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190- Abuse, Part I: Blinders

11/15/2018
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(So sorry, my computer broke so I wasn't able to edit and this is late, but I think the content is all there!) -- I was abused and I was completely unaware at the time. Because he was spiritually gifted I trusted him. But he wasn’t exhibiting the fruits of the spirit. If you’re being abused, it’s so hard to see what’s really going on in your marriage because something that’s inherent in abuse is blinders. Today, I talk about my own experience with abuse in my first marriage, and what...

Duration:00:34:14

189-When you’re attracted to someone else

11/15/2018
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Not discussed… but it’s common to be attracted to someone that’s not your spouse. What do you do about it? First, figure out where you are in your level of attraction and then decide action steps: -1-3 (when you see them/talk to them you feel a chemistry) talk to God, get busy, be an enthusiastic lover with your husband, redirect your thoughts, read the Word, work with your hands -4-7 (find your mind wandering to this person consistently) confide in a mature friend of the same...

Duration:00:45:17

190- Abuse, Part I: Blinders

11/12/2018
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(So sorry, my computer broke so I wasn't able to edit and this is late, but I think the content is all there!) I was abused and I was completely unaware at the time. Because he was spiritually gifted I trusted him. But he wasn’t exhibiting the fruits of the spirit. If you’re being abused, it’s so hard to see what’s really going on in your marriage because something that’s inherent in abuse is blinders. Today, I talk about my own experience with abuse in my first marriage, and what it took...

Duration:00:34:14

Tomorrow, my plea. (And here's a website to help)

11/5/2018
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This is off topic from DYM, but it is foundational to DYM so I felt it was appropriate to send your way. -- People listen to DYM in countries where they are not permitted to listen to Christian media and are even martyred for their faith. Murdered because they follow Jesus. Unbelievable. For some reason, people listen even as it is a threat to their lives! Literally. God is doing work some kind of work through this ministry. But if it wasn't for the United States' laws (which the...

Duration:00:05:36

189-When you’re attracted to someone else

10/26/2018
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Not discussed... but it's common to be attracted to someone that's not your spouse. What do you do about it? First, figure out where you are in your level of attraction and then decide action steps: -1-3 (when you see them/talk to them you feel a chemistry) talk to God, get busy, be enthusiastic lover with you husband, redirect your thoughts, read the Word, work with your hands -4-7 (find your mind wandering to this person consistently) confide in a mature friend of the same sex--tell...

Duration:00:45:17

188-Christian Sex Scandals

10/12/2018
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Excited we're back together after far too long! We have got some fantastic episodes coming your way in this new season of DYM! What was the last sex scandal you heard about?What was the last Christian sex scandal?It probably wasn't too long ago. It's really sad. And it happens so much, far too much.Why is this happening? What can we do about this? On today's show, I talk about why this is so common. I describe the problem and then what you can do in your own marriage. What you can do in...

Duration:00:40:48

Summer break

7/3/2018
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Hi all, DYM is taking a break for the summer but will be back on late August, early September. Blessings, Belah

Duration:00:00:36

187-Get Turned on by Him

5/7/2018
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Questions Discussed: with links -------- I didn’t feel I could give the specificity I’d like to on a public platform like a podcast or website. So, I’m including VERY practical understandings and examples (language, scenarios, actions) you can use immediately in this course! And the biblical foundations as to why you should be able to enjoy! Check out The Seduction Course: (Christian) Hot Sex, Step A, B, C.

Duration:00:46:58

186-Surrendering 2.0. with Laura Doyle (Part 2)

4/17/2018
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Covered in this podcast: Resources: Surrendered WifeThings Will Get As Good As You Can Stand

Duration:00:32:24

185-Surrendering 2.0. with Laura Doyle (Part 1)

4/12/2018
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Well, by now you know that I'm a fan of The Surrendered Wife. It has changed the way I think and I am so grateful. Well, this time I have some of the more challenging questions answered like... -What about when you have fundamental differences? -What about different parenting styles? -Marriage therapy ever a good idea? -What about when he's nasty but you don't want a huge issue by saying "ouch" and leaving the room? -When you're vulnerable but he hurts you because you're...

