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An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week Two: Following the Voice of Christ DAY 9 – Courage “Wait for the Lord. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord.” Psalm 27.14 RSV Courage is the grace that strengthens the heart to follow Christ even when the path feels uncertain or overwhelming. Advent forms this courage by teaching the soul to trust God’s presence more than its own fear. Courage is not boldness. It is not confidence in ourselves. It is confidence in God. True courage does not mean the absence of fear. It means the heart chooses faith in the midst of fear. It is the inner movement that says, “I do not see the whole way, but I will take the next step because God is with me.” Courage rises when the soul remembers that Christ has already gone ahead. Courage is also a virtue. It is fed by grace. It grows when the heart draws strength from God rather than from its own resources. The discerning heart learns that courage is not something we manufacture. It is something we receive when we lean on the One who steadies us. Advent reveals that Christ comes into our fear, not after it disappears. He gives courage by His nearness. Journey with the Saints – Pope St. John Paul II “Do not be afraid. Open wide the doors to Christ.” St. John Paul II, Homily at the Mass for the Inauguration of His Pontificate, 22 October 1978 St. John Paul II understood that courage is born from trust in Christ. His life bore the marks of suffering, loss, and oppression, yet his heart remained steady because it was anchored in the presence of God. His courage was not human strength. It was divine confidence. For St. John Paul, courage begins with opening the heart to Christ. Fear narrows the heart. Courage expands it. Fear closes the doors. Courage opens them. He believed that when Christ enters the heart, grace strengthens it to face any darkness, not by removing the struggle, but by filling it with light. He knew that the heart grows courageous when it accepts God’s love and surrenders any attempt to control outcomes. He teaches us that courage is the fruit of letting Christ stand within us. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to notice places of hesitation within your soul. What feels uncertain. Where do you sense resistance. Courage does not demand that you overcome fear before you move. It asks you to take one small step with Christ, trusting that He steps with you. Courage grows when the heart remembers past moments of grace. Think of times God has been faithful to you. Think of times when you feared the path ahead but discovered His presence waiting for you. That memory strengthens courage now. Ask yourself: Where is God asking me to take a small courageous step. How can I rely on His strength rather than my own. A Simple Practice for Today Take one moment today to pray slowly, “Lord, strengthen my heart.” Identify one small step of trust and take it with intention. Later in the day, repeat the prayer as a reminder that courage is a grace you receive, not a task you achieve. Prayer Lord Jesus, give courage to my heart. Help me trust that You are with me in every uncertainty. Strengthen me with Your grace so I may follow where You lead. Steady my fears and fill me with the confidence that comes from Your presence. Teach me to take each step with You. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 9 Psalm 27.14 RSV St. John Paul II, Homily for the Inauguration of His Pontificate, 22 October 1978 © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 9 – Courage – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning Hearts Podcasts appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

The 2nd Sunday of Advent – A Call to Wake Up, Repent, and Enter the Light of JesusBuilding a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff In this Advent reflection, Msgr. John Esseff turns to the figure of John the Baptist and the call to repentance that prepares the way for the Lord. He explains that John stands at the culmination of Old Testament prophecy, announcing the arrival of the Messiah and calling all people to conversion. Yet Jesus teaches that the least in the kingdom is greater than John, because Christians carry Christ within them. This means the true tragedy is not simply breaking commandments but failing to live as Christ in the world. Msgr. Esseff then guides listeners through examples of interior patterns that separate the soul from union with Jesus. He speaks about judgmental attitudes, envy, lust, unforgiveness, gluttony, and other deep tendencies that distort the heart. Each one acts like a hidden disease that wounds the life of Christ within the person. Advent becomes a time to uncover these wounds through honest examination and to bring them to the Lord for healing. He urges listeners to call upon the Holy Spirit, who reveals the core wound with gentleness, not accusation. The Spirit convicts with light and love, while the enemy accuses and discourages. Confession is offered as a powerful path to healing, where the cross penetrates the soul and restores union with Christ. Msgr. Esseff encourages priests to open the confessional during Advent and calls all Christians to stop judging one another and instead direct loved ones to the Holy Spirit, who alone can reveal the truth of the heart. Advent is presented as a privileged time to awaken, repent, and prepare for the coming of the Lord, who desires to bring healing, renewal, and unity to every soul. Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions Msgr. John A. Esseff is a Roman Catholic priest in the Diocese of Scranton. Msgr. Esseff served as a retreat director and confessor to St. Teresa of Calcutta. He continues to offer direction and retreats for the sisters of the Missionaries of Charity around the world. Msgr. Esseff encountered St. Padre Pio, who would become a spiritual father to him. He has lived in areas around the world, serving in the Pontifical missions, a Catholic organization established by Pope St. John Paul II to bring the Good News to the world, especially to the poor. Msgr. Esseff assisted the founders of the Institute for Priestly Formation and continues to serve as a spiritual director for the Institute. He continues to serve as a retreat leader and director to bishops, priests and sisters and seminarians, and other religious leaders around the world. The post The 2nd Sunday of Advent – Building a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week Two: Following the Voice of Christ DAY 8 – Hope “Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful.” Hebrews 10.23 Hope is the quiet strength that anchors the heart in God’s promises. It is a theological virtue, not a feeling we generate. God Himself pours it into the soul through grace. Because of this, hope is