Location:
United States
Description:
Hi, I'm Lyss. Glad we found each other.
Language:
English
Website:
https://dateyourselfinstead.com/
Episodes
Moving Into 33 - Lessons I’m Taking With Me
1/21/2026
Manifest Overnight Masterclass - don't miss the birthday sale. 6 days left.
The most valuable lessons I'm taking with me at 33 years young
In this birthday episode, I’m taking a moment to look back on the last year and everything it’s taught me. I’m sharing the biggest lessons I’ve learned about self-worth, raising my standards, trusting my intuition, and truly understanding how manifestation works. I also introduce my new masterclass, Manifest Overnight, and talk about why inner shifts are what actually change your life. This episode is all about growth, letting go of what no longer fits, and stepping into what’s next.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Birthday vibes & reflections
02:16 Why I created the Manifest Overnight masterclass
03:30 The biggest lessons 33 years has taught me
05:02 How identity plays a huge role in manifestation
07:20 Getting clear, building routines, and staying grounded
09:13 Trusting your intuition & raising your standards
12:37 Growth sometimes means subtraction
21:16 Being intentional about who you let in your life
21:58 Self-containment, habits, and personal discipline
24:04 Final thoughts & what I’m excited about next
Duración:00:25:38
How to be in the top 1% of the world
1/13/2026
enroll in my new masterclass manifest overnight — TAP HERE TO JOIN THE 5000+ WAITLIST (whattt!?) this is for the version of you who’s done playing small and ready to actually change their life. periodddd.
unlocking the power of your identity
HOW TO BE IN THE TOP 1%
in this episode, i’m getting into why committing to yourself is the biggest power move you can make — especially heading into 2026. this year isn’t about doing more, forcing more, or hustling harder. it’s about deciding who you are and moving like it’s already done.
i talk about the launch of my new masterclass manifest overnight and why identity is the missing piece for most people. the top 1% don’t have more time, luck, or talent — they have decisiveness, self-trust, and a strong sense of who they are. they move fast. they don’t wait for permission. and they’re not afraid to be polarizing.
we get into:
this episode is for anyone who knows they’re meant for more but keeps feeling stuck in old patterns. manifest overnight is designed to help you reprogram your identity so manifesting stops feeling hard and starts feeling inevitable.
timestamps:
00:00 why this year is different
01:15 manifest overnight masterclass details
04:25 what actually separates the top 1%
07:21 confidence, polarization, and self-trust
08:34 decisiveness and moving faster
16:16 living authentically and dropping the rules
29:45 final thoughts
link to manifest overnight DON'T MISS THE EARLY BIRD BIRTHDAY DROP!!! : https://stan.store/lyssboss
see you there ;) <3 xx
Duración:00:30:17
pov: you won 2026
1/6/2026
unlocking your best self in 2026: your blueprint
masterclass waitlist > tap here to join now. doors open jan 19.
link > https://stan.store/lyssboss
in this episode, i’m welcoming you into 2026 and honestly just sharing how excited i am for this next chapter!! for the podcast, for my life, for all of us. i talk about spending new year’s in dubai, why real change always starts internally, and why your self concept is the key to manifesting.
i break down the actual hacks i’m using to make 2026 my best year yet: setting intentions that actually stick, protecting your energy like it’s your job, and fully leaning into a “delusional” mindset (because that’s where the magic is). i also share details about my manifest overnight masterclass launching on my birthday, january 19th.
tap here to join the manifest overnight waitlist!!
this episode is all about practical, real-life ways to magnetize success, upgrade your self-concept, and move through challenges without spiraling - just trusting that everything is working in your favor.
timestamps
00:00 welcome to 2026
00:24 new year’s in dubai
01:39 why audio is underrated
02:52 manifesting your best year yet
06:51 my 2026 success hacks
08:20 mood, music, and why vibes matter
11:34 manifestation techniques i actually use
17:18 embodying your future self now
18:57 window shopping for your dream life
21:09 visualizing abundance + collapsing time
22:07 muting negativity and protecting your mental space
24:02 blessing other people’s success (yes, really)
25:55 becoming your future self through action
27:21 career + money mindset shifts
29:11 making space for love and relationships
32:15 a new way to think about taxes (wild, i know)
35:54 using boredom intentionally
36:55 the power of delusion (trust me)
39:08 closing thoughts + stepping into your next level
Duración:00:40:40
25 powerful lessons I learned in 2025, part two.
12/20/2025
Join the Manifest Overnight waitlist here: https://stan.store/lyssboss
Duración:00:35:49
25 powerful lessons I took from 2025, part one.
12/16/2025
It was quite the year, indeed.
Duración:00:27:36
December is your breakthrough month.
