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Who Invited Her?

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An LGBTQ, gay, pop-culture talk show podcast from Hillcrest in San Diego! We are just a few locals drinking, laughing and talking about whatever we want. Why? Because we're nobody of importance. Listen for laughs, mindless banter, or just white noise to get you through your day. (www.whoinvitedher.net) Give us a call (619) 822-2369 and leave a message, you may hear it on the episode!

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An LGBTQ, gay, pop-culture talk show podcast from Hillcrest in San Diego! We are just a few locals drinking, laughing and talking about whatever we want. Why? Because we're nobody of importance. Listen for laughs, mindless banter, or just white noise to get you through your day. (www.whoinvitedher.net) Give us a call (619) 822-2369 and leave a message, you may hear it on the episode!

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English


Episodes
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256 Home Sweet Homo with Pablo

2/7/2024
Gather 'round, listeners, because we've got a treat sweeter than a rainbow unicorn riding a cotton candy cloud—Pablo from Mo's Universe and the author of "Home Sweet Homo" is gracing our humble podcast with his presence! Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of laughter, cocktails, and enough sass to make RuPaul blush. In this episode, we dive deep into the delicious world of writing and bartending with Pablo. From his humble beginnings to the wildest tales behind the bar, it's a journey more thrilling than a night out in PB. But wait, there's more! Tony takes us on a culinary adventure as he spills the marinara on a new Italian restaurant he tried, complete with pasta galore and a side of "Part-Time Lover" at the bar. Just remember, carbs don't count when you're dining with friends—or at least that's what we tell ourselves. Next up, we put Pablo to the ultimate test with a round of "Getting to Know You." Will he spill the tea or keep his secrets locked tighter than Cinderella's glass slipper? Tune in to find out! And because no episode is complete without a little chaos, we challenge Eric's Disney knowledge with a game that's either a magical success or a total "bust" (pun intended). Spoiler alert: we're all just here for the laughs and the chance to embarrass Eric on air. From the finest dining spots to the grooviest music jams, we share our go-to favorites in sunny San Diego. Because if there's one thing we know, it's where to find the best tacos and tunes in town. Finally, we wrap up the episode with our signature segment—Carol of the Week. So grab your cocktail shaker and your dancing shoes, because it's a party you won't want to miss. It's Who Invited Her?—where every episode is a celebration of friendship, laughter, and the occasional raunchy joke or two.

Duration:01:15:09

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255 Birthday Jockstraps Galore!

1/27/2024
Hold onto your party hats, because it's Tony's birthday, and things are about to get wilder than a cat lady's Friday night! Join Tony, Brynn, and Eric as they navigate the chaos of candles, jockstraps, and birthday presents that are riskier than a game of musical chairs in a minefield. The gang dives into the art of Bad Lip Reading. Because who needs accurate dialogue when you can have Yoda ordering pizza and Beyoncé discussing the merits of llama grooming? It's the cinematic experience we never knew we needed. And speaking of movies, the hosts tackle the burning question: Who's gonna play Linda Ronstadt in the new biopic? Suggestions include everything from Meryl Streep to Danny DeVito in a wig, because Hollywood is nothing if not unpredictable. But wait, there's more! We explore the flood of emotions (and water) as San Diego faces an unexpected aquatic apocalypse. Move over, Sharknado—San Diego Floodnado is the new blockbuster sensation. Tony dons his film critic hat (or jockstrap, in this case) to deliver movie reviews of Wonka, Mean Girls, and Joy Ride. Spoiler alert: the jockstrap gets a better review than some of the movies. In a daring segment, Tony shows and tells his risky birthday presents. The hosts dive into the hot topic of the week—the Jeremy Allen White Calvin Klein ad for the blind. Because who needs sight when you can feel your way to fashion greatness?RuPaul's Drag Race Season 16 is up for discussion, complete with runway mishaps, lip sync showdowns, and more drama than a Kardashian family reunion. Spoiler: the library is officially open.And finally, we wrap up the episode with our iconic segments—Peak Pit and Buffalo of the Week. Because nothing says "celebration" like shouting out the highs and lows of the week in one breath. Buckle up, listeners, because it's a rollercoaster of laughter and questionable taste. It's Who Invited Her?—where chaos reigns, and birthday candles are optional!

Duration:01:09:30

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254 Happy New Years!... She Still Here?

