Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

It's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!! In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almost Adulting, we dive deep into Law 10 from Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power": "Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky." Discover why the company you keep can make or break your life and success. I'll share not only the wisdom from the book but I also unpack the psychology behind this law and give you actionable tips to start TODAY to detox your social circle and elevate your life. Lastly, I share my personal insights on the importance of energy swaps - hint: who you allow inside of you DOES in fact leave a mark, and how to keep your vibe high. Tune in and learn how to surround yourself with positivity, protect your energy, and attract success today. Today’s episode is brought to you by Skims & Rhone! ADULTING /ADULTING See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Anna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story. It will have you in tears before you finish listening. Join me in this heart-wrenching yet hopeful episode as we dive into the powerful TRUE STORY of a man who loses the love of his life in a tragic car accident. Battling the depths of depression and contemplating ending his own life, he is pulled back by the desperate plea of his young niece. Struggling to find purpose, he bravely shares his journey online, leading to an unexpected connection with a woman who has experienced similar grief. Through their shared pain, they discover a second chance at love. Anna Hathaway who??! Nicholas In this episode, I also share a touching "Letter from Heaven," offering comfort and closure to anyone who has lost a loved one and yearns for one last goodbye. And don’t miss out on "Benson Knows Best," where I tackle your burning questions with my signature blend of wit and wisdom. Today’s question: How long should you wait for someone who’s not ready for a relationship? How to tell if he's your twin flame? and more! If you love today's episode, please leave me a 5 star review on Apple's podcast's app! :) To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ Add us on Instagram! This episode is brought to you by, Lulus - For the best clothes EVER visit Lulus and use my code 'ADULTING' for 20% off!! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On today's episode, Join your Russian big sis, Violetta as she unravels the tale of Buddha’s enlightenment and Disappointment Panda's brutal truths. She then explores if happiness is an algorithm we can crack or if we’re just wired to be a bit miserable. Why do we suffer? Is pain necessary for survival? Are we all just masochists in denial? and why blaming others is the perfect cop-out!! Violetta then delves into how dissatisfaction is baked into our DNA and why the greatest truths in life are the hardest to swallow. From the brain’s take on physical vs. psychological pain to how solving problems (yes, even the crappy ones) is the secret sauce to true happiness, your big sis has got you covered. Buckle up, because this episode is all about why your happiness is indeed a problem and what you can do about it. Credits: Big shoutout to Mark Manson for his brilliant insights from “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck.” This episode is brought to you by, Prose - Get FIFTY percent off your first subscription order at PROSE.com/adulting. To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ Add us on Instagram! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Babes, stop trying to CHANGE HIM, did he poopy his pants??!? Girl chill. Dive into this explosive solo episode where Violetta unravels the secrets of dating with 7 Game-Changing Dating Tips that will Transform Your Love Life forever!! Learn why men pull away, how to spot early dating red flags, why he won't commit, and the real reasons he’s not choosing you. Violetta share personal stories of her recent dating experience, including why she cried at Stagecoach, and insights on how to tell where your relationship is really going... Plus, get the scoop on the type of girl you need to stop being to find serious love. Don’t miss out—this is the game-changing advice you've been searching for! To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ Add us on Instagram! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Privet zychiky and welcome to a brand new PREMIUM episode on Wednesdays! Today Violetta shares some life changing advice that will get you thinking and touch your beautiful heart and mind. From a letter to your younger self to boundaries to dating advice. To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get ready to saddle up for an unforgettable adventure as your Russian big sis, Violetta, takes you through her first-ever Stagecoach experience on Almost Adulting! In this wild and insightful episode, Violetta shares: The Patron house Crew included: Meeting Music Icons: Unplanned Drama: Awkward Encounters: Favorite Moments: From celebrity run-ins to juicy house drama, Violetta brings you along for every twist and turn, complete with her signature tough love and wit. Tune in for an entertaining and heartfelt look at the festival, complete with all the lessons learned and laughs shared. Don't miss out on this ride—listen now for all the juicy details and unforgettable moments! To listen to the rest of the episode, go to the premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ Today’s Sponsors: Nutrafol - For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code ADULTING. Add us on Instagram! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Unraveling Relationship OCD: A Deeper Look with Dr. Patrick McGrath Is it just a quirk or could it be Relationship OCD? This misunderstood form of OCD often masquerades as simple jealousy or relationship ups and downs, but there's much more beneath the surface. In this compelling episode, we dive into the intricacies of Relationship OCD, exploring: Join us as Dr. Patrick B. McGrath, a leading expert in OCD treatment and author, shares his profound insights. Whether you're struggling with OCD, supporting someone who is, or simply fascinated by human psychology, this episode offers valuable understanding and practical advice. Learn to distinguish between love and obsession, and discover approaches that respect cultural sensitivities towards therapy. Don't miss out on these essential insights that could redefine how you view relationships and mental health. For more on information, visit https://www.nocd.com/ . Wanna elevate your listening experience? Ditch the ads and dive straight into today's episode by subscribing to our premium ad free podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. You'll also get two extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday. Why settle for less when you can have more? Subscribe now and turn every week into an adventure! :) Today’s Sponsors: NOCDLulus Add us on Instagram! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta’s eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises! Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else’s emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering up with someone who wouldn't cheer if you won the lottery. They will uncover the roots of codependency, explore the masquerade ball of personality masks—from the Perfectionist to the Damsel in Distress—and discuss why your life’s quality is basically the guest list of your personal relationship party. Tune in, and get entangled in the hilarious truths behind our relational binds! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: LulusCBDistillerywww.cbdistillery.com What to Listen For: Connect with Mark on: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/https://twitter.com/createthelovehttps://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestvhttps://createthelove.com/Liberated Love: Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire. In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting a partner—it's about igniting a deeper passion within yourself and radiating confidence. Whether you're mending a broken heart or setting the stage to lure back an ex with newfound allure, Adrienne equips you with the tools to confidently navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Join Violet and Adrienne for a transformative experience that will leave you inspired, informed, and invigorated to pursue your romantic endeavors with zest and wisdom. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: NOCDhttps://www.treatmyocd.com/ Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 01:49 How do I get my ex back? 02:27 Biggest misconception about dating today 05:44 Let the other person miss you 07:10 The 4 irresistible qualities men crave 15:05 What is love-starved? 19:06 Words that men love to hear 25:26 When should you say ‘Thank you’ 29:23 The ‘easy to be around energy’ 33:22 What does it mean to tap into your feminine energy 36:07 Women get preferences confused by boundaries 39:56 How do you express your expectation on the first date 44:00 The difference between soft and dark feminine energy 46:17 What does it mean to be in your dark feminine energy? 48:32 Is your soft feminine energy intimidating men? 49:42 Tap into your masculine energy 51:08 Then there is a third energy - neutral 55:05 How to drive men using your goddess feminine energy? 58:35 Healing from a breakup 01:02:12 You’re attracted to what you already have 01:05:45 How do you make him miss you after a breakup? 01:08:25 How do you get him back? 01:12:59 The ABCs to get him back 01:15:28 Putting your inner boy to work 01:17:37 A real story about a long distance relationship that worked long-term 01:21:14 How to get a man to chase you like he used to 01:27:23 “I am irresistible to men” 01:30:54 Show that you’re bored 01:32:52 How to make him keep loving you 01:34:52 How to protect your heart and not fall too fast 01:36:58 How do you love yourself? Connect with Adrienne on: https://everheartcoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/adrienne_everheart_ https://www.facebook.com/EverheartCoaching/ https://www.youtube.com/@AdrienneEverheart https://www.tiktok.com/@adrienneeverheart This Podcast is for Women: Relationship Advice & Feminine Energy with Adrienne Everheart Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse of the Wednesday premium episode!!! To listen to the FULL episode and get AD FREE weekly plus TWO EXTRA episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ On today's episode I discuss, Stagecoach, OCD, and my favourite quotes from my therapist! I also give you some advice, my favourite Kdrama's and my experience with finally getting back on dating apps! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled with humor, vulnerability, and the kind of honest chat you’d only share with your closest friends! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: Skims - Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt at https://skims.com/. Now available in sizes XXS - 4X. What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGShopifywww.shopify.com/adultingNOCDhttps://www.treatmyocd.com/ What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool and collected. Tune in for less talk, more action! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get TWO extra episodes every week on Wednesday and Saturday! Today’s Sponsors: Talkspace - https://www.talkspace.com/Prose - Go to https://prose.com/adulting for your free consultation and 50% off your one-of-a-kind formulas What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch. GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for. So get ready to be the main event and how you can make men work so hard for that front seat! For more episodes like this, check out the premium podcast with two extra episodes WEEKLY subscribe here - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ Today's episode is brought to you by our sponsor: NOCD - To learn more about therapy with NOCD, go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. That’s N-O-C-D.com to learn more and book a free 15-minute call. What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea that a great life is made up of a series of small, meaningful moments. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Trulywww.trulyhardseltzer.com/locations Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 01:28 “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.” 04:32 20 signs you’re doing better that you think you are 11:32 How do we measure a good life? 17:14 A great life a series of small moments put together Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy! To listen to the FULL episode and get ad free episodes plus two extra episodes a week, go subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!! Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally, the transformation from a fixed to a growth mindset, and how to ignite your motivation for success. Plus, don't miss our top tips for attracting success in your life! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: Skims - Episode Highlights: 00:00 Intro 02:00 What does success mean to you? 03:28 The failure and success paradox 07:53 Tips to stop self sabotaging 10:14 Quantum physics 15:57 What do most successful people have in common? 20:16 Passion and perseverance 24:20 Don’t rely too much on willpower 28:08 Switching from fixed mindset to a growth mindset 30:30 Tips to get motivated to become successful 32:56 Top tips to attract success Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other. Today we discuss some things I WOULD NEVER share on my regular podcast since I am afraid of a lawsuit or people coming for me so if you want to hear the full story, go listen and subscribe on https://almostadulting.supercast.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment. Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproof strategies to make a lasting impression and cultivate meaningful connections. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month! Today’s Sponsors: CBDistillerywww.cbdistillery.comGlamsquadhttps://glamsquad.com/ADULTINGNuuly - https://www.nuuly.com/ What to Listen For: Get more content on: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.