steady even when circumstances shift, even when emotions rise and fall, even when darkness feels close. Hope looks at God before it looks at the problem. Hope remembers that God keeps His promises. The greatest fulfillment of those promises is the gift of Christ, given at a moment in history when all seemed lost. Advent teaches us to return to this truth every day. Christ is the proof that God keeps His word. Yet hope is not only about the great moments of salvation history. It is also about the personal ways God has been faithful in your life. Each moment He sustained you, guided you, protected you, forgave you, or brought you through something difficult becomes a touchstone of hope. Hope grows when the heart remembers. Hope does not deny suffering. It meets suffering with trust in a God who is larger than every fear and stronger than every obstacle. Hope believes that God is already present and already at work. Journey with the Saints – Ven Bruno Lanteri “Do not lose heart. Be confident. God is love.” Venerable Bruno Lanteri Venerable Bruno taught that Christian hope rests entirely on the mercy and fidelity of God. He understood hope as a grace that lifts the soul when it feels weak or discouraged. His famous spiritual counsel, “Begin again,” expresses this beautifully. Hope always makes it possible to take the next step toward God. For Ven. Bruno, hope was not optimism. It was confidence in God’s character. He believed that no failure, no weakness, and no discouragement could block the action of grace if a soul continued to turn toward God with trust. Hope leans on God, not on self. Ven. Bruno also insisted that hope grows when a person remembers God’s past faithfulness. Every grace God has already given becomes a promise of what He will continue to do. Hope expands the heart to expect God’s goodness again. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to let your heart rest in God’s fidelity. Hope grows when you stop trying to hold everything together and allow God to carry what you cannot. Hope remembers that God has led you before and He will lead you again. Look back over your life. Where has God kept His promises to you. Where has He shown you love, direction, or protection. These memories are seeds of hope. They strengthen your trust in the God who remains faithful. Ask yourself: Where do I need hope today. How is God inviting me to remember His faithfulness? A Simple Practice for Today Recall one moment in your life when God was clearly present. Thank Him for it. Later in the day, pray quietly, “Lord, You have been faithful. Strengthen my hope.” Let this remembrance become a place of trust. Prayer Lord Jesus, strengthen within me the virtue of hope. Help me to trust in Your promises and to remember the many ways You have been faithful. Pour Your grace into my heart so I may rest in Your love and look to You with confidence. Teach me to hope in You always. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 8 Hebrews 10.23 RSV Venerable Bruno Lanteri, spiritual writings © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 8 – Hope – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning Hearts Podcasts appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week Two: Following the Voice of Christ DAY 7 – Trust “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own insight. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3.5 to 6 Trust is the foundation of recognizing the voice of Christ. Before the heart can follow the Shepherd, it must believe that His voice is steady, loving, and faithful. Trust allows the soul to rest in God even when clarity has not yet come. Trust strengthens the listening heart, because it teaches us to lean on God rather than on our own interpretations. Trust does not remove uncertainty. It transforms it. When the heart lives in trust, uncertainty no longer becomes a barrier. It becomes a space where God reveals Himself. Trust says, “Lord, even when I do not see, I know You are guiding me.” In the spiritual life, trust matures when we stop grasping for control. We often long for explanations. We want to know how God will act or what will come next. But Advent prepares us for a God who arrives in ways we do not expect. Trust keeps the heart open to receive Him. Trust is a daily choice. It is the movement of the heart that leans toward God, especially when the way forward is dim or unclear. Christ guides those who trust Him, and trust teaches the heart to recognize His whispers. Journey with the Saints – St. Joseph “When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him.” Matthew 1.24 St. Joseph is the quiet master of trust. Scripture gives us no recorded words from him. His entire relationship with God unfolds in listening, obedience, and surrender. Joseph trusts God without demanding full understanding. He accepts God’s direction even when it disrupts his plans and overturns what he thought his life would be. Joseph responds to God with a heart that moves quickly toward obedience. He listens not only with his ears, but with his whole life. He surrenders his expectations, his anxieties, his own judgments, and even his need to understand. Joseph shows that trust is not passive. It is an active openness to God’s will, even when the path is hidden. His quiet example teaches us to let God lead. In Joseph, we see trust that yields, trust that listens, and trust that acts. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to notice where you struggle to trust. Trust often becomes difficult when life feels uncertain or when prayer seems unanswered. Yet trust grows not by having more control, but by releasing the desire to control everything. Trust is a gentle turning toward the One who loves you. Ask the Lord to show you the places where your heart holds back. These are often the places where He desires to draw near. Trust begins when we allow God to enter those guarded areas and guide us forward step by step. Ask yourself: Where is Christ asking me to trust Him today. What part of my heart needs to lean more fully into His care. A Simple Practice for Today Lord Jesus, teach my heart to trust You. Help me release my need to understand everything and rest in Your faithful love. Give me the grace to follow Your voice even when the way is unclear. Make my trust steady and simple, like St. Joseph’s, and guide my heart into Your peace. Amen. Prayer Lord Jesus, teach my heart to trust You. Help me release my need to understand everything and rest in Your faithful love. Give me the grace to follow Your voice even when the way is unclear. Make my trust steady and simple, like St. Joseph’s, and guide my heart into Your peace. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 7 Proverbs 3.5 to 6 RSV Matthew 1.24 RSV © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 7 – Trust – An Advent Journey for the...

