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Female led relationship podcast by International Bestselling Female Led Relationship Author of 16 books, Marisa Rudder. Founder of the Love and Obey movement and social media influencer. A female led relationship means the Queen is in charge. She makes the decisions while her man is the supportive gentleman. More couples are enjoying female led relationships, transforming their lives and creating a fulfilling and loving partnership. Learn everything there is to know about a female led relationships, femdom, chastity, dominance and submission, power dynamics, ethical non monogamy, cuckolding, hotwife, swinging, love affirmations and more. To learn more go to https://www.loveandobey.com.

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Female led relationship podcast by International Bestselling Female Led Relationship Author of 16 books, Marisa Rudder. Founder of the Love and Obey movement and social media influencer. A female led relationship means the Queen is in charge. She makes the decisions while her man is the supportive gentleman. More couples are enjoying female led relationships, transforming their lives and creating a fulfilling and loving partnership. Learn everything there is to know about a female led relationships, femdom, chastity, dominance and submission, power dynamics, ethical non monogamy, cuckolding, hotwife, swinging, love affirmations and more. To learn more go to https://www.loveandobey.com.

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Exploring Devotion, Passion and Chastity in a Female Led Relationship

10/28/2025
Welcome to episode 23 of my Female-Led Relationship podcast. Today, we're diving into the intriguing world of chastity and exploring how devotion creates passion when you embrace the thrills of chastity in your Female-Led Relationship. Chastity has been shown to enhance the excitement, emotional connection, and power dynamics within an FLR. Chastity involves the submissive handing over control of sexual pleasure to the Queen, which can deepen trust, build anticipation, and shift focus toward the Queen's pleasure. The episode emphasizes safe, consensual play, with ideas like teasing, denial, and creative activities to keep the experience engaging. The discussion highlights how chastity fosters emotional intimacy, devotion, and mutual respect, strengthening the relationship's foundation. Practical tips and playful activities are suggested, such as dice games for teasing intensity, edging sessions, and themed rituals, all designed to heighten arousal and connection. The episode also shares a personal story from a couple who successfully integrated chastity into their FLR, illustrating its positive impact on trust and focus on the Queen’s leadership. It also underscores the importance of communication, boundaries, and mutual understanding. If you're ready to transform your relationship and discover new depths of connection and pleasure, stay tuned—this journey might just change the way you see love, desire, and empowerment forever. Let’s explore how chastity can be a positive, empowering, and exhilarating addition to your relationship. Don't miss out on this opportunity to completely transform your female-led relationship. Head over to loveandobey.com now to learn more and take the first step towards a new paradigm in your FLR or female-led marriage. Trust me, you won't regret it. The female led relationship has always been known as exciting. So its the perfect time to inject a sense of excitement and adventure into your life. To learn more about Chastity get my book "Chastity: The Guide to Male Chastity”. In addition please check out my coaching service which offers personalized support to help couples navigate their FLR journey. Listeners are encouraged to explore further resources and embrace the exciting possibilities of chastity and deeper connection within their relationships. To learn about my 16 books and coaching go to my website - http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships Threads https://www.threads.com/@femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:15:35

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What Are The Potential Benefits of Cuckolding ( Real Cuckold Stories )

7/9/2025
Welcome to Episode 22 of my Female-Led Relationship podcast. Today, we're diving into the intriguing world of cuckolding—exploring what are the potential benefits of cuckolding and how it can unlock new levels of pleasure, intimacy, and empowerment in your relationship. Human sexuality is deeply personal and complex, and embracing your desires with compassion and awareness can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life. In this episode, we'll cover the basics of cuckolding, its psychological and emotional aspects, and how this dynamic can enhance confidence, deepen trust, and bring excitement to your love life. Whether you're curious about exploring control and submission or seeking ways to spice up your female led relationship, this podcast episode offers insights and guidance to help you navigate this powerful experience. If you're ready to transform your relationship and discover new depths of connection and pleasure, stay tuned. This journey might just change the way you see love, desire, and empowerment forever. Let’s explore how cuckolding can be a positive, empowering, and exhilarating addition to your relationship. The female led relationship is an exciting new paradigm. So its the perfect time to inject a sense of excitement and adventure into your life. To learn more about FLR check out my 16 books in my female led relationship series as well as my brand new coaching program. To learn about my books and coaching go to my website - http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships Threads https://www.threads.com/@femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:11:56

