CockTales: Dirty Discussions

February looks a little different this year… because we are letting men take the mic. To kick off our February Men’s Series, we are joined by actor, producer, veteran and content creator Mike Bless aka Michael Anthony. This conversation dives deep into dating, emotional healing, masculinity and the realities of modern relationships from a male perspective. We talk about how men process heartbreak, the role of honesty in dating, why communication looks different for men, and the idea that many men heal quietly instead of publicly. Mike opens up about accountability, emotional vulnerability, dating expectations and the importance of being honest about intentions early. Of course, we also get into power dynamics in relationships, monogamy vs honesty, the Atlanta dating scene, men wearing purses (yes, we went there), and why giving space in early dating might actually be healthy. This episode kicks off a full month of real conversations with men about love, growth, healing and relationships — and we are listening. Cocktail of the Week: The Leading Man Ingredients 2 oz bourbon 1 oz blood orange juice ½ oz simple or honey syrup 2 dashes Angostura bitters Orange peel garnish Instructions Sip, stare dramatically into the distance, and pretend you’re the main character. 🥃🍊 SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads ERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ SOAKING WET FROM VBHEALTH Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off! Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Are you getting a good Relationship ROI, or are you just operating in chaos? This week, Kiki and Medinah discuss the importance of intentionality—from your wellness routine to your brunch dates. We’re diving into why separated checks at a bottomless mimosa brunch might actually be the ultimate green flag for clarity. In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" story of the week: a romantic shower that turned into an Olympic sport when the curtain rod gave up. Plus, Kiki talks about the struggle of people always "outsourcing" their work to her—from party planning to free makeup sessions. We also cover: Intentional Health: The "Ghost" Eyebrow Incident: Advice: This Week's Cocktail: The Calm but Curious Mule A refreshing, spicy mocktail (with an optional kick). Ingredients:Garnish:Instructions:Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALESfor 10% off Try Brello! Go to brellohealth.com and use code COCKTALES For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

What’s Your Superpower? In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission. The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. They also talk about commitment in this season of life, learning how to say no without guilt, setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, and why burnout isn’t a badge of honor. In Weird Sex, the conversation turns to curiosity, threesomes, and ethical non-monogamy — breaking down how to talk about fantasies honestly, why curiosity doesn’t equal dissatisfaction, and how consent and communication make all the difference. As always, things take a turn into real life: fostering chaotic cats, stepping back from dating, learning new skills, choosing rest, and staying grounded when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether you’re doing enough, this episode is a reminder that your presence, your voice, and your energy matter more than you think. Sometimes your superpower isn’t loud — it’s just consistent. 🍹 This Week’s Cocktail: The Soft Launch Spritz (Mocktail) A fresh, light mocktail perfect for Dry January — or spike it if you’re feeling spicy. Ingredients How to Make Check Out Erika Lust and use Promo code "COCKTALES" for a 45% discount erikalust.com Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

SPECIAL OFFER! Beducated is offering our listeners 50% off an annual membership when you click the link iand use code COCKTALES. https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales Last week we kicked off our “Who Said That?” recap, and this week we’re back with Part 2 — more wild clips, iconic one-liners, and a few moments that reminded us why CockTales is funny and deep when it wants to be. This episode is a continuation of last week’s trip down memory lane, pulling standout moments from different years of the show. Some clips had us crying laughing, some had us side-eyeing ourselves, and others took a surprisingly thoughtful turn — because if we’re gonna reflect, we might as well do it honestly. We talk fashion eras (yes, the Martha Stewart linen phase still stands), dating boundaries, bad decisions we didn’t make, and the difference between being open-minded and being open to everything (spoiler: not the same). We also get into why “sex is a skill,” why everybody with a microphone is not a licensed expert, and why sometimes the real growth is knowing when to stop, sit still, and get yourself together. As always, there’s plenty of foolishness, a little ministry, and a lot of “did she really say that?” energy. If you haven’t listened to Part 1, go run that back first — then come join us here. 🍹 Cocktail of the Episode French 75… But Make It Therapy You’ll need: How to make it: Shake Bailey’s with a small splash of simple syrup until frothy. Pour vanilla vodka into a flute, top with sparkling wine, gently spoon the foam on top, and garnish with a lemon twist. Do not rush the foam unless you want chaos in a glass. 🗣 Topics We Get Into: VB Health – Soaking Wet Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts. 📺 Watch the full episode on YouTube. 💬 Tell us which quote took you OUT Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