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week One: Awakening the Listening Heart DAY 6 – Conversion “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” Matthew 4.17 Conversion is not a single moment. It is a continual turning toward God. Advent teaches this ongoing movement of the heart. Conversion is the steady, daily action of choosing God again and again. It is the refusal to remain still in spiritual life. It is the willingness to move toward the One who is constantly drawing near. Conversion is not dramatic for most people. It is usually quiet. It is the moment when you realign your heart after noticing you have drifted. It is the instant you choose truth over distraction, love over indifference, prayer over noise. Every turn toward God, no matter how small, becomes a doorway for grace to enter. True conversion is active. It responds to God’s initiative. God always makes the first movement. Conversion is our movement back. The discerning heart knows this is a lifelong rhythm. We turn toward Him again in moments of light, in times of weakness, in days of clarity, and in seasons of confusion. Conversion prepares the heart for deeper listening. It keeps the soul awake, open, and progressing toward Christ. Journey with the Saints – St. Catherine of Siena “Be who God meant you to be, and you will set the world on fire.” Attributed to St. Catherine of Siena St. Catherine understood conversion as a continual rising into the fullness of who God created you to be. She teaches that conversion is not a narrowing of the spiritual life. It is the steady work of grace that expands the heart. As the heart expands, it becomes more capable of receiving God’s love and more available to give that love to others. For St. Catherine, this expansion happens through humility and surrender. When the soul releases fear, pride, or self-reliance, the heart opens wider to God’s action. Every movement toward Him increases the heart’s capacity for charity, courage, and truth. Conversion stretches the heart so it can hold more of God and give more of God. St. Catherine reminds us that conversion unfolds gradually. It is a lifelong process of allowing God to shape, widen, and mature the heart until Christ’s life becomes the center of everything. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to reflect on where your heart is turned. Conversion is not about perfection. It is about direction. You may drift at times. You may feel distracted. You may recognize places where you have resisted God. Conversion turns you back, even gently, even quietly. Ask God to show you where He is inviting you to turn toward Him again. Perhaps in a relationship. Perhaps in prayer. Perhaps in a place where fear holds you back. Every turn toward God strengthens the listening heart. Ask yourself: Where is Christ calling me to turn toward Him today. What step of conversion is He inviting me to take. A Simple Practice for Today Take one moment today and say, “Lord, turn my heart toward You.” Then choose one concrete act of love, forgiveness, or faith that reflects that turning. Later in the day, repeat the simple prayer as a way of renewing your direction. Prayer Lord Jesus, turn my heart toward You again. Draw me away from anything that leads me from Your love and strengthen every desire that leads me closer to You. Teach me to live conversion as a daily movement of grace. Help me to turn, and turn again, until my heart rests fully in You. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 6 Psalm 46.10 RSV St. Teresa of Avila, Poem “Nada te turbe,” line 1 © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 6 – Conversion – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning Hearts Podcasts appeared first on...