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Unlock The Secret to A Stronger Female Led Relationship with Affirmations

6/5/2025
Welcome to episode 21 of my Female-Led Relationship podcast, where we're about to embark on a sizzling journey that will take your FLR to scorching new heights. Get ready to discover the ultimate secret weapon that will ignite your dynamic like never before: affirmations for domination and submission. These aren't just any words—they're powerful declarations that will transform your relationship into a blazing inferno of passion, connection, and empowerment. So, buckle up and prepare to have your mind blown as we dive into the transformative power of FLR affirmations. In this episode, we explore the incredible impact that affirmations can have on your female-led relationship. From deepening your submission and reinforcing your Queen's dominance to fostering open communication and reducing power struggles, FLR affirmations are the key to creating a bond that can withstand any challenge. We discussed how these sizzling phrases can help you both embrace your roles with confidence and pride, fueling personal growth and keeping the flames of devotion burning brightly. But the heat doesn't stop there. We also delved into how affirmations can enhance your intimate moments, creating an unbreakable emotional and psychological connection that will leave you both breathless. And the best part? Affirmations are a daily act of recommitment to your FLR, reminding you of your roles, responsibilities, and the love that binds you together. If you're ready to take your female-led relationship to the next level, you need to get my book, "Turning Point." In it, I reveal all the secrets on how affirmations can revolutionize your relationship, fostering trust, intimacy, and mutual respect like never before. And for those who want to dive even deeper, sign up for my exclusive coaching program, where I'll guide you personally, helping you and your submissive unlock the full potential of your FLR. Don't miss out on this opportunity to completely transform your female-led relationship. Head over to loveandobey.com now to learn more and take the first step towards a new paradigm in your FLR or female-led marriage. Trust me, you won't regret it. The female led relationship has always been known as exciting. So its the perfect time to inject a sense of excitement and adventure into your life. To learn more about FLR check out my 16 books in my female led relationship series as well as my brand new coaching program. To learn about my books and coaching go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:12:11

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Submissive Duties In A Female Led Relationship

4/21/2025
Welcome to Episode 20 of my Female Led Relationship series - Submissive Duties in a Female Led Relationship. I will be unraveling the intricacies of Female-Led Relationships (FLR) and the enriching journey of serving your Queen. In today’s episode, we dive deep into the empowering world of tasks for Submissive Men, ideal for both newcomers and seasoned practitioners alike. We’ll explore the delicate balance of trust, consent, and communication that defines your unique dynamic, emphasizing how mutual understanding enhances intimacy and connection. Join me as we break down the importance of tasks and how they can transform your relationship—whether through household chores, enriching rituals, personal growth activities, or intimate experiences. These tasks can serve to enhance the power exchange, foster personal development, and ultimately bring joy to both you and your Queen. If you’re looking to elevate your submission, deepen your connection, and create a more fulfilling FLR, consider checking out my coaching. My AI coaching sessions can help you navigate your journey, ensuring that you and your Queen find joy and meaning in every aspect of your relationship. I am available for you to ask and have answered as many questions as you like, 24 hours a day 7 days a week, at your convenience. it’s private and confidential. Sign up today and take the first step toward enriching your submissive experience!. Now, let's explore together, in this podcast, how to serve with passion and purpose. Whether you're new to female led relationships or you have been in an FLR for many years there is always something to learn to help you progress and evolve in your female led relationship journey. The female led relationship has always been known as exciting. So its the perfect time to inject a sense of excitement and adventure into your life. To learn more about FLR check out my 16 books in my female led relationship series as well as my brand new coaching program. To learn about my books and coaching go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:07:57

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Unlocking the Secrets of Female Sexual Arousal in the Female Led Relationship

12/22/2024
Welcome to episode 19 of my female led relationship podcast series. We will be exploring the tools you can use to completely transform your relationship or marriage by learning everything you can about female led relationships. What better way to achieve this than to explore my 16 books which is your complete course to learn as much as you can about FLR. Female satisfaction is of the utmost importance in a female led relationship. Your Queen must be appreciated and respected as the most important priority in your life. Her sexual satisfaction is crucial. Sexual satisfaction isn’t wham bam thank you ma’am, it requires a consistent effort and sufficient exploration to figure out what works. Your Queen is complex and it is up to you to spend time during your relationship or marriage to figure out what is going to work for both of you. Better sex and sexual satisfaction only makes your FLR more exciting and fulfilling. Emotionally, the healthy sexual response includes feelings of desire, arousal or excitement, and then satisfaction. Many women do not feel desire until they are stimulated enough to become aroused. The female sexual response isn't a one-size-fits-all narrative. It's an evolving, multi-faceted experience, distinct from woman to woman and varying across her lifetime. Emotionally, it weaves through desire, arousal, and satisfaction. Unlike men, many women reach desire gradually – it blossoms as arousal intensifies. To ensure your Queen maintains a robust interest in sex, you need to meet her emotional and practical needs consistently. Combat potential resentment by creating a nurturing atmosphere. Female-led dynamics provide the antidote to outdated power structures, flipping the script from drudgery to empowerment. In this podcast you are going to learn how to unlock the secrets of female sexual arousal the Secrets of female sexual arousal. Why her satisfaction reigns supreme in the female led relationship. The female led relationship has always been known as exciting. So it’s the perfect time to inject a sense of excitement and adventure into your life by diving into my 16 books. The dominance and submission power dynamic is always present in FlR and there are so many ways that a female led relationship can completely transform your life. To learn more about FLR check out my 16 books in my female led relationship series. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:09:20

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How To Create The Perfect Female Led Relationship Step By Step.

9/3/2024
Welcome to episode 18 of my female led relationship podcast series. We will be exploring how to create the perfect female led relationship to completely transform your relationship or marriage by learning everything you can about female led relationships. What better way to achieve this than to explore my 16 books which is your complete course to learn as much as you can about FLR. The Female-led relationship a relationship dynamic whereby the woman is more dominant than her man. Some couples gain sexual gratification or enjoyment from this imbalance and there is a great deal of exploration into power dynamics. Whether you're new to female led relationships or you have been in an FLR for many years there is always something to learn to help you progress and evolve in your female led relationship journey. The female led relationship has always been known as exciting. So its the perfect time to inject a sense of excitement and adventure into your life by diving into my 16 books. The dominance and submission power dynamic is always present in FlR and there are so many ways that a female led relationship can completely transform your life. To learn more about FLR check out my 16 books in my female led relationship series. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:09:24

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Kinky Sex

8/14/2024
Welcome to episode 17 of my female led relationship podcast series. We will be exploring the fascinating world of kinky sex. Kinky sex is the term for a range of consensual yet alternative practices called kinks. There a variety of kinks to explore as part of kinky sex a and many can enhance power dynamics. Kinky sex requires direct communication between you and your Queen, about desires and limits to make sure that it is a pleasurable experience for everyone involved. Whether you're a novice or an expert, exploring kink can be a transformative experience for your female-led relationship or marriage. Kinky sex brings pleasure back into the bedroom. With more kinky couples incorporating elements of kink into their intimate lives, it serves as a thrilling way to introduce variety and spice, especially if things are feeling a bit dull in the bedroom. BDSM is part of Kink and it stands for six components: bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism & masochism (S&M). This type of sexual practice is about being in control or giving up control. It’s a type of kinky sex, but kinky sex does not necessarily have to involve BDSM. The female led relationship has always been known as exciting. So its the perfect time to inject a sense of excitement and adventure by adding some kinky sex. The dominance and submission power dynamic is always present in FLR and there are so many ways that kinky sex can completely transform your female led life. To learn more about kinky sex check out my book FemDom. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:07:04

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Oral Sex For Women

5/10/2024
Welcome to episode 16 of my female led relationship podcast series. We will be exploring the fascinating world of oral sex for women. The first rule of FLR is sex is for the Queen’s pleasure. The Female Led Relationship is an opportunity for you and your Queen to explore the goddess connection. Her pleasure and your ability to help her to unleash her inner sex goddess is your life purpose. It will enrich and give you both the sexual satisfaction you deserve. As her supportive gentleman, it is your responsibility to deliver divine bliss to your goddess and you must be genuinely devoted to loving, obeying, and serving her and putting her pleasure first. Oral sex is the pathway to the divine. The vagina and uterus give life, and many believe that it is a connection to the spiritual realm. They are also the center for the female orgasm. In the bedroom, you will now be charged with giving your Queen the ultimate sexual experience by making the sex all about her and placing the focus on her. Oral sex and your Queen’s pleasure becomes the center of the entire sexual session. In this podcast we will be discussing all aspects of oral sex for women, cunnilingus, clitoral stimulation, female orgasm and more. My book Oral Sex For Women is the completed guide to everything you want to learn about all the positions, tips and techniques to fully satisfy even the most demanding Queen. It is your complete guide to Goddess worship to completely transform your relationship or marriage. To learn about my books go to my website at http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https:// twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships

Duration:00:09:32

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Tantric Sex Rituals

3/12/2024
Welcome to episode 15 of my female led relationship podcast series. In this podcast we will discuss many aspects of Tantric Sex Rituals including Tantra, Tantric Sex and Tantric Love. In a female led relationship sex is for the Queen’s pleasure and anything which can be done to deepen intimacy, increase arousal and sexual satisfaction only makes your FLR more exciting. Tantric Sex rituals involves Breathwork. Conscious breathing techniques play a crucial role in heightening arousal, expanding pleasure, and facilitating a deeper connection between you and your Queen. What is Tantra ? Tantra is an esoteric yogic tradition that developed on the Indian subcontinent from the middle of the 1st millennium CE onwards in both Hinduism and Buddhism. Tantra is a spiritual tradition rooted in ancient Indian philosophy that emphasizes the connection between mind, body, and spirit. Tantric Sex Rituals go beyond physical pleasure, seeking to awaken one's consciousness, deepen intimacy, and achieve spiritual enlightenment through sacred practices. These rituals involve mindfulness, breathwork, meditation, and sensual exploration, creating a space for profound connection and transformation. What can Tantric do ? Tantric sex is based on yogic systems with subtle body and sexual elements which could lead to magical powers, immortality, as well as spiritual liberation. Sexual yoga was seen as one way of producing a blissful expansion of consciousness that could lead to liberation. Tantric sex has the ability to completely transform your female led relationship or female led marriage. My book Goddess of Love is the completed guide to everything you want to learn about Goddess worship and tantric sex. To learn more visit my website at http://www.loveandobey.com. YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:08:00

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Male Chastity and The Chastity Cage

1/10/2024
Welcome to episode 14 of my female led relationship podcast series Male Chastity and the Chastity Cage. Millions of chastity devices have been sold on Amazon in 2024. Why all the fascination? What is chastity, and why is interest in it growing exponentially? Couples have reported that chastity and orgasm control has transformed their relationship or marriage, injecting excitement, adventure, and taking intimacy to a whole new level. Who would think that millions of men would crave wearing a chastity lock for days with their Queen holding the only key? We will discuss how chastity, coming out of an ancient practice of chaste pure life practices for centuries by monks, priests, and other spiritual individuals, has gained such notoriety and how it transforms a relationship or marriage. We will analyze how it fits into a Female Led Relationship and helps couples to build much deeper and more intimate connections. When a woman controls the main driving force of a man, she assumes ultimate control and he submits. This dramatically changes the dynamic of a relationship from patriarchal to female led. It is this transformation that has helped to save thousands of dead marriages and failing relationships, as reported by thousands of couples worldwide. People everywhere are eager and interested in chastity to the point where chastity devices are being sold in the millions. In this podcast we will discuss many aspects of chastity and the chastity cage and how chastity dramatically transforms your relationship or marriage into a brand new experience of sexy fun adventure and more excitement than you ever thought possible. My book Chastity The Guide to Male Chastity is the definitive guide to help you to understand most aspects of chastity, orgasm control, orgasm denial and a step by step guide to how to incorporate the chastity cage into your daily life. Chastity offers so many exciting ways to spice your female led relationship or female led marriage. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship X https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:10:21

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Why Men Love FLR or The Female Led Relationship

12/5/2023
Welcome to ep. 13 of my female led relationship podcast - Why Men Love FLR. Thousands of couples around the world are experiencing a revolution in their relationships by embracing a lifestyle called Female Led Relationship (FLR), in which the women are in charge. Increasing numbers of couples are discovering the thrill, intimacy, and joy that can only be found in a FLR. The future of the world is in the hands of smart, driven women who have emerged as the new dominant gender. This is a transitional period when women are gaining power and men are learning to be submissive to the loving authority of women. In a Female Led Relationship, the woman is the leader and the man is the submissive. She has more power than the man does and has the final say on major issues. In a Female Led Relationship, the woman takes the reins and the man is happy to follow her lead as a supportive gentleman. Hence the rise of female dominance and male submission. It is presumed that women are the driving force behind FLR and female led relationships but it is quite the opposite. Men have largely been the initiators of this exploration into female led lifestyle and many crave to be under the control of a dominant women. Why Men Love FLR is simply because its fantasy made real and it works. less divorce, less arguments, less power struggle and more excitement, intimacy and happiness. Many couples are discovering that magical things can happen when the Queen takes the lead in their relationship. You begin to think and act differently toward one another. The woman becomes a Queen, and her divine nature shines through. The man transforms into the type of gentleman who sees his role as purely utilitarian. The welfare and desires of his Queen are his primary concern, hence he welcomes the opportunity to experience true male submission. Join us on this journey of passion, which could turn your marriage and relationship from humdrum to thrilling. You and your Queen have earned the chance to take your journey to the next exciting level of romance and adventure. Create the Female Led Relationship of your dreams. Come along with me on an exploration of Why Men Love FLR in my female led relationship podcast episode no. 13. Read more about Why Men Love FLR in my book Why Men Love FLR, Uncover the Secret Desire of Men to Live In A Female Led Relationship. Check out all of my 16 books in my female led relationship series on Amazon. They are your complete course to creating the perfect female led relationship or female led marriage. Go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:09:48

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Hotwife and Consensual Non Monogamy

10/7/2023
Welcome to Ep. 12 of my female led relationship podcast. Its all about Hotwife and consensual non monogamy. Today, relationships and marriages are dramatically different than they were 20 years ago. The divorce rate is still around 50 percent and infidelity, lying, and dishonesty play a huge role in the destruction of many families, relationships, and marriages. But what if this could all change. What if you could be open to your partner’s desires and prioritize happiness for both of you? What if couples could feel completely at ease discussing their needs and desires openly without judgment? Could there be fewer arguments and sneaking around. Today, more than 50 percent of couples have a cheating spouse, and many end in divorce, so the old, traditional ways are not working. Blame new lifestyles, a society that wants instant pleasure, or a change in values. But something has to change. In this podcast we will be discussing everything to do with Hotwife and Hotwifing and how this could be an answer to some of the issues leading to infidelity and the destruction of relationships and marriages. The impacts of this new lifestyle include less lying, deceit, and dishonesty. This is what makes female led relationships so much more successful. Couples are free to explore their deepest sexual fantasies and desires. Come along with me on an exploration of the Hotwife lifestyle in my female led relationship podcast episode no. 12. Read more about Hotwife and Consensual Non Monogamy in my books Hotwife, Cuckolding and Swinging. Check out all of my 16 books in my female led relationship series on Amazon. They are your complete course to creating the perfect female led relationship or female led marriage. Go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:09:02

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Spanking and Erotic Discipline in A Female Led Relationship

7/18/2023
Welcome to Ep. 11 of my female led relationship podcast. Spanking and Erotic Discipline in a Female Led Relationship. Why is the fantasy of spanking so exciting. Men and women have both admitted to having fantasies of being tied up and whipped. More couples have admitted to engaging in spanking and adding it to their sex lives. The fact is that spanking will spice up any sex life and how it leads to some very interesting and adventurous love-making. In this podcast we will discuss how adding spanking and erotic discipline to your female led relationship can dramatically transform your sex life from mundane to mind-blowing. Whether you’re a beginner or experienced there is always new something to learn. I give you the best tips and tricks to implement spanking into your sex life and you will learn about relationship discipline and how it can be incorporated into your daily life. Check out my book Spanking, The Erotic Guide to Relationship Discipline. If you’re curious about how to take your relationship from vanilla to FLR or you're already in a Female led relationship and you want to explore more intense versions of female dominance like add major elements of BDSM, domination, submission, spanking, discipline, punishment and bondage then stay tuned for all the exciting aspects of Spanking, female dominance and female led relationships I am going to discuss here. Check out all of my 15 books on Amazon. They are your complete course to creating the perfect female led relationship or female led marriage. Go to http://www.loveandobey.com for more info. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:09:53

