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It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise. On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions. Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for! A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain. And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

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United States

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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise. On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions. Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for! A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain. And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

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English


Episodes

The World’s Biggest Single Social Experiment?

3/3/2024
Have you heard of or seen the pear ring? It's a small turquoise ring worn by single people. Designed to replace dating apps and show strangers that you're open to meeting new people IRL. The company says they're the world's biggest single social experiment and Lala is here to share her thoughts. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:17:26

Stephanie Yeboah On The Pull A Pig Scandal and Finding Love

2/29/2024
The fabulous Stephanie Yeboah opens up about her dating past and on finding love. Stephanie joins Lala to help answer your dating dilemmas and tells all about her biggest icks!\ If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:27:31

Taking Advantage, Taking Money & Taking the Piss!

2/27/2024
Does your situation-ship or Ex owe you money? Is your partner continuously letting you down? Is your child exploring their sexuality, do you know how best to support them? Lala helps to answer them all! If you are owed money from your partner or ex partner money and are struggling to get it back you can get help below: Small Claims Mediation Service scmreferrals@justice.gov.uk Telephone: 0300 123 4593 Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:20:21

Killed Women - The Inadequate Justice System and How You Can Help

2/25/2024
Why does stabbing someone on the street carry a lower minimum prison sentence than if you are stabbed in your home? Every week, 2 women are killed by their partner in the UK. In this powerful episode Lala tells the stories of women murdered by their partners and calls for action alongside the organisation Killed Women. It is a group set up by mothers of murdered daughters. They are advocating for improved sentencing and support systems. Also, we hear from Julie Devey. Her daughter, Poppy, was stabbed to death by her former partner while asleep at home. Killed Women https://www.killedwomen.org/ Audio from Murdered at Home ITV & ITVX If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:29:28

Unpicking ICKs - Snoring, Titties and Imitating Cats. MWEOH!

2/22/2024
This week you lot get icky with the names men use to refer to your breasts, imitating animals and snoring, plus discussing the value of a pinky promise. Lala also tries to get her head around the red flags that have been flying high in your lives! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:20:46

Addiction, Wastemen, Gaslighting and Clare's Law

2/20/2024
Lala has never been this angry: Are you dealing with a partner who is struggling with addiction? Do you think your much older partner is taking advantage of you? Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone you are dating? Lala shares her thoughts on wastemen as she answers three of your dating dilemmas. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:23:45

Every woman needs to Hear This

2/18/2024
Lala discusses Women’s Health. What does the Menopause really mean? What does it mean to be a middle aged women? How can women best prepare and embrace their mind and body for the Menopause. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:23:43

Love Talk with Ashley James & Lala: Navigating Your Relationship Dilemmas

2/15/2024
Ashley James joins Lala to answer your love dilemmas. They discuss cheating, being a mother of boys and answer your red flag questions. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:28:14

Humiliation Kinks, Casual Sex & Does BV Mean He Cheated?

2/13/2024
Have you had casual sex and been unable to turn off your feelings? Ever been worried that your partner has cheated and given you BV? Have you been in a situation-ship and felt like you’ve lost all confidence?Lala gives you the real, trustworthy tough love to empower you through the crazy world of relationships and love. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:22:02

Valentines... Schmalentines... What's The Big Deal?!

2/11/2024
Why does Valentines Day hit some of us so hard? Where does it come from? Why does it matter who your with, or not with, on this totally random February day?! Listen now for Lala's real talk, Val day style. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:19:53

Panties, Pyramids and TikTok live icks!

2/8/2024
Entering into the game this week are icks regarding giants building the pyramids, a 31 year-old going live on TikTok, and the pure use of the word "panties". Why are these icks SO ICKY?! Lala gets into it! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:23:30

Dumped After Two Dates, Creepy Cousins and Overprotective Parent Concerns

2/6/2024
Are you worried about your partners overprotective behaviour with your child? Does your boyfriend seem perfect but, what's with his hideous mates?! And have you been let down by someone you were really into, and you don't know what to do? Lala gets right to the route of the problem, and helps YOU navigate that wild wild world of relationships. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:21:20

Are We Dating The Same Guy?: The Facebook Group We Should Be Careful Of

2/4/2024
Ever dated someone, wondering if they're on the apps with other people, or maybe something just doesn't feel right? The Facebook group "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" is here to help, or is it? Lala discusses the pros and cons and what you should be looking out for! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:24:35

Megan Barton- Hanson Joins Lala To Answer Your Dating Dilemmas!

2/1/2024
Unapologetically true to herself, Megan Barton Hanson is well-known for her 2018 stint on Love Island. Now, as an Only Fans creator and podcast host, Megan joins Lala to help answer your dating dilemmas and tells all about her biggest icks! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:24:54

Coregasms, Getting Back On The Dating Horse, and Sex Education

1/30/2024
Are you trying to be a good role-model for a family member, but being shunned? Do you want to get back on the dating scene but don't know where to start? And the big question, have you ever had an orgasm whilst working out?! Lala is back with all the answers! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Book recommendations: Pat Craven: Living With The Dominator: A Book About The Freedom Programme Lundy Bancroft: Why Does He Do That? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:20:37

Stephen Bear - Sex Offender, Narcissist and How The Justice System Fails Victims

1/28/2024
Please note: this episode contains descriptions of sexual abuse Stephen Bear is a sex offender who has been released from prison after serving just 11 months of his 21 month sentence for image based sexual abuse, far less time than it took him to be convicted in the first place. Lala discusses whether justice has really been served, has the law done it's job and what the future is for perpetrators like him, and his victim Georgia Harrison. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Book recommendation from this episode: Helena Kennedy - 'Misjustice: How British Law Is Failing Women' Contacts from this episode: Revenge Porn Helpline - 0345 6000 459/ www.revengepornhelpine.org.uk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:23:08

Cowboy, Countdown and Cunnilingus icks!

1/25/2024
This week it's the three C's of icks. AND have you dated someone that looks like he's stepped out of a 90s boyband video?! If not, count yourself lucky...this listener was not so fortunate! Lala also checks out the red flags you're just not sure on. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:21:38

My Fiancée Is On Bumble, Feeling Worthless After Casual Sex and My Ex-Husband Is Ruining Me

1/23/2024
Are you unsure about the actions of the man you're about to marry? Is casual sex making you feel bad? Or is your ex still trying to ruin your life? Lala is all ears and ready to help! If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:21:46

Failure is not an Ick.

1/23/2024
I’m thrilled to announce that a brand-new season of the podcast How to Fail featuring the incredible Elizabeth Day is out now! The show is about celebrating resilience, growth and the wisdom that comes from our failures. Join Elizabeth as she sits down with incredible guests, each sharing three pivotal moment when life didn’t go as planned. From these stumbles, they uncover valuable lessons that propel them forward. An Elizabeth Day and Sony Music Original Production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us @sonypodcasts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:03:30

Virtual Rape: Abusing Artificial Intelligence to Abuse Women

1/21/2024
Please note: This episode contains descriptions of abuse For the first time ever, the police are investigating a case of virtual rape on a young girl which took place online in the MetaVerse AKA the FUTURE of the internet. How can this happen? Why are these people doing it? And how can we protect the next generation? Over to you, Lala. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:21:50