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You can't go through life without experiencing loss and trauma the question is how do we deal and live with the grief and pain? Join Nathalie Himmelrich, grief expert and author, talking to people who have experienced grief and trauma first-hand. If...

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You can't go through life without experiencing loss and trauma the question is how do we deal and live with the grief and pain? Join Nathalie Himmelrich, grief expert and author, talking to people who have experienced grief and trauma first-hand. If you want to be inspired by others who traveled through their grief and trauma, found that healing is possible, and came out the other end knowing they can survive and thrive in life after loss. For more info: www.nathaliehimmelrich.com

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185 Grief Presumptions: The Assumptions We Make About Loss (Part 3 of 3)

4/20/2026
Send us Fan Mail When someone is visibly grieving, the people around them quickly conclude, usually without adequate evidence. She isn't crying, so she must be coping. He went back to work, so he must be over it. They seem angry, not sad — that can't be grief. These are presumptions. In Part 3 of this three-part series, Nathalie examines how presumptions about grief operate in real time, in specific moments, and why they cause a different kind of harm from grief myths and preconceptions. What's covered in this episode The core distinction across all three episodes Myths, preconceptions, and presumptions are related, but they operate at different levels and in different moments. Grief myths exist in the culture: in the language, the rituals, the policies, the media. They are transmitted without any single person deciding to transmit them. Myths are covered in Part 1. Preconceptions are the individual's internalised version of those myths: what a person has absorbed over a lifetime, and carries into grief before it happens. They shape what someone expects from their own grief. Preconceptions are covered in Part 2. Presumptions are what happen in a specific moment: a conclusion drawn about someone else's grief, or one's own, without adequate evidence. Unlike myths and preconceptions, presumptions are active and situational. They happen in the room, in the conversation, at the graveside. Presumptions are what this episode covers. Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebookFind Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:22:48

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184 Collective Grief and War Trauma: How Entire Populations Heal | Dr Imke Hansen

4/13/2026
Send us Fan Mail What happens when an entire nation is traumatised? How does collective grief differ from personal loss, and what does healing actually look like at that scale? In this episode, I speak with Dr Imke Hansen, trauma therapist, scholar of Eastern European History, and Deputy Director of the human rights organisation Libereco – Partnership for Human Rights. Nathalie and Imke first met in Zürich at a conference on collective grief and trauma with Dr Peter Levine and Thomas Hübl, and this conversation picks up where that encounter left off. Imke has worked with survivors of war and persecution for over two decades. Since 2014, she has led Libereco's psychosocial support work in Ukraine, supporting people living through one of the most devastating conflicts of our time. She is also a certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, a body-based approach to trauma healing developed by Dr Peter Levine. In this episode, we cover: About today's guest Dr. Imke Hansen holds a doctorate in Eastern European History and is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner specialising in trauma-informed mental health and psychosocial support for civil society activists and survivors of captivity and torture. She serves as Deputy Director of Libereco – Partnership for Human Rights, an independent German-Swiss NGO working in Belarus and Ukraine since 2009. She is the author of the comic book I CAN, available in English, Ukrainian, and Russian. Resources mentioned: libereco.orgI CANsomaticexperiencing.comSupport the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebookFind Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:50:57

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183 Preconceptions About Grief: The Beliefs You Bring Before Loss (Part 2 of 3)

4/6/2026
Send us Fan Mail Before a loss happens, most people already hold a set of beliefs about what grief will look like. These are not myths absorbed from the culture in general — they are something more personal: internalised convictions, absorbed through upbringing, family, religion, and lived experience, that then shape how a person enters and moves through grief. These are preconceptions. In Part 2 of this three-part series, Nathalie examines the ten most common preconceptions about grief and makes a precise distinction between preconceptions, grief myths, and presumptions that is crucial for understanding why each causes harm differently. What's covered in this episode The 10 preconceptions covered The distinction explained in this episode A grief myth is a culturally shared false belief, something the culture transmits without adequate evidence. A preconception is personal: it is the individual's internalised version of that myth, often absorbed before they have any direct experience of loss. Myths can be corrected with information. Preconceptions require something more: recognising that the belief exists, tracing where it came from, and examining whether it still holds in the face of actual experience. A presumption (covered in Part 3) is different again: it is a real-time assumption made about someone else's grief, in the moment. Preconceptions are formed before. Presum Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebookFind Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:33:56

