The Tragedy Academy

What happens when creative power, marketing wisdom, and startup energy collide? In this episode, Jay sits down with Julie Matzen to explore the journey from agency leadership to startup empowerment. With honesty, laughter, and depth, they unpack the emotional architecture of business: the fear of becoming irrelevant, the power of validation, and the truth that failure isn’t a wall—it’s a lens. The conversation moves from the dangers of letting AI write your ad copy to the Gen X struggle of feeling unseen, all the way to the radical idea that access to wisdom should be affordable. Through shared metaphors, unapologetic insights, and unexpected childhood stories, Julie and Jay remind us that the real power in business—and in life—comes not from polish, but from presence. "Don't let AI be your art. The paintbrush doesn't get the credit." Bio: Julie Matzen is the co-founder of Boarderline and founder of the MayDay Agency. With over 25 years in branding and digital strategy for top-tier brands, Julie now focuses on democratizing access to expert advisors for startups and mid-sized businesses. Through Boarderline, she's building a platform that empowers emerging entrepreneurs to gain real insights from the minds that helped build the world's biggest brands. 📌 Key Takeaways ✨ [00:14:00] – "AI can automate, but it can't validate." 🧘 [00:20:00] – Insight without experience is dangerous—it’s just expensive noise. 🔥 [00:36:00] – Gen X has the tools. It's time to show younger generations how to use them. 🤖 [00:03:00] – AI is a mirror, not a muse. 💭 [00:48:00] – Validation isn’t weakness. It’s water for the seed. 📚 Chapter Timestamps 🚢 [00:00] – Shifts and Ships in Business 🧠 [05:00] – The Wisdom of Gen X and the Value of Lenses 🪞 [10:00] – AI as Mirror, Not Muse 🎭 [15:00] – The Fear of Aging Out 💬 [21:00] – Validation, Vulnerability, and Starting Over 📉 [30:00] – Marketing That Misses the Point 🎯 [38:00] – Emotional Triggers and Human Branding 📚 [48:00] – The Value of Experience 🌀 [55:00] – Final Metaphors and Messages CTA for the Show If this episode resonated, subscribe, review, and share it to help grow the Tree of Knowledge 🌳 We explore the human experience through tragedy and triumph—with laughter, candor, and depth. 🌟 Be cool and keep learning. 🌟 CTA for the Guest Learn more about Julie Matzen at: https://theboarderline.co https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-matzen-1696aa52 Support her mission to make expert advice accessible to small businesses and emerging founders. 🚀 Welcome to The Tragedy Academy Podcast Discover stories of resilience, redemption, and the human spirit. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 📲 Riverside Recording Studio: https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD 👕 Grab Jay’s Gear: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 📘 Bookshop Picks: https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ✅ Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg 📱 Follow Us Instagram: https://instagram.com/tragedyacademystudios.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/tragedyacademystudios Twitter: https://twitter.com/Tragedyacademystudios TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@tragedyacademystudios 💖 Support Us PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=YMU9L4TBWX6AG Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tragedyacademy

Over time, this show has become more than interviews—it’s become a mirror. In this episode, Jay offers a quiet reflection born from years of sitting with brave, vulnerable humans who were willing to speak their truth. There is no guest today, but their presence is felt in every moment. Each clip and insight shared here was evoked through those conversations, shaped by the energy in the room, the story being told, and the resonance that followed. This is not a solo episode in the truest sense — it’s a continuation of the dialogue, spoken in stillness. “I’ve been told there’s wisdom in these words. If that’s true, it came from you all of you. I’m just the one who said it out loud.” Jay ends the episode with quiet gratitude and the promise of more solo episodes to come, not to lecture, but to reflect. Not to lead, but to honor what’s already been offered. Key Takeaways 🕰️ 00:00:00 – The Mask & The Material Patch (Wearing identities to cover wounds) 🔄 00:01:33 – The Wheel Breaks (Breaking patterns of self-medication and denial) 💭 00:02:22 – Thoughts Are Always Floating (The ever-available archive of pain and memory) 🫥 00:05:04 – Gynecomastia & Shared Pain (Shame, embodiment, and early self-hatred) 🛡️ 00:07:00 – The Mind’s Shield (How the brain protects us from truth — and connection) 💸 00:07:40 – Empathy vs Insurance (The absurdity of treating souls like codes) 🪞 00:10:34 – Stained Glass & Knotted Rope (Pain as fragmented art, healing through mindful untying) ⚖️ 00:13:06 – Perfectly Imperfect: The Now (Accepting the dark to appreciate the light — and staying present) 🧩 00:15:42 – Reverse Tetris & American Avoidance (Justifying suffering to maintain comfort zones) 🤖 00:17:27 – AI, Knowledge, and Human Systems (Tech as mirror, not monster — and the threat of withheld care) 🌅 00:19:53 – Becoming the Lighthouse (Living as a quiet guide for those still in the storm) 🧬 00:22:10 – Authenticity as Legacy (Choosing real over perfect — and passing that on) ⏳ 00:26:05 – Time Is Illness: Choose Now (Rejecting fictional timelines and reclaiming immediacy) 🔁 00:31:08 – Repetition as a Wake-Up Call (When pain loops, it’s asking to be heard) 🥃 00:33:44 – Precipice, Vodka, Meditation, Self (Burnout, stillness, and the early cracks of becoming) 🌬️ 00:37:59 – If Just One Echo Finds You (Whispered purpose — helping one is enough) 🚀 Welcome to The Tragedy Academy Podcast Discover stories of resilience, redemption, and the human spirit. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 📲 Riverside Recording Studio: https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD 👕 Grab Jay’s Gear: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 📘 Bookshop Picks: https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ✅ Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg 📱 Follow Us Instagram: https://instagram.com/tragedyacademystudios.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/tragedyacademystudios Twitter: https://twitter.com/Tragedyacademystudios TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@tragedyacademystudios 💖 Support Us PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=YMU9L4TBWX6AG Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tragedyacademy

