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208-"Help! I have low libido" OR "HE does!"

What if you're a wife that has WAY lower libido than your husband? If you feel like this is just physiologically the way you were made, I want to help. I think there's a lot more to you and the way you're set up sexually. I, Belah Rose, "the sexpert", can easily say I have a low libido. Does that keep me and my husband from having an incredible sex life? Fierce, firey, sensual, spiritual... And I get turned on too and get excited about making love! So... I don't think your libido/"natural"...


207-My Husband's Advice

My husband is a very wise man. Probably the wisest I've met (and I get to live with him! :) :) :) ) Listeners have asked to hear from my husband and I'm glad because he has a lot of wonderful & helpful things to share! I think his message has nuggets that any and every marriage will benefit from! -- If you're a husband... I'm about to pilot a brand new program: Masculinity Reclaimed: Be respected, enjoy fierce intimacy and love being married again! I have SO many men--may be...


Calling all men who want an AMAZING sex life! And be respected outside of the bedroom!

I'm about to pilot a brand new program: Masculinity Reclaimed: Be respected, enjoy fierce intimacy and thrive in your marriage again! It’ll be a phenomenal program! I already have had 50% of those I’ve invited into the program apply, so I’m expecting a very strong group of men joining. Yesterday, was a small sampling of speaking/teaching men directly and it was absolutely phenomenal what they’ve already received marriage/intimacy changing revelations/insights that they were COMPLETELY...


206-Playful sex life

Productiveness IS good, but we forget that we're not just human doers -- we're also human beings. Take the story of Martha and Mary. Martha was working hard and being productive FOR JESUS. Mary was calmly sitting, being still and LISTENING TO JESUS. Both were Godly women. And Jesus even defended Mary for “choosing the good part” when Martha accused her of not DOING. Consider how Jesus modeled JOY and DELIGHT -- not just productivity. He certainly “did” a lot, but he also had breakfast with...


205-Words in Sex

Words are important. They can cause a wildfire or a passionate flame in your bedroom. Outside of the bedroom: We can be hurtful and careless with our words and say “Oh he’s my husband”. Does that sound familiar? But is he really JUST your husband? That is God’s son you’re dealing with. If you want to get your words in line with God’s will, one of the first things that needs to be done is to APOLOGIZE. Just get it out of the way. It’s hard, especially if it’s not part of the culture of...


204-The TRUTH about "honesty"

A lot of women are under the impression that they need to share everything with their husbands. In fact, they say this is being “honest”. I disagree. In EVERY marriage (yes, even VERY good ones), there are many things that are not (and should not) be shared. No one needs to share about tons of bathroom stuff---yuck, not sexy. But there are tons of other things that just wouldn’t be useful, helpful, godly, respectful, kind or many other reasons to share. AND it depends on what level of the...


203-Your Sex-Life Impacts Your Kids

As a mother, you would do ANYTHING for your children. What does that have to do with making love to their father? Well, A LOT. In fact, their eternity is at stake. Really. Other things covered: World-renowned psychologist mentioned: Jordan B. Peterson Excited for you to dive deep into how to transform your marriage!


202-Wisdom > $$$

What does money have to do with your marriage? Finances are often touted as the biggest reason for divorce... but get this: when you have an awesome sex life studies estimate that it's equivalent to having an additional $100k per year! So... NO financial issues... But there's more, the BIGGEST financial DISASTER that can ever befall someone is divorce. SO an awesome marriage and sex life can either pay big $$$ or cost you a ton of money! With all that said, how well are you prioritizing...


201-Why he's DESPERATE for your intimacy

I get so many emails from husbands. I want to send a message to their wives...the wife I used to be. I was a wife who saw sex as And so I avoided it and got resentful that the things I was doing wasn't appreciated. He kept asking me to learn more... and I got angrier. Well God has changed my heart on this. I have discovered that God made my husband's member, and I am his wife. It is my privilege to be a part of intimacy with him. I am his only means of receiving this vital fulfillment...