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182 Lizzie Pickering | When Grief Equals Love

3/31/2026
Send us Fan Mail HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEF AND TRAUMA is completely self-funded, produced, and edited by me, Nathalie Himmelrich. Consider making a small donation to support the Podcast: bit.ly/SupportGTPodcast. Thank you! For more information, please visit Nathalie’s website, join the podcast’s Instagram page, and subscribe to the newsletter to receive updates on future episodes here. About this week’s episode What does it look like to live well with grief, not despite it, but through it? Lizzie Pickering has spent over 25 years finding out. Since the death of her eldest son, Harry, Lizzie has become one of the UK's most experienced and sought-after voices on grief in life and in the workplace. She draws on more than two decades of direct experience: as a carer to Harry, as a long-term team member at Helen & Douglas House (the Oxford children's hospice where Harry died), and through her sustained work with bereaved parents, siblings, and professionals navigating loss. If you're like me, you will love listening to Lizzie's voice, giving us an insight into her journey over the past 25 years. About this week’s guest ​​Lizzie is a Grief Educator, Author and Film Producer She offers Grief Guidance to organisations and individuals, educating people about grief and helping them get back to life and work following major losses. Her clients are both UK-based and global. Since the death of her eldest son, Harry, 25 years ago, Lizzie has become passionate about changing the landscape for people who have to face life and work when they are living with grief. Her firm belief is that if grief is faced and worked through gradually, if people are well supported, there is a rich seam of energy to be found from not only surviving it but living well. Lizzie’s book, When Grief Equals Love, Long-term Perspectives on Living with Loss, was published in May 2023 and is available from bookshops, Amazon and Audible. Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebookFind Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:54:15

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181 8 Common Grief Myths That Keep People Stuck (Part 1 of 3)

3/24/2026
Send us Fan Mail Grief myths are everywhere. They show up in condolence cards, in workplace bereavement policies, in the advice given by well-meaning friends and family and, often, inside the grieving person themselves. They feel like common sense. They are not. In this episode, the first in a three-part series on the beliefs that distort the experience of grief, Nathalie unpacks eight of the most common grief myths: where they come from, why they persist, how they cause harm, and what a more accurate picture of grief actually looks like. What's covered in this episode The 8 Grief Myths Referenced in this episode The myths examined in this episode are part of a broader pattern in which popular culture transmits beliefs about grief, often without anyone intending harm. Nathalie first traced this in her two-part article series using Downton Abbey as a lens for the messages TV and film consistently send about how grief should look: Downton Abbey Grief Theory — Part 1 Downton Abbey Grief Theory — Part 2 (Note: both articles are hosted on grievingparents.net, Nathalie's Grieving Parents Support Network site.) Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebookFind Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:34:28

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Season 18 - Trailer: News About the Upcoming Show

3/23/2026
Send us Fan Mail HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEF AND TRAUMA is completely self-funded, produced, and edited by me, Nathalie Himmelrich. Consider making a small donation to support the Podcast: bit.ly/SupportGTPodcast. Thank you! For more information, please visit Nathalie’s website, join the podcast’s Instagram page, and subscribe to the newsletter to receive updates on future episodes here. Season 18 begins here. Nathalie opens the new season by sharing a personal experience — a conversation with a medium that left her with unexpected clarity — and announces that the medium will join her for a recorded episode later this season. This season brings a mix of solo and guest episodes exploring the preconceptions we carry into grief, the relationship between personal belief and how we process loss and trauma, and stories from guests across Australia, Europe, the UK, and the USA - people who have grieved, people who support others through it, and often both. Leave a Review If this podcast has supported you, a 5-star review takes less than a minute and helps others who are grieving find this community when they need it most. Send Nathalie a message — tap the 'Send Us a Text' link at the top of the shownotes to share your feedback, your experience, or a question you'd like explored. With that in mind, have a gentle day. Let your nervous system guide you. With Love, Nathalie Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebookFind Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:07:44

