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Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/011-25 Alec Baldwin’s interview with his wife spirals as she loses all respect for him on camera. But what most people missed is how his 'nice guy' behavior quietly led to this. In this video, we break down 6 common habits that make women lose attraction—and how to stop doing them. 0:00 - Intro 2:55 - Apologizing to escape discomfort 3:27 - Over explaining and rambling 4:42 - Seeking approval 6:46 - Roping in other people 9:08 - Resentment 12:51 - Compliment sandwiching Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Charisma University and boost your confidence and charisma: https://bit.ly/010-25 Today we're using the power of AI and hindsight to fix some of the most awkward celebrity interviews, showing exactly how you can avoid these cringe-worthy situations in your own life. Learn to handle passive-aggressive comments and uncomfortable moments with confidence. 0:00 - Intro 0:31 - Blake Lively 1:16 - Blake Lively Fixed With AI 2:38 - Turn Passive Aggression Into Active Aggression 3:18 - Jonah Hill & Jimmy Kimmel 4:21 - Agree, Exaggerate & Let It Go 4:27 - Jonah Hill Fixed With AI 5:53 - Ellen DeGeneres & Dakota Johnson 6:37 - Allow Awkwardness To Exist 7:13 - Ellen Fixed With AI 7:35 - Jim Carrey 9:37 - Jim Carrey Fixed With AI 10:41 - Learn how to boost your confidence & charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/COC-009-25 Zelensky’s negotiation with Trump went off the rails. In this video, we break down the key mistakes, what he could have done differently, and how you can win high-stakes negotiations. 0:00 - Intro 0:35 - Caveat 1:04 - Who makes the first offer? 2:08 - Zelenskyy fumbled this essential point 3:55 - Do not beg to get your needs met 4:30 - Employ the "friendly f***k no" 5:32 - Don't push back in other ways 7:16 - The part where things break down 8:07 - The Karen Technique 8:24 - Zelenskyy gets into it with Vance 9:26 - How to recover from these moments 10:45 - Unprocessed contempt 12:15 - Always have a second option 13:27 - Zelenskyy's Fox interview 14:09 - Remember that you can walk out 14:46 - Learn to master your soft power skills Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

The Diary of a CEO podcast: https://youtu.be/zg4Ta7vXiIM I went on The Diary of a CEO, and it didn’t go how I expected… In this video, I break down what happened and what this experience taught me about charisma, confidence, and being truly authentic. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:24 - My charisma mistakes 0:45 - How I wound up there 2:15 - The question that got me... 3:36 - Body language analysis 4:50 - The interview drops 5:54 - The phases of learning 9:21 - Wrapping up Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-007-25 Sometimes, the harder we try to make people like us, the more we push them away. Whether it's trying to seem cool, covering up a mistake, or shifting blame, certain phrases can turn a minor slip-up into a lasting loss of respect. In this video, we break down five common behaviors that can make people dislike you—and how to handle these moments better. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:43 - Phrase #1 2:25 - Phrase #2 3:28 - Phrase #3 4:38 - Phrase #4 5:56 - Boundary Poking 7:08 - Phrase #5 7:56 - How to redeem yourself 11:05 - The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: / charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video edited by: Andre Ringkjoeb Intro edited by: Barcuch & Ikjot

Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-006-25 What if you could take someone who started a conversation insulting you and end that conversation with them saying they appreciated and respected you? That’s what we’re covering today - the 7 simple steps to make a rude person take back what they said, show you respect, and wish they hadn’t begun with the rudeness in the first place. Full Sneako/Dr K video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sf1LlVHsusU&t=0s Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:45 - Set a boundary 1:25 - State what YOU are going to do 2:06 - Don’t engage with unwanted behavior 2:48 - Respond slowly 4:06 - Ask open questions 6:30 - Two useful tricks 7:21 - Ask them this… 8:34 - Drop trying to change them 9:38 - How to level up your confidence and charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: / charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 21,000 Members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-005-25 Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free. 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending 1:00 - The context 3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame 5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from 6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame 6:20 - It can get worse... 7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame 9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Video Editing: Skye Andre Ringkjoeb Henry Houpert

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-004-25 This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence. 0:00 - Intro 0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds 1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence 4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love 7:16 - The Burden Test 8:18 - How to offer support 8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing 12:07 - Want more? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Edited by: Ryan D'Souza Andre Ringkjøb

Join over 21,000 members inside Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-00325 Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict. This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive. Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation. 0:00 - Intro 0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping 2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness 3:03 - #2: Straw-Manning 5:34 - Refuse Burdens 6:17 - Use The "That's Exactly Why" Response 6:40 - Can you pass this test? 8:14 - #4: Projecting Bad Faith 9:33 - How To Avoid This In Your Own Life 10:42 - Notice When You Lose Your Capacity To Listen 12:16 - Want To Build That Unshakable Confidence? Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Written by: Charlie Houpert Video editing by: Io Anastasaki Andre Ringkjøb Christopher Lazzeri

Join Over 21,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-00225 Full podcast episode: https://youtu.be/SRLljn_GEHk?si=flYq1iwyUwEC22-T The most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability. Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda. 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - Here is the skill 0:46 - Disconnected emotions 1:32 - The underlying emotions break through 1:57 - Switch conversational modes 3:49 - Just listen 4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Written by: Charlie Houpert Edited by: Iwana Henry Houpert Andre Ringkjøb

