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gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show

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gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes. If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero! This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone. This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts. Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives: · How do I get and stay sober in the queer community? · Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer? · What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like? · Where do sober gay and queer people hang out? · How can I have good sex sober? · What are tips and tricks for early sobriety? · How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery? · How will my life change if I get sober? · Can you be queer and sober and happy? · How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?

Location:

United States

Description:

gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes. If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero! This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone. This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts. Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives: · How do I get and stay sober in the queer community? · Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer? · What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like? · Where do sober gay and queer people hang out? · How can I have good sex sober? · What are tips and tricks for early sobriety? · How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery? · How will my life change if I get sober? · Can you be queer and sober and happy? · How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?

Language:

English


Episodes
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Sobervation: Sober Motivation featuring Eric (#191)

5/9/2024
Sober Steve is joined by Eric from Sobervation to discuss recovering out loud, starting businesses sober, and staying motivated. **Episode Highlights Include** - **The Role of Fitness in Recovery:** Eric shares on how his weight loss journey and sobriety journey have continued since his last episode two years ago. 💪 - **Building a Business:** Eric shares how Sobervation was created, as well as how it’s helped his sobriety. 👕👚 - **Humor in Recovery** How humor has helped us both stay sober, and how not to take yourself seriously. - **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:** - Sobervation Store 🏣 - Eric’s IG 🟢 - Sobervation’s IG 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE! Support the Show.

Duration:00:25:40

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No Fighting in the Life Boat with James Sweasy (#190)

5/2/2024
Sober Steve is joined by James Sweasy to share his experience, strength, and hope on navigating sobriety while helping others through their own journeys. **Episode Highlights Include** - **Identify, Don't Compare:** How focusing on our similarities rather than our differences helps keep us connected and sober! - **Finding Value in Sobriety:** You need to value your sobriety to recovery as a whole person and keep an open mind! - **Finding Value in Yourself:** James shares just how much he went through and how he came out the other side believing in his own value. - **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:** - James Sweasy's Website - James on Facebook - James on IG 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE! Support the Show.

Duration:00:33:33

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Working with Your Partner Sober ft. Joey B (#189)

4/25/2024
Sober Steve is joined by Joey Bachrach from Rainbow Hill Recovery to peel back the curtain and discuss what it’s like working in recovery with his husband, Andrew Fox. **Episode Highlights Include** - **The Role of Community in Recovery:** Insights from my visit to Rainbow Hill Recovery and how my sober community helped me get through my insecurities in Los Angeles. 🤲 - **Building Professional Fulfillment:** Joey discusses the growth and success of Rainbow Hill now being DHCS certified and their dedication to making recovery accessible to EVERYONE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ - **Joey’s Sober Heroes:** Honoring individuals like Manny Rodriguez, whose authenticity helped pave the way for Joey and others in the recovery community. 🦸‍♂️ - **Navigating Relationships At Work and At Home:** Exploring the delicate dynamics of relationships after addiction, emphasizing routine, communication, and mutual growth.🏣🏡 - **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:** - Rainbow Hill Recovery 🏣 - Rainbow Hill Sober Living 🏡 - Totally Sober 🔴 - Joey’s IG 🟢 - gAy A on IG 🟢 - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️ Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober! Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE! Support the Show.

Duration:00:28:08

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Grief & ADHD Sober ft. Andy (#188)

4/17/2024
In this episode, Sober Steve chats with our special guest, Andy, who bravely opens up about his journey to sobriety through grief and ADHD. Andy shares his struggles with alcohol, how he found his place within the queer community, and built a network of sober friends. Andy shares his challenges of traveling while sober, and the positive shifts in lifestyle that come with sobriety. You don't want to miss Andy's inspiring story and the valuable insights shared in this episode. Steve then dives into the correlation between ADHD and addiction with some facts and stats that may surprise you! Do you have an ADHD diagnosis already? Or might you have ADHD and have not been diagnosed yet? If you are in recovery, your chances of this affecting you are higher than you might think! Connect with Andy on IG @andyalsop Connect with Steve everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve@SoberSteve.com Until next time, stay sober friends! Source for ADHD Mentions: https://www.addictions.com/blog/adhd-in-addiction-recovery-and-how-it-affects-people/ Support the Show.

