Legally Uncensored with Attorney Demetria L. Graves

Send us Fan Mail Marriage may start with love—but it operates as a financial partnership. And when that partnership shifts, understanding the money behind it can change everything. In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we sit down with divorce financial experts Josephti Cruz and Kathryn Holland of Cover Your Assets—a platform dedicated to helping individuals navigate the real financial complexities of divorce with clarity and confidence. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into the business of marriage—what you need to know before things go wrong, how to protect yourself if they do, and how to strategically rebuild after. We break down: – How to protect your assets before divorce is even a thought – What financial decisions matter most during the process – The tax implications that can quietly cost you long-term – Why “50/50” isn’t always equal when it comes to asset division – How to think about divorce as a financial transition—not just an emotional one At its core, this episode is about prevention, preparation, and power. Because the truth is—most people don’t realize what they don’t know until it’s too late. Whether you’re married, considering divorce, or rebuilding after one, this is your 101 on understanding the financial side of relationships so you can move with intention and protect your future. Tap in, take notes, and get informed. Follow Legally Uncensored for more conversations that break down the legal—and financial—realities of life. www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com To learn more about Cover Your Assets: www.coveryourassetsdivorce.com www.instagram.com/coveryourassetsdivorce Support the show

Send us Fan Mail What happens after the breakup… when the relationship ends, but the responsibility doesn’t? In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we’re unpacking the reality of co-parenting after a high-conflict divorce — where emotions are still raw, communication feels impossible, and the past keeps showing up in the present. Host Demetria Graves, Esq. is joined by psychiatrist and family wellness expert Dr. Sherri Simpson Broadwater (Dr. Sherri Psych) to explore how parents can move from chaos to clarity — without losing themselves in the process. This conversation goes beyond custody agreements and courtrooms. It’s about emotional healing, accountability, and learning how to show up for your children without staying stuck in conflict. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting, considering separation, or healing from a difficult relationship, this episode is a reminder: peace is possible — but it requires intention, honesty, and hard conversations. Listen to the full episode now on all podcast platforms. Visit our website for more resources, clips, and episode breakdowns. Connect with Dr. Sherri Psych to learn more about her work and services. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back! This episode of Legally Uncensored flips the script as (host) Demetria Graves , Esq. takes center stage—breaking down the legal realities behind some of today’s most talked-about celebrity divorces. Led by special guest and the Producer of this very show, C. DeVone, the conversation dives into the questions everyone is thinking but not always asking. From Cardi B & Offset to Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt, we unpack the headlines and connect them to real-life situations. Because whether it’s millions on the line or everyday decisions, the themes stay the same—money, custody, assets, and emotions. This episode delivers real tools, real perspective, and the legal clarity behind the drama. Tune in. For more information Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq. Where real life meets real law — no filter. Executive Producer & Host: Demetria Graves, Esq. Executive Producer: C. DeVone Associate Producer: Kamico Drakes Tap in: Instagram | Watch | Website Support the show

Send a text Does God hate divorce? What happens when the faith that once held your marriage together begins to feel like the very thing keeping you stuck? On this deeply layered episode of Legally Uncensored, Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with Lyvonne Briggs, MDiv, ThM — Emmy Award-winning producer, Afro-Caribbean spiritualist, and author of Sensual Faith: The Art of Coming Home to Your Body — for a transformative conversation at the intersection of spirituality, marriage, sexuality, and self-liberation. Known for her work featured on TEDx and in ESSENCE, Cosmopolitan, Rolling Stone, and The Washington Post, Lyvonne brings her signature blend of theological depth, cultural insight, and embodied healing to unpack the sacred myths many of us inherit about commitment, endurance, and desire. Together, Demetria and Lyvonne explore: Marriage: Sacred Covenant or Beautiful Illusion? When “God said stay” becomes guilt instead of guidance. How spiritual language can mask emotional harm — and the difference between obedience and imprisonment. Sex After Divorce Rediscovering desire through a lens of both faith and freedom. Generational Healing Unlearning sacrifice as virtue. Reclaiming embodiment as spiritual practice. With Demetria’s legal lens and Lyvonne’s theological insight, this episode offers clarity for anyone wrestling with the tension between spiritual belief and lived experience. Because sometimes healing isn’t about holding on — it’s about coming home to yourself. Connect with Our Guest Learn more about Lyvonne Briggs and her work at: https://lyvonnep.com/ Stay Connected with Legally Uncensored For more episodes, resources, and updates, visit: www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Follow us on social media for behind-the-scenes content, clips, and upcoming conversations. 🎙 Watch full episodes and exclusive content on YouTube: Head to our YouTube channel and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support the show

Send a text In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Stay or Go Coach and Podcast Host Britta Jo continues her discussion with family law attorney Demetria Graves, Esq., shifting from awareness to action. If Part 1 was the wake-up call, Part 2 is the roadmap. Together, Britta and Demetria move beyond the risks of indecision and into what preparation, clarity, and empowered decision-making actually look like. They unpack how women can protect themselves — emotionally and financially — even before making a final decision about their marriage. In this episode, they explore: How to begin preparing legally and financially without escalating conflict The importance of confidential consultations and understanding your rights early How to quietly gather documentation and protect assets What strategic preparation really means — and what it doesn’t How clarity reduces fear and increases leverage The power of timing when making major legal decisions Demetria shares practical insight into how informed preparation changes outcomes — in negotiations, custody discussions, and financial settlements. She explains why knowledge is not a declaration of divorce — it’s protection. Britta reinforces the emotional side of the journey, discussing how fear, guilt, and uncertainty often delay action — and how support systems like coaching and therapy create steadiness during life’s most pivotal transitions. This episode is about reclaiming agency. Because preparation is not betrayal. It’s wisdom. If you’re navigating uncertainty and wondering what your next move should be, this conversation will give you clarity, courage, and practical next steps. Listen. Learn. And share this with someone who needs it. Follow Demetria’s work on Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq. for deeper conversations on family law, empowerment, and navigating life’s most complex transitions. For more information on Britta Jo, visit www.stayorgocoaching.com Follow us on all socials and for more information head to www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Catch this episode on Youtube! Support the show

Send us a text We briefly filed for divorce from our audio… but reconciled. (Sorry!!) We’re back with a special bonus episode to open Season 7 of Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq.* In this powerful two-part series, Host Demetria Graves, Esq. (family law attorney and founder of The Graves Firm) sits down with Britta Jo (Stay or Go Coach and Podcast Host) to explore the often-overlooked legal and financial consequences of staying in an uncertain marriage. Many women believe that “waiting it out” is the safer choice — but what if indecision is actually putting you at greater risk? Demetria offers a clear-eyed legal reality check on how staying in limbo can quietly erode your financial security, limit your legal options, and create outcomes that could have been avoided with earlier awareness. Together, Britta and Demetria unpack: * How indecision can create real legal and financial consequences * Who is most at risk when they delay difficult decisions * Common missed opportunities — like gathering financial information or protecting assets * How waiting can impact legal timelines, custody, and settlements * The hidden financial fallout of emotional hesitation * Why financial empowerment is a form of self-protection — not conflict Demetria also pulls back the curtain on what attorneys see behind the scenes, including: * Common myths that keep women stuck * The difference between emotional readiness and legal readiness * What it actually looks like to reach the “sweet spot” where both align This conversation also highlights the importance of building the right support team. Demetria explains why having emotional support — through coaching or therapy — can make the legal process smoother, clearer, and more empowering, and why being emotionally resourced is critical when navigating high-stakes legal decisions. If you’ve ever felt stuck between staying and leaving, this episode is for you. Listen. Learn. And share this with someone who needs it. For Part 2 and more information on Britta Jo, visit www.stayorgocoaching.com Follow us on all socials and for more information head to www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Catch this episode on Youtube! Support the show