Sometimes it's too good to hear once. In this emotionally charged flashback episode of The Tragedy Academy, Jay Hicks sits down with Bruce W. Brackett to explore one of the most vulnerable journeys ever shared on the show—from addiction and abuse to art, advocacy, and radical self-love. Bruce opens up about the cycles of trauma, the power of the inner ember that never dies, and how one brutal night at rock bottom led to the symbolic burial of his addiction. Through Bruce’s raw storytelling and Jay’s deeply empathetic reflections, this episode becomes a living meditation on survival, transformation, and what it means to shine anyway. Listeners will walk away reminded that we are not the sum of our damage, but the authors of what we do next. And sometimes, the smallest ember becomes the bonfire. 🌀 Chapters: [00:00] Opening & Bruce’s Setup [04:00] Childhood Trauma & Foster Care [10:00] Addiction, Shame & Compassion [20:00] Unraveling the Rope: Metaphors of Healing [31:00] Mausoleum Ceremony: The Day Bruce Quit [41:00] The Rain & Release [50:00] Positivity, Merch, and Building a Platform [55:00] Bruce’s “Three Do’s” & Closing Reflections Bio: Bruce W. Brackett is a motivational speaker, visual artist, author, and social media advocate whose life journey took him from severe childhood trauma and addiction to sobriety and artistic purpose. His upcoming book, How to Breathe While Suffocating, documents that transformation and serves as a guide for others finding light in their own darkness. 📢 CTA for the Show: If Bruce’s journey moved you, share it. Help someone find their light. Subscribe, review, and tell a friend that healing doesn’t always come easily, but it always comes from within. 🌟 Be cool and keep learning. 🌟 🌐 CTA for Bruce: Follow Bruce at @BruceWBrackett on all platforms. Grab his book How to Breathe While Suffocating at howtobreathewhilesuffocating.com Explore his powerful merch line that speaks healing through design. Support his voice, because it’s helping light the way for thousands still stuck in the flames. 🔥 🚀 Welcome to The Tragedy Academy Podcast Discover stories of resilience, redemption, and the human spirit. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 📲 Riverside Recording Studio: https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD 👕 Grab Jay’s Gear: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 📘 Bookshop Picks: https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ✅ Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg 📱 Follow Us Instagram: https://instagram.com/tragedyacademystudios.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/tragedyacademystudios Twitter: https://twitter.com/Tragedyacademystudios TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@tragedyacademystudios 💖 Support Us PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=YMU9L4TBWX6AG Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tragedyacademy

In this thought-provoking episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, host Jay Hicks welcomes Leo Marrs—spiritual technologist, founder of America’s first breathwork studio, and creator of the AI-integrated mindfulness app, Ether. Their powerful conversation dives into the intersection of consciousness, creativity, and technology. From fasting as a path to mental clarity to breathwork as a tool for healing trauma and building resilience, Leo shares how ancient wisdom and modern tools can reconnect us to ourselves. The episode explores Integral Theory, the risks of spiritual bypassing, and how breath, language, and stillness foster self-awareness. Jay and Leo reframe AI not as a threat, but as a reflection of human consciousness. Whether you're seeking healing, inspiration, or a better understanding of the mind-body-tech connection, this episode invites you to breathe deeper and think broader. 🔑 Key Takeaways 00:03:3400:05:3100:11:3000:18:1800:35:0000:39:0600:46:3600:47:1100:48:22👤 Guest Bio: Leo Marrs Leo is a founder, philosopher, and consciousness explorer helping people bridge ancient wisdom with modern innovation. From Alaska-born wilderness survivor to nightclub impresario and breathwork pioneer, Leo’s work blends spiritual practice with futurist thinking. He is the creator of the Ether app and author of the upcoming book The New Creator, focused on resilience, creativity, and mindful evolution in the Meaning Economy. 📢 Support & Connect 💬 Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and share to help grow the Tree of Knowledge. 🌳 🎧 New episodes weekly exploring the human experience through tragedy and triumph. 🌟 Be cool. Keep learning. 🌟 🌐 Dive Deeper into Leo’s World: 🔗 Website: leomarrs.com (two R’s!) 📱 Try Ether (7-day free trial): ethr.one 📚 Follow his newsletter and upcoming book The New Creator 🎙️ More from The Tragedy Academy: bit.ly/3LSCBh5bit.ly/431MLD5bit.ly/42pPHcvSubscribe📲 Follow Us Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | TikTok: @tragedyacademystudios 💖 Support the Show PayPalBuy Me a Coffee

In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay speaks with Andrea Wilson Woods, author, patient advocate, and founder of Blue Faery: The Adrienne Wilson Liver Cancer Association. Andrea shares the harrowing, heart-opening story of raising her sister from childhood through a terminal liver cancer diagnosis, and how that experience became the catalyst for lifelong advocacy and education. 🎙️ Andrea’s story is not just one of loss — it’s one of legacy. At just 22, she became the legal guardian of her 8-year-old sister Adrienne, raising her through the chaos of addiction and dysfunction. When Adrienne was diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer and passed away at 15, Andrea didn’t turn away — she turned purpose into motion. From starting a nonprofit in her sister’s name to translating reams of medical data into life-saving layman’s terms, her story is one of fierce love, resilience, and patient-centered revolution. 💛 Jay brings his signature blend of compassion, insight, and lived experience to this raw, honest conversation about family roles, medical burnout, and the importance of agency in the healthcare system. Whether you’re navigating grief, caregiving, or simply trying to understand better how to support those who are — this episode will move you. 🔑 Key Takeaways: 🧬 [00:03:00] Andrea raised her sister after their mother relinquished custody, while still a college student. 💔 [00:09:59] Adrienne’s cancer diagnosis came suddenly, changing both their lives in just six hours. 📚 [00:22:52] With no existing resources, Andrea taught herself hepatology by reading medical textbooks and dictionaries. 🎗 [00:25:28] Fatty liver disease, not just alcohol, is now one of the leading causes of liver cancer in the U.S. 🧠 [00:44:42] Andrea shares how AI is beginning to improve cancer diagnostics — but human advocacy is still critical. 👤 Guest Bio: Andrea Wilson Woods is a writer, speaker, and health advocate who founded Blue Faery in honor of her sister Adrienne, who passed away from liver cancer at just 15. Andrea’s memoir, Better Off Bald, chronicles their journey with both tenderness and clarity. A relentless advocate for patient education and healthcare equity, Andrea has become a national voice for those navigating complex diagnoses with limited resources. 📣 CTA for Show: If this episode resonates with you, or you know someone who’s faced a diagnosis, caregiving, or losing a loved one, please share it. 🙏 Subscribe to The Tragedy Academy Podcast wherever you get your podcasts, leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review, and help us amplify stories that matter. Because truth deserves a mic — and healing deserves a stage. 🌀 Be cool. And keep learning. 🌱 📣 CTA for Guest: To support Andrea’s work or learn more about liver cancer advocacy, visit bluefaery.org. You can also purchase Better Off Bald on Amazon or Audible. Follow her journey and advocacy through Blue Faery on social platforms, because her voice is changing how we care, one patient at a time. 💙 🔚 Conclusion: This week’s episode reminds us that tragedy doesn’t just transform lives — it gives rise to missions. Andrea’s path from sister to caregiver to advocate is a masterclass in finding meaning in heartbreak and building something beautiful in its place. 🎧 Tune in next week for another powerful episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast. 🌟 Be cool and keep learning. 🌟