1/10/2024
Break out the confetti cannons and dust off your resolutions because Who Invited Her? is back for Season 7! Brace yourselves, dear listeners, because we've roped in the one of the original chaos conductor, Bash, to join Tony, Brynn, and Eric in this carnival of craziness.In this special episode, we spill the tea (and probably some champagne) as the hosts recount their New Year's Eve escapades. Tony swears he had the best view of the ball drop, but we're not entirely convinced he wasn't just watching it on TV in his PJs. Brynn claims she set a record for party hopping or was she in bed before the ball drop. Meanwhile, Eric's New Year's resolution is to remember what happened after the third round of shots. The burning question on everyone's minds: What's the deal with the new Mean Girls movie? Is it so fetch that it could make fetch happen again, or did it crash and burn like a Regina George compliment? Let's take a stroll down the dumpster fire that was 2023 pop-culture. From viral moments to celebrity scandals, we recap it all—because who needs a time machine when you've got a podcast? Hold onto your hats (or wigs) because things take a saucy turn when we ask the question: What's your New Year's sexual resolution? Warning: answers may be too spicy for your morning commute. But wait, there's more! Steamboat Willy gets a horror movie makeover. And of course, we wrap up the chaos with our fan-favorite segment, "Carol of the Week." Tune in for the podcast equivalent of a car crash—it's the perfect way to end your week, questioning your life choices and our taste in everything. Get ready for laughs, cringe-worthy confessions, and hanging with old friends—it's Who Invited Her? Season 7, where the only resolution we've made is to bring you more chaos!

Duration:01:20:13

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253 Jingle Bell Knockers

12/21/2023
Ho-ho-hold onto your candy canes, because Tony, Eric, and Brynn are back from a mysterious hiatus, and they've got more drama than Santa's naughty list! Tony explains their absence and we can only assume it involved finding the North Pole in search of the perfect eggnog. Eric's catches us up on his travels and has a new family member (no, it's not a reindeer). We're all on the edge of our sleighs wondering if it's a distant relative of Frosty or just another travel-sized toiletry set. Meanwhile, Tony's been getting in touch with his inner zen. We're not sure if that involves meditation, yoga, or just binge-watching cake videos, but we're here for it. Brynn, on the other hand, claims she hasn't been soaking in a bathtub of gin, and we're side-eyeing her like a kid questioning Santa's existence. In this festive episode, the trio dives into the hard-hitting questions: Julia Roberts—love her or leave her? (And which one of them is secretly not a fan? We're placing bets!) They also tackle the burning question of which iconic gay film is getting a musical treatment, and we're crossing our fingers for a jazz hands-filled rendition of "A Christmas Carol.” Celebrities are decking the halls with Christmas items, and the hosts spill the tea on Dolly's post-rhinestones life and Cher's latest holiday album. Grab your jingle bells because they're also asking, "What's your favorite Christmas album?" and debating which iconic TV or movie home they'd want for the holidays. But wait, there's more! Ever wondered what Halley Mills is up to these days? So have we. Brynn, in a surprising turn of events, has been teaching stand-up to kids. We're not sure if they're the next comedy prodigies or just experts at knock-knock jokes.And to wrap up this holiday hullabaloo, the hosts bring it home with a festive Carol of the week that may or may not be sung in perfect harmony. Tune in for the laughs, the shade, and the holiday cheer

Duration:01:13:13

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252 Just A Little Sabbatical?

9/16/2023
The gang is back after impromptu sabbatical! We catch up with the crew on what hell they been doing. Eric talks about his weight loss journey and trip to what are Guadalajara. Brynne catches us up on mom life. Tony talks about his mental health journey and getting his Chakras cleans and realigned. He got a couple messages from the universe. What should the gang be for Halloween? Are you all ready for the internet apocalypse?! We finish it off with Carol of the week and our Peek Pit and Buffalo. Grab a drink sit back and enjoy!

Duration:01:08:00

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251 Amigas Rivales with Michele Ada & Snowflake

8/9/2023
Their Back! Michele Ada and Snowflake are joining Tony and Eric this week to talk about the their new drag show in San Diego at The Rail Aug 12th and every 2nd Saturday of the month. We talk all thing drag what shenanigans we can expect from these frenemies! We chat about all the Lizzo drama. We Play a round of Getting To Know You. Grab a cocktail and Enjoy!

Duration:00:00:01

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250 Sad Swedish Music

8/3/2023
I this week the gang has a jampacked episode. We started off with our morning routines and how do we start our days? Do you take care of your mental health? It feels like everyone is a little anxious this week. Tony and Eric talked about the Barbie movie that they saw this weekend. Didn't live up to all the hype? What's the next movie based off of a toy that's gonna be coming out. I knew gay icon is having a residency in Las Vegas and we say goodbye to some of our favorite celebrities that left us this week. One of our favorite pass gas has a number one album on the charts. Iconic gay hamburger joint is coming back to San Diego. We spiral into a movie K hole. what's your Peek Pit and Buffalo of the week? We finish it all off with CLICK or the week. Tony's Click of the week is the band, Nicotine Dolls, go check out their new single "How Do You Love Me" on Spotify and everywhere else you get music they are absolutely amazing! Obsessed! https://nicotinedolls.com Brynne's Click of the week is the TV show on Peacock "Killing It" funny, weird and snakes! https://www.peacocktv.com/stream-tv/killing-it Erics Click of the is for all you toy enthusiast and history buffs it's Netflix "The Toys That Made Us" https://www.netflix.com/title/80161497