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week One: Awakening the Listening Heart DAY 5 – Stillness “Be still, and know that I am God.” Psalm 46.10 RSV Stillness is the interior calm that allows the soul to recognize God’s presence. It is different from silence. Silence quiets the environment. Stillness settles the heart. Advent invites us into stillness so the deeper truth of God’s nearness can be known rather than merely thought about. Stillness is not inactivity. It is the freedom from interior agitation. It gathers the scattered heart into one place and brings the mind and soul together before God. When the heart is restless, God feels far away. When the heart becomes still, His presence becomes gently perceptible. Stillness requires trust. It asks the soul to rest without striving and to set aside the inner rush that pushes toward the next thing. The discerning heart learns to recognize that God often speaks when the heart rests rather than when it works. God moves in the quiet center of the soul. Advent teaches us this stillness so we can know, in the depth of our being, that He is God and He is here. Journey with the Saints – St. Teresa of Avila “Let nothing disturb you. Let nothing frighten you. All things pass away. God never changes.” St. Teresa of Avila, Poem “Nada te turbe,” line 1 St. Teresa knew the power of a still heart. Her teaching and her life remind us that interior stillness is not found by force. It is found by grounding the heart in God’s faithfulness. When the heart remembers who God is and how He loves, fear loosens and rest becomes possible. For St. Teresa, stillness is rooted in trust. As long as the soul tries to control every outcome, the interior life will stay restless. But when the soul yields to God and remembers His constancy, a deep stillness forms that no circumstance can disrupt. This stillness allows the soul to hear God with clarity. St. Teresa teaches us that stillness is both gift and discipline. We make space for it, and God fills that space with His peace. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to notice where you feel restless, tense, or scattered. Stillness begins when you acknowledge those places and let them soften in the presence of God. You do not need to force peace. You only need to stop resisting His nearness. Listening grows in a still heart. When agitation quiets, even slightly, the presence of God becomes more recognizable. Stillness allows the heart to know what noise often hides. Ask yourself: What steals my stillness today. What might God be asking me to release so my heart can rest in Him. A Simple Practice for Today Choose one moment today to sit quietly and breathe slowly. Say, “You are God, and You are here.” Let your heart settle. Later in the day, pause again for one slow breath and place your hand over your heart as a gesture of stillness before God. Prayer Lord Jesus, draw my heart into stillness. Quiet the restlessness that distracts me from Your presence. Teach me to rest in You with trust and peace. Help me to know, deep within, that You are God and that I am held in Your love. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 5 Psalm 46.10 RSV St. Teresa of Avila, Poem “Nada te turbe,” line 1 © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 5 – Stillness – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning Hearts Podcasts appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

Episode 6 – Marcion – Villains of the Early Church with Mike Aquilina Mike Aquilina and Kris McGregor discuss the second-century figure Marcian, a wealthy shipbuilder who tried to use his fortune to reshape Christianity according to his own ideas. Marcian believed that the God of the Old Testament and the God revealed in Christ were entirely different, and he rejected the Old Testament as the work of a hostile deity. To support this view, he cut large parts of the Gospel of Luke and edited the letters of Paul, removing passages that connected Christ and the apostles to Israel’s scriptures. When the Church rejected these teachings and returned his donation, Marcian created a parallel movement that imitated Catholic worship and structure, driven by his resources rather than fidelity to apostolic teaching. His movement spread widely and endured for centuries, creating long-lasting damage that even he could not undo near the end of his life. Marcian’s story is a warning: Material success, autonomy, or influence do not guarantee spiritual maturity, and unchecked ideas—even those that begin small—can warp doctrine and inspire destructive traditions. Leaders and communities may delay correction because of wealth, social standing, or good intentions, which can allow harmful errors to grow. Marcian is not presented as a monster but as a person who lost his way, reminding us that spiritual conflict persists through history, and that vigilance, prayer, and true stewardship are needed to avoid repeating such mistakes. Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions An excerpt from Villains of the Early Church “Marcion was a rich businessman who thought he had figured out the real meaning of the Gospel. He used the power of money to found a kind of parallel church, and he was very successful for a while—which tells you a little about the state of Christianity at the time, and a lot about what you could do with money in the Roman Empire in those days.” Aquilina, Mike. Villains of the Early Church: And How They Made Us Better Christians. Emmaus Road Publishing. Kindle Edition. You can find the book on which this series is based here. For more episodes in the Villians of the Early Church podcast visit here – Villains of the Early Church – Discerning Hearts Podcast Mike Aquilina is a popular author working in the area of Church history, especially patristics, the study of the early Church Fathers.