It’s time to look back… and immediately ask ourselves, “Wait—who said that?!” In Part 1 of this two-part recap episode, Kiki and Medinah revisit some of the wildest, funniest, most unhinged moments from 2025 (with a few older classics sprinkled in), reacting to past clips in real time and reliving everything from comedian guests and dating rants to weird sex stories, hair debates, pop culture takes, and those signature CockTales side quests that somehow always lead back to food. This episode is pure commentary chaos: – Comedians we loved (and clips that still hold up… mostly) – Dating opinions that aged interestingly – Hair, weaves, man-weaves, and why honesty matters – Weird sex facts that somehow turn into social commentary – Pop culture deep dives (yes, including Game of Thrones) – Rants that start one place and end somewhere completely different Think of this as a highlight reel with commentary, context, and a little “wow… we really said that” energy. And don’t worry — this is just Part 1. There’s plenty more where this came from. 🎧 Listen, laugh, argue with us in your head, and let us know in the comments which clips took you OUT. 🍸 Today’s Cocktail: The Velvet Revolution Smooth, cozy, and perfect for a recap episode. Ingredients 1.5 oz Baileys 1 oz vanilla vodka or dark rum 1 oz cold brew coffee or espresso (optional, but highly encouraged) Ice Nutmeg or cinnamon (for garnish) How to Make It Add Baileys, vodka or rum, and cold brew to a shaker filled with ice. Shake well until chilled and silky. Strain into a coupe or rocks glass. Sprinkle nutmeg or cinnamon on top and enjoy. Cheers to closing out 2025 and easing into 2026 — raspy voices, hot takes, and all. 🥂 Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Interested in being a guest? Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Looking for a new podcast home or event space? Use our referal link and book on PeerSpace. This space is available there: www.peerspace.com/claim/gr-PPJGdRwxzlJDG Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether. From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive feedback, and why avoidance often feels easier than vulnerability. The episode also explores relationship expectations, emotional maturity, and a listener write-in that sparks a real conversation about compatibility, communication, and knowing when something just isn’t aligned. Along the way, Kiki reflects on personal growth, past embarrassment, family dynamics, and learning how to pause before reacting, especially when emotions are high. This is a funny, honest, and thought-provoking episode about growth, self-awareness, and learning how to communicate without tearing people down — or disappearing when things get uncomfortable. If you’ve ever struggled with telling the truth, hearing the truth, or figuring out how to say the hard thing without hurting someone, this episode is for you. Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.” We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere) • Why communication is not “being nosy” • New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes • Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats • Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories & deconstructed pies • What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional 🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL 2 oz vodka 1 oz fresh lemon juice 0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup Splash of cranberry juice 2–3 cucumber slices Club soda to top Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist How to make it: Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them! FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducated If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducated We’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales. 🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) Recipe Ingredients: Instructions: Add everything to a shaker with ice. Shake hard until frothy, strain into a martini glass, and top with cinnamon or nutmeg. Sip slowly… because clearly, this drink has consequences. Once the cocktails hit, we dive into: ✨ Holiday traditions and why cheesy Lifetime movies still eat every time ✨ All Her Fault theories, plot twists, and why Kiki is ready to write and direct ✨ Medina’s acting dreams and the monologue she’s already prepared ✨ Theme night prep: Dirty Disney, North Pole After Dark, In Living Color, and Strip Club Night ✨ Plane farts, airplane germs, and why those blankets are not your friends ✨ A full-on stomach betrayal that led to a Ziploc bag, a frantic phone call, and an emergency Chick-fil-A pit stop We also get into supporting partners with mental health struggles, TikTok conspiracy holes, dog-nap nightmares, Carry-On Only delusion, and why sometimes you just have to end the whole day and start over. This episode has holiday chaos, movie talk, outfit planning, questionable decisions, and a very public emergency that will absolutely have you hollering.Grab a Naughty Nog and press play — we warned you. FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducated If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone. We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend when someone in your circle goes through trauma. Lindsay also spills on playing the unhinged Leslie on “The Team”, the joy of being a villain, and what’s next for her production company, LA Elite Productions, including her upcoming films “Girls Night,” “The Perfect Proposal,” and “Curious.” And because every episode needs something in the glass, today’s drink is the Prego-Rita — a citrusy mocktail with a sparkling-wine upgrade for the girls who aren’t pregnant. 🍹 Today’s Cocktail: The Prego-Rita (Mocktail + Cocktail) Base: Cocktail Add-On: Directions: Shake lime, orange, and agave over ice. Pour into a rimmed glass over fresh ice. Mocktail: top with club soda. Cocktail: add sparkling wine, then top with club soda. Garnish with jalapeño for a spicy kick. FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN FOLLOW OUR GUEST: @SHESJUSTLINDSAY Promos BROOKLYN BEDDING: Go to www.brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. CELEBRATOR: Experience the difference oscillation makes. Get 20% off The Celebrator & free shipping today at 3rdPlanetProducts.com CODE COCKTALES20 For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird *ex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