Duration:00:33:36

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Trans Figured in Sobriety ft. Brian B

4/11/2024
Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we delve into the inspiring story of Brian Belovitch, author of Transfigured. He is a resilient individual who has navigated through societal pressures, personal struggles, and the challenges of identity and sobriety. Brian also has the unique experience of transitioning from male to female in his youth, and then a transition back to male in sobriety. Join host Steve as he sits down with Brian to explore his transformation, his experiences and insights on sobriety, and his mission to carry a powerful message within the queer community. Together, they discuss navigating the complexities of reclaiming one's identity, the importance of asking for help, and the significance of embracing change. Get ready for a raw and empowering conversation you won't want to miss! Check out Brian's book, Trans Figured: My Journey from Boy to Girl to Woman to Man, here: https://a.co/d/dEB7DrC Connect with Brian online: https://www.facebook.com/brian.belovitch1 Connect with Steve and the podcast online everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve at steve@sobersteve.com Want more content? Head over to Patreon for bonus episodes and early releases at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the Show.

Duration:00:37:14

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Success in Sobriety ft. Christopher V

4/4/2024
Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we dive into the inspiring journey of our guest, Christopher, a fragrance and skin care developer and fashion designer. He shares his experiences with sobriety, the challenges he faced, and the resilience he developed. From creating his own line of fragrances to navigating personal struggles, Christopher's story is one of strength and determination. Our host, Steve, also discusses his own sobriety journey and the impact of joining a kickball league on his perception of team sports. Plus, we'll explore the importance of community support and the evolving perspectives on sobriety. Check out Bloke NYC at www.blokenyc.com and find Christopher at https://www.facebook.com/chris.valiante Engage with Steve on the socials @gayapodcast, email him at steve@sobersteve.com or add him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/steven.bennet.90/ Enjoy exclusive content and early access at over at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the Show.

Duration:00:47:19

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Creativity in Sobriety: Leo S on Being a Creative Sober and Uncomfortable Work

3/28/2024
Welcome back to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, where we celebrate sobriety, resilience, and creativity. In today's episode, our host, Sober Steve, shares his personal journey of sobriety, reflecting on 1026 days of continuous sobriety and the approval of his workshop on overcoming shame and trauma in the context of sex and recovery for the Florida roundup. We then dive into a captivating interview with the talented Leo S., who shares his 35-year sobriety journey intertwined with a successful music career and struggles with alcohol dependency and anxiety. Leo's story explores the themes of personal growth, artistic perseverance, and the power of giving back to the community. From navigating uncomfortable conversations about race in creative work to the challenges of forgiveness and compassion in sobriety, Leo's wisdom and experience provide invaluable insights. So sit back and get ready for an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Leo S. on gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show. Want to connect with Leo? Visit https://leoschwartz.com/ or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/leo.schwartz.1 Connect with Steve and the podcast everywhere @gayapodcast or by email at steve@sobersteve.com Want more gAy A content? Join our Patreon community and unlock bonus episodes and early access! www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Support the Show.

Duration:00:41:24

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Skating, Self Love, ADHD, and Making Music in Sobriety ft. Chad and J9

3/21/2024
Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today we have two stories that both touch on unique experiences, but share receiving an ADHD diagnosis in sobriety. We're joined by Chad C from Vancouver, who shares his 23-year journey through sobriety, competitive figure skating, and the unexpected challenges life throws our way. His story, filled with gratitude for life's gifts including marriage and travel, offers a raw and inspiring look at overcoming obstacles and the importance of supportive networks. The conversation takes a deeper look at the intersection of recovery and maintaining physical fitness, an often-overlooked aspect of the sober life. Through my own struggles and triumphs, we address the complexities of eating disorders, particularly in the high-pressure world of competitive sports, and how these experiences shape our paths toward healthy living. We also touch on the intricacies of recovery, which demand more than just exercise and nutrition, reminding us that self-compassion and accountability are crucial for sustained sobriety. Moreover, the episode underscores the broader impact of personal recovery on relationships and responsibilities, urging us to stay alert to the dangers of an all-or-nothing approach in our ongoing quest for growth. Wrapping up, we celebrate the milestones of our guest J9, who shares the latest twists in their life's journey, including a fresh single, Pleasure and Pain, amidst the backdrop of sobriety and an ADHD diagnosis. Unpacking the nuances of emotional regulation and daily management of ADHD, we offer insights and strategies that resonate with many who navigate similar challenges. Thanks for listening! Find Chad Online: Chad Conley on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/chadlconley and Instagram @chad_c78 Find J9's New Song, Pleasure and Pain Streaming: bit.ly/PleasureAndPain-stream Follow J9 on all the socials @J9grooves Support the Show.

