Open Wide Say Ah

The Energy of sexuality and healing in discussion with Chezzie Martinez. We learn the activation of healing in our bodies & others and our deep connections and energies we can reach with sexual play in a true sacred sexuality. Finding life & connection in sacred sexuality so that we are sexually liberated to find our own personal power with the world. Support, hire & connect with Chezzie @chezzie_b or @chesire_v_ www.instagram.com/chesire_v_ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Zaheer shares his pride & existence in the world as a proud & out Muslim man that celebrates his amazing body & centres celebrating his existence & his new beautiful relationship. Also lots of tea around nudes, online work & being catfished. Follow & support the sexiest babes @notyourtop See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We learn all about how different sex can feel and look if we don’t chase orgasms but rather centre pleasure & honest pleasure. To just play, feel and enjoy what brings you pleasure and what brings the other bodies pleasure. Mention of @checheluna discussing the "sexcalator" as how we chase a binary & linear idea of what sex is taught to us as. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A young, anonymous , gay, interracial couple give us all the information & tips of opening up your relationship. They share how they work through jealousy, how they navigate sexual play & how they always come back to each other. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Only Fans & their f*ckery. This episode deals with how relying on a platform that makes money from sex workers is always going to be a problem and how quickly the platform damaged the industry & costed many people their livelihoods. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We talk to Jacana Joy about their experience in the world as someone that is brown, indigenous, trans masc non-binary femme, fat, has PCOS & ADHD and is thriving in their queer power. Jacana brings a focus on sex and body that is honest, holistic, wholesome & good for you. How to have sex that is healing! Follow Jacana & show support for an educating platform @themme_like_femme www.instagram.com/themme_like_femme See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

An open and educative talk about the feeling of when you just do not want it. When you are low and not up for sex or sexy time. The pandemic have made many people feel tired. But does this tiredness change us? Should we pause? Rest? Relax? Is this a resistance? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is probably the most waited for interview.... This episode I Open up Wide and Say Aah with my partner Gabe Gabriel. We discuss power dynamics as an interracial relationship from every aspect including sex, polyamorous dynamics, gender expressions, boundaries, threesomes, basically EVERYTHING is laid out! Follow @goesbygabriel An actor, award winning writer, feature director of South Africa’s first ever gay rom com ‘No Hiding Here’’ and leader in the LGBTQIAP+ community. www.Instagram.com/goesbygabriel www.twitter.com/goesbygabriel See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a world that sexualises everything and especially femme bodies of colour, we often don’t get representations or information on the options we have and who we could be! This episode covers Asexuality, a topic that is just missing from our sexual education and even queer conversations. Ace, Demi, Aromantic, platonic, celibate, it’s all covered and addressed with myself and the amazing writer, artist, news reader lol and friend Liesl Instagram.com/ladyliesl See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Episode is double packed and in the way we want it! We talk all things rope play and how to get into it, what type of rope to use and ways to introduce rope to your life with guest educator, mentor, published writer Tapiwa Guzha AKA Sunga KonjiThen we also discuss the Top 5 tips of doing anal play and prepping for anal! This is really the most educational episode so far! Follow Tapiwa at https://instagram.com/sungakonji?igshid=s3gyinqgupvm on Instagram for consultations, workshops, buying rope kits, donating rope kits and buy the book with all the tips and tricks Quirky Quick Guide To Having Great Sex available at most books stores an online (Amazon, Loot Books, Exclusive Books, Takealot) https://www.loot.co.za/product/tiffany-mugo-quirky-quick-guide-to-having-great-sex/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode is all about Sex Work! We discuss the different types of sex work and the move to online sex work for those with access. We talk about why it needs to be destigmatized and decriminalised. I mean if we are going to get taxed then we better have protection and have the industry treated as any other industry in South Africa. I’m joined by Nosipho Vidima the Sex Worker rights specialist at Sonke Gender Justice and a previous programme manager at SWEAT (Sex Workers Education & Advocacy Task Force) to discuss what needs to be addressed, what policies government needs to follow up on and how the public can ensure sex workers are respected and protected. After all sex work is work. That’s all. If you would like to support SWEAT and the many families they help as well as push policies and create education and protection around sex work then get in touch or make a donation: info@sweat.org.za https://www.givengain.com/d/cc/19136#amount HELPLINE: 0800 60 60 60 or SMS “PLEASE CALL ME”: 071 357 7632 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What is Kink and what does your kinky look like? You may already be into the kink world and just need some tips or reminders of healthy positive play. Or you may want to find out what all the spank is about. This episode Mamello Sejake and I unpack the umbrella of kink practise and things to try, things to be conscious of and dynamics to think of especially race, being actively & deliberately submissive or dominant and after care. These are things not only for kink practise or kink play but for everyone to try and make sex a safer more deliberate play space. Thank you to Mamello a kink play advocate, educator, activist & Masters student using kink as research. Find Mamello on Instagram: @tswana_hippie & Twitter: @mamello_walks Put yourself out there and enjoy your kinky journey! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Toys Toys and more Toys... A toy Story 😬 Dominic from Hunnybunnza, a black owned South African sex toy store, talks about destigmatising sex toys, how to get your toys and the education lacking around toys because no one talks about it. It surely isn’t only for things “lacking” in the bedroom. This episode also talks about being sex positive as black and people of Colour and undoing being shamed about anything sex related. So if you are looking for that little (or big) toy or where to start, you have CUM to the right place. To order your new and exciting toys or to have a sex toy workshop check out @hunnybunnza on Instagram and let the good times start buzzing, squishing, tightening, enhancing and exciting. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode is ALL the tea! The most inclusive conversation I’ve had in a long time. We discuss safer spaces, safer sex, pleasure, consent, backlash of being sex positive in work spaces & POLYAMORY! I’m joined by my friend, poet, writer, sex educator, activist, Co-director & teacher Kim Windvogel aka Blazing Non-binary! Stay connected with Kim via their socials @blazingnonbinary watch all their delicious episodes of Sunday Sex Service on IGTV & buy the book 'They Called Me Queer'. (compiled by Kim Windvogel & Kelly-Eve Koopman). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this delicious episode of OWSA we discuss all things sex, intimacy, consent & how coming out opens you up with Zoey Black (A Trans activist, Law student, Youtuber, leader, writer & friend.) Take a listen into all the appropriate ways of asking the questions, when to mind your business and how going on hormone replacement therapy has enhanced some great things. There’s even a bonus fun queer quiz and a touch on kink play. This episode has it all. Stay connected with Zoey Black via Instagram @zoeyblackza her website www.zoeyblack.com and watch her extremely information youtube channel https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCN9n936hOvw5lLrxv26aqmQ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is the launch of Open Wide Say Ah and what better way to start the foreplay off than to first educate on the anatomy of the vagina so that we understand the body before we understand what we want done to it or with it. This episode unpacks the vulva, discussion around sex, sexuality, gender, sexual play, hygiene, menstruation and a whole lot of pleasure. Stay connected with me via Instagram @lekkerlollas and listen to all the @hearpocpods www.pocpods.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.