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180 The Many Faces of Trauma | How Trauma Can Affect the Body

3/7/2026
Send a text Trauma isn’t only a story in the mind—it’s also physiology, sensation, and nervous system patterning. In this final episode of the Many Faces of Trauma series, we explore how trauma can show up in the body through hyperarousal (fight/flight), hypoarousal (shutdown), stress-related symptoms over time, dissociation, and chronic tension patterns. Using a simple polyvagal-informed lens, we explain how nervous system state can shape sensations and symptoms—and why “I know I’m safe” can coexist with a body that still reacts. We share realistic body-based supports, focusing on small, repeated regulation, completing stress energy, co-regulation, and tracking 5% shifts. The episode ends with a short grounding practice and a supportive closing message to integrate the whole mini-series. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Breath + Stretch + Name” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. I will be back with more guest interviews starting again with Season 18. Stay tuned! Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:13:50

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179 The Many Faces of Trauma | Dissociation: The Mind’s Emergency Exit (Intro-Level)

3/4/2026
Send a text Dissociation is often misunderstood, but for many people it’s a protective nervous-system strategy—a way the mind and body reduce overwhelm when something feels too much to stay present for. In this intro-level episode, we explore dissociation as a spectrum: from spacing out and going blank to numbness, unreality, time loss, and feeling detached from the body or emotions. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we connect dissociation to shutdown protection, discuss common triggers (conflict, overwhelm, feeling trapped, sensory load), and outline what helps—especially gentle, body-first ways to return without shame. We close with a grounding practice using texture and temperature cues to support a soft “coming back.” In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Texture + Temperature Return” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: How Trauma Can Affect the Body Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:11:40

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178 The Many Faces of Trauma | Complex Trauma & C-PTSD (Intro-Level)

3/2/2026
Send a text Complex trauma forms through repeated or prolonged exposure to threat or chronic stress—often in contexts where escape isn’t possible and where relationships or systems meant to provide safety are also part of the problem. In this intro-level episode, we clarify the difference between single-incident PTSD patterns and complex trauma, and we outline how C-PTSD discussions often include PTSD symptoms plus broader impacts on emotion regulation, self-concept, relationships, and agency. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we explore what it means when protection becomes the nervous system's default—and why that’s an adaptation, not a character trait. We end with a short practice that helps you name your state and offer one small supportive need. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Name the State, Offer a Need” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Dissociation: The Mind’s Emergency Exit (Intro-Level) Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:12:34

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177 The Many Faces of Trauma | Helping Professionals & Partners: Secondary and Vicarious Trauma

2/27/2026
Send a text When you support someone through trauma—professionally or personally—your nervous system is not a neutral observer. Secondary traumatic stress can create trauma-like symptoms through exposure to others’ distress, while vicarious trauma can gradually shift your beliefs about safety, trust, and meaning. In this episode, we define both terms in plain language, explore why “empathic contagion” happens through co-regulation (polyvagal-informed), and name common signs like sleep disruption, intrusion, irritability, numbness, and saturation. We also cover practical protection strategies: boundaries as care, transitions, shared load, and ventral restoring practices. We close with a short “Return-to-Self Reset” to help you care without carrying. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Return-to-Self Reset” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Complex Trauma & C-PTSD (Intro-Level) Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:13:44

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176 The Many Faces of Trauma | Community Shock: Disasters & Public Events (No War Content)

