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Being struck by the phrase "living the real" in a book he read years ago, Matt started processing his life through these three words. It wasn't long before he realized he repeatedly fell short of living a life evoking the same emotion that phrase conveyed. Thus started Matt's search for how to live a life that represented what those words surfaced in him. What came from that was his 3-M framework: Margin, Momentum and Maintenance.Join Matt as he unlocks the power of his 3-M framework through story and reflection.

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Being struck by the phrase "living the real" in a book he read years ago, Matt started processing his life through these three words. It wasn't long before he realized he repeatedly fell short of living a life evoking the same emotion that phrase conveyed. Thus started Matt's search for how to live a life that represented what those words surfaced in him. What came from that was his 3-M framework: Margin, Momentum and Maintenance.Join Matt as he unlocks the power of his 3-M framework through story and reflection.

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Why you need more waste in your life (and why I've wasted this past month with no episodes).

6/29/2021
It has been a challenging month, to say the least, and waste has been on my mind non-stop. Join me as I discuss my new relationship with "waste" and the challenges that come with it! Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode (some links may be affiliate links where I receive a small commission for the recommendation) : The Power of MomentsOmniGroupMagic Castle HotelThe Lean StartupSupport the Show.

Duration:00:20:20

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Why goals don't stick and what to do about it

5/5/2021
This episode is all about one of the most powerful lessons Matt has learned over the past five years: less focus on goals and more focus on cultivating the habits that manifest the life he wants to live! Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode (some links may be affiliate links where I receive a small commission for the recommendation) : The Power of HabitAtomic HabitsThe One ThingThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective PeopleStreaks Habit TrackerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:25:40

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Three ways to protect yourself from life's harms

4/28/2021
This episode is all about when life feels entirely out of control. Previous episodes have focused on learning to live life through the lens of "discovery." The problem is that when life feels upside down, "life as discovery" is meaningless. What first needs to happen is to stop drowning! This episode is all about how to patch the gaping holes of life so we can get our boat afloat again. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode (some links may be affiliate links where I receive a small commission for the recommendation) : Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your LifeDecisive: How to Make Better Decisions in Life and WorkThe Paradox of Choice: Why More is LessThe Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and OrganizingLiving the Real, Episode 9: Making Molehills out of MountainsFinancial Peace UniversityThe ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary ResultsSupport the Show.

Duration:00:32:15

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Angie Long, LMFT | The Surprising Reason Why Relationships Fail And How to Fix Them

4/21/2021
I invite Angie Long on for a third time to discuss how friendship in romance is a defining characteristic of an enduring relationship and how to cultivate it if we don't have it. Angie and I put our brains together to develop a simple Journal template to facilitate regular introspection leading to deeper affection and connection with the people we love most. You can snag it for FREE here. Matt also will provide a short video tutorial to show you how he uses templates like this one regularly in his life with a journal application called DayOne. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode: The Gottman InstituteThe Second MountainDavid BrooksSupport the Show.

Duration:00:47:00

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The fraughts and failures of faith and how to live it rightly (even for the non-religious!)

4/14/2021
In this episode, Matt takes a hard look at faith and how it can be our greatest asset but also our greatest enemy to a life well-lived. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode: Love and ResponsibilitySupport the Show.

Duration:00:28:28

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How the depth of engaging life becomes the limit to the depth of our relationships

4/7/2021
In this episode, Matt takes a look at how our outlook on life directly impacts the quality of our relationships, and how to pivot to a better outlook on life for sake of better relationships! Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode: The Happiness AdvantageLiving the Real, Episode 021Living the Real, Episode 009Living the Real, Episode 010Living the Real Journal TemplateThe Ideal Praise to Criticism RatioWhy the 5 People Around You Are Crucial to Your SuccessHeadspaceSupport the Show.

Duration:00:29:00

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The one pyramid that is not a scheme

3/30/2021
In this episode, I take you behind the "coaching curtain" to show you a powerful perspective exercise I walk my clients through to help them get behind the bad habits that keep them from the results they want for their life. Then we reflect on the three lessons to begin getting the results you want. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerThings Discussed In Episode: Meetup.comThe Ideal Praise to Criticism RatioThe Power of MomentsEpisode 009Maintenance Checklist FREE DownloadSupport the Show.

Duration:00:24:39

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The seven life-changing lessons I've learned from the pandemic

3/18/2021
It has been a year since this pandemic began its devastating effects on the US. It was literally on my birthday (March 11th) when the US began its lockdown and the WHO declared the COVID-19 outbreak a pandemic. I took this week to think about some of the lessons I have learned so far from this difficult year. What have you learned from the pandemic? I would love to hear! You can email me your own reflections at matt@livingthereal.com. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:37:37

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What Susan Boyle has to do with Living the Real

3/8/2021
This episode is one that you don't want to miss because it really gets to the heart of "living the real" and has the power to change the way you approach your week! Things Discussed In the Episode: Living the Real Journal TemplateSusan Boyle on Britain's Got TalentThe Second MountainDavid Brooks speaksPlease consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:24:05

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How seeing yourself as a father or mother is necessary for happiness

2/26/2021
This episode is all about how the paradigm of motherhood and fatherhood can obliterate "imposter syndrome" and bring about the greatest sense of fulfillment. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:21:40

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Can planning and spontaneity ever be compatible?