12/2/2025
Claim it. Comment on this episode and follow me on instagram @lyss if this episode resonates with you. Love you so much. - Lyss x
Duración:00:18:06
How to speak up to anyone. Be unapologetically YOU.
11/18/2025
In this episode, I dive into what it really means to speak your truth and own your voice, even when it’s uncomfortable. I’m sharing personal stories about finding the courage to say what I actually feel (in relationships, business, and online) and how doing that completely changed my life.
We talk about healing, using your voice as your superpower, and letting go of that fear of judgment that keeps you small. I also open up about a recent karmic connection that pushed me to set stronger boundaries and taught me what authentic communication actually looks like.
This one’s a vibe. It’s about being real, standing tall in your truth, and realizing your voice is the magnet for everything meant for you.
00:00 Intro: Finding Your Power
00:27 Getting Over the Fear of Speaking Up
01:37 Why Your Voice Matters
03:05 Using Your Platform with Intention
08:15 My Own Struggles and Growth
13:33 A Karmic Connection and What It Taught Me
16:17 Communication = Self-Respect
28:56 Closing Thoughts: Be Loud. Be You. Always.
Duración:00:32:14
Why I won't sleep with just "anyone" - sex is an energy exchange
11/10/2025
In this episode, I’m getting real about intimacy, sex, and casual dating—and how my perspective has shifted over the years. Now that I’m in my 30s and way more tapped into my feminine energy, I’ve become super intentional about who I share myself with. For me, sex is sacred—it’s not just physical, it’s an energetic exchange. I talk about how cords form, why choosing someone who matches your vibe matters, and how past experiences can carry into present relationships. I also share how I cut cords energetically, heal old wounds, and embody the energy of my future husband so love flows in effortlessly.
Duración:00:26:30
How to focus on yourself
11/4/2025
Where your attention goes, energy flows.
Duración:00:26:41
They were a divine lesson.
10/29/2025
RELATED SUBSTACK ARTICLE - https://lyssboss.substack.com/p/id-take-him-back-again-if-it-meantDETACHMENT MASTERCLASS - https://stan.store/lyssboss/p/daretodetachGoing backwards is necessary to move forwards Let’s be real — sometimes, you have to go back just to finally walk away for good.In this episode, I open up about the relationship that broke me open — the one that made me start my podcast. I used to think going back meant I was weak. But now I know it was part of my divine plan. That heartbreak forced me to meet myself, build everything I have now, and become the woman I was meant to be.If you’ve ever blamed yourself for going back, this will change how you see it. You’ll learn why the “wrong” person was actually your biggest teacher!! :)And if you’re ready to finally detach and reclaim your power — my Substack article and masterclass Dare to Detach are both live. Trust me, this is the moment you start choosing you.
Duración:00:20:57
The power of walking away.
10/23/2025
KNOW YOUR WORTH!!! :) protect your power, and never ever settle! xx LYSS
My masterclasses are designed to help you let go and move on instantly from the past and quantum leap !! They're currently on sale.DARE TO DETACH - let go of your ex now and take your power back!!https://stan.store/lyssboss/p/daretod...MIND BODY SOUL RESET - rebrand yourself entirely and manifest miracles!!!https://stan.store/lyssboss/p/the-min...Use code "goldenaura" for even more $$ off the programs, limited quantity.MY INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/lyss/Come say hi!!
Duración:00:25:53
How to manifest what you want OVERNIGHT.
10/18/2025
In this episode, I’m diving deep into the world of manifestation and quantum jumping instantly!! manifestation is actually effortless when you stop overthinking it and start embodying the identity of the person you wish to become.
If you enjoyed this episode, follow on spotify + leave a comment!
Lots of love, lyss <3
Duración:00:36:03
How to have INSANE aura - you will never be the same.
10/11/2025
In this episode, I’m breaking down how to shift your aura from gray to golden - from dull and drained to glowing, magnetic, and unstoppable. I get into how your emotions literally color your energy, and I share how I healed from toxic vibes, cut out the noise, and raised my frequency. We’re talking self-belief, clarity, energetic audits, feeding your mind with the right content, and fully aligning with your soul’s truth so you can call in abundance and actually manifest what you want.
00:00 Introduction: From Gray to Golden
The vibe check: how I went from feeling gray and heavy to glowing golden.
00:04 Understanding Auras and Energy Fields
Breaking down what an aura actually is and why your energy field is everything.
00:50 Personal Experience with Aura Changes
My own story—how I could feel my aura shift and what I did about it.
01:51 The Healing Process and Golden Aura
How to release toxic attachments and step back into your power.
02:50 The True Meaning of a Glow Up
It’s not just looks. It’s soul. It’s frequency.
03:23 Mastering the Art of Alchemizing Your Energy
Turning low vibes into gold. Literally alchemy.