We are back in the studio with Cocktales Chardonnay in our glasses and a lot on our hearts. This week Kiki and Medinah catch you up on everything from Hedonism in Jamaica after Hurricane Melissa to one of the wildest Weird Sex stories we have had in a minute. Kiki shares how the resort staff has been impacted, why she is turning her suitcase into a donation bin, and how you can help if you feel called to give. Medinah talks about Paradise & Vibe’s Traveler’s Resort family, the fundraiser in Jamaica and why natural disasters hit different when you know the people affected. We also get into robot taxis glitching in Atlanta, Kiki’s fever app mock trial experience where the audience decides who is guilty in an AI car accident, and Medinah’s grown woman announcements, including her holiday tablescaping class with her interior designer and a full wellness retreat in Istanbul, Turkey. A listener writes in about an ER trauma case where a woman comes in after being hit by a car, gets scanned head to toe, and the entire team discovers a plug sitting pretty on the CT. From toys to MRIs and lying about metal in your body, we take it there. Then the episode takes a tender turn. Medinah opens up about putting her dog Shai down, what led up to that heartbreaking vet visit, the costs, the process and the grief of coming home to an empty hallway, a leash in the car and a quiet house after more than a decade with her best friend. She reflects on a long season of letting go, trusting God, and learning healthier coping mechanisms than she had when she first got Chi. Kiki shares her own life updates too, including a Leo and Teyana Taylor film premiere, more thoughts on AI car trials, using the Fever app to find things to do, and why Atlanta actually has plenty of food and fun if you stop following only the “lit” IG spots. The ladies swap date recommendations like Midtown Social’s R&B Bingo, Cirque du Soleil, museums, sushi classes and even ballroom dancing. They close with some real talk about how podcasts and creator work are actually funded, why your subscription, reviews and shares really matter, and how you can support CockTales without going broke in this economy. Plus, Medinah invites listeners to join her for a Meals on Wheels Atlanta volunteer day and reminds anyone struggling that there are resources and community waiting. If you have ever loved a pet like a family member, felt stuck in grief, or just needed a reminder that you can cry and still get cute for a date and a concert, this episode is for you. Interested in being a guest? Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Promo Code for 20% off a ticket: TABLESCAPE2025 WINE & DESIGN https://www.eventbrite.com/e/wine-design-hosted-by-brian-christion-madinah-monroe-112225-tickets-1857609192099?aff=oddtdtcreator VOLUNTEER WITH MEDINAH 11/20 https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKwE0pjsr38uX9qlRvCJOdHDxJqey1qAxE4vXBIMNLrYr_Bg/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101308055207483565674 Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird : weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah!...