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Cuckolding

5/19/2023
Welcome to episode 10 of my female led relationship podcast series. Cuckolding is becoming one of the most fascinating sexual activities in relationships, and there is growing interest in it from both men and women. A cuckold is someone who takes pleasure in watching their partner have sex with someone else. Traditionally, it’s a man who knows his wife or girlfriend is having sex with another man. Today, however, cuckolding is much more complex, and this is due to women taking the lead and making the decisions in relationships. Cuckolding is much more than just having sex with another person and requires establishing a number of rules in order for everything to go smoothly. Today, relationships are dramatically different than they were even 20 years ago, Divorce rate is still around 50% and infidelity, lying and dishonesty play a huge role in the destruction of many relationships. But what if this could all change. What if we could be open to our partner’s desires and making the importance of happiness for both the main priority. What if couples could feel completely at ease discussing their needs and desires openly without judgement ? Could there be less arguments and sneaking around ? Could there be more intimacy and sharing ? rather than jealousy. Cuckolding presents an elegant solution. In this podcast we will discuss many aspects of cuckolding including what does into cuckolding mean ? what does cuckoldry mean in biology ? what is the cuckold symbol ? Why are so many couples obsessed with cuckolding with it being searched over 200,000 on google each month ? and so much more. My book Cuckolding is the definitive guide to help you to understand most aspects of cuckolding and consensual non monogamy as well as how to go about exploring cuckolding, finding a bull and the steps to take to have a safe fun experience. Safety and consent must always be mandatory. So whether you are a beginner or experienced in cuckolding there is always something to learn and this book gives you all the tips you will need during your journey. Cuckolding offers so many exciting ways to spice your female led relationship or female led marriage. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:09:51

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Affirmations and The Female Led Relationship

3/27/2023
Welcome to episode 9 of my female led relationship podcast and we will be discussing Affirmations. Affirmations have become a powerful method to create change in an individual’s life and now, in relationships. Neuroplasticity is the ability of the brain to continuously create new neural pathways. When we repeat a skill that we are trying to master, or words as in affirmations, we strengthen the neural networks that represent that action. The divorce rate sits at about 50% and I believe that we are on a cusp of a revolution where when there are more female led marriages and relationships, not only will there be a decrease in divorces but there will be an increased well-being and internal happiness in men and women. One of the biggest issues which can arise in relationships is the transition. How can men really learn to do something which they feel may go against their nature. You’ve been taught to take control and “be a man” be strong and assertive all of your life and now, with times changing and a desire to serve your Queen you must adapt and change. This is where Love and Obey Affirmations can create a turning point and they have a real purpose. It is time to make service to your Queen a priority and by changing your thinking and your conditioning with these daily affirmations. Affirmations are a mechanism to create deep change within you. By reciting affirmations daily and during sex with your Queen you are creating conditioning, opening your mind to accept female led life and your role to serve your Queen to the best of your ability. My Book Turning Point is a game changer and it instructs you step by step on how to use the power of affirmations to reprogram past conditioning and help you to create the female led relationship you always dreamed of. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:14:12

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Chastity and The Female Led Relationship

1/16/2023
Welcome to episode 8 of my female led relationship podcast and we will be discussing Chastity. Chastity is growing exponentially in 2023 and its being searched more than 200,000 times a month. Discover why Chastity has become so popular in a female led relationship or female led marriage. Male Chastity is all about orgasm control which includes practices like orgasm denial, edging, semen retention and more. Learn all about the chastity cage and how to properly practice chastity as part of your daily FLR. Men are the submissive in a female led relationship and as part of proper service and worship you enter into training in willpower, servitude and submission. Chastity is a transformation tool which transforms relationships and marriages and enforces the power dynamic between you and your Queen. You learn what are her desires, how can you serve her more, how can you find new ways of pleasing her and in so doing this you become better at submitting and serving her As your key holder. So it is my desire for you to experience male chastity and the amazing transformation which can occur when you understand the process, the practice and the ritual of being in Chastity. My book Chastity by Marisa Rudder is the perfect guide which will teach you everything you need to know about how to introduce chastity, orgasm control, edging and more into your female led relationship or learn new ideas on how to improve your practice of chastity. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:15:35

