Asia Dating Podcast

McConnell, Kane Vast and I have been really slacking on these podcasts--the coronavirus has caused us all to make many adjustments to our lives in 2020 and those continue this year in 2021. We'll probably talk about that stuff in a future podcast episode. We've already recorded the next podcast which is an interview with Aaron Darko of HealthMastery.com who you can find on Instagram. So keep a lookout for that soon too. Kane goes pretty in depth about getting your woman onto threesomes, and we give some updates on how the dating scene has been during corona-time and more including: See the rest of the show notes at http://redpoleq.com/podcast-40

In episode 39 of the Asia Dating Podcast McConnell, Kane Vast and I sat down to discuss Rollo Tomassi's "The Red Pill Lessons of Will Smith," an episode of his podcast where he discusses the Will Smith and Jada Pinckett-Smith "cheating" scandal. And I put cheating in quotation marks because they were separated at the time, but more on that in the podcast. It was a great conversation that got pretty emotional at times and hearing McConnell get all worked up was a big part of the fun: To make sure you don't miss out on any of PickUp Asia's podcast, like and subscribe! PickUp Asia offers boot camps and seminars on dating and relationships in Japan, Korea, China and other parts of Asia.

McConnell and I sat down with a special guest, Sona, who has been living in Taiwan for 14 years, and is so plugged into the culture that he runs a Chinese YouTube channel where he talks about Chinese and American hip-hop music and culture . It's a great conversation where we cover everything from slang and language learning to parkour to the local Taiwanese dating scene:

Kane, McConnell and I sat down to discuss the book, The Truth, by Neil Strauss where he talks about how he was able to hang up his player, pickup artist shoes and choose monogamy and marriage. It's a great book, well worth reading and there is so much to unpack and learn from and plenty to think about including:

Kane, McConnell and I sat down with VONNY LANG to catch up on her new new lifestyle--monogamy and marriage! Who would have thought? The usual whackiness ensues in this podcast, including:

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to answer questions from a Japan Lair member who is just getting started with women and has a lot of fundamental misunderstandings and internal conflicts about women, dating and sex. In addition we answered some questions from other listeners as well, and talked about a WIIIIIIIIIDE variety of topics including: Get the full show notes at RedpoleQ.com

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics. We talk more about relationships, the idea of "open" relationships, how to stay young and relevant, and of course share wacky stories from our past. In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including: See the full show notes and get all the links to everything mentioned in this episode AND ask a question you want answenred on the show at http://RedpoleQ.com/podcast-34

I sat down with Kane and McConnell to talk about a wide variety of topics, especially how to manage dating multiple people. We talk about the pitfalls, what to avoid, what to do to keep things from getting too messy and OF COURSE share some stories. In addition to that, we talked about some of our sexual preferences, some relevant personal development concepts, and of course we talked about, "game" including: To get links to all of the books, videos, concepts etc that we mention in the podcast, go to the episode page at RedpoleQ.com

In the last podcast we discussed how marriage affects pickup and this time when I sat down with McConnell and Kane we discuss the role of "side-pieces" in marriage and relationships and what the pros and cons are. As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre, educational and hilarious tangents and you'll learn why we think that having a side-piece is so advantageous in many relationships, including: Mentioned in this session: Our Interview with Ellie: http://redpoleq.com/podcast-21/ The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem https://www.pickupasia.com/the-shadow-knows-part-i/ What McConnell Is Packing: More Than You Ever Wanted to Know about Pegging https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfPegging/ Listen and Subscribe to Us on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/pickupasia SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you'll always be up to date on the latest!

I sat down with McConnell and Kane to discuss how marriage impacts dating and relationships and all the various setups possible and then we dive into a discussion of Tinder that was sparked by an interview with Jordan Peterson on Femsplainers (linked below). We also spent some time talking about the book, Selfie, which was a book club book for our Approach Mastery boot camp alumni that charts the evolution of the ideal self from the Greeks until the present moment of personal development, and even throws in some comparisons with Asia for good measure! As usual the conversation went on a lot of different bizarre educational and hilarious talents and you'll learn why we think Online game is bad for men, including: Mentioned in this session: The Young Cub Gets Topped http://redpoleq.com/podcast-27/ Our Interview with Ellie: http://redpoleq.com/podcast-21/ Yumi From MySiliconeLoveDoll.com Call Her Daddy https://www.barstoolsports.com/shows/call-her-daddy The Problems with Tinder - Jordan Peterson https://youtu.be/hKUffHXOb8U?t=3885 Hannibal - Silence of the Lambs https://youtu.be/WCSZfmbFJyQ https://youtu.be/vNcoHQrveEQ Hannibal: the Original OG and Scourge of Rome https://youtu.be/T3jmhzO8YZE https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hannibal Selfie by Will Storr Interviewed on the You Are Not So Smart Podcast Get the Book! The Big 5 Personality Traits https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits Take the Test! http://understandmyself.com Myers-Briggs https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers%E2%80%93Briggs_Type_Indicator Enneagrams https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enneagram_of_Personality Listen and Subscribe to Us on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/pickupasia Got a question you want us to answer on the Asia Dating Podcast? Ask it here and we'll get to it in a future episode! SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you'll always be up to date on the latest!