🎧 In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay speaks with Jenn Bouler — known on Instagram as “Jenn with two Ns” — about the unseen layers of addiction, the masks we wear to fit in, and what happens when you finally take yours off. 🎙️ ✨ Jenn’s story isn’t marked by trauma or chaos, making it resonate even deeper. A happy childhood. A solid career. A beautiful son. And yet, beneath the surface, alcohol crept in not to numb the pain… but to mute the pressure of perfection. In this episode, she shares what it means to hit a “high bottom,” how the wine-mom culture glamorizes escape, and what finally drove her to reclaim her identity from behind the bottle. With candor, heart, and Jay’s signature mix of humor and insight, this conversation dives deep into the cultural constructs of “normal” drinking, the shame that lingers behind the scenes, and the power of showing up for yourself, one sober day at a time. From grocery store wine planning to white-chip meetings, Jenn’s path reminds us: the real you is always worth meeting. 🔑 Key Takeaways: 🐾 [00:03:22] “Becky” — Jenn’s drinking alter ego — gave her temporary escape, but not real freedom 🍷 [00:16:58] Planning for weekend drinking is a red flag we normalize in middle-class culture 💔 [00:28:38] Friends and family lovingly noticed before she did: “You’re drinking more every time I visit.” 👩‍👦 [00:30:03] Her son, just five at the time, became her biggest reason for change 💡 [00:35:04] “I came for my son. I stayed for me.” — How a support meeting changed her entire frame 👤 Guest Bio: Jenn Bouler is a Tampa-based mom, sales rep, indoor cycling instructor, and founder of Jen Walks Dogs, a business built on joy and connection. Eight years sober as of 2025, she shares her journey of recovery and self-discovery with refreshing honesty. A Midwest native with a big heart and a contagious smile, Jenn lives her life with passion, presence, and a deep desire to help others feel less alone. 📣 CTA for Guest: Want to follow Jenn’s journey? Connect with her on: Instagram: • @jen_bouler • @jen_b_spin (Indoor Cycling) • @jen_walks_dogs (Dog Walking) Whether on a bike, a sidewalk, or holding space in her community, Jenn radiates truth and transformation. Follow her for daily reminders that growth can be graceful, and joy is always worth chasing. 🐶💛🚴‍♀️ 🌀 Conclusion: This episode isn’t just about sobriety but sovereignty. About taking back your life, one intentional breath at a time. Thank you, Jenn, for being a lighthouse. 🎧 Tune in next week for another honest, heart-opening episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast. Be cool and keep learning. 🌿🕊️ 🚀 Welcome to The Tragedy Academy Podcast 🚀 Discover stories of resilience, redemption, and the human spirit. Hosted with empathy and humor, we share inspiring narratives that blend wisdom and wit, offering insights, laughter, and growth. Join our community and connect through shared experiences. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site with https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 📲 Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD 👕 Get the Gear: Loved Jay’s t-shirt? Grab it at Into the AM: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 📘 Expand Your Mind: Check out our favorite reads! https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ✅ Subscribe:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg 📱 Follow Us: Instagram:https://instagram.com/tragedyacademystudios.com Facebook:https://facebook.com/tragedyacademystudios Twitter:https://twitter.com/Tragedyacademystudios TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@tragedyacademystudios 💖 Support Us: Please help us continue bringing meaningful content by donating via PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=YMU9L4TBWX6AG or Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tragedyacademy.

🎙️ In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay sits down with Jason Heffler—author, EDM journalist, DJ, and passionate advocate for self-acceptance. The conversation dives deep into Jason’s powerful story of growing up with a stutter, and how that challenge became the foundation for his mission to help kids rediscover their confidence and creativity through voice. What does it mean to find your voice when you’ve spent years afraid to use it? Jay and Jason explore the emotional weight of speech disorders, the trauma of bullying, and the healing power of being heard. It’s an honest, layered, and at times emotional conversation about identity, expression, and the beauty found in imperfection. Jason opens up about his children's book Tongue Tied, a heartfelt resource for kids (and parents) facing speech challenges. From there, the dialogue branches into themes of self-worth, creativity, empathy, and even the role of music and AI in self-expression. Jay’s thoughtful questions guide an authentic conversation rooted in growth and vulnerability. Whether you’ve struggled to speak your truth or simply want to better understand how voice shapes identity, this episode offers insight, hope, and inspiration. 💬🎧 Key Takeaways: 🧠 [13:31] Jason shares the metaphor of the chameleon and how it shaped his early identity 🎤 [26:00] Music became Jason’s lifeline to self-expression when words fell short 🎶 [34:58] Music is not just an outlet — it’s therapy for unspoken emotions 🤖 [42:13] AI can support creativity and expression, but should never replace the soul 💡 [48:07] Embracing imperfections is the key to lasting confidence Guest Bio: Jason Heffler is an author, DJ, and Managing Editor at EDM.com, where he’s interviewed some of music’s biggest names with a focus on human-first storytelling. Through his book Tongue Tied and personal advocacy, Jason helps children and adults turn speech challenges into sources of empowerment. If this episode resonates with you—or you know someone still learning to speak their truth—share it. 🙌 Subscribe to The Tragedy Academy Podcast, leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review, and help us amplify voices that matter. 🌀 Be cool. And keep learning. 🐚 🎧 Connect with Jason & Learn More: 📘 Tongue Tied — Buy the book 📱 Follow Jason on Instagram and LinkedIn From silence to sound, shame to strength — Jason Heffler’s journey reminds us that what makes us different is often what makes us powerful. 🎙️ The Tragedy Academy Podcast 🚀 Explore stories of redemption and the human spirit—hosted by Jay Hicks with empathy, humor, and a passion for learning. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site 🎙️ Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM 👕 Get the Gear: Jay’s T-shirt 📘 Expand Your Mind: Our favorite reads ✅ Subscribe: YouTube Channel 📱 Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | TikTok 💖 Support Us: Donate via PayPal | Buy Me a Coffee

In this special throwback episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay Hicks sits down with the incredible Kristal Klear — an entrepreneur, certified trauma coach, licensed pastor, and founder of the Rock Paper Scissors Foundation. Together, they dive deep into the themes of forgiveness, love, and resilience within African American communities. Kristal shares her remarkable journey of healing, self-discovery, and service, offering raw truths and hope for survivors of abuse, human trafficking, and generational trauma. This conversation doesn’t just reflect on tragedy — it reshapes it. 🎧💛 ✨ Why You Should Listen: Jay and Kristal explore the power of forgiveness as a path to liberation and how love, community, and self-reflection can turn wounds into wisdom. From honoring cultural resilience to building bridges through shared pain, this episode will leave you changed. Whether you're navigating trauma, passionate about social justice, or just want to hear a meaningful conversation, this one’s for you. 🔑 Key Takeaways: 💪 [00:06:12] Embracing forgiveness and love as pillars of strength within African American communities 🌟 [00:17:45] The power of self-reflection and personal growth in overcoming adversity 😊 [00:28:20] Building resilience through passion and a sense of community 🤔 [00:36:50] Appreciating cultural diversity and its richness in our lives 🎉 [00:44:10] Celebrating the ability to bring all aspects of ourselves to the table and find common ground 👤 Guest Bio: Kristal Klear Kristal Klear is a certified trauma coach, licensed pastor, and the visionary founder of the Rock Paper Scissors Foundation, an organization dedicated to supporting survivors of physical, mental, sexual, and emotional abuse and human trafficking. With a mission rooted in compassion, empowerment, and forgiveness, Kristal brings her whole self to every space she enters. Her story is not just one of survival — it’s one of transformation. 📲 Follow @rockpaperscissorsfoundation on Instagram 🌐 Visit the RPS Foundation 🎬 In Conclusion: Let this episode sit with you. Let it stir you. And let it remind you: “We are not broken. We are becoming.” Tune in next week for another powerful story from The Tragedy Academy Podcast. Until then? Be cool, and keep learning. 💛 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site with https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 📲 Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD 👕 Get the Gear: Loved Jay’s t-shirt? Grab it at Into the AM: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 📘 Expand Your Mind: Check out our favorite reads! https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ✅ Subscribe:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg 📱 Follow Us: Instagram:https://instagram.com/tragedyacademystudios.com Facebook:https://facebook.com/tragedyacademystudios Twitter:https://twitter.com/Tragedyacademystudios TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@tragedyacademystudios 💖 Support Us: Please help us continue bringing meaningful content by donating via PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=YMU9L4TBWX6AG or Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tragedyacademy.