Duration:00:52:05

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Finding My Way Back to God ft. Steve

3/17/2024
In this bonus episode of gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, host Sober Steve shares his powerful and personal story told at his church's storyteller Sunday. From his childhood in Erie, Pennsylvania to his struggles with sobriety and finding his way back to God, Steve takes us on a raw and emotional journey. He talks about the impact of being "othered" and how it affected his sense of self-worth, his faith journey, and ultimately led to his battle with alcohol. Steve discusses his path to sobriety, the inception of his podcast, and his evolution into a life coach. His story is a testament to the power of community, self-discovery, and redefining happiness. Join us as we delve into Steve's journey of healing, rediscovery, and finding spiritual connection in unexpected places. What did you think? Let me know at steve@sobersteve.com or on social media @gayapodcast Stay sober, my friends! Support the Show.

Duration:00:16:19

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Fitness and Sobriety: JP and Tim's Journeys towards Health & Happiness

3/14/2024
Super Soberheroes, welcome to a new episode of gAy A, where my listeners and I open up about our personal stories and share our journeys of addiction and recovery in the queer community. In this episode, we'll be diving into Tim T.'s powerful story of battling addiction, hitting rock bottom, and finding his way to sobriety. We'll also hear from JP, who shares his own struggles with alcohol and the positive changes he’s made in his life since embracing sobriety. Both guests reflect on the impact of physical fitness in their recovery, and the power of mindset and positivity in their daily lives. Join host Steve as he leads this candid and inspiring conversation about addiction, recovery, and the journey towards a healthier, happier life. Follow JP online at: @jp_granger Follow Tim at: @ttully528 and Tim Tully on Facebook Follow us @gayapodcast or visit linktr.ee/gayapodcast for all the links! Support the Show.

Duration:00:53:52

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From Porn Star to PhD ft. Jim G

3/7/2024
Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today's episode features the remarkable Jim G, sharing his experience, strength, and hope with over four decades of sobriety. Steve's Gratitude: Jim's Interview: Friend Jim on Facebook @ James-John Salvatore Gigliello or on Instagram @dr_gruff_daddy Follow us everywhere @gayapodcast and join our Patreon community for exclusive post show and uncut content! Support the Show.

Duration:00:47:12

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The Frog No More ft. Charlie Gray

2/29/2024
Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast and best selling quit-lit author, Charlie Gray, to discuss how creating, publishing, and marketing his "Charlie and The Frog" trilogy impacted his sobriety. Topics discussed include: A huge thank you to Charlie Gray for sharing his journey and insights with us today. You can find his books, including "At Least I’m Not The Frog," "The Frog’s Bottle," "The Frog No More," and his latest release, "The Phantom Maverick," wherever books are sold, including here: At Least I'm Not The Frog: https://a.co/d/gcCMy36 The Frog's Bottle: https://a.co/d/6Su5zfF The Frog No More: https://a.co/d/gBZeoRk The Phantom Maverick: https://a.co/d/dt1ZpIc Follow Charlie on Instagram at @hismajestycharles3rd and us wherever you social @gayapodcast , and e-mail me to get involved at steve@sobersteve.com Support the Show.

Duration:00:36:26

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1000 Days Sober: My Soberhero Origin Story

2/22/2024
1,000 days sober – a milestone that's more than just a number; it's an accomplishment that takes resilience, community, and the power of embracing my authenticity! Join me on this episode as I dive deep into the highs and lows of my journey from addiction to recovery, shedding light on the peaks and valleys along the way, the lessons I've learned, and my hopes for what is to come. 🌈 Reflecting on a Queer Childhood: Join the conversation by emailing steve@sobersteve.com and become part of our community by becoming a guest, submitting clips, or sharing any of your gifts with the listeners. Support the Show.