1/14/2021
This week is about how planning and spontaneity are really the best of buds! If you want to get started with your own ideal week and time-blocking, you can download my Ideal Week template here. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:22:42

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Decide already! The relationship between decision-making and happiness.

1/8/2021
We are back, and the intention for 2021 is to have regular weekly episodes. Finally! In this week's episode, we discuss how you can easily increase your happiness by spending less energy on decision making! Stop deliberating whether you should listen to this episode or not! Just listen already. NOTE: I apologize for calling Dr. Barry Schwartz's book not bit is title (The Paradox of Choice) but by its sub-title (More is Less). I guess the subtitle stuck with me more than the title! Things talked about in the episode: The Paradox of ChoiceParkinson's LawPareto PrinciplePlease consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:21:12

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Are you a visionary or a victim?

12/8/2020
I'm back and with a powerful call to action BEFORE 2020 ends! Things talked about in the episode: Click herePlease consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:19:10

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Your attention is your greatest commodity - a conversation with Dr. Mark Kissler

11/5/2020
I'm excited to have Dr. Mark Kissler back on the show to talk about the idea of attention. This is something that has been on his mind for quite some time now, and in light of all that is going on to grab our attention, I think it is an excellent time to chat about it! Things talked about in the episode: FlowPlease consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerSupport the Show.

Duration:00:38:56

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Five steps to taking the friction out of life

10/8/2020
Today I talk about the ONE thing I learned in my college physics class that stuck with me to this day. As a bonus, learn the five "D's" that will lead you down the path of a more frictionless life! Who doesn't want to live life like a slip-and-slide!? Download my PDF guide to learn what technology I use to help me live a frictionless life! Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettger Support the Show.

Duration:00:16:06

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A conversation with Dr. Abraham Nussbaum about seeing wisely vs seeing much

9/24/2020
A great conversation with Dr. Nussbaum about how the value of human experience hinges on the concept of "seeing wisely" over that of "seeing much." In this episode, you will be encouraged to get out of the shallows of life to experience fulfillment in the deeper end. Bring the floaties! Episode Notes (some are affiliate links): The Finest Traditions of My Calling: One Physician's Search for the Renewal of MedicineThe ShallowsDeep WorkPlease consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettger Support the Show.

Duration:00:22:16

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What is good and bad waste in relationships

9/9/2020
I love the concept of "reducing waste" in life and reallocating this idea of "waste" to important things in our life. Take a listen on eight ways (based on the lean manufacturing principles of Toyota) we can see, address, fix, and reallocate waste to better and more valuable parts of our relationship! Take my Pain to Profit Survey mentioned in the podcast. Matt will choose five people to hop on a call to start addressing your pain points through his 3-M framework. Take it here. Episode Notes (some are affiliate links): Toyota WayMindsetThe Five Love LanguagesThe Paradox of Choice80/20 RuleEpisode EightPlease consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettger Support the Show.

Duration:00:34:14

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The one habit that will change your life, and it is dang simple

8/26/2020
Many of us have heard about the benefits of journaling. Matt shares his own story of his moment of "self-awareness" while journaling, and how his 3-M framework takes journaling to the next level! Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerDownload Matt's 3-M Journal Template HERE - https://livingthereal.com/journaltemplate Support the Show.

Duration:00:24:48

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Making molehills out of mountains with maintenance

8/13/2020
Matt shows the consequences of a life without a focus on maintenance. Do you sometimes experience life as if it is an incredible mountain to climb? Do you feel like you are continuously having to clean up messes in your own life? Do you feel as if life has you by the throat? Chances are that these experiences are from a lack of focus on maintenance. Listen, feel empathy, and now take action! Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerDownload Matt's "Getting Started" Maintenance Checklist HERE - http://livingthereal.com/maintenancechecklist Support the Show.

Duration:00:24:01

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Getting Real with Dr. Mark Kissler

7/29/2020
Matt has a great conversation with Dr. Mark Kissler from the University of Colorado Hosptial about what living the most real-life possible means to him in both his professional and personal life. Please consider supporting this podcast: Patreon Pagehttps://www.patreon.com/ltrherehttps://paypal.me/mattboettgerDownload Matt's visual map of his conversation with Dr. Mark Kissler HERE - http://livingthereal.com/markkissler Support the Show.

Duration:00:46:19