Duration:01:17:29

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249 Can I Get A ReCap

7/25/2023
We survived a San Diego pride, Tony and Erik recap all the pride celebrations that place in San Diego. Highlights and low lights of the pride celebration. Tony fan girls over Scarlet Opera performance at San Diego pride. We give you our restaurant recommendation of the week. Brynne goes off on the newest installment of The Fast And The Furious franchise. Is cocaine squirrels gonna be the next thing? We talk about the cinematic event of the year Barbenheimer. What do you all think of the new a AHS season with one of the Kardashians as the main player?? The nanny is taking care of business in Hollywood. What's with all the body shaming ?! We finish it all off with a very interesting Carol of the week.

Duration:01:09:59

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248 Have a little PRIDE

7/12/2023
It's pride week here in San Diego and the gang is celebrating I am preparing for the weekend festivities. Tony gives a brief history of San Diego pride when it started Eric gives some dues and don'ts for this pride weekend coming up. Be careful out there watch out for each other and have a F***ing good time. Brynne's daughter Flynn brought some presents for the gang. Tony gives Erik a gift from the past that's a little hunting. Tony got sun poisoning and yes that's a real thing. We talk about the muh season RuPaul's drag race all stars 8. Brynne brought a game to play about gays and bisexuals, which is very revealing. We finish the episode off with our Peek, Pit and Buffaloes of the week. whoinvitedher.net

Duration:01:05:01

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247 GlamourMUH?

6/27/2023
We are back for another week! And it's just family this time. Eric talks about Modesto pride and TJ pride that he went to. Brynne went to go see some stand-up comedy that left her pissed off. Tony gives a recap of San Diego's March for trans Rights. We recap new TV that has come out. And Just Like That we have a season two, has it gotten any better? Or is the delusion still there? Tony and Eric have a disagreement on Netflix is New gay show Glamour us. Is it Glamour us or just another cliché? One thing they can all agree on is Joan Is Awful. What extravagance would spend 250k on? Finally, a little good news comes out of Florida. There's a new podcast coming out that we are not all about. Tony gives a book review and we finish it all off with Carol of the week.

Duration:00:58:34

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246 Bible Belt Baby with Flamy Grant

6/20/2023
In this hilarious and uplifting episode, join hosts Tony and Eric as they welcome the extraordinary Flamy Grant, a talented songwriter, singer, and drag queen extraordinaire! Flamy shares their remarkable journey, growing up as an evangelical Christian while hiding their true identity as a gay person. Listen as they recount the challenges they faced starting a church in San Diego and eventually leaving organized religion due to their sexuality, navigating the resulting trauma and struggle. Get ready to groove as Flamy dives into their sensational new album, "Bible Belt Baby." Tony and Eric explore the inspirations behind each incredible track, delivering a side-splitting and toe-tapping conversation you won't want to miss!

Duration:01:24:28

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245 Out At The Fair

6/13/2023
This week the gang is out of the studio and recording live from the San Diego County Fair for Out At The Fair. They give a bit of history about the SD fair and the Iconic movie star that has ties to the fair. The gang chats with Arron from VIDA San Diego who provide HIV resources that focus on the Latin community and much more. Musician/rapper Teddy Martin stops by to chat about his performance at the fair, his music what brought him to San Diego and some of his musical influences. Tony and Brynne do a little bit of cheer with Cheer San Diego Extreme catch then at SD PRIDE. Sister, Amanda sits down for an in-depth conversation about the sisters of perpetual indulgence. She chats about how the organization started. They're fundraising achievements the work they have done in the community and how people can get involved with their organization. It's a jampacked episode! So grab a corndog and slushy or your favorite fair food and enjoy! https://vida.community/about https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/teddymartin/make-em-go-boom-2 https://www.cheersdextreme.org https://www.sdsisters.org

Duration:01:28:44

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244 BeanBoozled

5/31/2023
The gang is back this week and it's only family. They talk about all the memorial day weekend festivities and how hard it is to be patriotic in today's America. Eric spent memorial day weekend in Palm Springs and stayed in a tiny home. Tony talks about and reviews San Diego's SDC event. Brynne talks about Swedish death cleaning. Brynne gives her review of The Little Mermaid. Tony found his Real Housewives. Brynne talks mental health. They finish it of with a extreme SNACKS that has Tony in tears

Duration:01:03:23

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243 Don't Let It Wallow with Snowflake