Duration:00:40:53

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Swiping Sober: Navigating Love on Queer Dating Apps

2/15/2024
This week Sober Steve, the Podcast Guy, dives into the world of dating apps for sober people in the queer community, and experiences across the different platforms and stages of our addiction and recovery. As I approach a monumental sobriety milestone, gratitude practices deepen my connections beyond the sober community with heartwarming responses from friends. Then, things get even more personal as I bring my husband on to share our experience meeting on not one but two apps and how that has evolved into our marriage today. Guest Gabriel, Danielle, and Mark share insights from their experiences on Facebook Messenger, Grindr, Tinder, Her, and more, emphasizing honesty and positive feedback on sobriety disclosure. We discuss the importance of personal boundaries and self-awareness in sober dating, stressing honesty for genuine connections and balancing relationships with spiritual well-being. Follow our guests on Instagram- @heymarko8, @dc_and_rosey, and @the.archangelgabriel - and follow us wherever you social @gayapodcast! Check out our new website at https://sobersteve.com/gayapodcast and email me anytime at steve@sobersteve.com Stay sober, friends! Support the Show.

Duration:00:33:29

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Sober Apps: Navigating Sobriety in 2024

2/8/2024
Hey there, super soberheroes! Today's episode is all about exploring the world of sober apps in 2024. In this episode, you will be able to: Explore inclusive apps for sobriety Inclusivity within sobriety applications is highly commendable, as they cater to diverse audiences such as the queer and sober community. These inclusive platforms understand unique struggles and offer tailored resources, advice, and support. By reaching out to individuals from all walks of life, they foster a sense of belonging, significantly enhancing recovery. The resources mentioned in this episode are: Guests Featured Include: Danielle @dc_and_rosey Mark @heymarko8 Shane @rhythmcafeheflin Cori @_coritee4_ Submit your experiences on Sober Dating apps for the chance to be featured next week. Email them to steve@sobersteve.com or message me on all the socials @gayapodcast to talk more! Support the Show.

Duration:00:34:31

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Out of the Podcast Booth & Into the Spotlight: Taking My Sober Message Live

2/1/2024
Discover the unexpected journey of a queer podcaster's transformative experiences in sobriety, leading to the launch of a groundbreaking 2.0 version of their podcast. This emotional narrative takes you through the highs and lows of Steve's personal growth, as he unveils the concept of "sober superheroes." Stay tuned for the open loop of how this journey will empower and inspire the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, you will be able to: Reach out today however you'd like https://linktr.ee/gayapodcast The resources mentioned in this episode are: Support the Show.

Duration:00:30:51

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Self Care Routines ft. Steve and Kristen

1/25/2024
Steve celebrates episode 175 by welcoming back his sober sibling, Kristen R, to discuss self care routines! Topics discussed include: Follow us on Instagram @gayapodcast or on Facebook for more updates, and check out the Patreon page for our weekly Post Show and other exclusive content! Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE! Support the Show.

Duration:00:26:37

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Putting Down the Sword ft. Kevin

1/18/2024
Steve welcomes Kevin to share his experience, strength, and hope while celebrating living a queer and sober life today. Topics discussed include: Follow Kevin on Instagram @kev.chiang , and follow us too @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear our post-show where we will chat about Gratitude! Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE! Support the Show.

Duration:00:39:49

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Sober Magik ft. Dallas

1/11/2024
Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Dallas, to discuss how integrating Magik and practices like Akashic Records has helped enrich and enhance Dallas' recovery and his abilities to help others. Topics Covered Included: For more Dallas, follow them on IG @drdallasbragg - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcast Check out our Post-Show on our Patreon page, where we'll discuss Dallas' sexual transmutation challenge attempt at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Until next time, stay sober, friends! Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE! Support the Show.

Duration:00:28:01

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A Change in Perspective ft Phil

1/4/2024
Steve welcomes back a friend of the podcast, Phil, to discuss the change(s) in perspective that comes to us in recovery, along with what it's like navigating life queer and sober today. Topics Covered Included: For more Phil, find him on Facebook at Phil Brunke, and for more us, follow us on Instagram @gayapodcast. But if you Facebook friended me, I'll accept, too :-) Check out our Post-Show on our Patreon page- www.patreon.com/gayapodcast Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE! Support the Show.

Duration:00:37:36