"Detention" Warning: Expect offbeat humor, unexpected tangents, and unfiltered fun. This is not your usual Tragedy Academy episode—if you want serious topics, look elsewhere. Listener discretion advised. In this hilarious episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay reconnects with stand-up comedian Hernando Del Castillo—host of I Am Just Gaying—for a "Detention Episode" packed with laughs, real talk, and deep dives into identity, community, and self-love. 🎭💖 From outrageous one-liners to raw reflections, Hernando shares his journey growing up gay and Colombian, coming out twice (once as gay, once as a comedian), and how comedy became his safe space. 🇨🇴🎤 Jay and Hernando tackle everything from pronoun panic to the exhaustion of living behind masks. The episode balances gut-busting humor with heartfelt insights on family, trauma, and radical self-acceptance. 🌈🔥 🎧 Key Takeaways: 💬 [00:15] "Sniffies is the new Grindr, bro!" – Hernando’s hilarious take on hookup apps 👩‍👦 [02:44] "Coming out as a comedian was harder than being gay." 💔 🏳️‍🌈 [10:44] Jay shares his experience of being bullied for gynecomastia in the '90s 🗣️ [17:30] "Give us grace" – A candid discussion on evolving identity language 🏡 [34:27] "I’m a proud Hispanic, Colombian, queer man... and I love making people laugh." 🔥 [37:36] "People left when I became myself" – The price of authenticity ✨ 🎭 [52:07] "Comedy is a magnifying glass" – Jay on humor’s power in deconstructing society 🎙️ Hernando Del Castillo, Miami-based stand-up comedian and co-host of I Am Just Gaying, blends sharp wit and raw vulnerability to tell his story as a proud gay Colombian man. His mission: to make you laugh, think, and feel—all at once. If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, drop a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review, and share with someone who needs a reminder that it’s okay to be real. Jay delivers unfiltered conversations that entertain and transform. 💥 Follow Hernando: Instagram @iamjustgaying | I Am Just Gaying Podcast 🎙️ Authenticity isn’t a destination—it’s a decision. Hernando walks that path with humor, grace, and a mic in hand. Don’t miss next week’s Tragedy Academy Podcast episode where tragedy meets transformation, one laugh at a time. Be cool and keep learning. 💡🎙️🔥 🚀 Welcome to The Tragedy Academy Podcast 🚀 Discover resilience, redemption, and the human spirit through humor and wisdom. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site 📲 Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM 👕 Get the Gear: Into the AM 📘 Expand Your Mind: Favorite Reads ✅ Subscribe: YouTube 📱 Follow Us: Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | TikTok 💖 Support Us: Donate via PayPal or Buy Me a Coffee

"Detention" Warning: Brace yourself for offbeat humor, unexpected tangents, and unfiltered fun in our 'Detention' episodes. This isn't your typical Tragedy Academy fare – it's a lighthearted listen perfect for those searching for laughter. However, if you're seeking serious topics, look elsewhere. Listener discretion is advised. In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay is joined by his long-time friend, Dan. Together, they dive deep into the absurd, exploring everything from hypothetical tattoo nightmares to the very real risk of elbowless dance battles. From smoking Willie Nelson’s braid to figuring out who the hell tried spaghetti and ranch dressing first, this Detention episode brings you a blend of stupidity, brilliance, and good old-fashioned nonsense that you never knew you needed. 🔥 Key Topics Discussed: ✅ The Willie Nelson Braid Hypothesis – Can a braid be a blunt? Should it? ✅ The #NoElbowsChallenge – What would life be like if elbows just didn’t exist? ✅ Secret Tattoo Roulette – Trust no one when the ink gun is live. ✅ Food Combos: Stoner or Not? – Spaghetti + ranch = a crime? ✅ Things You Should Never Hear in an F1 Earpiece – "Hold this headset, I have diarrhea" is not ideal. ✅ Who Did It First? – Who milked the first cow, and were they okay? ✅ What Would You Smoke If It Got You High? – Einstein’s mustache? Sure. The Constitution? Maybe. 📌 Why This Episode Matters This episode reminds us that not everything has to be deep to be necessary. Sometimes we need a break, a laugh, and an utterly unhinged conversation about tattooing Jaden Smith on your thigh. Whether you’re burning out or tuning in, this Detention session delivers. 🚀 Listen now and ask yourself: “Would I survive life without elbows?” 🔗 Full Episode Available On: 🎧 Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube 🚀 Welcome to The Tragedy Academy Podcast 🚀 Discover stories of resilience, redemption, and the human spirit. Hosted with empathy and humor, we share inspiring narratives that blend wisdom and wit, offering insights, laughter, and growth. Join our community and connect through shared experiences. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site with https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 📲 Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD 👕 Get the Gear: Loved Jay’s t-shirt? Grab it at Into the AM: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 📘 Expand Your Mind: Check out our favorite reads! https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ✅ Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg 📱 Follow Us: Instagram: https://instagram.com/tragedyacademystudios Facebook: https://facebook.com/tragedyacademystudios Twitter: https://twitter.com/Tragedyacademystudios TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@tragedyacademystudios 💖 Support Us: Help us continue bringing meaningful (and ridiculous) content by donating via: PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=YMU9L4TBWX6AG Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tragedyacademy