Try BEDUCATED and use our code COCKTALES69 https://beducate.me/pd2545-cocktales Pour up some champagne and join Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe for a deep, funny, and heartfelt episode featuring K. Micole—celebrity stylist turned image architect and author. They unpack everything from healing and co-parenting to how your image reflects your inner world. K. Micole gets real about building confidence, balancing motherhood and purpose, and learning to forgive yourself without losing your shine. Follow our guest @kmicole If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:00:29 - Discussion on Seasonal Depression 00:01:17 - Discussion on Image Architecture 00:04:46 - Discussion on Personal Styling 00:17:06 - Product Promotion 00:19:31 - Continuation of Parenting and Relationships Discussion 00:41:16 - Discussion on Self-awareness and Personal Growth 00:45:01 - Discussion on Overcoming Adversity 00:56:13 - Discussion on the Power of Prayer 01:02:14 - Discussion on Authenticity 01:06:10 - Listener's Letter and Advice 01:17:28 - Discussion on Friendships and Self-reflection Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 - Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 - Host Catch-Up00:05:22 - Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 - Game Time00:20:09 - Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 - The Dog Drama00:36:05 - Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 - When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 - Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 - Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey www.patreon.com/kikisaidso www.worstbehaviortour.com https://lnk.to/6JdRUZhttps://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026Cancer Walk Info 📲 Follow Us: Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Follow Our Guest@kdaviscomedy Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club: www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered ✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates. 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Go to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey www.patreon.com/kikisaidso www.worstbehaviortour.com https://lnk.to/6JdRUZhttps://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026Cancer Walk Info 📲 Follow Us: Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club: www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real. The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, her take on the “Winter Arc” trend, and why LinkedIn just became her new favorite social app. They close it out with reflections on reading more, healing from burnout, and what it means to stay authentic when life gets messy.Cocktail of the Week: Unruly — just champagne, because we’re celebrating making it through another week. 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey www.patreon.com/kikisaidso www.worstbehaviortour.com https://lnk.to/6JdRUZhttps://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026Cancer Walk Info 📲 Follow Us: Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird : weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club: www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

(00:00:00) Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags (00:00:01) Intro Trailer (00:01:30) LIBRA LEMON DROP RECIPE (00:05:16) ANNOUNCEMENTS (00:07:38) KIKI'S BOOK CLUB (00:11:23) XOMAN PODCAST (00:13:47) HEDONISM WITH WORST BEHAVIOR TOUR STARTING AT $1650 (00:17:26) LIFERX USE CODE COCKTALES (00:22:13) WEIRD SEX (00:44:19) SOAKINGWET.COM USE CODE COCKTALES (00:47:16) DISSAPOINMENTS 7 THE JOY OF SHOWING UP (01:03:15) I'M CURIOUS TO KNOW (01:05:01) advice - send yours advice@cocktalespod.com This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered girl chat—no guest, just us! We kick things off with a Libra Lemon Drop cocktail and dive into Libra season vibes, astrology, and friendship dynamics. From growing apart after kids to showing up for friends’ milestones, we get real about what it means to maintain connections through life’s transitions. We also share self-rituals, birthday traditions, and our takes on communication struggles—whether it’s boring conversations, copycat friends, or partners who just won’t open up. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without a wild story, and this week’s birthday cake incident will have you cackling. Plus, Indecisive Diane drops in with advice, and we tackle listener questions about threesomes and friend drama. Pour a drink, press play, and let’s talk friendships, growth, and keeping it spicy. 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads soakingwet.com LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MDLIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon September “Tethered Love by Kimberly Brown www.patreon.com/kikisaidso www.worstbehaviortour.com https://lnk.to/6JdRUZhttps://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026Cancer Walk Info 📲 Follow Us: Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Sponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club: www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Check Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancy Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com ✨ Chapters: 00:00:00 - Intro Teaser: Growing Apart from Friends 00:00:19 - Self Traditions and Rituals 00:00:33 - Conversation Control 00:00:50 - Growing Apart After Having Kids 00:01:12 - Cocktales: Dirty Discussions Introduction 00:01:30 - Libra Lemon Drop Cocktail Recipe 00:02:04 - Libra Season Discussion 00:03:07 - Friends and Astrology Signs 00:05:16 - Announcements and Updates 00:07:38 - Book Club Meeting 00:11:23 - XO Man Podcast 00:13:47 - Worst Behavior Tour Trip to Negril, Jamaica 00:15:31 - Excitement for the Upcoming Trip to Turkey 00:15:58 - Discussing Body Positivity and Self Sex Education 00:16:18 - Gift of Experiences 00:17:08 - Reflecting on Friendships 00:17:26 - LifeRX Segment: Health and Fitness Journey with Life Rx MD 00:22:13 - Weird S*x Story: Birthday Cake Incident 00:26:27 - Growing Apart from Friends: Perspectives 00:31:40 - Speaking Up in Relationships and Friendships 00:34:10 - The Elasticity of the Heart 00:36:26 - Self Reflection and Personal Growth 00:39:53 - Birthday Rituals and Traditions 00:40:30 - Appreciation for Massages 00:44:19 - Ad: VB Health: Soaking Wet Pills 00:46:54 - Soaking Wet Ad 00:47:16 - Disappointments in Friendships 00:47:54 - The Joy of Showing Up 00:50:50 - Surprising Nephew in LA 00:52:57 - Supporting Friends' Events 00:55:34 - The Importance of Communication 00:56:30 - The Struggles of Boring Conversations 01:01:38 - The...

