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Send us Fan Mail Most couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role. Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certified somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She holds a master's in psychology and a background in women, gender, and sexuality studies. Sarah works with people through the body to help them understand what they actually want in bed without the shame. We're breaking down: Find Sarah Perry: Instagram: @havenspacecoaching Website: https://www.havenspacecoaching.com/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send us Fan Mail You've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep in it? Most men miss them completely. In this episode, I break down the five real sounds she makes during sex — what each one actually means and the exact move to make when you hear it. This isn't theory. This is a playbook. 🔥 What you'll learn: → The "sound" most men mistake for boredom (it's the opposite) → How to tell a real moan from a performance → The one gasp that means you found something — and how not to lose it → Why her going silent is the best sign, not the worst → The only sound you can't fake and can't force — and what to do when it happens Drop LISTEN in the comments if you want the full sequence — how to take her from sound one to sound five. 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send us Fan Mail What is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without the shame spiral. Because the fetish isn't the problem. The shame is. 🌐 https://www.nikidavisf.com/ | insta @missbloom_sexeducator 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send us Fan Mail She's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together. Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And when desire always has a destination, she stops being in the moment and starts managing the arc. So she waits. Every time. What she's craving is a partner who is just as hungry for the moments between sex as he is for sex itself. That shift — when she finally feels it — changes everything. In this episode I'm giving you five specific moves that build her desire from the inside out. Before sex. During sex. After sex. All of them designed to do one thing: make her want to be the one who starts it. ✔ The kiss that makes her think about you all day — before 9am ✔ How to drop charged moments into your day that build heat without asking for anything ✔ What women who have sex with women know about pleasure that most men don't ✔ How to be her pleasure dom — and why the giving is the getting ✔ The 20-minute window after sex that determines whether she initiates next time This is the episode she's going to send to you. And the one you're going to watch twice. 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send us Fan Mail You think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that. Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actually show up in relationships and the therapist's office. What's happening in the brain, the body, and the relationship when someone has one? And what do you do when you or your partner has a fetish? time stamps: 0:00 Intro 5:30 Difference between fetish, kink, & paraphilia 6:20 How does a fetish form and who has them 12:00 Foot Fetish 15:00 Age Play 18:14 Pet Play 22:44 Attraction to Clowns 28:00 Attraction to people with amputations 33:00 Adult Baby Diaper Fetish 36:00 Somnophilia & Dormaphilia 42:00 Human Furniture 48:00 Erotic Hypnosis Find Jessica on Patreone: https://www.patreon.com/cw/jrsex And Here: https://www.storiebrook.com/Team/jessica-renard-lpc 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send us Fan Mail Most men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize. Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combination does something to her body that neither one can do alone. In this episode, I'm giving you 5 praise kink moves — each one a phrase paired with a physical technique — that make sex better for both of you. And by move 5, you'll understand why she starts initiating. What you'll learn: ✔ Why "good girl" does more than an hour of thrusting ✔ The word + touch combinations that trigger arousal she can't fake ✔ How to use praise during edging to create the most intense experience she's ever had ✔ The 60-second move after she finishes that makes her want you again 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send us Fan Mail Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genuine sexual compulsivity. We get into: If you've ever wondered whether your own patterns — or your partner's — cross a line, this episode gives you the framework to actually figure it out. Find Kate Here: Kate Logan, AMFT - CENTER FOR HEALTHY SEX 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send us Fan Mail She's thought about faking it. Statistically, she probably has. Between 58–80% of women have faked an orgasm — not once, but regularly, with partners they actually cared about. Most of those men never knew. If you want to be the exception, this episode is for you. This isn't about blame. It's about understanding what actually creates faking — and the specific things you can do to change it. What you'll learn: ✔ The 6 real reasons women fake it (none of them are what you think) ✔ Why "just ask her what she wants" is not actually a solution ✔ The specific moves that make honesty feel safe enough to happen ✔ How to stop being the man she performs for and become the man she actually wants 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text Men's sexual shame doesn't look like what you think. It's not about a secret kink. It's the guy jackhammering away thinking that's what success looks like. The one who won't make eye contact. The one who avoids dating entirely — not because he doesn't want connection, but because his nervous system won't let him get close. I sit down with Alex Gear — men's intimacy anxiety coach who never experienced sober sex until he got sober three years ago — to unpack what sexual shame is actually doing to your sex life and what you can do about it starting tonight. In this episode: Find Alex: @intimacyanxietyalex on Instagram 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text She's been waiting for you to figure this out. For a huge number of women, watching a confident man willingly submit to her is one of the most erotic experiences that exists. Not a weak man — a man who is secure enough to give her complete control and trust her to lead. This episode is about real submission. Not performing. Not topping from the bottom. Actually letting go. What you'll learn: 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text She didn't lose her desire. She quietly quit it. Sex therapist and author Colette Jane Fehr joins Annette to break down why women emotionally and erotically check out of relationships long before anyone notices — and what it actually takes to come back. If you've been going through the motions, or you've watched your partner disappear and had no idea why, this one's for you. In this episode: *What quiet quitting your sex life actually looks like in the bedroom *Why emotional disconnection kills physical desire — and which goes first *The real reason dead bedrooms happen (it's not about sex) *How resentment builds from the smallest swallowed moments *The one question that cracks a relationship back open *How to