In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Dr. Adi Jaffe joins Jay for a deep, unfiltered discussion on addiction, transformation, and the illusions of identity that hold us back. From his personal journey of addiction and incarceration to becoming a UCLA-trained psychologist and best-selling author, Dr. Jaffe breaks down the misconceptions around addiction, the power of shifting perspective, and why breaking free from societal expectations is key to personal growth. 🔥 Key Topics Discussed: ✅ The Truth About Addiction – Why it’s not just about the substance, but about unprocessed pain and survival mechanisms. ✅ Escaping the Illusion of Identity – How early experiences shape our reality and the challenge of breaking free from conditioned beliefs. ✅ Self-Judgment & Humility – Learning to sit with the “monster” within instead of running from it. ✅ From Drug Dealer to Doctor – The journey from rock bottom to helping others redefine their lives. ✅ Why Motivation is a Lie—And Purpose is Everything – What actually drives long-term transformation. ⸻ 🔹 Quotes from the Episode 🗣️ “Perspective is everything. The life you think is real is just the version you were taught to see.” – Dr. Jaffe 🗣️ “Most people aren’t addicted to substances—they’re addicted to escaping themselves.” – Jay 🗣️ “The only way to stop running from your past is to sit down and have lunch with your lion.” – Jay ⸻ 🔹 About Dr. Adi Jaffe Dr. Adi Jaffe is a former drug dealer turned UCLA-trained psychologist, TEDx speaker, and author of the books The Abstinence Myth and Unhooked. He is the founder of IGNTD, a revolutionary approach to addiction and mental health that moves beyond outdated recovery models and focuses on empowerment, not shame. Dr. Jaffe has been featured on CNN, The Today Show, Forbes, The Huffington Post, and more. 🔗 Learn More & Connect with Dr. Adi Jaffe: • Website: IGNTD • Books: The Abstinence Myth & Unhooked • Instagram: @dradijaffe ⸻ 📌 Why This Episode Matters This episode challenges everything you thought you knew about addiction, personal growth, and self-worth. If you’ve ever struggled with breaking free from old patterns, self-judgment, or feeling like your past defines you—this conversation is a must-listen. 🚀 Listen now and break free from the illusion of who you think you have to be. 🔗 Full Episode Available On: 🎧 Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube 🚀 Welcome to The Tragedy Academy Podcast 🚀 Discover stories of resilience, redemption, and the human spirit. Hosted with empathy and humor, we share inspiring narratives that blend wisdom and wit, offering insights, laughter, and growth. Join our community and connect through shared experiences. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site with https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 📲 Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD 👕 Get the Gear: Loved Jay’s t-shirt? Grab it at Into the AM: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 📘 Expand Your Mind: Check out our favorite reads! https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ✅ Subscribe:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg 📱 Follow Us: Instagram Facebook Twitter TikTok 💖 Support Us: Please help us continue bringing meaningful content by donating via PayPal or Buy Me a Coffee!

In this unforgettable episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay sits down with Rachel, a survivor of Cranial-Cervical Instability (CCI) who spent 14 years misdiagnosed before undergoing life-saving neurosurgery. But Rachel isn’t just an advocate—she’s a brilliantly absurd comedian, the mastermind behind Cindy & Laurn, and proof that creativity and humor can survive even in the face of extreme hardship. From locked-in syndrome to toilet-cam sketch comedy, Rachel’s journey is one of survival, rediscovery, and raw authenticity. Listen as she reconnects with the creative force that once defined her and prepares to bring her chaotic, unfiltered humor back to life. ✔ Rachel’s near-death experience – How she went from being misdiagnosed for 14 years to finding the right doctor who saved her life. ✔ The reality of CCI & AAI – What this condition is, why it’s often ignored, and how AI could revolutionize early diagnosis and treatment. ✔ Her return to comedy – Why Cindy & Laurn were more than just characters—they were alarm bells, signaling something more profound about her journey. ✔ The moment she realized she’s still an artist – How she went from seeing herself as a patient to reclaiming her identity as a creator. ✔ A challenge from Jay – Will Rachel turn Cindy & Laurn into an educational medical PSA series? (Spoiler: She’s already considering it!) Best Moments: 🎭 "Until you’ve got a wispy mustache, your pants pulled down, and sharpie on your legs for hair, you have no clue what comedy is." – Jay 🔥 "I’m back. I’m gonna keep honing it." – Rachel 💡 "What we don’t realize is that we need to listen to the echoes of ourselves—the words we’d give others in our position are the ones we refuse to give ourselves." – Jay 😂 "I had a full-on existential breakdown and it turned into a hemorrhoid monologue." – Rachel How AI Could Change Everything for People Like Rachel: 🔹 AI-powered medical diagnostics – Why AI could detect CCI earlier, prevent misdiagnoses, and get patients to the right doctors before it’s too late. 🔹 AI-assisted treatment plans – Custom motion-based therapy, neurological recovery tools, and wearable AI tracking to ensure recovery is on the right path.

Trigger Warning: This episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast addresses serious and potentially distressing topics, including sexual abuse and trauma. The content may be triggering to those who have experienced similar events or are sensitive to discussions of abuse and trauma. We urge listener discretion and recommend that individuals affected by these topics consider their comfort and well-being before listening. Throughout the conversation, we explore deeply emotional stories of overcoming childhood sexual abuse and breaking the chains of generational trauma. These narratives, while ultimately grounded in hope and resilience, involve graphic discussions of abuse and its long-lasting effects. Please prioritize your mental health and seek support if needed. Resources and help are available; you don’t have to face this alone.*** In this raw and enlightening episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay is accompanied by a remarkable guest, Cindy Benezra, a survivor and advocate who faced the darkest shades of human experience. Together, they unravel the deeply emotional narrative of overcoming childhood sexual abuse and the journey towards breaking the chains of generational trauma. 🎙️ Walking through the shadows of her past, Cindy Benezra bares her soul, shedding light on the stark reality of living with a pedophile and enduring the agony of childhood abuse. Join Jay with his unique blend of introspection and empathy as he uncovers the pivotal moments that steered Cindy towards a life of empowerment. This conversation is more than just a tale of survival; it's an inspiring testament to human resilience and the transformative power of self-love. Don't miss this episode, where the heights of hope and healing counter the depths of despair. 🌟✊ Key Takeaways: 🔑 [00:10:09] The scars of childhood trauma are deep, but acknowledging them is the first step towards change and healing. 🔑 [00:32:02] Embracing your darkest thoughts can be daunting, but doing so is crucial to personal growth and finding your path to recovery. 🔑 [00:43:25] Authenticity is powerful—being true to who you are can be your anchor in the tumultuous sea of life's challenges. 🔑 [00:56:20] Despite living in close quarters with our inner 'lions', we hold the strength not to let past traumas define our present or future. 🔑 [End] Love yourself unconditionally, for it is the bedrock upon which we can build a foundation to encourage the same in others. Guest Bio: Cindy Benezra is a resilient individual who has not only survived the terrors of sexual abuse but has emerged as a staunch advocate for those who have faced similar predicaments. Her experiences, though deeply saddening, are laced with her unwavering spirit to overcome and help others do the same. The insights she imparts are rooted in her battle and triumph over the debilitating effects of her trauma. If Cindy's story has moved you or Jay's in-depth conversations resonate with your quest for understanding the human experience, subscribe to The Tragedy Academy Podcast. Please leave us a heartfelt review and share this episode with anyone who might find strength in Cindy's journey. 🎧 Be cool and keep learning. 💡 To discover more about Cindy Benezra and her advocacy work, we urge you to dive deeper into her narrative. Visit her website, follow her endeavors on social media, and immerse yourself in her ongoing projects that illuminate the path for countless others. Let's amplify her voice and extend the ripples of her influence. 💪🌐