04:51 Harnessing Inner Power and Self-Belief
Why your energy skyrockets the second you decide you’re the main character.
06:43 Certainty and Clarity in Manifestation
How being sure of yourself and your vision changes the game.
12:37 Energetic Audit and Detox
Who and what gets to stay in your field—and what’s out.
15:38 Consuming Positivity and High Frequencies
What you scroll, watch, and listen to builds your aura.
18:07 Creating a Positive Morning Routine
Small shifts to set your vibe high from the moment you wake up.
19:00 Mastering Your Energy Field
Owning your aura like it’s your superpower.
20:04 Life Hack: Removing Unaligned People
Sometimes the hack is unfollow, block, delete. Protect the vibe.
24:46 Living from Your Soul's Truth
When you move from your soul, everything aligns naturally.
26:17 Transforming Your Relationship with Money
Money is just energy—shift the frequency, shift the flow.
28:33 The Power of Words and Positivity
Your words are spells—speak gold, not gray.
30:19 Romanticizing Your Life
How to make every moment feel cinematic and magnetic.
32:51 Connecting with a Higher Power
Plugging into the divine—God, universe, whatever you believe in—supercharges everything.
34:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Your aura is your magnet. Keep it golden.
Duración:00:34:56
Let them walk. If you know you deserve better, you do.
10/4/2025
In this episode, I talk about the power of just letting people walk if they choose to leave your life. Instead of chasing, begging, or trying to prove your worth to anyone, it’s about standing strong in who you are. I share my own experiences and lessons, and I remind you that healing, glowing up, and stepping into your best self is the real flex. We dive into self-worth, growth after heartbreak, keeping your heart open, and protecting your energy from negativity or toxic people. This is about reclaiming your power, learning to love yourself harder than ever, and preparing for the love and life you truly deserve.
Timestamps
00:00 Let Them Walk: Embracing Self-Worth
00:48 The Right People Will Stay
01:26 Stop Chasing, Start Healing
01:58 Transformation and Growth
03:25 The Power of Self-Love
03:44 A Journey of Authentic Connections
05:28 The Glow Up: Embracing Change
07:55 Reclaiming Your Power
26:22 Living Freely with Love
Duración:00:28:35
Give me 20 minutes to shift your reality.
9/27/2025
20 MINUTES. That's all it takes.
In this video, I emphasize the importance of taking control of your life by focusing on healing both your mind and body. Through my personal experiences, I highlight how physical wellness directly impacts your ability to manifest and achieve your dreams. I cover crucial steps to resetting your life, cutting off negative influences, prioritizing self-care, and believing in your own vision. This talk encourages you to let go of past burdens, be selfish with your time, and push forward with determination and faith.
00:00 Introduction: The Power of Self-Rescue
00:16 Mind-Body Connection: The Key to Healing
01:25 Personal Journey: Overcoming Health Challenges
03:14 Manifestation and Physical Health
04:42 The Importance of Routine and Mental Clarity
05:37 Rock Bottom: A Turning Point
10:15 Embracing Change and Letting Go
21:26 The Power of Self-Belief and Vision
29:29 Conclusion: Trusting Your Vision and Moving Forward
Duración:00:30:23
why you should bet on yourself
9/18/2025
In this episode, I’m diving into the importance of choosing you and really investing in yourself so you don’t end up with regrets later. I open up about my own journey of rebranding my business and my podcast, Date Yourself Instead—why I felt like it was time for a big change as I continue to grow personally and professionally.
I share some of the transformational experiences I’ve had over the past few years, what went into my decision-making process, and why authenticity has been the key to everything. For me, it all comes back to self-trust, betting on yourself, and fully aligning with your real purpose.
00:00 Introduction: The Odds of Regret
00:32 Personal Journey and Transformation
01:13 The Birth of 'Date Yourself Instead'
02:36 Rebranding: A New Era
03:46 The Decision to Rebrand
05:02 Betting on Yourself
07:46 The Power of Authenticity
09:45 Challenges and Reflections
11:08 Future-Proofing the Brand
12:35 The Importance of Self-Investment
16:11 Embracing Change and New Beginnings
35:31 Conclusion: Believing in Yourself
Duración:00:38:19
you are your values. you attract exactly who you are.
9/13/2025
This episode is me unpacking my summer all through the lens of values. I realized that authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence aren’t just “nice to have,” they’re literally the blueprint for my entire reality. Every decision I made this summer.. who I dated, how I worked, what I tolerated, what I walked away from, all came back to these values. I want you to not just hear my stories, but to start writing down your own non-negotiables and embodying them like your life depends on it, bc it does.
00:00 Why Values Saved My Summer
The story of how this summer tested me — and the exact moment I realized my values weren’t optional, they were survival.