know if quiet quitting has gone too far — and the signs it's not too late *Three things you can do tonight to start coming back 🔗 Find Colette and Her Book: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe every time. And she's decided you'll never know — because asking feels impossible, and hoping you'll figure it out on your own hasn't worked. This episode is about the five dominance moves women consistently fantasize about and almost never get. Not because their partners wouldn't do them, but because no one ever taught them what real dominance actually looks like. This is for the men who want to be the person she feels safe enough to surrender to. And for the women who've been waiting for someone to just… lead. What you'll learn: ✔ 5 specific dominance moves that bypass her overthinking entirely ✔ Why most men never try these (and how to do them without being told) ✔ The exact mechanics — where to put your hands, what to say, when to stop ✔ Why dominance isn't about being rough — it's about being deliberate 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text She didn't set out to build a six-figure business. She got pregnant — and discovered one of OnlyFans' most profitable and least talked-about kinks. Australian mom and content creator Emily Mai joins Annette to talk about what actually happens when a woman refuses to become sexually invisible after motherhood. We're getting into pregnancy kinks, lactation content, belly fetishes, and the real psychology behind why society loses its mind when mothers stay sexually embodied — and profitable. This one goes places most people won't. In this episode: 🔗 Find Emily on Instagram: @shesopunny | TikTok: @emilymay 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe a hundred times. And she's decided you'll never know. Not because she doesn't trust you — because she's been taught her whole life that wanting certain things makes her too much. This episode is about the five kinks women most commonly carry in silence, the shame that keeps them there, and what you can actually do to become someone it feels safe to tell. What you'll learn: ✔ The 5 kinks women fantasize about and rarely share — and the real psychology behind each one ✔ Why erotic shame is the actual barrier (not trust, not desire) ✔ What CNC fantasy really is — and what it is not ✔ Specific things you can do to create safety without putting pressure on her 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text Most people think relationships fail because someone stopped trying, cheated, or they just picked wrong. But what if relationships follow a predictable pattern — and most of us are sabotaging them at the exact same stage without even knowing it? In this episode, I sit down with Thais Gibson — founder of Personal Development School, bestselling author, and one of the world's leading experts on attachment theory — to break down the six stages every relationship moves through, why most collapse at stage three, and what your attachment style is actually doing to your love life, your desire, and your ability to stay. I also get personal. About the patterns I've repeated. About staying in relationships I should have left. About what it took to finally see myself clearly enough to stop. If you've ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same relationship with a different person — this episode is your answer. What you'll learn: Why chemistry isn't compatibility and what actually drives attraction • The six stages every relationship moves through • Where most relationships die and why • What your attachment style is doing to your sex life at every stage • How to actually change your attachment style in 90 days • Why doing the work together is the only thing that saves a relationship Find Thais at https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ — free attachment quiz at the link 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times. The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks. In this episode, sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti breaks down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things you can do to shift the dynamic entirely. This isn't about pressure, persuasion, or performance. It's about understanding how desire actually works — and showing up differently because of it. In this episode: wantedchosenThis episode is for: ✔ Men who want to understand their partner's desire better ✔ Women who've been trying to figure out why their desire feels inconsistent ✔ Anyone who wants a deeper, more connected intimate relationship Your Guide To Giving Her Good Oral: https://youtu.be/r7mJrSu_KRs 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation. We break down: Even if you don’t believe in manifestation, you’ll still get orgasms out of it. And you might rethink what pleasure is really for. You can find Venu Here: https://www.venusohara.org/ You can order her book Orgasmic Manifestation Here: https://www.venusohara.org/orgasmic-manifestation 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong. This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing. It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection. In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they should. You’ll learn: andThese aren’t manipulation tactics. They’re behavioral shifts that create clarity, tension, and genuine pull — without pressure, games, or crossing boundaries. If you’ve ever wondered why things start strong but lose heat, or why connection doesn’t always turn into desire, this episode will change how you understand attraction — and how you move inside it. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off! The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast. For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening. But what happens when we stop whispering? In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Doherty, the bold voice behind Miseducated, to talk about what women really say about sex when you’re not in the room — and why it changes everything when we take the mic. We dive into: • The orgasm gap and why it still exists • Pegging, anal equality, and rewriting the sexual script • Why women fake orgasms (and why it hurts everyone) • How speaking openly about sex transforms relationships • What men need to understand about female pleasure This isn’t just about women talking about desire. It’s about rewriting the rules of sex — for everyone. If you’ve ever wondered what women really think about sex… this episode is your invitation to find out. Check out Tash's Intimacy Journal Here: https://www.tashdoherty.com/shop Find her on Substack: https://misseducated.substack.com/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off lovehoney.com Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

Send a text Touching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how breast pleasure actually works. We’ll talk about: This episode is explicit, educational, and focused on real bodies — not porn scripts or performance pressure. If you want breast play to feel better, more connected, and more arousing for both of you, this is where to start. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 15% Off Eyeoflove.com with Code LRT15 Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: @TalkSexwithAnnette @Annette Benedettitalksexwithannette @TalksexwithAnnettehttps://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!