In this throwback episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay reconnects with Edison Jakupi, a man whose journey embodies resilience, reinvention, and the power of never giving up. From fleeing war-torn Kosovo to building a thriving career in the U.S., Edison’s story is a testament to what it means to start over—and win. 🎙️ 🎧 Now remastered with upgraded audio & video, this episode brings back one of our most powerful conversations. What You’ll Hear: 🔥 [07:45] “I watched my family lose everything overnight—and that’s when I learned what really matters.”💡 [14:20] The unexpected lesson Edison learned from rebuilding his life in a new country.🎵 [21:05] How Kosovo-Albanian culture shaped his music & creative journey.💰 [30:40] The mindset shift that took Edison from survival mode to success mode.🌎 [45:10] Why hardship doesn’t define you—how you respond to it does. 🎙️ Thinking of launching a podcast? Let us handle the editing, production, and branding so you can focus on telling your story. Check out TragedyAcademyStudios.com to get started today. Guest Bio: Edison Jakupi is an entrepreneur, artist, and storyteller who brings his rich cultural heritage into everything he does. Growing up as a refugee, he experienced firsthand the struggles of displacement, adaptation, and perseverance. Today, he’s a successful business owner, blending creativity with strategy to build something meaningful. His story is a powerful reminder that no matter where you come from, you have the power to shape where you’re going. CTA for Show: 🚀 Join the journey. Subscribe to The Tragedy Academy Podcast for real stories of resilience, raw truth, and the lessons that come from life’s toughest moments.👉 Watch & Listen Now: TragedyAcademyStudios.com💬 Leave a review & share! Help us amplify these stories. CTA for Guest: 🎤 Follow Edison Jakupi to see how he continues turning adversity into opportunity.📲 Find him on Instagram: @EdisonJakupi Tragedy Academy Studios – Custom Media & Production Services Looking to launch your own podcast, create a unique sound, or get high-quality production work? Tragedy Academy Studios offers professional services to elevate your creative vision. ✅ Podcast Production & Editing – Full-service solutions for creators.✅ Voiceover & Audio Work – Professional recording, mixing, and mastering.✅ Video Production – Cinematic, engaging, high-quality visuals.✅ Custom Music Tracks & Promos – Original intros, background music, and branding for your podcast or business. 📲 Book a session or learn more at TragedyAcademyStudios.com Conclusion: Life knocks you down. Edison’s story proves you can always stand back up.💙 Be cool and keep learning. 🎧 Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site📲 Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM👕 Grab the Gear: Into the AM📘 Expand Your Mind: Our Favorite Reads✅ Subscribe: YouTube Channel 📱 Follow Us: Instagram: @TragedyAcademyStudios Facebook: TragedyAcademyStudios Twitter: @TragedyAcademy TikTok: @TragedyAcademyStudios 💖 Support Us: Donate via PayPal or Buy Me a Coffee Twitter: @TragedyAcademy TikTok: @TragedyAcademyStudios 💖 Support Us: Donate via PayPal or Buy Me a Coffee

Susan Gold—a woman whose journey from a tumultuous childhood to becoming a transformational coach is nothing short of inspiring. This video edition brings a fresh perspective to an episode that resonates deeply with the show’s core themes: breaking generational cycles, reclaiming authenticity, and embracing self-transformation. Susan shares her raw and powerful story of growing up in a dysfunctional home, navigating the entertainment industry, confronting personal trauma, and ultimately stepping into her truth. From escaping a toxic marriage to finding her voice as a coach and author, Susan’s path is a testament to resilience and self-discovery. This episode serves as a reminder that no matter where we come from, we have the power to rewrite our story. Whether you’re healing from the past, seeking clarity, or just looking for an insightful, heartfelt conversation, this is an episode you won’t want to miss. 🌟 🌟 Key Takeaways: 💬 [00:06:44] "Abused and hurt children raising abused and hurt children" – Breaking generational trauma. 📖 [00:13:09] How Susan closed a major talent deal by understanding human nature. 🎭 [00:16:29] Leaving a toxic marriage—choosing self-worth over survival. 🌍 [00:25:49] The victim mentality & why breaking free is harder than we think. 🎙️ [00:40:24] How writing her book became an unexpected healing journey. 👤 Guest Bio: Susan Gold is a transformational coach, speaker, and author of Toxic Family: Transforming Childhood Trauma into Adult Freedom. With a background in the entertainment industry and years of personal experience overcoming trauma, Susan now helps others break free from limiting beliefs, step into their power, and create a life of authenticity and joy. 🔗 Learn more at SusanGold.us 📣 Watch & Listen: 🎥 Video Edition Available on our website and major platforms🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more. 📢 Subscribe & Leave a Review! Help us grow the tree of knowledge 🌳TheTragedyAcademy.com 💡 Connect with Susan Gold: 📌 Website: SusanGold.us 📖 Book: Toxic Family: Transforming Childhood Trauma into Adult Freedom 📲 Thank you for tuning in to this special episode! Share, subscribe, and let’s keep growing together. 🚀 Be cool and keep learning.

In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay welcomes Bootsy Greenwood, a multi-talented entrepreneur, personal development coach, and creator of the Blue Collar Mystic persona and podcast. Bootsy shares his down-to-earth approach to spirituality, humor, and self-discovery, bridging the gap between the mystical and the relatable. This episode is packed with humor, insight, and actionable advice for anyone seeking to align with their authentic self. 🌟 Jay and Bootsy kick things off with laughter, exploring everything from quirky names to unexpected connections between comedy, spirituality, and personal growth. Bootsy discusses his journey from growing up in rural Georgia to becoming a personal development coach and podcast host. The duo delves into transformative books like Reality Transurfing and explores profound concepts like energy pendulums, group dynamics, and the importance of authenticity in a world full of distractions. 📚✨ Bootsy’s relatable stories and Jay’s unique analogies—like Benjamin Franklin’s bifocals and seasoning life with individuality—bring complex spiritual concepts into a digestible, entertaining format. They discuss the power of comedy in creating change, the fragility of the human experience, and how stepping into your true self can open doors to incredible possibilities. 🎧 🌟 Key Takeaways: 💬 [00:04:03] Authenticity matters: Being yourself is the key to alignment and fulfillment. 📖 [00:13:37] Energy pendulums explained: How collective energy affects our choices and identity. 🎭 [00:19:36] The power of personas: Exploring ego, identity, and the importance of staying true to your essence. 🌍 [00:25:49] Rewriting fear: How to break free from fear-driven narratives and live a life of intention. 🎙️ [00:38:32] Daily mindfulness: Small steps to connect with your higher self and create lasting change. 👤 Guest Bio: Bootsy Greenwood (real name Owen Hunt) is the creator of the Blue Collar Mystic persona and podcast. Based in Athens, GA, Bootsy blends humor, personal development, and spiritual exploration in a relatable, engaging way. With a background in music, comedy, and coaching, Bootsy’s mission is to inspire self-awareness and authentic living. Visit BootsyGreenwood.com to learn more. Don’t miss this enlightening and entertaining episode! Subscribe to The Tragedy Academy Podcast on your favorite platform, leave us a review, and share it with friends. Help us grow the tree of knowledge! 🌳 Be cool and keep learning. 💡 📣 Check out Bootsy: Discover more about Bootsy Greenwood by visiting BootsyGreenwood.com and following him on social media. Check out the Blue Collar Mystic Podcast for digestible takes on esoteric concepts and actionable self-improvement tips. 🌍✨ Thank you for joining us on this inspiring The Tragedy Academy Podcast episode. Tune in next week for another journey into humor, insight, and authentic storytelling. Be cool and keep learning! 🚀

In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay speaks with Alec Cantrell, host of The One More Minute Podcast. Alec shares his journey as a storyteller and podcast host, reflecting on his growth and unique vision for connecting with people. Together, they explore authenticity, humor, and the lessons learned through human connection, offering listeners a mix of laughter and inspiration. ? The conversation begins with lighthearted anecdotes about beard culture, baldness, and pandemic fashion shifts. Alec discusses embracing individuality and redefining societal norms. The duo dives into the generational evolution of empathy, the power of podcasting to amplify voices, and the responsibility of creators to deliver meaningful, authentic content. ? Listeners will find themselves inspired by Alec’s passion for uncovering untold stories and his reflections on the enduring power of storytelling. As a first-generation American, Alec offers heartfelt insights into bridging divides and fostering connection through shared experiences. This episode is a perfect blend of humor, wisdom, and real talk that will leave you motivated to embrace your true self. ? ? Key Takeaways: • ? [00:08:10] Embracing individuality: The power of being true to yourself. • ?? [00:19:30] Podcasting’s impact: How podcasts connect through authentic storytelling. • ? [00:35:10] Generational empathy: Gen Alpha and Z’s influence on societal norms. • ? [00:53:30] Untold stories: Alec’s method of finding extraordinary experiences in ordinary lives. • ? [01:03:45] Immortalizing voices: How podcasts preserve stories and create benchmarks for personal growth. ? Guest Bio: Alec Cantrell is the host of The One More Minute Podcast, a show that highlights unique perspectives and stories. Based in Central Florida, Alec is a husband, father, and storyteller with a passion for fostering genuine connections. His podcast reflects his vision for meaningful conversations filled with humor and authenticity. ? Call to Action for Listeners: Don’t miss this inspiring episode! Subscribe to The Tragedy Academy Podcast on your favorite platform, leave us a review, and share this episode with friends. Help us grow the tree of knowledge! ? Be cool and keep learning. ? ? Call to Action for Alec: Follow Alec’s podcast, The One More Minute Podcast, on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Connect with him on Instagram and TikTok (@onemoreminutepodcast) for updates and behind-the-scenes content. Discover the world through Alec’s unique lens. ?? ? Conclusion: Thank you for joining us on The Tragedy Academy Podcast. Stay tuned for more inspiring stories next week. Until then, be cool and keep learning! ? ? Podcasting Made Easy: Build your site with https://bit.ly/3LSCBh5 ? Upgrade Your Recording: Riverside.FM https://bit.ly/3ImjNWD ? Get the Gear: Loved Jay’s t-shirt? Grab it at Into the AM: https://bit.ly/431MLD5 ? Expand Your Mind: Check out our favorite reads! https://bit.ly/42pPHcv ? Subscribe:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEUXqlregig6vcrvuVNGlKg ? Follow Us: Instagram:https://instagram.com/tragedyacademystudios.com Facebook:https://facebook.com/tragedyacademystudios Twitter:https://twitter.com/Tragedyacademystudios TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@tragedyacademystudios ? Support Us: Please help us continue bringing meaningful content by donating via PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=YMU9L4TBWX6AG or Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tragedyacademy.

In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay sits down with Dani Meza of The Crushed Velvets to explore the transformative journey of overcoming personal adversity and reigniting creative passion. 🎙️ Engaging and Enticing Verbiage: Join Jay and Dani as they delve deep into Dani’s inspiring story of resilience and artistic rebirth. From battling serious health challenges to navigating the evolving music industry, Dani shares his unique perspective on maintaining authenticity in a world obsessed with conformity. 🎸✨ Throughout the conversation, they discuss the importance of embracing one’s true self, the power of collaboration in the creative process, and the profound impact of finding a light from within. Whether you’re an aspiring artist or someone seeking motivation to overcome your own struggles, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt moments that will leave you feeling empowered and inspired. 🌟🔥 Dani’s candid reflections and Jay’s engaging style create a dynamic and uplifting dialogue that highlights the essence of The Tragedy Academy’s mission: to celebrate the human spirit’s ability to triumph over adversity with empathy and humor. Don’t miss this captivating episode filled with wisdom, laughter, and the unwavering pursuit of passion. 🎧💬 Key Takeaways: 🎤 Overcoming Adversity: Dani discusses his battle with an aneurysm and two strokes, highlighting the profound impact these challenges had on his life and identity. 🎸 Authentic Collaboration: The importance of allowing fellow musicians to bring their unique creativity to the table without imposing rigid control, leading to more authentic and refreshing music. 💡 Embracing Silence: Dani shares his preference for meaningful interactions over small talk and introduces a unique way to connect through playing card games, easing social awkwardness. 🌱 Finding Light from Within: Exploring how Dani reignited his passion for music by tapping into his inner creativity and overcoming the mental barriers that once held him back. 🎶 Capturing the Moment: The significance of recording music authentically, preserving the raw emotion and spontaneity that makes each performance unique and memorable. Guest Bio: Dani Meza, a multi-instrumentalist from Southern California, has been a staple in the music scene for over a decade. Known for his soulful sound and dramatic performances, Meza has captivated audiences with his unique style. His past projects include Blackstrap Molasses and Dani & The Scarlett Fevers, which performed at major festivals like Desert Daze and Moon Block Party and shared the stage with notable acts such as Ty Segall, Blake Miller (Moving Units), and Deap Vally. After overcoming life-threatening medical conditions in 2016, he embraced a new perspective, transforming his approach to music and performance. Meza’s current project, the Crushed Velvets, is a testament to his artistic evolution. Working with acclaimed producer Chris Schlarb at Big Ego Studios in Long Beach, California, Meza and his carefully selected group of collaborators released their first full-length album, “I Planted, Apollos Watered, But God Kept Making It Grow,” in October 2024. Additionally, the group released a live in-studio EP in 2023 (“Live In Studio”), which included a vibey rendition of T. Rex’s “Mambo Sun”, and three EPs in 2022 (“Stun Gun”, “Dig To Me”, “Intertwined”). The Crushed Velvets draw inspiration from legends like Al Green, Marvin Gaye, and Serge Gainsbourg, creating a nostalgic and fresh sound. His cool, understated vibe is evident in both his recordings and live shows, marking a bold new era in his career. With plans to immerse himself in international music scenes and collaborate globally, Meza is committed to writing and releasing music as much as possible. As he continues this journey, one thing is certain: Dani Meza is all in. 🎤🎶 If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to s ubscribe to The Tragedy Academy Podcast, leave us a review, and share it...

