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Chatting With The Lightkeeper

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Welcome to "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," hosted by Edward Volkl. Explore the fascinating dynamics of BDSM, D/S, and kink through engaging discussions and thought-provoking insights. This podcast creates a supportive and educational space, encouraging discovery, understanding, and personal growth. Whether you are experienced or curious, each episode offers fresh perspectives and meaningful conversations. New episodes every other week. Connect, learn, and explore more at ChattingWithTheLightkeeper.com and on social media.

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Welcome to "Chatting With The Lightkeeper," hosted by Edward Volkl. Explore the fascinating dynamics of BDSM, D/S, and kink through engaging discussions and thought-provoking insights. This podcast creates a supportive and educational space, encouraging discovery, understanding, and personal growth. Whether you are experienced or curious, each episode offers fresh perspectives and meaningful conversations. New episodes every other week. Connect, learn, and explore more at ChattingWithTheLightkeeper.com and on social media.

Language:

English


Episodes
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S.4 Episode Five: Gettin' Wordy

3/4/2025
Words are powerful, from small words like “no” to those longwhat exactly do they mean words. When the conversation turns to BDSM, words can become the lyrics of pleasure, pleasurable pain, or just pain. Even words commonly associated with BDSM, submissive for example, can be defined differently, by different people. In this episode, join Edward as he explains why he is so “wordy” while wandering down the rabbit hole of lifestyle words that are pet peeves. So buckle up, sit back, and enjoy this audio adventure which just will make you look at some kinky words with a fresh point of view.

Duration:01:05:50

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S.4 Episode Four: The Implied Express

2/18/2025
The lifestyle is full of ideas that sound enticing on the surface, but not everything that seems romantic holds up under scrutiny. In this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, the conversation turns to consent and safewords: two concepts often discussed, yet frequently misunderstood. Is consent just a legal formality, or is theremore beneath the surface? What happens when implied consent leads to unexpected complications? And are safewords really just an emergency brake, or do theyserve a greater purpose? Some beliefs can be alluring, but reality has a way of exposing the cracks. Listen now to uncover what is often overlooked.

Duration:00:35:29

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S.4 Episode Three: BDSM Without A Script

2/4/2025
BDSM Without A Script takes a fresh look at how bringing your true self into BDSM makes it more fulfilling. From something small, like the way you write D/S, to the pet names, avatars, and usernames you choose, every detail matters. This episode explores the importance of personal expression in BDSM. Forget about following someone else’s formula, BDSM is about creating a unique journey that reflects who you truly are. Tune in for an honest conversation about how embracing your individuality is key to a meaningful, kinktastic journey.

Duration:00:25:50

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S.4 Episode Two: Behind the Pod - My Battle

1/21/2025
Imagine the feeling of being watched, constantly. What seemed like a simple part of my life soon spirals into a harrowing experience with a cyber stalker, altering everything. How does one keep going when someone is always lurking? Tune in for a personal account of the emotional toll and the lasting impact of being stalked, and how it has reshaped how I view safety and privacy.

Duration:00:26:59

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S.4 Episode One: Thirty-Two Billion

1/7/2025
What if I told you there is a multi-billion dollar industry hiding in plain sight, where pleasure meets profit, and taboos transform into thriving businesses? In my new podcast episode "Thirty-Two Billion," I am lifting the lid on the kink economy. Get ready for a wild ride that will surprise you how the intersection of sexuality and entrepreneurship create profits. This is not just another episode, it is a peak into the unseen economic side of kink that you cannot "afford" to miss. Tune in and prepare to have your mind blown!