In this video, I open up about the difficult decision to leave Charisma on Command, the falling out with my co-founder, and the personal struggles that led to this moment. I'm also excited to share what’s next and to continue creating content that inspires and empowers. 0:00 - Intro 0:20 - The short version of the story 0:43 - The long version of the story 4:58 - What's next 9:02 - A big thank you Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/47f6mBu Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me." So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:00 - #1: Find your fire 2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle 3:10 - #3: Decide your core values 4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino 7:09 - #5: Self acceptance Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-FearOfRejection Video of Sam asking out 100 women to get over his fear of rejection: https://youtu.be/mC34TSXNKiY?si=7V2QT4JSu3Hxu-sd Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Failure might delay your dreams, but fear will kill them. Because fear leads to inaction. So in today’s video, you’ll learn 7 tricks to help silence that voice in your head that fears rejection. That way you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll feel completely unphased even if you do get rejected ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: You are not your first impression 1:05 - #2: Rejection is inevitable. Shame is optional 2:09 - #3: Life is a numbers game 2:45 - #4: Amp up your carrot/stick motivation 3:15 - #5: Rejections are good for you 5:24 - #6: See rejection as a sign that you aren't a good match 5:49 - #7: Focus on becoming the type of person who has options Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-Friendships Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem. Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are. So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People 0:42 - Proximity 1:06 - Join A Flock 1:41 - Become A Beacon 2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations 2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends 2:40 - Focus On The Process 3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests 4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class 4:36 - A Shared North Star 6:04 - Being A Lifeline 7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability 9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades 9:37 - Constructive Conflict 11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule 12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy 13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change 15:02 - Do you want great new friendships? How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life: https://youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_ How To Make A Great Impression: https://youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb https://youtu.be/zDEfjg6ylFA?si=-y5NNf_CskVrS4ZC Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCBradPitt Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert. We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language - Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact. - A Duchenne Smile. - Speaking Through A Smile. - Expansive Gestures. 1:34 - #2: Capture attention - A Pre-Story Laugh. - A One Line Hook. 2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you - Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke. - Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment. - Be Universally Kind. - Playful Teasing. 6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #BradPitt -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Subscribe to get more videos like this: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe This video is about how to be happier for the rest of your life, starting today. We’re going to cover 3 common mindsets that lead to unhappiness. Most people don’t even realize they have these mindsets, or if they do, they don’t know how to stop them. We’ll also discuss some lessons from Stoicism so that you can feel more joy every day. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - #1: Unmet desire 4:12 - #2: Isolated upward comparison 7:26 - #3: Expectations -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Stoicism #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Links: “You Are Living The Dream Life” meditation: https://dynamic.wakingup.com/course/CO6B78897 Waking Up app free trial: https://www.wakingup.com/jayshetty Invisible People: https://www.youtube.com/@InvisiblePeople Special Books By Special Kids: https://www.youtube.com/@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids Breathwork for internally generated peace and joy: https://youtu.be/hzwVp7W-ghM?si=SBpSlg1SGCJNBmpn Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ More Celebrities On Being Rich But Unhappy: https://youtu.be/0N19fJbA6GQ?si=jxW_pdLLPabefakR https://youtu.be/6Fvmq638E3Y?si=q71eMer9csvRbEGE https://youtu.be/KqtRTc3VYq4?si=jeHrLMenMrjlIhau https://youtu.be/WrkT079iRYU?si=oVW1zJzop0p12FQO https://youtu.be/1ebEIhS0Zms?si=pKULiWHkQBqOGF_v https://youtu.be/6RcrnuZg_Z4?si=cWR554On8WzNUlEF https://youtu.be/Xn9olk63hVE?si=u3og8q_PWrN-nnWH https://youtu.be/IHJSWDSlie8?si=22tRnla-xdVpC445 https://youtu.be/Zz5DHufWlCM?si=TGYXIF_PTtb1T9zD https://youtu.be/OmWrqelCAJA?si=6Tg45Jum7sJl8G8u Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Animation: https://zeino.tv/ Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-ZeinoCharismaMistakes Today, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Scanning the room 0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you 1:13 - #3: Trapping 1:37 - #4: Communicating shame 2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Zeino -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-7TricksPersuasion Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today you’ll learn the art of persuasion. Specifically, 7 powerful principles that influence everyone’s decision making. Including your own. You’ll learn ethical ways you can apply these principles, AND just by being aware of them, you’ll now notice when someone uses them on you. I want to credit Robert Cialdini’s book Influence for first teaching me these. If you find today’s video interesting, you’ll definitely enjoy his book. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - #1: Social proof 2:38 - #2: Scarcity 4:41 - #3: Consistency 6:27 - #4: Reciprocity 8:11 - #5: Authority 9:53 - #6: Liking 10:15 - #7: Risk Mitigation 10:59 - Only persuade for genuine good. Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-6Jokes Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today you’ll learn 6 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Play dumb 1:28 - #2: A sincerity fakeout 2:14 - #3: The 3 point list 3:07 - #4: Exaggerate so much it's impossible to take you seriously 4:26 - #5: Elevate the other person 5:39 - #6: Self deprecating humor 8:03 - Learn how to form connections with anyone -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-CharismaMistakes Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Bully banter 1:53 - #2: Mocking someone's mistakes 2:51 - #3: The negative Nancy 4:23 - #4: Disrespectful distractions 5:36 - #5: Repeatedly talking over someone 7:32 - #6: Inauthenticity -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #AndrewSchulz #Fullsendpodcast -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand