
Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast
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Follow the sexy misadventures of Mickey & Mallory, a casual lifestyle couple who are trying hard to be the family next door while being consensually non-monogamous. From sex toys to the latest swingers in the news, you’ll hear our take on it.
Location:
United States
Genres:
Health & Wellness Podcasts
Description:
Follow the sexy misadventures of Mickey & Mallory, a casual lifestyle couple who are trying hard to be the family next door while being consensually non-monogamous. From sex toys to the latest swingers in the news, you’ll hear our take on it.
Twitter:
@casualswinger
Language:
English
Contact:
5406920168
Website:
https://www.casualswinger.com
Episodes
One Size Fits All?
9/3/2025
One Size Fits All?
Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate!
Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events.
We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round.
Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel
Episode Highlights:
Special Guest:
wanderlustswingers.comlibertineevents.com Resources & Links:
casualswinger.comcasualswingerweek.comlibertineevents.comInstagramYouTubeX (Twitter)SLSSDCKasidie Contact:
Support the Show:
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Duración:01:32:25
Adults Only - The AVS Legislation You Should Care About!
8/1/2025
Podcast Title: Casual Swinger Season 6 Episode 4 – Adults Only: The AVS Legislation You Should Care About
SEO-Optimized Description: Join hosts Mallory and Mickey Gordon for a candid, entertaining, and insightful episode of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this adults-only show, the duo dives deep into the controversial Age Verification Service (AVS) legislation sweeping across the United States and beyond. Discover how these new laws impact not just the adult industry, but your personal freedoms, privacy, and access to online content.
With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month!
Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered.
Keywords: AVS legislation, age verification, adult content laws, lifestyle podcast, sex-positive, privacy, online freedom, content creators, sex work, Hedonism II, Casual Swinger Week, whiskey of the month, podcast show notes, adult industry news
Show Notes:
00:00 – Intro & Disclaimer Mallory and Mickey welcome listeners, share a quick disclaimer, and set the tone for an adults-only, fun, and informative episode.
03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the Lifestyle The hosts catch up on recent adventures, the challenges of dating as busy event hosts, and the realities of chemistry and connection in the lifestyle.
12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II Announcing the next Casual Swinger Week in Jamaica! Details on dates, booking, and what makes this event unique.
20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation Explained Deep dive into Age Verification Service laws, how they’re affecting the adult industry, content creators, and your access to online content.
What is AVS? Which states are affected? The impact on privacy, free speech, and sex work International implications (UK, EU, etc.)
40:00 – The Real-World Impact Discussion on VPN usage, piracy, and how restrictive laws often backfire.
Parallels to Prohibition and the War on Drugs The rise of non-compliant and pirated sites
55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal Responsibility Why open conversations and device-level controls matter more than legislation.
Tips for parents The importance of sex-positive education
1:10:00 – Whiskey of the Month Spotlight on Evan Williams Single Barrel bourbon: tasting notes, history, and why it’s a favorite.
1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get Involved Links and organizations mentioned:
Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/ Age Verification Policy: https://ageverificationpolicy.org/ Contact your representatives
1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger
Website: casualswinger.com Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Social: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SDC, SLS, Cassidy Event info: casualswingerweek.com
Support the Show: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! For questions, feedback, or to join us at Hedonism II, reach out via email or social media.
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Free Speech Coalition Age Verification Policy Hedonism II The Hot Wife Next Door Podcast
Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Listener discretion is advised.
Duración:01:02:23
Hotwife Homerun - Casual vs Curated
6/14/2025
In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion. Broadcasting from Toronto, the trio dives into an impromptu encounter in Cancun, exploring themes around the spontaneity versus the structured approach in the hot wife lifestyle. They share amusing anecdotes, insights on the dynamics of E&M (ethically non-monogamous) relationships, and how a spontaneous adventure reignited confidence and passion. They also navigate topics like safety, vetting processes, performance anxiety, and the evolving rules of swinging. With humor and raw honesty, the conversation offers both entertainment and thought-provoking content for listeners looking to understand or relate to the hot wife and swinging experiences. www.casualswingerweek.com
www.wanderlustswingers.com
www.thexclub.net
www.hedonism.com
www.libertineevents.com
Duración:00:55:21
Striking Out - It's Not Just For Boys
6/1/2025
In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town. The discussion starts with a chaotic attempt to record the previous episode at an airport bar surrounded by kids. They delve into the challenges faced organizing hotwifing dates and dealing with flakey and untrustworthy candidates. Mallory highlights her personal struggles with the intricate process in the post-breakup environment while Mickey shares valuable tips on identifying and avoiding red flags in lifestyle dating. Infused with plenty of humor and honesty, they reflect on balancing rejection, expectations, and the complex emotions involved. Listen in for a blend of fun tales from the field and real insight into navigating the lifestyle's singles scene. Links Casual Swinger Week
Libertine Events
The X Club
Duración:01:02:48
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Casual Swinger 2.0
5/13/2025
Well, it's been a while! Casual Swinger took a MUCH longer than intended hiatus, and even WE didn't exactly know why. We dig into some of the reasons why we spent 9 months off the air & talk about some of our challenges with a REALLY tough subject...breaking up. Not with each other! With "our couple," and all of the emotional challenges that came along with it. Hear all about it and more during our road trip down to Miami for Libertine Events Garden of Hedon! Hedonism II
Casual Swinger Week
Libertine Events
DarkMatter69 - BDSM Gear
Duración:01:01:05
SE05E07 - Hurricane Hedo - Onsite w/ Hedonism II GM David Graham post Hurricane Beryl
7/18/2024
Weathering the Storm: Insights and Resilience at Hedonism 2
Donate to Hedonism Hurricane Relief Today!
In this engaging episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey recount their recent adventures, focusing on their time at Casual Swinger Week and PCAP events. They delve into the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, sharing stories of the remarkable resilience of the locals and the relentless efforts of the resort staff to rebuild. The episode also features an in-depth interview with David Graham, the general manager, who discusses hurricane preparations and recovery efforts.
Additionally, significant renovations at the resort, the economic impact of inflation, upcoming events like Halloween, and a GoFundMe campaign to support affected employees are highlighted, underscoring the dedicated community spirit of Hedonism 2.
00:00 Welcome Back to Casual Swinger
01:26 Life Updates and Travel Adventures
02:05 Recap of Casual Swinger Week
04:39 PCAP and Playroom Highlights
07:56 Hurricane Hedo Experience
17:15 Community Resilience in Jamaica
31:53 Interview with Hedo's General Manager
39:48 Upcoming Plans and Promises
40:28 Casual Swinger Week and Contact Info
41:40 Introduction to David Graham
42:25 Hurricane Experience at Hedonism 2
43:55 Staff Resilience and Recovery Efforts
52:30 Future Plans for Hedonism 2 54:53 Group Experiences at Hedonism 2
56:43 Management Approach and Staff Interaction 01:00:33 Renovations and Economic Challenges
01:04:26 Holiday Celebrations and Special Events
01:15:43 Support for Hedonism 2 Staff
01:18:26 Casual Swinger Week and Final Thoughts Casual Swinger Week
Casual Toys
Hedonism II
IOS Connections
Fluffernutters
Rachal's Rebels
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Duración:01:21:23
The Unicorn Swap - Is it the SECRET to adding a third to your bedroom?
3/24/2024
People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons. One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome. Finding a single, willing girl who wants nothing more than to join a married (or attached) couple simply for their pleasure is SO rare she might as well be a mythical creature...aka, a "Unicorn." In tonight's Casual Swinger we break down a way that everyone can get what they want, and no Unicorns were harmed in the creation of this episode! Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, Revive Parties, Casual Swinger Week, and of course...WHISKEY of the MONTH! Links: Casual Toys
Casual Swinger Week
Vedo Toys
Wicked Sensual Care
Uberlube
XR Brands/Creature Cocks
Coochy Shave Cream
NS Novelties
Podcast-A-Palooza
Hedonism II
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Duración:01:24:08
Blurred Lines - The Land Between Swinging & Polyamory
3/1/2024
The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen. We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it? Links Casual Toys Naughty Gym
Be Better @ Being Bad Week
Casual Swinger Week
Hedonism II Resort
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Duración:01:29:46
Surprise! - It's my D!CK! - Exploring the d!ck pic culture w/ Expansive Connections
2/15/2024
Almost nothing is more shocking than opening an email or text message and seeing the stunning visage of someone's glorious phallus throbbing in all of it's majesty...especially when you didn't ask for it. What's the origin of the d!ck pic? Why do guys keep sending them? Is it easier or harder on people who actually get paid to look at them? (Pardon the pun)
Whatever the case, we were lucky enough to be joined by two of the amazing staff from Expansive Connections (www.expansiveconnection.com) to discuss not only the pictures themselves, but the motivations, the responses, and the outcomes of sending pictures of your family jewels to unsuspecting recipients. Dig in and learn more about the almighty d!ck p!c on this week's Casual Swinger! Bonus! The whiskey of the month is BACK! Check out the whiskey of the month this month, I.W. Harper Cabernet Cask Finish! Links: Expansive Connection
Casual Toys
Casual Swinger Week
Dirty Perv Week
Fluffernutters
Hedonism II
IW Harper Cabernet Cask Finish @ Total Wine
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Duración:01:33:08
Contents Under Pressure - Are Content Creators Ruining The Lifestyle?
1/31/2024
"Content Creators" are absolutely everywhere these days. The onset of personal content platforms has changed everything from the workplace to social media, right down to subcultures like the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. In this return to form, Mickey & Mallory dig into the idea that content creators have irreparably and permanently changed the landscape of the lifestyle from a few different angles: 1) As content creators ourselves 2) As event promoters 3) And finally, as a lifestyle couple Spoiler alert...we don't agree! Get in on this debate and hear a bit about what's been going on in our world! Links: Be Better @ Being Bad Week @ Hedonism II
Hedonism II
Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II
Casual Toys *
Duración:01:07:34
A Family is Born - Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Changes Everything
5/8/2023
Casual Swinger Week 2023 was over SIX years in the making...and even we couldn't have predicted what would happen when we brought 130 souls to our favorite place on earth, Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica!
Hear our feelings on the events of the week and some of the amazing experiences from our perspectives before listening to PART TWO, the trip from the attendees perspectives.
Casual Toys
Hedonism II
World Exotic Travel
Topless Travel
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Duración:01:09:52
A Tale of Two Tails - Whiskey Business Part 2 w/ Limavady CEO Darryl McNally
4/30/2023
Back in the saddle! Limavady CEO Darryl McNally & Whistle Pig Brand Educator Ingrid Rodriguez joined us live in the Casual Bar for a conversation about one of the oldest art forms in the world, making whiskey. Learn how to make great cocktails with Irish Whiskey & some facts about whiskey you've never heard before on this NEW episode of Casual Swinger!
Make sure to use code CASUALSWINGER for a discount on these great brands!
Limavady Irish Whiskey
Whistle Pig Whiskey
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Duración:01:27:35
The ”NO” Paradox
11/21/2022
Ever wondered why such a little word is SO hard to say?
The Season 5 Premiere of Casual Swinger digs into the word we fear so much that we're afraid to say it...the Voldemort of the lifestyle..."NO." Also, catch up with us on our goings on, our trip to Hedo with amazing friends, and some of the Christmas specials coming your way at Casual Toys!
Casual Swinger Week
Casual Toys
Liberator
Hedonism Resorts
Whiskey of the Month
Mrs. Milford
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Duración:01:13:25
We are Casual Swinger - Faces Out & Talking Mental Health w/ The Things We All Carry
8/28/2022
It's the Season Finale of Season 4 and we're going all in folks!
Faces out for Season 5 & we're talking about it with the host of another podcast we love that has absolutely NOTHING to do with the lifestyle, "The Things We All Carry." His podcast focuses on the mental health struggles of first responders carrying the traumas from their various rescues over time and how they come to terms with that part of their lives. We also dig into our experiences at Hedonism II, including our games and our upcoming CASUAL SWINGER WEEK! That's right, in April 2023 we'll be headed to Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica for a week of fun & laughs with our sexy friends you will NOT want to miss! Current sponsors include:
Shameless Care
YoungCouplesParties.com
Neva Nude
Oxballs
Uberlube
Casual Toys
Playhouse LV
More to come!
Check out our website for more information including room availability & rates!
Last up, this month's Whiskey of The Month is: George Dickel Barrel Select!
Notes:
Dickel Barrel Select on Total Wine
The Things We All Carry
Hedonism II
Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II
Casual Toys
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I Regret Nothing! - Exploring Regret In Lifestyle Relationships w/ The CornFed Swingers
7/31/2022
Regret is a funny thing. So often it's better to regret something we HAVE done instead of something we haven't done. However, in the lifestyle, does that still apply? How do we express regret even if it means we're not sorry?
We dig in from the beautiful corn fields of Iowa with the amazing CornFed Swingers to have an honest & open conversation about our experiences...and our hearts on this second-to-last episode of Season 4 on Casual Swinger!
PS - We've launched our Hedonism II trip for April 2023! Join Casual Swinger on the sunny beaches of Negril, Jamaica for an epic vacation you'll never forget!
Casual Toys
Cornfed Swingers on Twitter
Casual Swinger at Hedonism II
Hedonism II
WET Travel
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Duración:01:08:18
The Size of the Matter - Talking Size w/ Wanderlust Swingers & SoloSwingin
7/10/2022
Is size everything? Is it all about male genitalia?
We talk size & all things being self conscious about it on this week's Casual Swinger!
Wanderlust Swingers
Casual Toys
Podcast-A-Palooza
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Duración:01:08:06
You can take a WHAT but not a compliment? - Examining affirmation in the Lifestyle
6/27/2022
Why is it so damned hard to accept a compliment. It's not a gender thing, a professional thing, or even a LIFESTYLE thing. Taking a compliment is WAY harder than it is to give one...but we have to ask?
Why don't we believe the people in our tribe when they tell us the things we HOPE others believe about us? What's it gonna take?
We examine this and more with our friend "The Alabaster Scrotum" in this latest episode of Casual Swinger!
Also: Podcast-A-Palooza and the Casual Cocktail, along with Whiskey of the Month!
Whiskey of the Month on Total Wine
Old Forester Whiskey
Podcast A Palooza
Casual Toys
The Casual Cocktail
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Duración:01:56:22
The ”Breast” Episode Ever w/ Dr. David Plank
5/22/2022
Upgrading the twins is a tough decision that we agonized over for months, meeting with doctor after doctor...we told you all about it in our episode, "Thanks for the Mammaries." It was a tough go until we met Dr. David Plank from Mid-Florida Plastic Surgery, then everything changed.
Find out in his own words why his approach is different from many other surgeons in the area and why we enjoyed him so much. Also, why don't doctors have more personality? What happened to Michael Jackson's nose? When should you say when its too much plastic surgery?
Also, The Casual Cocktail, Podcast-A-Palooza, Naughty in Nawlins, and more in this week's Casual Swinger!
Casual Toys
The Casual Cocktail - Join us for a mixology party like no other!
Mid Florida Plastic Surgery
Dr. David Plank - Guess Mallory's hoots!
Whiskey of the Month - Michter's US1 Rye
Podcast-A-Palooza
Naughty in Nawlins
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Duración:01:29:27
The Casual Swinger...Diaries? - Where are they now w/ Paige & Penn of ”The Swinger Diaries”
5/10/2022
We sat down with the amazing Paige & Penn from the long running adult lifestyle podcast, "The Swinger Diaries," where we found out all about what those amazing people have been doing for the last year since they ended their podcast careers and started flying around the country!
Join us as we broadcast from the mountains of Tennessee (and endured a failed board that crushed our audio quality!) and laughed the weekend away with the likes of Average Swingers, Sapphic Swingers, and of course our friends, The Swinger Diaries!
PCAP
Naughty in Nawlins - Wanderlust's Code
Casual Toys
Casual Swinger on YouTube
The Casual Cocktail
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Duración:01:05:40
The Red Zone - Nature’s Answer to Your Carefully Laid Plans
4/26/2022
Ever spend months planning the perfect outing with your lifestyle friends only to have to reschedule, replan, or completely rework your plans because of your (or your wife's) menstrual cycle?
The reality of "the best laid plans" is that we aren't in control. Hear about some of the disasters, the ridicule, or the challenges we've encountered along the way as we navigate the lifestyle while being human...and not without our faults.
Also, ever wondered what they call "that time of the month" in other countries? Hear some of our favorite euphemisms for "The Red Zone" on this week's Casual Swinger!
BONUS! It's time for WHISKEY OF THE MONTH! Hang around til the end and find out which whiskey won us over with its amazing story this week!
Casual Toys
The Rose Vibrator on Casual Toys
Hedonism Resorts
Euphemisms for Period by Language
Whiskey of The Month
Whiskey of The Month on Total Wine
Podcast-A-Palooza
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Duración:01:14:41