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Submissive Men

11/16/2022
Welcome to female led relationship podcast no. 7. Submissive men. One of the most important parts of your journey in a female led relationship is for men to accept their role as submissive men. In this podcast I explore much of what it means to be a submissive man and that there is an innate desire in many men to be dominated by a strong powerful Queen. The female led relationship is all about exploring the power dynamic of dominance and submission and both are necessary to have a successful female led relationship or female led marriage. More powerful modern Queens seek submissive men because they are more supportive and there is less power struggle, so female led relationships and female led marriages tend to last. Men are discovering that there is a beautiful surrender that comes when a man allows himself to be vulnerable and submissive to his Queen. Today, hundreds of thousands of men are embracing a female led lifestyle. Why? Because they find joy in being a submissive man to a strong woman. Learn all about submissive and submissive men. In this female led relationship podcast we will explore how submission is a central issue in female led relationships and how it forms one of the most fundamental aspects of female led relationships. Men benefit greatly from submission and being submissive to the Queen in an FLR. Let me explain why. To learn about my books go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

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Female Led Relationship Sex

9/8/2022
What is Female Led Relationship sex ? One of the most important rules in female led relationships is sex is for the Queen’s pleasure and oral sex for women is mandatory. Men must put aside their own desires and service the Queen. This means FLR sex can be the most exciting, exhilarating, and fun you’ve ever experienced. Hundreds of thousands of couples globally have switched to female led relationships and they are loving female led relationship sex. The reason FLR sex is so exciting to couples is because it helps unleash and frees the Queen to be in the power position while you are her supportive gentleman who will worship her daily.. Once women can explore their sexuality and taking control in bed, they tend to enjoy sex more. Female led relationship sex offers infinite ways to explore all sorts of sex positions, oral sex for women, toys, role-play, BDSM, sex clubs and more. Learn all about female led relationship sex and oral sex for women in my female led relationship podcast. I am Marisa Rudder, Relationship Coach and Author of 11 Books on Amazon and creator of the Love and Obey female empowerment movement. For more information check out my 11 books on Amazon. Website http://www.loveandobey.com Female led Relationship Podcast http:/www.femaleledrelationshippodcast.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

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Femdom vs The Female Led Relationship

6/6/2022
Femdom vs the Female led relationship. What is the difference and how will each impact your relationship. I am Marisa Rudder, Relationship Coach and Author of 13 books on Amazon. In this female led relationship podcast I will be discussing Femdom versus Female led relationships. Femdom or female dominance is a BDSM activity in which the Queen is in charge. BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving bondage discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism. BDSM involves one partner being dominant and the other being submissive. Female domination or Femdom involves the Queen, being the dominant and taking control while her man, is the submissive and submits to her. Femdom is the more intense version of a Female led relationship. You can read all about Femdom in my book Femdom, The Erotic Guide To Female Domination on Amazon. If you’re curious about how to take your relationship from vanilla to FLR or you're already in a Female led relationship and you want to explore more intense versions of female dominance like add major elements of BDSM, domination, submission, spanking, discipline, punishment, male chastity, cuckolding, hotwife and maybe even learn about bondage, cbt, animal play, humiliation and menches then stay tuned for all the exciting aspects of Femdom, female dominance and Female led relationships I am going to discuss here. Check out my 13 books on Amazon. For more go to http://www.loveandobey.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

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How To Increase Sexual Arousal and Ignite the Spark with a Female Led Relationship

3/10/2022
Welcome to Female Led Relationship Podcast Ep. 4. How to increase sexual arousal with a female led relationship and ignite the spark. Sexual arousal is the feeling of being turned on sexually. When you're turned on, your body experiences physical and emotional changes. This is key to a great sex life which goes a long way to increasing the happiness and fulfillment in your relationship or marriage. In this female led relationship podcast you will learn all the ways you can dramatically change a relationship which has become boring and mundane. Its time to ignite the spark in your relationship and rev up sexual arousal and sexual fulfillment. Female led relationships have been shown to be more successful and long-lasting. I am Marisa Rudder, Relationship Coach and Author of 11 Books on Amazon and creator of the Love and Obey female empowerment movement. For more information check out my 11 books on Amazon. Website http://www.loveandobey.com Female led Relationship Podcast http:/www.femaleledrelationshippodcast.com YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/femaleledrelationship Twitter https://twitter.com/loveandobeybook Facebook https://www.facebook.com/femaleledrelationships Instagram https://www.instagram.com/femaleledrelationships/

Duration:00:17:55