This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term. Detailed Show Notes: Marriage, Partnership & Real Love Lessons Topics Covered: Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso www.worstbehaviortour.com https://lnk.to/6JdRUZhttps://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026Cancer Walk Infobrooklynbedding.com LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MDLIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean GUESTS: @LOVEANDFLYSHT 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club: www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today Chapters: 00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride 02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast* 04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating 09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage 13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos 17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh 27:00 – Do married people miss being single? 31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance 37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex 44:00 – Living together before marriage 50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths 53:00 – How to choose the right partner Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

We’re back—fashionably late thanks to last week’s tech gremlins—but the Virgo Vixen energy is intact. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with the Virgo Vixen cocktail, then catch up on names vs. nicknames, a quick shout to Lula’s Legacy of Love (Breast Cancer walk 10/25 in Tampa), and Kiki’s Drinks & Reads book club featuring author Kimberly Brown. Kiki recaps Podcast Movement (anxiety to applause), a heavenly stop at Southern Classic Daiquiri Factory, and why her birthday plan is all about volunteering with Meals on Wheels (53 friends confirmed!). We get into Hedonism plans for December, TikTok family moments, sweet-16 prep, clubbing at Revel, and a real talk segment on dating while on a “soft pop-out”—fly-outs with boundaries, bundles discourse, and why “a lot” isn’t an insult. Medinah opens up about Paradise & Vibe Sedona: the celebrity no-show, the lessons learned, and how an intimate Lion Babe performance turned into a tiny-desk-style moment. Send us: Advice letters → advice@cocktalespod.com | Cocktales → cocktales@cocktalespod.com Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreonwww.patreon.com/kikisaidso www.worstbehaviortour.com https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 Cancer Walk Info Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

After last week’s marathon two-hour episode, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it light with some good old-fashioned girl talk. The ladies crack open a can of Drippy, share a few laughs, rant about GoPuff, and let the conversation spiral into pure CockTales chaos. If you love the random, unfiltered energy, this one’s for you. 🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter 💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreonwww.patreon.com/kikisaidso www.worstbehaviortour.com https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week’s cocktail is the Thirst Trap Spritz—a flirty, fruity sip perfect for summer. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with book club chatter about Kimberly Brown’s If You Love Me, a suspenseful love story that sparks a wild “what would you do?” debate about missing spouses and moving on. From there, the ladies dive into a Weird Sex story featuring balcony sex in Mexico (and some Atlanta sightings 👀), before checking in on their health journeys with LifeRX. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn with real talk on funerals, wills, life insurance, and why Black families need to plan ahead. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without plenty of laughs, side stories, and chaotic tangents. Pull up a glass, sip your spritz, and join the discussion. Links Mentioned: Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreonwww.patreon.com/kikisaidsowww.worstbehaviortour.comhttps://lnk.to/6JdRUZhttps://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026 Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188 📲 Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club: www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.