5/22/2023
The gang welcomes local drag queen Snowflake to the show and Eric from AHF Healthcare Center. We chat with Snowflake about how she started in drag, where her drag name comes from, her work with AHF and her work in the community and of course San Diego drag. Eric from AHF (Aids healthcare foundation) talks about their services from STD testing to HIV resources, prep and much more. WTF Dodgers?! We play a around of "F*** Marry, Kill" with Snowflake and a special guest pops in to say hi and spill some tea about Miss Snowflake. We finish it all off with Carol of the week. https://locations.freestdcheck.org/ca-san-diego-wellness-san-diego

Duration:01:30:20

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242 James Marzipan

5/18/2023
The gang is back this week. Erik talks about that "Just Like Heaven" festival he went to. Tony talks about Eurovision, his favorite performances, how Eurovision is judged, and they watch the top three musical acts. They get political with what's happening in Montana and Texas when it comes to LGBTQ+ rights. They talk what to watch with the Freeform TV show Jury Duty and Netflix is Queen Charlotte. In honor of Mother's Day out magazine, provided their list of queer women that gives mommie energy. They finish it all off with Peak Pits and Buffalo

Duration:01:03:18

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241 Beef Hardback

5/10/2023
The gang is back this week after a week off. Eric catches up on live south of the border. Tony had an interesting weekend with his mother and Brynne is growing tomatoes and informs us. What greens make you the horny as well according to Brynne. We talk to little politics, and why can't Florida just break off and float away. We watch a couple new trailers for two new TV shows coming up "Drag Me To Dinner", and " I Kissed A Boy" are we going to smash or pass on these two shows? We review targets new pride collection. There are some hits and definitely some messes. Brynne talks about what's happening on the F4F dating apps. We finished it off with CLICK of the week. Tony CLICK of week is local Writer Pablo Diablo. www.pablo-diablo.com Brynns CLICK is the Netflix show "Moe" Erics CLICK is the CNN show "Searching for Mexico"

Duration:01:09:25

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241 Where Did That 15 Go?

4/26/2023
The Gang is back for another episode of shenanigans. What up with everyone getting sick? is this part of long term covid? Brynne's over this apocalypse nonsense. Maybe a rom-com will help. It's lesbian Visibility week, so let's celebrate with our fave lesbian films and lesbians that influence us.. Tony's got a book rec for y'all - "The Electric State" . Netflix's "The Beef" is our recommended watch of the week.The hang talks x-rated selfies. The game gets a little bit political with their trending stories of the week. The Ladies Room a lesbian bar in Florida at may have to shut their doors, but there is a way to help.We finish it off with Carol of the week and its a local Carol!

Duration:00:59:17

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240 Bops And Bangers with GRRL Music Podcast

4/11/2023
It's all things music this week… Well almost all things music. Tony and Brynne welcome, Kelsey and Ashley from GRRRL Music podcast Bops and Bangers. Kelsey at Ashley, give us the breakdown of what's happening in music. We get some of their current listens. We dive into how music has influenced our lives. We test how well Kelsey and Ashley know each other's music tastes. We talked about podcasting and some of our favorite podcasts. Do you all remember LimeWire, MySpace and 120 Minutes? Tony and Kelsey geek out over Broadway. We talked a little pre-Baltic Russian history, divorces and rise of the pink ladies. We finish it off with the round of name that tune. It's a jampacked episode to sit back and enjoy!

Duration:01:21:20

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239 Is This Really A Microphone?

4/4/2023
It's just family this week. Brynne talks about almost joining a cult in Julian. Tony goes on a date with AI. Eric is so happy he doesn't even have a Carol this week. The gang talks about the attack on LGBTQ+ rights going on in this country. Especially the attacks on transgender youth. Why haven't we covered a lot of RuPaul's drag race season 15? what TV show has Brynne furious? They chat about the GLAAD awards, the court room drama starring Gwyneth Paltrow and Tony calls out a specific company in his Carol of the week

Duration:01:14:32

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238 Alexandria Ott

3/28/2023
This Week the gang welcomes fellow San Diegin the founder of Chrome City Creative/HustleCraft and co-creator of the The Blank Table Series. She is also the co-host of San Diego Magazine podcast "Not A Parenting Podcast". She has a passion for storytelling and bringing creative people together. She is also a member and advocate for LGBTQ+ community, Alexandria Ott. We chat With Alexandria about balances motherhood and career, he passion for cultivating an experience for strangers with her Black Table Series. Alexandria weighs in on drag queen story hour, which she has organized here in San Diego. Alexandria also talks about raising children in a vastly changing environment since the pandemic. She also opens up about her battle with postpartum depression. We chat about podcasting we do a round of getting to know you with Alexandria that is very revealing. We finish it all off With Stoner TV

Duration:01:10:20