[1] He is the executive vice-president and trustee of the St. Paul Center for Biblical Theology, a Roman Catholic research center based in Steubenville, Ohio. He is a contributing editor of Angelus (magazine) and general editor of the Reclaiming Catholic History Series from Ave Maria Press. He is the author or editor of more than fifty books, including The Fathers of the Church (2006); The Mass of the Early Christians (2007); Living the Mysteries (2003); and What Catholics Believe(1999). He has hosted eleven television series on the Eternal Word Television Network and is a frequent guest commentator on Catholic radio. Mike Aquilina’s website is found at fathersofthechurch.com The post VEC6 – Marcion – Villains of the Early Church with Mike Aquilina – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week One: Awakening the Listening Heart DAY 4 – Openness “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If any one hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.” Revelation 3.20 RSV Openness is the willingness of the heart to receive what God desires to give. It is the posture that says yes before knowing the details. Advent teaches this openness by inviting us to welcome Christ in ways we may not expect and through moments we may not choose. Openness does not mean passivity. It is an active readiness that springs from trust. It allows the heart to become spacious, uncluttered, and free enough to respond to God’s movements. When the heart closes, grace cannot enter. When the heart opens, even slightly, God works. Openness also means loosening our grip on expectations. God often arrives in forms we do not recognize. The discerning heart learns to say, “Lord, whatever You desire to do in me today, I receive.” This is the openness that made room for Christ in Mary. It is the openness that prepares the soul for His coming now. Advent invites you to open the door of your heart so Christ may enter more deeply. Journey with the Saints – St. Francis of Assisi “What a person is before God, that he is, and no more.” St. Francis of Assisi, Admonition 19 St. Francis lived with a heart wide open to God. His openness flowed from humility. He accepted his smallness before God, and because of this, his heart remained available to whatever God wished to give or reveal. For Francis, openness meant letting go of self-protection and allowing God to reshape his desires and priorities. He did not cling to security, success, or control. His openness created space for joy, charity, and trust. He welcomed God in poverty, in simplicity, and in every person he encountered. Francis teaches us that openness is the fruit of humility. When we stand before God honestly, without masks or defenses, the heart can finally open. God fills that openness with His presence. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to look for places within your heart that feel tight, guarded, or closed. Sometimes the heart closes because of fear. Sometimes because of disappointment. Sometimes because we simply want things to go our way. Openness asks us to soften those places so God can enter. Listening becomes deeper when the heart stops resisting what God is offering. Openness makes room for grace to surprise us. It prepares us to receive something new or unexpected. Ask yourself: Where is God inviting me to open my heart today. What do I need to release so Christ can come closer. A Simple Practice for Today Take a quiet moment and say, “Lord, I open my heart to You.” Notice any resistance and gently release it. Later in the day, repeat the same prayer while opening your hands in a simple gesture of surrender. Let this be an intentional act of openness. Prayer Lord Jesus, open my heart to Your presence. Remove whatever keeps me closed or guarded. Give me the grace to welcome You in the ways You desire to come. Teach me the humility that creates space for Your love, and draw me into deeper trust. I open the door of my heart to You today. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 4 Revelation 3.20 RSV St. Francis of Assisi, Admonition 19 © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 4 – Openness – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning Hearts Podcasts appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

The Internal World and External Presence of God – The Way of Mystery with Deacon James Keating Deacon James Keating explains that experiencing God’s love begins with grace. God reaches the heart through intellect and affection, but many miss these moments because they are distracted or constantly driven by ego. Silence allows us to perceive God’s presence—whether through beauty, acts of kindness, or gratitude. Asking God directly for the gift of knowing His love, being attentive to the movements of the heart, and recognizing that this union often begins in moments of consoling prayer. Such prayer is not confined to formal worship; it can arise unexpectedly, even outside the church. The Eucharist prepares us to make a space for God rather than forcing His action. Faith—not sensation—is at the core of sacramental life, and remaining faithful in the absence of feelings still brings genuine closeness to God. Authentic spiritual union deepens when conscience is followed, even when it causes suffering. Acting on truth at personal cost draws us into Christ’s own obedience and sacrifice. This suffering is not a sign of abandonment but a participation in the Paschal mystery, where union with Christ matters more than comfort. Saints such as St. Bernadette, St. Edith Stein, and St. Maximilian Kolbe willingly faced hardship because intimacy with Christ outweighed fear. Daily moral decisions—large or small—are sustained not by human strength but by Christ’s presence received through prayer and the Eucharist. In these ways—consoling prayer, sacramental life, fidelity to conscience, and union in suffering—the soul begins to taste heaven on earth. Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions Deacon James Keating, Ph.D., is a professor of Spiritual Theology and serves as a spiritual director at Kenrick Glennon Seminary in St. Louis, MO. Check out Deacon Keating’s “Discerning Heart” page The post WOM16 – The Internal World and External Presence of God – The Way of Mystery with Deacon James Keating – Discerning Hearts appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week One: Awakening the Listening Heart DAY 3 – Desire “As a deer longs for flowing streams, so longs my soul for thee, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.” Psalm 42.1 – 2 RSV Desire is the movement of the heart that draws us toward God. It is the spark within the soul that awakens, reaches, and longs for the One who created us. Advent deepens this desire. It teaches us to name what our heart truly seeks and to bring that longing into prayer. Spiritual desire is not emotional intensity. It is the steady orientation of the heart toward the Lord. It is the recognition that only God can satisfy the deepest hunger within us. Desire is the beginning of conversion, because it turns the heart away from what cannot fulfill and toward the One who is our life. God Himself places this desire within us. He stirs the longing for Him so we will seek Him. He awakens thirst so we will come to the living water. The discerning heart learns to trust this desire, because it is often the first sign of grace moving within the soul. To desire God is already to be touched by His love. Advent invites us to let that desire deepen and to let it lead us closer to Christ. Journey with the Saints – St. Augustine “Your desire is your prayer. If your desire is continual, your prayer is continual.” St. Augustine, Exposition on Psalm 37, Sermon 2, section 12 St. Augustine teaches that desire is the very heart of prayer. Prayer is not primarily words or thoughts. It is the upward movement of the heart that longs for God. When desire is alive, prayer is alive. When desire is steady, prayer becomes continual. St. Augustine knew from his own restless journey that the human heart was created for God and finds rest only in Him. He reminds us that desire purifies and focuses the soul. It draws us beyond distractions and secondary loves, and it brings us into a sincere relationship with the Lord. For St. Augustine, desire is a grace. It is God calling to God within us. When we follow that desire, we move toward the One who has already begun drawing us to Himself. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to notice the movements of your heart. What do you desire most deeply right now. Beneath the surface wants and passing feelings, what is the longing that keeps returning. God works in that place. He often speaks through desire before He speaks through clarity. Listening to desire helps you recognize what God is awakening within you. Desire points to the places where Christ is drawing you closer or inviting something new. It helps you understand what your soul truly seeks, even when your circumstances feel confusing. Ask yourself: What longing is rising in my heart today. How might this desire be a quiet invitation from the Lord. A Simple Practice for Today Sit quietly for a moment and ask, “Lord, place in my heart the desire that leads me closer to You.” Notice whatever surfaces. Later in the day, pause again and gently say, “Lord, deepen my desire for You.” Let both moments guide your heart toward Him. Prayer Lord Jesus, You created my heart for Yourself. Awaken within me the desire that leads me to You. Purify my longings so they are rooted in Your truth and drawn by Your love. Teach me to listen to the movements of my heart and to follow the desires that bring me into Your presence. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 2 Psalm 42.1 to 2 RSV St. Augustine, Exposition on Psalm 37, Sermon 2, section 12 © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 3 – Desire – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning Hearts Podcasts appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

Understanding Marriage and Priesthood – “What am I to do?” The Discernment of God’s Will in Everyday Decisions with Fr. Timothy Gallagher Fr. Timothy Gallagher presents the Catholic understanding of vocation, focusing first on marriage. The call to spousal love and family is woven into human nature itself, as God created men and women for self-gift and life-giving love. When lived through the sacrament, marriage becomes an expression of Christ’s love for the Church, reflecting the unity of bridegroom and bride described in Ephesians 5. The mutual care between spouses, their fidelity, and the lives they nurture become visible signs of Christ’s relationship with His people. To illustrate this, Fr. Gallagher shares personal stories and pastoral examples that show how everyday marriages embody this divine reality. He then outlines how religious life and priesthood differ. These paths arise not from human nature but from a supernatural invitation: a call to give up marriage for the sake of Christ and His kingdom. Such a person feels both the natural goodness of marriage and a distinct interior attraction toward celibacy lived for God. Priests give themselves to the Church as their bride, and consecrated women give themselves to Christ, bearing spiritual fruit through service, prayer, and compassion. Whether in family life or consecrated life, vocation leads to the same core reality: offering oneself in love and generating life—either physical or spiritual—within the Body of Christ. Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions: From The Discernment of God’s Will in Everyday Decisions: “Three Times in which a Sound and Good Choice May Be Made The first time is when God Our Lord so moves and attracts the will that, without doubting or being able to doubt, the devout soul follows what is shown to it, as St. Paul and St. Matthew did in following Christ our Lord. The second time is when sufficient clarity and understanding is received through experience of consolations and desolations, and through experience of discernment of different spirits. The third time is one of tranquility, when one considers first for what purpose man is born, that is, to praise God our Lord and save his soul, and, desiring this, chooses as a means to this end some life or state within the bounds of the Church, so that he may be helped in the service of his Lord and the salvation of his soul. I said a tranquil time, that is, when the soul is not agitated by different spirits, and uses its natural powers freely and tranquilly. If the choice is not made in the first or second time, two ways of making it in this third time are given below.” Father Timothy M. Gallagher, O.M.V., was ordained in 1979 as a member of the Oblates of the Virgin Mary, a religious community dedicated to retreats and spiritual formation according to the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. Fr. Gallagher is featured on the EWTN series “Living the Discerning Life: The Spiritual Teachings of St. Ignatius of Loyola”. For more information on how to obtain copies of Fr. Gallaghers’s various books and audio which are available for purchase, please visit his website: frtimothygallagher.org For the other episodes in this series check out Fr. Timothy Gallagher’s “Discerning Hearts” page The post DWG6 – Understanding Marriage and Priesthood – The Discernment of God’s Will in Everyday Decisions with Fr. Timothy Gallagher – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week One: Awakening the Listening Heart DAY 2 – Silence “For God alone my soul waits in silence, for my hope is from him.” Psalm 62.5 RSV Silence is the doorway through which the listening heart begins to hear God. Advent invites us into a quieter interior space, not by removing every sound, but by creating room within the soul where God’s presence can be received. Silence is not emptiness. Silence is a posture of readiness. In the spiritual life, the greatest obstacles to hearing God often come not from the outside, but from within. Thoughts run ahead. Worries circle. Interior noise fills the mind. Silence teaches the soul to slow down, release the clutter, and rest in the presence of the Lord who speaks gently. Sacred silence is not the absence of activity. It is the presence of attentiveness. It teaches the heart to lean in. It helps us let go of control so grace can soften the places that have become tense