Divorce isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of your next evolution. In this powerful and soul-nourishing episode of *Legally Uncensored*, host **Demetria Graves** welcomes actress, author, and creative force **Valeka Jessica**, who shares her inspiring journey of transformation after a decade-long marriage. Affectionately known as “V,” Valeka opens up about how the breakdown of her marriage became a breakthrough into her higher self. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and wisdom drawn from her *guided journal*, she reveals **11 essential tips** to help women reclaim their power, redefine their purpose, and blossom spiritually, emotionally, and financially after divorce. This episode dives into: * How to *rename* yourself and reimagine your identity * Releasing the past by getting rid of “his things” * Reconnecting with your purpose and finding joy again * The role of therapy, tribe, and spirituality in healing * Financial lessons and building independence * Using mindfulness, manifestation, and daily rituals to stay grounded * The importance of setting boundaries and celebrating small wins Whether you’re navigating divorce now or rebuilding after, this conversation is a heart-forward roadmap to reclaiming your life and honoring your next chapter. 📘 Grab Valeka’s journal and start your journey: *Blossoming After Divorce* 🎭 Follow her latest project: “I’m a Motherf*cking Superstar” — live in Atlanta, 2025. 🔗 Follow Valeka on IG: [@ValekaJessica](https://instagram.com/ValekaJessica) ✨ For more resources, follow us on IG and YouTube @LegallyUncensored or visit [www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com](http://www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com) Support the show

Can you fix your marriage without setting foot in a counselor’s office? In this transformative episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with retired marriage and family counselor Ziba Graham Jr. to explore just that. With decades of experience in helping couples and an innovative approach that moves away from traditional therapy models, Ziba introduces practical, future-focused strategies that have saved relationships—without laying blame or reliving past hurts. In fact, his approach was so effective, couples often "fired" him after just a few sessions. Together, they unpack: Whether you’re trying to reconnect, avoid divorce, or simply strengthen your marriage, this episode delivers insightful, no-nonsense solutions that men (and their partners) will actually appreciate. Learn more about Ziba's method in his book: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling fixyourmarriagebook.com Available on Amazon: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling For more resources, follow us on IG and YouTube @LegallyUncensored or visit www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Support the show

When a marriage ends, one of the most complex and emotionally charged assets to deal with is the family home. In this episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves is joined by veteran Los Angeles-based real estate professional Phyllis Harb to unpack everything you need to know about real estate and divorce. From deciding who stays or sells, to navigating buyouts, tax implications, and the emotional weight of leaving a shared home—this conversation dives deep into the legal, financial, and personal decisions that surround real estate during and after divorce. Whether you're in the middle of a separation or just planning ahead, this episode offers practical advice, real-life stories, and tips for making informed, fair, and future-focused choices about one of your biggest assets. Tune in to learn: * What happens to the house in different divorce scenarios * How to handle buyouts and avoid costly mistakes * Tips for selling or buying post-divorce * Emotional strategies for letting go and starting fresh * Why working with a real estate pro who understands divorce makes all the difference Learn more about Phyllis at www.harbandco.com Support the show

In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we’re talking about the “P” word—Prenups. Host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with powerhouse attorney Rachel King, Esq. to break the stigma around prenuptial agreements and explain why they’re not just for the rich or famous. From shifting societal roles to real stats on why Millennials and Gen Z are leading the prenup conversation, this candid episode dives into: Whether you're engaged, married, or simply curious, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating love with clarity and confidence. Support the show

In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with NYC-based hospitality professional and former model Yoki Brown to explore love, divorce, and dating from a man’s perspective. Yoki opens up about marrying young, the evolution of his relationship, and how he and his ex-wife remain close friends to this day. Now in his 40s and single/dating, he reflects on how his past shaped his current views on love, commitment, and what it means to build stronger foundations later in life. Together, they unpack what it’s like to date in a big city, navigate personal growth after divorce, and redefine what a modern relationship can look like—especially when friendship with an ex is part of the equation. From hard truths to unexpected lessons, this episode offers real talk on relationships, resilience, and starting over with clarity and confidence. Support the show

Is divorce... contagious? In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply honest episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with writer, creative, and single mom Amber Dorsey to explore the ripple effects of divorce within friendships and communities. From side-eyeing your relationship after a friend’s breakup to the quiet comparisons we don’t talk about, Amber brings humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom to the mic. They unpack how one couple calling it quits can trigger deep reflection in others—and how comedy, cannabis, and community can be powerful tools in healing and moving forward. You’ll hear about: If you’ve ever felt alone in your relationship doubts or are rediscovering yourself after a split, this one’s for you. 🎧 Tune in and join the conversation—because love, loss, and laughter are all part of the journey. For more information follow us @legallyuncensored and www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Support the show