Duration:00:42:55

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S. 3 Episode Forty-Seven: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – What a Dominant Gains

12/17/2024
What does a dominant truly gain in a D/S relationship? In this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, explore the unique rewards of leadership, trust, and emotional connection that define this dynamic. Discover how structure, mutual growth, and the fulfillment of desires create a bond that goes beyond traditional relationships. From a deep sense of purpose to the joy of watching their partner thrive, this conversation illuminates the empowering and satisfying journey of being a dominant. Tune in for an insightful look at the emotional and personal rewards that make this role so meaningful. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:28:29

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S. 3 Episode Forty-Six: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey - Click with Caution, Live with Passion

12/3/2024
Is your online safety in BDSM at risk? In this urgent episode, uncover hidden digital threats that could jeopardize your privacy, including blackmail, catfishing, cyberstalkers, and scams. Learn the necessary steps to protect your identity, secure your content, and avoid dangerous situations. This essential guide will help you maintain your online safety. Do not wait until it is too late. Listen now and take control of your security. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:59:54

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S. 3 Episode Forty-Five: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey - Yes, You Know It's Twue

11/19/2024
Think there is a single "true" way to practice BDSM? Think again. This episode crushes the myth that one path fits all and opens up a world of possibilities for your unique BDSM journey. Whether you are drawn to in-person events, online communities, or private exploration, we dive into how diverse and personal kink can be. From shattering stereotypes to reinforcing the core principles of consent and communication, you will discover why your way of practicing BDSM is just as valid as anyone else’s. Ready to explore on your terms? Tune in and find out why there is no “one true way” to live your kink! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:33:29

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S. 3 Episode Forty-Four: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Save Me/Spank Me

11/5/2024
This episode, Spank Me/Save Me, is an eye-opening podcast episode that explores the religious practice of enforced submission highlighting the stark differences between oppressive religious doctrines and the empowering world of BDSM, where consent and autonomy are fundamental. Discover how BDSM can serve as a healing journey for individuals escaping controlling environments and challenging societal misconceptions along the way. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:44:59

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S. 3 Episode Forty-Three: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – YKINMKBYKIOK

10/22/2024
Join the conversation in the episode YKINMKBYKIOK, where the principle Your Kink is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is Okay is front and center! This episode confronts the pervasive issue of kink shaming, discussing its damaging effects on individuals and the BDSM community. Learn how both heavy kinks, like consensual non-consent (CNC) and edge play, and softer kinks, such as bondage and roleplay, deserve respect and acceptance. Hear about the judgments encountered while writing Fetish Friday pieces, revealing the harsh realities of navigating differing opinions within the community. This episode dismantles the myth of a “real” dominant or submissive, emphasizing that authenticity matters above all. Tune in to embrace your desires while honoring the preferences of others in this vital discussion about acceptance and inclusivity. Listen now to transform your understanding of kink! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:33:35

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S. 3 Episode Forty-Two: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Doctor Know

10/15/2024
Oh no! Do you know about no? Saying no is a powerful act in BDSM, going beyond simply transforming a scene. In this episode, discover how no creates space for growth, deepens trust, and strengthens authentic connections. Explore how saying no gives agency to submissives, strengthens a dominant, and fosters emotional maturity. Learn why no is far more than a refusal; it is a vital tool. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:25:24

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S. 3 Episode Forty-One: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – The Confluence

10/8/2024
BDSM, swinging, and to an extent, sex itself have long been seen as separate worlds, each with its own set of rules, desires, and dynamics. But what happens when these two communities start to overlap? From the early days of BDSM’s focus on power and sensation to swinging’s rumored origins among daring post-war couples, both have evolved in unexpected ways. As the lines between sexual exploration and power exchange blur, a fascinating convergence is taking place. Curious how BDSM and swinging started influencing each other, or why some people from one lifestyle are drawn to the other? This podcast will dive deep into that intersection, unpacking the allure, the misconceptions, and the cultural shifts that have brought these communities closer together. Get ready for a thought-provoking journey into the evolving relationship between BDSM, sex, and swinging, and what it reveals about today’s sexual landscape. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:34:59

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S. 3 Episode Forty: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Life Lessons Learned

10/1/2024
This week on Chatting With The Lightkeeper, join me as I reflect on how turning another year older sparked an unexpected journey into the world of BDSM, starting with a simple trip for tacos that led to life-changing experiences. Explore how the BDSM lifestyle can promote personal growth and development, teaching essential people skills and fostering connections with others who share similar interests. Discover how embracing this lifestyle can empower self-confidence, enhance your understanding of workplace power dynamics, and create meaningful friendships that may not happen in everyday life. Tune in for insights on how exploration can transform your life and deepen your understanding of yourself and others. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:30:59