This podcast was actually recorded quite a while ago but we made a shift to a new podcasting service so it's taken a long while to get out. This one was recorded with Kane while I was in Shanghai so the audio quality isn't quite as good as usual so please bear with us. It was a top notch discussion and in it you'll learn: Mentioned in this session: The Relationship Mastery Seminar This 2-day 16+ hour seminar will make sure that you are in control of your relationships so that you get more of what you want from the women in your life with minimum hassle and drama. Get MORE INFORMATION or SIGNUP Jordan Peterson on Hierarchies and Games https://youtu.be/EN2lyN7rM4E?t=46m38s (Watch until 58min 30sec) The Game by Neill Strauss Sunrise Over Angkor Wat Vonny Lang's Swinging Lifestyle http://redpoleq.com/podcast-24 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_behavioral_therapy In-Field Video Approach Review w/ Kane Vast https://youtu.be/-3wX8pYO2As Got a question you want us to answer on the Asia Dating Podcast? Ask it here and we'll get to it in a future episode!

This time we have a format that we haven’t used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world. We’ll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often. If you like it and want to see more of these, let us know in the form below! In this session you’ll learn:

This time we have a format that we haven’t used in a long time–in this session, Kane Vast and I will discuss the book, Our Inner Ape, by Frans de Waal, one of the top researchers on primate behavior and evolutionary psychology in the world. We’ll be slowing it down from the last episode which was EXTRA wild and bring up the intellectual level of this podcast a few notches, lols. If you like these kind of episodes, we can definitely do them more often. If you like it and want to see more of these, let us know in the form below! In this session you’ll learn: http://adm-free.s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/Podcast28_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida DCBKK Our Annual Event, DCBKK, in 25 Photos Frans de Waal TED Talk on Alpha Males Phallic Sheath – Koteka *as it turns out, the size/length of the sheath has nothing to do with status, oops! The Myth of the Middle Class Alpha Male PDF Download Sperm Wars by Robin Baker The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins The Red Queen by Matt Ridley Global Problems of Population Growth with Robert Wyman SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post We Discuss “Our Inner Ape” appeared first on RedpoleQ.

This time we have a two part episode. The first part was recorded with Kane Vast while I was still in Shanghai, and the second part is with McConnell back in Taipei. This is definitely one of the more exciting Asia Hang Suite Sessions where we’ll hear all about covert cat wars (ie girls vs girl action) and McConnell’s very cougar introduction to the world of S&M as a sub PLUS we answer YOUR questions! In this session you’ll learn: The best spots for gaming girls in Asia That girls are going to be disappointed, so you might as well decide how to disappoint them for your own benefit The dangers of honesty as the best policy Cat Wars!: When women go head to head How to control your nest so you don’t get busted Asian Anal Adventures Frame games That sex is a dirty business so let’s party! McConnell’s young cub S&M adventures: origins https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/Podcast27_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: Weekly Q&A Signup with Kane Vast http://www.pickupasia.com/weekly-qa/ Approach Mastery Boot Camp This 3-day long intensive course teaches you the important steps from meeting girls to getting dates while giving you the foundation for running first dates that lead to sex. Ready to kickstart your dating life NOW? Get More Information Tokyo Pub Crawl http://tokyopubcrawl.com/ Sex Is Dirty, Dirty! “Let’s Party” May – September Magic https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/May-September_romance “She said she did all the work!” – Clerks Slightly Numb GIrls Shibari Department H Tokyo Fetish Party Steve Osada – Teaches in English Hajime Kinoko – McConnell’s teacher Spy the Lie Singapore Chicken Rice SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post When Girls Go Head to Head and Adventures in S&M appeared first on RedpoleQ.