In light of the recent **verdict in the Diddy case**, this episode of *Legally Uncensored* takes on even greater urgency. Host **Demetria L. Graves, Esq.** returns with licensed therapist **LeAnn Lazar** to continue the vital conversation on **domestic violence and its legal and emotional impact**—especially during divorce. Part 2 goes deeper into the lived realities behind the headlines, exploring how abuse complicates custody battles, support agreements, and the legal protections survivors need to move forward. Together, Demetria and LeAnn unpack the intersection of **trauma, legal strategy, and survival planning**, offering support and actionable guidance for those experiencing abuse or trying to heal from it. This episode is not just about law—it’s about **liberation, safety, and reclaiming power**. If you or someone you know is navigating a relationship affected by domestic violence, this episode is essential listening. Special Guest: LeAnn Lazar, Licensed Therapist - Specializing in Life Transformation Website: leannlazarcoaching.com And dont forget to follow us on social media @legallyuncensored and Youtube for videos and everything you need at www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com. Support the show

We are back with a new season and kicking off with a powerful discussion of "Why They Stay: The Legal and Emotional Toll of Leaving Power & Abuse." Why do survivors of abuse stay—especially when their abuser is powerful, wealthy, and adored by the public? In this gripping episode, Demetria Graves, Esq. examines the high-profile case of Sean “Diddy” Combs and Cassie Ventura, unraveling the emotional, psychological, and legal complexities behind why leaving abuse isn’t always simple—or safe. From allegations of sex trafficking and emotional manipulation to civil lawsuits and industry silence, we explore the deeper forces at play. Joining Demetria is certified life and relationship coach LeAnn Lazar, who shares insight on trauma bonding, control, and the process of reclaiming personal power after abuse. If you’ve ever asked, “Why didn’t they just leave?”—this episode is for you. **TRIGGER WARNING:** This episode contains discussions of abuse, sexual violence, and trauma Support the show

Welcome to a brand new season of Legally Uncensored with your host, Demetria Graves, Esq.—family law attorney, strategist, and truth-teller. This season, we’re taking a bold and empowering look at love, law, and everything in between. Whether you're getting married, navigating rocky waters, or healing after a breakup, this show is your go-to guide for clarity and confidence. With real stories, legal insights, and expert guests, we’re helping you prepare, protect, and power through your relationship journey. Season Theme: Untangling Hearts and Unveiling Truths: Uncensored Conversations on Relationships, Divorce, Family Law, and Beyond. Because it’s not just about what happens in court—it’s about what happens in life. 💬 This season, we’ll cover: * Pre-marital planning and protecting your assets * How to navigate conflict and avoid legal landmines * Divorce recovery and rebuilding with resilience * Co-parenting and real-world family dynamics * Personal stories from those who’ve been through it and came out stronger 🔗 Stay Connected: Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @legallyuncensored Subscribe on YouTube for full episodes and behind-the-scenes content Visit: www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com 🎧 New episodes dropping weekly. Hit follow so you don’t miss a moment. Support the show

Meet the powerhouse team behind The Graves Firm! Hosted by Demetria L. Graves, Legally Uncensored offers an insider's view into the world of family law. Demetria is not only a compassionate divorce attorney but also leads a dedicated team of paralegals, legal assistants, and fellow lawyers. Tune in for an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at family law in California. From divorce and child custody to paternity, child support, visitation rights, and more—discover the complexities of these legal issues and how they impact families. Take notes on: - Navigating the intake process - Understanding the importance of timelines - How to effectively communicate with your attorneys More information: https://www.losangeles-divorcelaw.com/ Support the show

Welcome to Season 2 of Legally Uncensored, a family law podcast. In this episode, we discuss how to PROPERLY file for Custody and Visitation. We discuss step-by-step how to identify what your issue is in terms of custody, and how to request a solution with the court. Do you have questions on any of the topics we discussed? Or any questions on family law in general? Is there a topic you’d like to see covered in more detail in a future episode? Send a message to info@graveslawfirm.ca and we’ll get back to you. Support the show

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