00:12 Creating My Personal Rulebook
How I got clear on what authenticity, freedom, self-love, and financial independence actually mean to me, and why you need your own set of non-negotiables.
00:46 When Life Puts Your Values on Trial
My real-life summer scenarios: the people, choices, and situations that forced me to either honor my values or betray myself.
10:23 Authenticity + Freedom Are Non-Negotiable
Why these two are my oxygen, and what happened in moments when I tried to silence or shrink them.
16:00 Living Your Values, Not Just Talking About Them
The hard but necessary shift from “knowing” my values to acting on them every single day.
21:19 Dating is a Reflection Mirror
How every romantic situation this summer mirrored back the values I was standing in — or not standing in.
30:08 Money as a Value, Not Just a Goal
Why financial freedom is about so much more than numbers in your bank account — it’s about safety, self-respect, and choice.
35:12 My Closing Reflection + Your Journal Prompt
The one journaling exercise that can help you embody your values this week and start reshaping your reality now.
Duración:00:36:36
How to RESET AND GLOW UP this September. Fall 2025 is a new year. 🍁✨☕
9/8/2025
September Reset!!! Embrace Your New Self for Fall 2025
In this episode, I kick off a fresh season with a comprehensive guide to the ultimate September reset for Fall 2025. I share my personal experiences of feeling stagnant throughout the year and the transformative energy shift I felt as September began. I delve into crafting new daily routines, embodying higher-self affirmations, and reprogramming the mind to focus on future goals. I emphasize the importance of physical health, detailing my gut health detox and newfound running routine while advocating for lifestyle changes such as quitting alcohol. I also discuss the significance of revamping our external appearances to reflect internal growth and fostering relationships that uplift and align with this new identity. I encourage listeners to realign their thoughts, prioritize wellness, and let go of past negativity to step confidently into a transformed self for the remainder of the year.
TIME GUIDE:
00:00 Welcome to the September Reset
01:02 Reflecting on 2025: A Year of Stagnation and Change
02:07 The Ultimate September Fall Reset
04:32 Visualization and Affirmations for a New You
08:36 Rewriting Your Self-Concept
13:01 Embodying a New Identity
21:42 Health and Wellness: Gut Health and Detox
33:26 Transforming Relationships and Letting Go
36:38 Community Insights and Future Plans
40:38 Conclusion: Embracing Freedom Fall
Duración:00:41:15
Babe, you are not a "MAYBE". Choose yourself and get out of waiting energy.
8/31/2025
Never Be Someone's Maybe: Choose Yourself First
In this episode, I dive into the transformative power of fully choosing and loving yourself. I emphasize that once you make a conscious decision to prioritize yourself, everything misaligned will naturally fall away. I share personal anecdotes about my past relationships and how being someone's 'maybe' drained my self-worth and confidence. I explain that the uncertain 'maybe' energy in relationships kept me stuck and blocked me from receiving life’s blessings. By choosing myself first and stepping into my power, I was able to manifest a more abundant and fulfilling life. This episode underscores the importance of self-worth, certainty, and alignment in attracting the right people and opportunities into your life.
00:00 Choosing Yourself: The Power of Self-Love
00:40 The Pain of 'Maybe' Relationships
02:04 Realizing Self-Worth in Relationships
05:08 Breaking Free from Toxic Cycles
09:27 The Journey to Self-Healing
20:08 Living in the Fourth Dimension
22:35 Navigating New Relationships with Self-Worth
27:38 Choosing Yourself and Eliminating 'Maybe' Energy
28:29 Personal Anecdote: The Equality Debate
29:25 The Impact of 'Maybe' Frequency on Relationships
35:41 Manifesting Through Alignment and Certainty
44:00 The Power of Making Clear Decisions
50:05 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement
Duración:00:50:57
You can't miss what's DESTINED FOR YOU. Relax.
8/24/2025
TRUST THE DIVINE PLAN. There are no rules. Just be YOU.
In this episode, I yap about the importance of self-love and letting go of societal dating rules. From a coffee spill incident to deeper reflections on destiny and soul bonds, I emphasize that what is meant for you will never pass you by. Through personal anecdotes and the concept of the 'removal prayer,' I encourage you to trust divine timing and live authentically without fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that rejection is merely redirection towards what is truly meant for your soul.
00:00 Introduction: Embrace Self-Love and Authenticity
00:43 Funny Story Time: Coffee Mishap
04:00 Main Topic: You Cannot Mess Up What Is Destined for You
07:08 Breaking Dating Rules: Trust Your Intuition
07:31 Personal Story: Unconventional Relationship
11:32 The Power of Self-Love and Confidence
12:26 Story Time: Pub Encounter and Crushing
28:51 Rejection and Divine Timing
35:23 Conclusion: Trust the Divine Plan
Duración:00:35:55