Duration:00:45:30

Your Questions

4/3/2018
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This one isn’t a typical episode. Instead I’m asking for your questions: belah@delightyourmarriage.com

Duration:00:01:54

184-How to Apologize

4/3/2018
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Duration:00:05:55

183-Divorce IS an Option

3/20/2018
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Discussed in this conversation: tiny —— Ensure that you're infusing your marriage with exciting sex: I’ve released the first 4 parts of a new course I’m really excited about: The Seduction Course: (Christian) Hot Sex, Step A, B, C. I didn’t feel I could give the specificity I’d like to on a public platform like a podcast or website. So I’m including VERY practical understandings and examples (language, scenarios, actions) you can use immediately in this course! Right now you can get...

Duration:00:46:42

182-What Makes Intimacy Exciting

3/13/2018
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What is included in this show: supposedexcitement Shift your attitude. Col 3:23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters. Men get turned on by something they see, women get turned when they feel good about themselves. -Joyce Penner -------- The HOW of making it exciting: I’ve released the first 3 parts of a new course I’m really excited about: The Seduction Course: (Christian) Hot Sex, Step A, B, C. I didn’t feel I could give the...

Duration:00:51:22

181-Connection Goals

3/6/2018
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What do you want your marriage to look like? Is it at the level of the connection and depth of love that you desire? If not, what does it look like? And the follow up question is what you can do to change it? We cannot change what we do not notice. I encourage you to take stock of your intimacy which is your husband's fuel of your connection. How often are you making love and how are you making it a priority in your life? It often isn't as easy as it sounds, but I have some tips and...

Duration:00:27:49

180-Sex is Better In Marriage

2/27/2018
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Sex is Better In Marriage. If it's better, why is there so much divorce and so many unhappy marriages? Its better but it's also harder. Here's why sex is harder in marriage: Why sex is better in marriage: Be intentional about the spice of your sex life: I’ve released the first parts of a new course I’m really excited about: The Seduction Course. I didn’t feel I could give the specificity I’d like to on a public platform like a podcast or website. So I’m including VERY practical...

Duration:00:30:45

179-The Missional Marriagebed

2/20/2018
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Main Points: one flesh The Seduction Course Part 1 is released today!! Purchase now to have the most discounted price! (It will go up next Tuesday when I release Part 2!) I am SO excited to share this content with you. I think it will really get you to the place of implementing and doing, practically, those things that will really make you feel powerful. Because you will know that you know how to drive him wild.

Duration:00:27:39

178-Stoke His Desire

2/13/2018
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The specific steps to seduce: Why Seduction is important, helpful tips on what will help you seduce and next steps. The Seduction Course P1 will be released next week! Purchase now to have the most discounted price! (It will go up on Tuesday!) I am SO excited to share this content with you. I think it will really get you to the place of implementing and doing, practically, those things that will really make you feel powerful. Because you will know that you know how to drive him wild.

Duration:00:29:00

177-Body P6: Be Released

2/6/2018
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Main points: -God's might and glory is shown in the uniqueness of creation. And in the tiniest of details of your body. -The way you feel about your body affects the way you interact with your spouse and the rest of the world. -Children are released in their bodies. Body insecurity is learned (and its unattractive). -Our self-perception is tied to so many different things. Time of the month, what we've been eating for the last couple of weeks, what stresses are in our lives etc. And this...

Duration:00:31:38

176-Body P5: Value Touch

1/30/2018
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How to enjoy sex as a woman. We as women have so much going on. So many commitments and responsibilities. Busy. For women its a slow process to transition from life to physical intimacy. (For men, not so much). For us, its slow and it should be. Its an opening. Its a releasing. Its a being invited into her divinely orchestrated womanhood. What does it feel like to be in touch of your body? Why does touch matter? Being in your body. Being attentive to the touch of your body will help you...

Duration:00:23:49