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S. 3 Episode Thirty-Nine: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – The Most Asked Question

9/24/2024
he latest episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper, titled The Most Asked Question, delves into a frequently pondered topic in the BDSM community: how to find a BDSM partner. This captivating episode emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, encouraging listeners to explore their desires, boundaries, and roles, whether dominant, submissive, or switching. Practical advice is shared on gradually immersing oneself in the BDSM scene, fostering confidence and knowledge along the way. Listeners are also introduced to the vibrant world of community engagement, highlighting opportunities to attend local BDSM events, and workshops, and connect through online platforms like Fetlife and dating apps. The episode stresses the significance of safety and authenticity in all interactions. Communication is identified as a cornerstone of successful BDSM relationships, with insights on establishing trust and rapport before entering a D/S partnership. This enlightening discussion equips listeners with essential strategies for navigating the BDSM landscape, making it a must-listen for anyone looking to enhance their journey within this dynamic community. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:35:59

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S. 3 Episode Thirty-Eight: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Return To Your Seats And Fasten Your Seatbelt

9/17/2024
In the Chatting With The Lightkeeper episode Return To Your Seats And Fasten Your Seatbelt, explore the unexpected aspects of BDSM that can surprise individuals, both positively and negatively. This episode offers a comprehensive look into the unforeseen challenges and rewarding experiences encountered in BDSM exploration. Listeners will gain valuable insights into managing these surprises and understanding their impact on relationships and personal growth. Tune in now to uncover essential strategies for navigating the complexities of BDSM and enhancing your journey. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:44:59

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S. 3 Episode Thirty-Seven: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Obedience Is Not About Blind Following

9/10/2024
In this podcast episode, uncover the key aspects of obedience in BDSM. Discover how obedience plays a pivotal role in dominant/submissive dynamics and its psychological effects, including trust and personal fulfillment. Learn practical strategies for implementing obedience, addressing common challenges, and maintaining a balanced relationship. Ideal for those seeking to enhance their understanding of BDSM practices. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:39:29

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S.3 Episode Thirty-Five: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – The Empowerment of Service

9/3/2024
In this episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper titled The Empowerment of Service, explore service submission in BDSM, exploring its historical roots and its connection to the love language of service. The episode breaks down why this dynamic appeals to many, dispels common myths about service submission and provides actionable tips for those interested in embracing this empowering aspect of BDSM relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:37:29

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2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Gor-geous

8/27/2024
Explore the captivating realm of Gorean BDSM with the episode Gor-geous. Discover the Gorean lifestyle, including the roles of kajira and Master, and how hierarchical BDSM dynamics shape the Gorean philosophy. Gain valuable insights into various Gorean practices and understand how these elements interact within the unique framework of Gorean BDSM. This episode provides an engaging overview of the Theory of Gor, offering essential information and intriguing perspectives on the distinctive and complex world of Gorean BDSM. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:39:55

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S. 3 Episode Thirty-Four: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey - Swipe Left, The Kinky Edition

8/20/2024
In this episode of Chatting With the Lightkeeper, uncover uncommon red flags in BDSM relationships that can subtly undermine trust and connection. Explore often-overlooked warning signs essential for anyone involved in BDSM, whether new to the scene or experienced. Understanding these subtle red flags is crucial for creating healthy, respectful, and fulfilling BDSM dynamics. Learn to identify these issues early to safeguard your relationships and build stronger, more authentic connections within the BDSM community. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:42:29

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S. 3 Episode Thirty-Three: 2024, A BDSM Odyssey – Riding the Edge

8/13/2024
In this episode of Riding The Edge, explore the origins of edging, tracing its roots from ancient China, India, and Japan to its integration into modern BDSM practices. Discover how edging enhances erotic play by prolonging pleasure and building intimacy between partners. Learn about the benefits of edging in BDSM, including its role as a safety tool that aids in the use of safe words and gestures to ensure consensual and secure experiences. Uncover how edging has evolved and its impact on contemporary sexual dynamics. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chattingwiththelightkeepr/support

Duration:00:38:59