2/25/2026
Send a text Community shock happens when a public tragedy or disaster disrupts a community’s sense of safety and predictability, creating a ripple of nervous-system activation far beyond those directly involved. This episode is the Trauma Types companion to S16E161, where we explored collective grief and trauma after sudden tragedy. Here, we zoom in on community shock as a trauma pathway: why people cycle through hypervigilance, numbness, anger, and exhaustion; how media exposure can keep the nervous system activated; and why meaning-making can turn into blame, rumour cycles, or polarisation. We end with a short grounding practice designed to reduce helplessness by focusing on a “circle of control.” In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Circle of Control” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Helping Professionals & Partners: Secondary and Vicarious Trauma Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:15:01

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175 The Many Faces of Trauma | Migration & Displacement Trauma: Losing Home, Language, Self

2/22/2026
Send a text Migration and displacement can be traumatic not only because of what prompted the move, but because the nervous system loses multiple safety cues at once—home, language, social rules, community, and familiar identity. In this episode, we explore migration and displacement trauma as both a trauma pathway (chronic stress, uncertainty, vigilance) and a grief pathway (loss of belonging, status, and “nervous system home base”). Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at why safety cues disappear, how identity disruption adds a second layer, and what helps in realistic, culturally respectful ways. We close with a grounding practice designed to support “two homes”: honouring roots while allowing slow settling. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Two Homes” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Community Shock: Disasters & Public Events (No War Content) Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:15:42

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174 The Many Faces of Trauma | Society-Shaped Trauma (Part 2): Poverty, Insecurity & Social Exclusion

2/20/2026
Send a text Chronic scarcity and instability can shape the nervous system in ways that look like anxiety, irritability, shutdown, or “burnout,” even when a person is working incredibly hard to survive. In this episode, we explore poverty, insecurity, and social exclusion as a society-shaped trauma pathway—where the threat is often not a single event, but ongoing conditions with limited control and limited recovery. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we name common “invisible injuries” of scarcity stress, why shame so often gets layered on top, and what helps realistically—without pretending that regulation solves structural problems. We close with a short grounding practice designed to create a stabilising sense of contact, support, and one manageable next step. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “3-Point Stabiliser” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Migration & Displacement Trauma: Losing Home, Language, Self Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:13:07

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173 The Many Faces of Trauma | Society-Shaped Trauma (Part 1): Discrimination & Minority Stress

2/17/2026
Send a text Discrimination and minority stress can create a chronic nervous-system load: not only dealing with the moment, but also anticipating bias, managing risk, and constantly scanning for safety and belonging. In this episode, we explore minority stress as an accumulation of experiences—overt discrimination, microaggressions, stereotyping, exclusion, and the invisible effort of code-switching or masking. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at how chronic vigilance can keep the body in mobilised protection or shutdown, and we offer practical ways to support regulation without minimising the reality of the environment. We close with a short grounding practice focused on orienting to neutral and welcoming cues, and anchoring a sense of belonging in the self. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Orient + Belonging Cue” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Society-Shaped Trauma (Part 2): Poverty, Insecurity & Social Exclusion Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:14:46

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172 The Many Faces of Trauma | When the Environment Is the Threat: Chronic Stress Without an Exit

2/15/2026
Send a text Not all trauma comes from a single event. Sometimes the trauma pathway is the environment itself—ongoing pressure, instability, or threat with little realistic ability to escape or recover. In this episode, we explore “chronic stress without an exit” as a nervous system pattern that can keep the body stuck in mobilised protection (wired, urgent, hypervigilant) and, over time, slide into shutdown (numb, foggy, depleted). Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we name common “invisible injuries” that can look like burnout or personality changes, and offer realistic support strategies that don’t rely on toxic positivity or impossible self-care. We close with a one-minute downshift practice designed for busy, high-load lives. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (1–2 minutes): “1-Minute Downshift” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Society-Shaped Trauma (Part 1): Discrimination & Minority Stress Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:13:28

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171 The Many Faces of Trauma | Medical & Birth Trauma: When Help Hurts