I was in Shanghai for a boot camp alumni’s wedding, and then I had the Art and Science of Sex Seminar and lucky for me that means I got a lot of time with our man in China, Kane Vast! And even better, that means that YOU get to hear straight from the man as we answer your questions. In this one, we talk about why you don’t want the girls that come to you, and give you a few things you can do to get your ready to approach women, PLUS: https://s3-ap-northeast-1.amazonaws.com/adm-free/Podcast26_mixdown.mp3 Mentioned in this session: PickUp Asia In-Field Video Charisma on Command Approach Mastery Boot Camp This 3-day long intensive course teaches you the important steps from meeting girls to getting dates while giving you the foundation for running first dates that lead to sex. Ready to kickstart your dating life NOW? Get More Information SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post YOUR Questions Answered #6 appeared first on RedpoleQ.

Recently, I attended a conference for location independent entrepreneurs in the hopes of meeting some cool people and getting some knowledge to help me improve PickUp Asia. And lucky for YOU (and me) a guy named Daniel Peleg gave an amazing talk about how to manage your psychology and emotions for success in business. Listening to the talk, I thought that you guys could definitely use these tools! Dating is tough and women know exactly how to destroy your mind. In this session, you’ll learn how to build the mental armor you need to protect youself against the slings, arrows and heavy artillery that will come your way when you try to do better with women. In this one, we talk about tools you can use to control your thoughts and emotions including: http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast25.mp3 Mentioned in this session: Power Poses https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2016/03/30/472250698/to-catch-someone-on-tinder-stretch-your-arms-wide Emotional Awareness Apps Android: Blip, blip IPhone SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post Control Your Thoughts, Control Your Emotions appeared first on RedpoleQ.

Recently, McConnell has gotten into photography and found a Taiwanese-American model living in Singapore who flew to Taipei to do a shoot with him. The shoot turned into a lot more than a few pictures after she revealed that she’s a swinger and organizes swinger’s parties. This interview is the result. So dig in, and let us know what you think and if you have any questions for her, we’d be glad to have her on again to answer them for you. In this one, we talk about what swinging is, how she got into it, how you can get into it and more including: http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast24.mp3 Mentioned in this session: All Asia Summit May 4th-6th, 2018 – SEOUL Feeld https://www.feeld.co/ Swinger’s Date Club http://www.sdc.com Adult Friend Finder Craigslist Vonny Lang on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/vonnylang/ Japan Lair Korea Lair China Lair SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post Vonny Lang’s Swinging Lifestyle appeared first on RedpoleQ.

I was in Tokyo with McConnell for the first meetup of the NEW Japan Lair, which he is leading and Kane Vast, our main man in China, who came to join us for the Tokyo Approach Mastery boot camp (Congrats to the new guys!) Despite our busy schedule and a late night emergency room visit, we found time to sit down together to record a session. In this one, we talk about how important it is to find the right people to support and help you make the changes in your life to reach your goals, including: http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast23.mp3 Mentioned in this session: All Asia Summit May 4th-6th, 2018 – SEOUL Jim Rohn Tony Robbins – Unlimited Power Japan Lair Korea Lair China Lair SignUp for 10 Simple Steps to Get More and Better Asian Girls and also get the Asian Dating Playbook so you’ll always be up to date on the latest! What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post Succeed by Finding the Right People appeared first on RedpoleQ.

I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and we ANSWERED YOUR QUESTIONS! Including: anal-ize http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast22.mp3 For Reference: For the latest info from us, join our newsletter at: PickUpAsia.com Pimp Bradlee – “C’mon and fuck with me!” What Kind of Girls Do Japanese Guys Like? Read All About our Approach Mastery Boot Camps Read Boot Camp Reviews Join the Korea Lair The Art and Science of Sex Seminar Or get The Ultimate Sex Guide Basics of PickUp Basics McConnell’s Male Fashion Guide Get the latest info on the upcoming All Asia Summit What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post YOUR Questions Answered #5 appeared first on RedpoleQ.

I sat down with McConnell, our resident fashion consultant and web maestro and a very, VERY special guest! I originally met her when McConnell went for a drink with a skinny flat chested Brazilian girl (exactly what he likes!) and she brought along her friend, Elli. While at the bar, she told me that she had been dating “her guy” for 12 years and she was hoping he would find another girl so they could have a 3-way relationship! My interest was piqued so I asked her more and ultimately invited her on the podcast so I could share all the details with YOU! In this rather longer discussion than usual we’ll discuss: http://adm-free.s3.amazonaws.com/podcast21.mp3 For Reference: Sex at Dawn Aubrey Marcus gets real about his open relationship What's YOUR Question? * Enter your question(s) here and we'll answer them in an upcoming recording. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. The post Elli on Her Open Marriage appeared first on RedpoleQ.