or hurried. Silence honors God’s desire to speak in a personal and intimate way. The discerning heart learns that silence is not something we create. It is something we enter. It is the humble space where God waits for us. Journey with the Saints – St. John of the Cross “The Father spoke one Word, which was His Son, and this Word He speaks always in eternal silence, and in silence must it be heard by the soul.” St. John of the Cross, The Sayings of Light and Love, 99 St. John of the Cross teaches that God speaks His Word within the depths of the silent heart. He reminds us that silence is not a technique. It is the environment of intimacy. Only in silence can the soul receive the One whom the Father continually pours out. For John, silence purifies the heart’s attention. It clears away the noise that distorts our vision and helps us recognize Christ’s gentle inspirations. In silence, we are not trying to make something happen. We are consenting to God’s presence. Silence frees the heart to listen with love rather than effort. John of the Cross learned that silence is not emptiness. It is communion. It is the place where the soul rests in the truth that God is already near. Reflection for the Listening Heart Today invites you to notice your inner landscape. Where is there noise inside you. Where do your thoughts run quickly. Where does worry or distraction pull your attention away from God. Silence is not about pushing these things aside. It is about letting them settle so the heart can remember who is with you. Listening begins when the interior noise quiets enough for Christ to be received. Even a few seconds of genuine silence can open a space for grace to enter. Ask the Lord to help you listen in that silence, not with strain, but with trust. Ask yourself: Where is God inviting me into a deeper quiet today. What would it look like for me to enter silence instead of resisting it. A Simple Practice for Today Set aside one intentional moment of silence today. Sit or stand quietly, slow your breathing, and simply say, “Here I am, Lord.” Let your mind settle without trying to control it. Return to that quiet later in the day by pausing for a single slow breath and saying, “Lord, I receive Your peace.” Prayer Lord Jesus, draw my heart into silence. Quiet the thoughts that pull me away and soften the places that feel restless or crowded. Teach me to enter the stillness where You wait for me. Speak Your Word into the silence of my soul and help me to listen with love. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 2 Psalm 62.5 RSV St. John of the Cross, The Sayings of Light and Love, 99 © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 2 – Silence – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning Hearts Podcasts appeared first on Discerning Hearts...

The 1st Sunday of Advent – A Call to Wake Up, Repent, and Enter the Light of JesusBuilding a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff On the First Sunday of Advent, Msgr. Esseff shares two deeply moving testimonies that reveal the power of love, faith, and the kingship of Christ. The first story follows a Christian couple who defied medical advice to abort their “defective” child, trusting instead in God’s providence. Their faith was rewarded with the birth of a healthy baby who grew into a successful firefighter. In this first Sunday of Advent reflection, Msgr. John Esseff invites listeners into the season with a call to spiritual wakefulness. Drawing from the Gospel of Matthew, he explains Jesus’ warning that some will be united with him at his coming while others will be left behind. The key difference is union with Christ, a union formed through baptism, nourished by grace, and renewed through repentance. Msgr. Esseff speaks about the early Church, the outpouring of the Holy Spirit, and the ongoing need for every Christian to “put on the Lord Jesus Christ.” He warns that sin separates the soul from Christ and dims the light God desires to radiate through us. Advent is presented as a time to return to that light, confront the shadows in our lives, and seek healing through confession, prayer, and intentional spiritual discipline. The episode also explores Advent’s connection to peace. Drawing from Isaiah, Msgr. Esseff prays for a world where nations turn weapons into instruments of cultivation, and where each person commits to the peace Christ brings. He shares personal experiences of confession, transformation, and encounters with families seeking deeper union with God. As the episode closes, he encourages listeners to begin an Advent journal, undertake a sincere spiritual inventory, and allow the Holy Spirit to reveal areas of darkness that need grace. For Msgr. Esseff, Advent is the doorway to a renewed life in Christ, a season where hearts awaken, grace deepens, and the soul prepares to welcome the light of Christmas. Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions What area of my life most needs the light of Christ as Advent begins? Where have I allowed habits or attitudes to separate me from Jesus? What specific action can I take this week to grow in holiness and peace? How is God calling me to make room for deeper union with him this Advent? What step toward reconciliation or virtue is the Holy Spirit prompting in my heart? Gospel Matthew 27:37-44 Jesus said to his disciples: “As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. In those days before the flood, they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day that Noah entered the ark. They did not know until the flood came and carried them all away. So will it be also at the coming of the Son of Man. Two men will be out in the field; one will be taken, and one will be left. Two women will be grinding at the mill; one will be taken, and one will be left. Therefore, stay awake! For you do not know on which day your Lord will come. Be sure of this: if the master of the house had known the hour of night when the thief was coming, he would have stayed awake and not let his house be broken into. So too, you also must be prepared, for at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come.” .”Lectionary for Mass for Use in the Dioceses of the United States, second typical edition, Copyright © 2001, 1998, 1997, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine Msgr. John A. Esseff is a Roman Catholic priest in the Diocese of Scranton. Msgr. Esseff served as a retreat director and confessor to St. Teresa of Calcutta. He continues to offer direction and retreats for the sisters of the Missionaries of Charity around the world. Msgr. Esseff encountered St. Padre Pio, who would become a spiritual father to him. He has lived in areas around the world, serving in the Pontifical missions, a Catholic...