2/12/2026
Send a text Medical and birth trauma can happen when care meant to help also involves fear, helplessness, loss of control, or violations of consent and dignity. In this episode, we explore why “routine” experiences can still leave lasting nervous system imprints, especially when a person feels rushed, unheard, exposed, or powerless. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at fight/flight and shutdown responses in medical settings, common aftereffects like avoidance of care or panic in clinics, and practical ways to reclaim choice. We close with a grounding practice that emphasises resourcing and choice—two key ingredients for nervous system safety. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Resourced Breath + Choice Point” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: When the Environment Is the Threat: Chronic Stress Without an Exit Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:18:25

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170 The Many Faces of Trauma | Single-Incident Trauma: When “Before” and “After” Split

2/10/2026
Send a text Single-incident trauma can create a sharp “before and after” in the nervous system—where an overwhelming event leaves the body stuck in protection long after it’s over. In this episode, we explore how trauma memories can be stored as sensory fragments and threat predictions, why triggers can feel like the event is happening again, and how avoidance develops as a protective strategy that can shrink life over time. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at mobilised protection (fight/flight) and shutdown, and offer practical first steps for helping the nervous system update from “then” to “now.” We close with a grounding practice that uses the senses plus a temperature cue to anchor the present moment. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “5–4–3–2–1 + Temperature” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Medical & Birth Trauma: When Help Hurts Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:13:09

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169 The Many Faces of Trauma | Betrayal Trauma: When Trust Becomes Unsafe

2/7/2026
Send us a text Betrayal trauma can be uniquely disorienting because it not only breaks trust—it can disrupt your sense of reality and self-trust. In this episode, we explore betrayal trauma as a nervous system injury that often leads to hypervigilance, rumination, shutdown, and relationship fear. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at why the body moves from connection to surveillance after betrayal and how healing often centres on truth, boundaries, and rebuilding trust in yourself. The episode ends with a short “Truth Anchor” practice to stabilise the present moment. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Truth Anchor” Related Episode: Ambiguous GriefCheck the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Single-Incident Trauma: When ‘Before’ and ‘After’ Split Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:15:08

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168 The Many Faces of Trauma | Intergenerational Trauma: What Gets Carried Forward

2/5/2026
Send us a text Intergenerational trauma is what happens when the impact of trauma is passed down through families and communities—through nervous system patterns, emotional rules, family roles, and the stories we inherit about safety, trust, and worth. In this episode, we explore how people can carry burdens that didn’t start with them, why this isn’t about blaming previous generations, and how healing begins by naming what you’re holding and choosing what you want to continue—or interrupt. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at how children’s nervous systems entrain to the adults around them, shaping a baseline of mobilised protection or shutdown. We close with a gentle practice to help you release what isn’t yours to carry. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Release What Isn’t Yours” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Betrayal Trauma: When Trust Becomes Unsafe Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:14:01

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167 The Many Faces of Trauma | Developmental Trauma: A Brief Map (Building on Earlier Episodes)

2/2/2026
Send us a text Developmental trauma often forms through chronic, repeated stress during childhood—especially when safety, support, and repair are inconsistent. In this episode, you’ll get a clear, non-overwhelming map of what developmental trauma is, why it affects so many areas (regulation, identity, relationships), and how it can show up later as survival patterns like scanning, pleasing, protecting, or disconnecting. Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we explore how a developing nervous system adapts to ongoing stress. We close with a gentle “pendulation light” practice to help the body experience movement between tension and neutral, supporting regulation without forcing a story. In this episode, you’ll learn Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Pendulation Light” Check the website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them. What’s next: Intergenerational Trauma: What Gets Carried Forward Support the show 💡 If today’s episode touched you, please share it with someone who might need it. 🤝 Become a supporter of the show! Starting at $3/month & leave a review. Stay Connected nathaliehimmelrich.comSubscribe to the newsletterfollow the podcastSocials InstagramFacebook Find Support Resources For GrieversResources For SupportersSupporting someone BooksExplore books on grief and healingSupportOffers - free and paid

Duration:00:14:56