200-Two Types of Sex: Masculine & Feminine

Are you having the WRONG type of sex? Why your wife doesn't LOVE intimacyWhy sex feels carnalWhy sex feels like it's just for HIMWhy sex isn't fulfilling (EVEN if you orgasm)I argue that there is a very legitimate reason... You guys haven't made feminine sex....everHave you ever even been exposed to what feminine sex is?Let me give you a description and then the tools on how to get started!Go to for further explanation and a step-by-step guide to feminine...


199-The 3 Things He Wants In Sex

So... my husband listens to every podcast before I post them. He often gives me notes on what I need to take out or change. I have been podcasting since Feb 2015 (!!) and by God's grace have been awarded one of the Top 30 Relationship podcasts on the web!! My husband ended up listening and having an entire page FULL of notes. POSITIVE notes! (One negative note--not that it was wrong but that it might be a bit too explicit. I countered "I just don't want wives to be confused with what I'm...


198-Fear of change



197-The Gifts of Suffering

How could suffering ever be a gift? Why would focusing on suffering be a wise thing? A lot of times the women I coach don't take the time to look at the pain and suffering they're experiencing. But when they do that, they are distracting themselves away from its lessons--the wisdom God wants to teach us through it. And even through our AWARENESS of it. On this episode, I talk about the 13 Gifts of Sufferings and I talk specifically about some of my own sufferings that have given me great...


196-Can it ever really change?

Can things really change? "It's been 5, 10, 25 years, how could this ever be different?" Suffering in marriage makes your whole life suffer---kids, job, ministry, peace, walking in the fruits of the spirit, sexual fulfillment, chastity in thoughts, satisfaction in marriage, covetous thoughts of other marriages, sin in many places, not starting the ministries God has called you to and would thus not touch the many people God wants you too!! It's 2019, packed in this message is lots of...


What should your life be about at the beginning of 2019?

WHAT SHOULD YOUR LIFE BE ABOUT AT THE BEGINNING OF 2019? I used to try to cram all of my goals into the beginning of the year. And I would scramble for a few weeks potentially months—at best and then drop all of them by April. I’ve learned something very valuable that I wanted to share today. I want to talk to you about exactly how I set my priorities throughout every year. It frees me up to focus, relax and listen to God’s voice. This year I’m really excited and there’s a lot of...


195-Part 6: How to EFFECTIVELY change it

You might think your marriage is too far gone. There is too much strife, emotional and mental abuse, painful memories, WAY too much baggage to ever recover. I encourage you to review this entire series and take a journey with me on this episode. Maybe we've been looking at this whole marriage thing all wrong. And we've been looking at what it means to be man and woman wrong too? What is the masculine nature? What is the feminine nature? Can a man have both, can a woman have both? Is this...


194-Abuse, Part 5: Sexual Abuse

1 in 4 women this year will be sexually abused. You may never know who... your sister, best friend, daughter, mother, wife... You may have been the victim. I'm so sorry for your pain and what you have been through. You are not alone and you do not need to feel shame any longer. Today's podcast is to help all women process the pain of abuse. I think it affects all of us whether we ourselves have experienced it or not, we live in a culture where that is the norm... Here's what I...


193-Abuse, Part 4: I used to "submit"

Here's what is covered in today's episode ezerThree times it is used to describe a powerful nation that comes to save the nation of Israel from their enemiesThe other 16x it's used to describe God as a military warrior, the powerful savior, giving desperate salvation from foesIs that how you see women?Is that how you see yourself? This isn't easy territory, but I pray that it is an eye-opening episode for every listener. -- It was my husband's birthday this week and I'm asking every...


192-Abuse, Part 3: Unique but Equal

This one honestly wasn’t that easy to think through or record. Here’s what I cover:


191-Abuse Part2: Boundaries

When I work with women, I think the biggest problem is they don’t have boundaries. And for them to slowly strategically come out of abusive relationships and cause their marriage to thrive instead of the abusive, they have to have boundaries. But it might not look the way you think it will look. I grew up without boundaries myself. And So I never learned that I was responsible for me: my feelings, my thoughts, my choices, my property, my own things, my privacy... So naturally when I got...