hear some positives and negatives.

Coco Jem Holiday went home for the holidays and interviewed her mama

Coco talks about some of her family moments and then runs off on a tangent about Matt Rife

Coco Jem Holiday talks about queer bars and collaboration within the Portland queer community