Resilience and Creativity: A Conversation with Dani Meza of The Crushed Velvets In this episode of The Tragedy Academy Podcast, Jay sits down with Dani Meza of The Crushed Velvets to explore the transformative journey of overcoming personal adversity and reigniting creative passion. 🎙️ Engaging and Enticing Verbiage: Join Jay and Dani as they delve deep into Dani’s inspiring story of resilience and artistic rebirth. From battling serious health challenges to navigating the evolving music industry, Dani shares his unique perspective on maintaining authenticity in a world obsessed with conformity. 🎸✨ Throughout the conversation, they discuss the importance of embracing one’s true self, the power of collaboration in the creative process, and the profound impact of finding a light from within. Whether you’re an aspiring artist or someone seeking motivation to overcome your own struggles, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt moments that will leave you feeling empowered and inspired. 🌟🔥 Dani’s candid reflections and Jay’s engaging style create a dynamic and uplifting dialogue that highlights the essence of The Tragedy Academy’s mission: to celebrate the human spirit’s ability to triumph over adversity with empathy and humor. Don’t miss this captivating episode filled with wisdom, laughter, and the unwavering pursuit of passion. 🎧💬 Key Takeaways: 🎤 Overcoming Adversity: Dani discusses his battle with an aneurysm and two strokes, highlighting the profound impact these challenges had on his life and identity. 🎸 Authentic Collaboration: The importance of allowing fellow musicians to bring their unique creativity to the table without imposing rigid control, leading to more authentic and refreshing music. 💡 Embracing Silence: Dani shares his preference for meaningful interactions over small talk and introduces a unique way to connect through playing card games, easing social awkwardness. 🌱 Finding Light from Within: Exploring how Dani reignited his passion for music by tapping into his inner creativity and overcoming the mental barriers that once held him back. 🎶 Capturing the Moment: The significance of recording music authentically, preserving the raw emotion and spontaneity that makes each performance unique and memorable. Guest Bio: Dani Meza, a multi-instrumentalist from Southern California, has been a staple in the music scene for over a decade. Known for his soulful sound and dramatic performances, Meza has captivated audiences with his unique style. His past projects include Blackstrap Molasses and Dani & The Scarlett Fevers, which performed at major festivals like Desert Daze and Moon Block Party and shared the stage with notable acts such as Ty Segall, Blake Miller (Moving Units), and Deap Vally. After overcoming life-threatening medical conditions in 2016, he embraced a new perspective, transforming his approach to music and performance. Meza’s current project, the Crushed Velvets, is a testament to his artistic evolution. Working with acclaimed producer Chris Schlarb at Big Ego Studios in Long Beach, California, Meza and his carefully selected group of collaborators released their first full-length album, “I Planted, Apollos Watered, But God Kept Making It Grow,” in October 2024. Additionally, the group released a live in-studio EP in 2023 (“Live In Studio”), which included a vibey rendition of T. Rex’s “Mambo Sun”, and three EPs in 2022 (“Stun Gun”, “Dig To Me”, “Intertwined”). The Crushed Velvets draw inspiration from legends like Al Green, Marvin Gaye, and Serge Gainsbourg, creating a nostalgic and fresh sound. His cool, understated vibe is evident in both his recordings and live shows, marking a bold new era in his career. With plans to immerse himself in international music scenes and collaborate globally, Meza is committed to writing and releasing music as much as possible. As he continues this journey, one thing is certain: Dani Meza is all in. 🎤🎶 If you enjoyed this episode, make...

In this episode, Jay speaks with Jessica Baladad, a six-year breast cancer survivor and the creator of Feel For Your Life—a groundbreaking app providing tools for breast self-exams, health tracking, and AI-based pathology interpretations. Key Points: 🎙 Jessica shares her inspiring journey of survival, advocacy, and innovation, discussing: ✅Why self-exams save lives and how to perform them 💡Navigating a broken healthcare system 🧠How AI is changing the way breast cancer is diagnosed 📚Her fight for legislation to educate teens on self-exams 💪Overcoming shame, fear, and embracing empowerment About Jessica: Jessica Baladad, a six-year cancer survivor, is the creator of Feel For Your Life. This free mobile application provides resources on how to perform self-breast exams and when to get screenings while allowing users to track and monitor their changes and set reminders. An unexpected breast cancer diagnosis at 33 years old empowered Jessica to channel her experience into a mission that is changing the way women advocate for their medical care. It’s the first of its kind created by a breast cancer patient and has been downloaded tens of thousands of times all over the world. In 2024, Jessica implemented an AI feature into the app to help patients interpret and better understand pathology reports from their breast cancer screenings. Jessica’s history with breast cancer catalyzed her dedication to building Feel For Your Life. She’s the fourth generation on her paternal side of the family to be diagnosed with the disease, and yet, no known gene mutation has been found in her lineage. She first learned how to do a self-breast exam after having a benign tumor removed at 18, and nearly 15 years later, Jessica was diagnosed with Stage 2B invasive ductal carcinoma after performing a routine self-exam in the shower. She underwent 16 rounds of chemotherapy, a double mastectomy, 24 rounds of radiation, a hysterectomy, and a 10-hour flap reconstruction. Since launching the app, Jessica has expanded her advocacy into healthcare reform. She has helped write legislation in Tennessee to promote risk-reducing measures against cancer and disease. Billed as the Feel For Your Life Act, high school students are required to learn about self-breast exams, testicular exams, and skin exams. Additionally, Jessica has spoken out against insurance companies before members of Congress. She works to eliminate quality-adjusted life-year (QALY) scores, Pharmacy Benefits Managers (PBMs), and co-pay accumulators. Jessica plans to grow her efforts further by working with medical providers, patients, and vendors to bridge the gaps that keep individuals from getting access to the care they deserve. Jessica has been featured on Good Morning America, Tank’s Good News, USA Today, The Dave Ramsey Show, UpWorthy, and several national and international media outlets. She’s worked with the NFL on their Crucial Catch Campaign to promote cancer screenings, received the Hometown Hero Award from Ponce Law on Nashville’s Fox 17, has been recognized by the National Breast Cancer Foundation for her leadership initiatives, and was the recipient of the Mona Lisa Foundation Grant in 2023. In 2020, the NFL’s Crucial Catch Campaign partnered with Jessica to spread awareness about the importance of screenings being missed during the height of the COVID-19 pandemic. She is an active Tennessee Advocate for Breast Cancer (TA4BC) group committee member. When Jessica is not working on patient advocacy, she enjoys traveling and exploring new places, attending sporting events with her husband, and photographing animals. 📱 Listen now to gain wisdom, inspiration, and actionable steps to advocate for your health. Download the Feel For Your Life app and take control of your care. 👉 Follow us for more stories of resilience and growth: 🎧 Links and Support: Feel For Your Life App Website: feelforyourlife.com Socials: @feelForYourLife 💖 Be Cool & Keep Learning. 🚀 Welcome to The...