An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart: Prepare your heart for Christ through Scripture, the saints, and the gentle practice of daily listening. Week One: Awakening the Listening Heart DAY 1 – Wakefulness “Besides this you know what hour it is, how it is full time now for you to wake from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we first believed.” Romans 13.11 RSV Advent opens with the quiet invitation to wake up spiritually. This is the first movement of a listening and discerning heart. Before the soul can notice God’s presence or receive His guidance, it must become aware, attentive, and ready to hear. Spiritual sleep is subtle. It appears in distraction, noise, divided attention, discouragement, or the slow drift of the interior life. The mind fills with tasks. The heart loses sensitivity. Without choosing to fall asleep, the soul grows dull and slow to notice the gentle movements of grace. Wakefulness is not anxious vigilance. It is the calm attentiveness that love creates. When the heart loves, it desires to notice even the smallest approach of the Beloved. St. Paul urges Christians to cast off whatever clouds the inner vision so they can stand ready for the Lord’s coming. To begin Advent is to choose wakefulness. It is the decision to open the ear of the heart and say, “Lord, I am here. I desire to listen.” Journey with the Saints – St. Benedict “Listen carefully, my son, to the master’s instructions, and attend to them with the ear of your heart.” Rule of St. Benedict, Prologue 1 For St. Benedict, listening is an act of spiritual wakefulness. It is not passive or casual. It requires humility, interior quiet, receptivity, and a readiness to obey God’s movements. Benedict teaches that God speaks not only in moments of prayer, but in the simple, hidden details of ordinary life. Wakefulness helps the heart recognize these small invitations of grace. Benedict also reminds his monks that listening comes before action. God initiates. God invites. God leads. The discerning heart responds by listening first. Wakefulness is the doorway to discernment because it keeps the soul attentive to the Lord who is always near. The life of prayer begins when the heart says, “I am ready to listen You.” Reflection for the Listening Heart Today is about noticing. Noticing is the first gesture of true listening. Hearing happens automatically and without effort. It simply receives sound. Listening, however, is intentional. Listening chooses to attend. Listening turns toward the One who is speaking. Listening makes space for grace to enter. We often hear without truly listening. We hear Scripture. We hear prayer. We hear the voice of conscience. Yet the heart may remain elsewhere. Listening requires presence. It asks the heart to stay awake to God’s quiet movements and to receive even the smallest whisper of His love. Ask yourself: Where am I merely hearing God today, and where am I actually listening. What is Christ quietly placing before me that needs my attention. A Simple Practice for Today Choose one verse from today’s Scripture, even a single line, and sit with it for one quiet minute. Say, “Speak, Lord, I am listening.” Later in the day, pause again by stepping outside or standing at a window. Take a slow breath and say, “Lord, I am present to You.” Let both moments become intentional acts of wakefulness. Prayer Lord Jesus, awaken my heart. Clear the fog of distraction and stir the desire within me to listen to Your voice. Teach me to attend with the ear of my heart so I may follow You with love and trust. Come into the quiet places of my soul and make me ready for Your presence. Amen. For more of the episodes of An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor visit here Citations for Day 1 Romans 13.11 RSV Rule of St. Benedict, Prologue 1 © Discerning Hearts. All rights reserved. The post Day 1 – Wakefulness – An Advent Journey for the Discerning Heart – Discerning...

Mike Aquilina’s discussion of Nero from the Discerning Hearts podcast, examining early Christian persecution, the witness of martyrs like Peter and Paul, and how historical villains reveal spiritual lessons for today. The post VEC5 – Nero – Villains of the Early Church with Mike Aquilina – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

Explore the three stages of spiritual growth—purgative, illuminative, and unitive—through insights from Deacon James Keating, with real-life examples, sacramental grace, and practical ways to recognize God’s presence in everyday life. The post WOM15 – The Unitive Way – The Way of Mystery with Deacon James Keating – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

Msgr. John Esseff reflects on widespread anxieties about the end of the world by drawing from Malachi, the Gospel of Luke, and the lived suffering of Christians across the globe. The post Christ the King and the Victory of Jesus – Building a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

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Episode 4 - Simon the Magician - "Villains of the Early Church: And How They Made Us Better Christians" In this episode, Mike Aquilina and Kris McGregor discuss Simon the Magician and learning pride and hubris. An excerpt from Villains of the Early Church: IF THERE had been supermarket tabloids in Rome of the first century, Simon Magus, or Simon the Magician, would have been on the front pages every week. His story gives us zombies, levitation, a talking dog, a jewel heist, and a prophesying baby, just to name a few of the highlights. But it all begins with a true story in the Acts of the Apostles. The post VEC4 – Simon the Magician – Villains of the Early Church with Mike Aquilina – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.

Transformation – The Way of Mystery with Deacon James Keating Deacon Keating and Kris McGregor discuss how scandals within the Church, particularly clergy abuse, have damaged trust but do not negate the truth that Christ continues to teach through the Church’s magisterium. Deacon Keating distinguishes between the unchanging fidelity of Christ’s promise to guide the ... Read more The post WOM14 – Transformation – The Way of Mystery with Deacon James Keating – Discerning Hearts Podcast appeared first on Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts.