All Mom Does Podcast with Julie Lyles Carr

Prepare your heart for Christmas by walking through the Gospel of Luke — one chapter each day. We're already a few days in, but it isn't too late to join us on this journey... We're giving you the gift of the first episode to give you a little taste of what's to come. If you'd like to continue the journey, find and follow our "Luke: A 24-Day Journey to Christmas" podcast mini-series on Purposely.com or wherever you get your podcasts. Merry Christmas from Purposely! Podcast Info: Luke: A 24 Day Journey to Christmas Follow on AppleFollow on SpotifyFollow on YouTubeFollow on Amazon/AudibleFollow on iHeart

Listener note: This episode might be a good one to pop on those headphones or earbuds if you have little ears nearby. Part of our conversation includes a suicide and a cancer diagnosis. She's known for her laughter, wit, and upbeat outlook on life. But the last five years have taken a toll on Scarlet Hiltibidal and she's ready to talk about it. Scarlet joins AllMomDoes podcast host Julie Lyles Carr for a vulnerable conversation about what it takes to face life challenges with honesty while still remaining hopeful-ish. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/48wWPYS Takeaways: Sound Bites: Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 02:51 The Creative Process Behind 'Hopeful-ish' 05:31 Processing Grief and Loss Post-COVID 08:48 Wrestling with Hope and Personal Struggles 11:34 Balancing Humor and Heaviness in Life 14:16 The Donkey Attack and Farming Adventures 17:13 The Journey of Becoming a Farmer 19:08 Tending to the Farm of Your Soul 21:13 Navigating Jadedness and Hope 23:04 The Gift of Hope in Difficult Times 28:43 Parenting Through Faith and Challenges Keywords: Scarlet Hiltibidal, Hopeful-ish, grief, faith, motherhood, creativity, COVID-19, personal growth, humor, parenting

What did Julie do when her daughter grabbed a tweezer to pluck the chin hair of Grammie during Thanksgiving? Sometimes there is no contingency plan when things happen that you don't expect. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/44oO9m5

With holiday hosting just around the corner, queen of hospitality Abby Kuykendall is the perfect person to help get you in the right frame of mind! Abby joins AllMomDoes podcast host Julie Lyles Carr to discuss what true hospitality is all about, and how to let go of stress, expectations, and perfection so you can focus on your people instead! Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3K9KQbz Takeaways: Hospitality connects people and is a way to show love. It's important to redefine hospitality beyond entertaining. Cultural pressures can hinder our ability to practice hospitality. Setting boundaries is essential for healthy hospitality. Authenticity in hospitality leads to deeper connections. Women often bear the mental load of hospitality tasks. Introverts and extroverts experience hospitality differently. Throwing off expectations can enhance the hospitality experience. God calls us to practice hospitality regardless of our skills. The journey of hospitality is about being true to oneself. I'm not carrying that torch alone. We have to look at our calendars. Set that up at the beginning. Take the stress off of yourself. Potluck it up, man. A coffee meetup in the front yard. Opening our resources to be hospitable. Using your resources to build those connections. We can distract ourselves away from what the point is. I want to focus on and he's like, Oh, if it was dirty. Sound bites: "It's not about trying to be Martha Stewart" "I'm not carrying that torch alone." "We have to look at our calendars." "Set that up at the beginning." "Take the stress off of yourself." "Potluck it up, man." "A coffee meetup in the front yard." "Opening our resources to be hospitable." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Hospitality and Connection 01:53 Redefining Hospitality: From Entertaining to Authenticity 04:58 Cultural Pressures and Expectations in Hospitality 10:06 Overcoming Anxiety and Setting Boundaries in Hospitality 18:51 Navigating Different Personalities in Hospitality 21:56 Navigating Hospitality with Family Dynamics 22:47 Planning and Preparation for Hospitality 24:56 The Power of Potlucks and Delegation 26:55 Innovative Approaches to Hosting 27:53 Hospitality Beyond the Home 29:38 Building Relationships Through Shared Experiences 31:33 Creating Presence Over Perfection 33:23 Teamwork in Hospitality 35:57 Setting Expectations in Co-Hosting 37:33 Connecting with the Audience Keywords: hospitality, connection, authenticity, cultural pressures, boundaries, introverts, extroverts, community, anxiety, expectations, hospitality, family dynamics, planning, potluck, hosting, relationships, presence, teamwork, expectations, community

In elevating opportunities and understanding for girls, there's a group that's gotten left behind; boys. With fewer male college admissions, longer days sitting at desks in the classroom, and a generation who has substituted real adventure and challenge for video games, it's no wonder parents are trying to figure out how to best raise their sons. Author and boy mom Rebekah Lovell joins Julie Lyles Carr on the AllMomDoes podcast to share how she's maximizing work and play for her boys to prepare them for their lives as men. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3WLGdHs Takeaways: Raising boys involves understanding their unique wiring and energy. Boys often express themselves through physical activity and exploration. It's essential to balance nurturing with allowing boys to take risks. Boys need to learn emotional regulation and resilience. Mentorship plays a crucial role in a boy's development. Boys thrive when they feel challenged and capable. Encouraging boys to take on responsibilities fosters independence. Boys can learn valuable lessons from hero stories and role models. It's important to celebrate masculinity without diminishing femininity. Creating a supportive environment helps boys navigate societal pressures. Sound bites: "We want boys who launch." "Boys need to know they measure up." "Boys need to know they can try again." "We want good men who will lead." "Boys need mentors to guide them." "Boys are hero worshippers." Chapters: 00:00 Navigating Boy World 04:31 Understanding Boys' Nature and Nurture 10:39 Emotional Landscapes of Boys 13:54 Raising Resilient Sons 19:07 Challenging Passivity in Boys 30:06 Finding Male Mentors for Boys Keywords: raising boys, boyhood, parenting, emotional intelligence, masculinity, boys' nature, nurturing boys, resilience, mentorship, family dynamics

What should you be saying to your kids? In a time of gentle parenting, the come back of authoritative styles and more, it can be confusing to know how to talk to your kids and how to correct them. Amy Hughes joins Julie Lyles Carr on this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast to unpack what's up with parent speak. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/47gtJO3 Takeaways: Writing is often a reflection of what we need to hear ourselves. Gentle parenting is a response to authoritarian styles of parenting. Language choices can significantly impact a child's emotional health. Phrases like 'don't be sad' can shame children for their feelings. Encouraging children to express emotions is crucial for their development. The balance between authority and gentleness is a common struggle for parents. Children need to learn how to navigate different communication styles. Role-playing can help prepare children for real-world interactions. Awareness of harmful phrases can lead to better communication. Parenting is a journey of learning and growth for both parents and children. Sound bites: "This needs to be its own book." "Don't be sad is shaming." "Hurry up can cause anxiety." Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Parenting Dynamics 02:51 The Importance of Language in Parenting 05:53 Navigating Emotional Expression 10:00 Replacing Harmful Phrases 12:07 Building Emotional Resilience 16:32 Trends in Parenting Challenges 19:07 Engaging with Community Language 22:43 Understanding Rising Childhood Anxiety 25:43 Preparing Kids for the Real World 27:54 The Role of Repair in Parenting Keywords:parenting, communication, childhood emotions, language impact, gentle parenting, childhood anxiety, emotional intelligence, parenting challenges, family dynamics, child psychology

Parents are spending billions of dollars and countless hours on their kids' sports activities. But have we stopped to consider spiritual growth and family life in the midst of all things sports? Ed Uszynski, sports coach, author, and parent, joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to unpack how to keep the holy in hockey, blessing in the basketball, and faith on the field. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4o7maiI Takeaways: The youth sports landscape has dramatically changed over the years. Parents often feel overwhelmed by the demands of youth sports. The shift from play to performance has led to a more competitive environment. Parental identity can become intertwined with children's performance. The youth sports industry is a multi-billion dollar complex. Many parents feel pressured to ensure their children succeed in sports. Character development is as important as athletic performance. Most kids quit sports by their teenage years due to pressure. The lessons learned in sports can impact life beyond the field. Parents should focus on their children's growth rather than just performance. Discipleship in parenting is crucial for guiding children. Character development should be prioritized over performance in sports. Parents should expect more from youth sports experiences. It's important to model faith and community involvement for children. Coaches may not always have the best interests of families in mind. Parents can and should make choices about their children's activities. It's okay to leave a sports team if it's not a good fit. Youth sports should be fun and not a source of stress. Families should communicate and pray together about sports commitments. There are resources available to help parents navigate youth sports. Sound Bites: "We need help." "This is to enhance our kids' lives." "Where do you think that comes from?" "The clock is ticking." "We should expect more for our dollar." "I really am my child's primary discipler." "You can fire the coach." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Youth Sports Landscape 02:54 The Shift from Play to Performance 06:48 Understanding the Youth Sports Industrial Complex 08:36 Parental Identity and Expectations 12:01 The Pressure of Performance and Its Consequences 16:39 Life Lessons Beyond the Field 19:45 Discipleship in Youth Sports 21:56 Balancing Passion and Priorities 25:13 Navigating Youth Sports Commitments 30:04 The Importance of Family Dynamics 33:48 Course Correction in Youth Sports 36:59 Resources for Parents in Youth Sports Keywords: youth sports, parenting, extracurricular activities, performance pressure, sports industry, parental expectations, youth sports culture, character development, sports parenting, sports ministry, youth sports, parenting, discipleship, character development, family dynamics, sports commitments, decision making, youth athletics, sports culture, faith and sports

Maybe it's not your compatibility; maybe it's your game plan...or lack thereof. Marriage coach Tondra Gregory joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to explore where marriages are struggling today and why you need a game plan to help you succeed in love. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/48Pbsc3 Takeaways: Churches often lack dedicated marriage ministries. Marriage is a key part of reflecting God's image. Conflict resolution is a critical skill for couples. Social media presents new challenges for trust in relationships. Setting boundaries around technology is essential. Couples need to adjust their roles as life changes. Communication is vital for a successful marriage. Using sports analogies can help men understand marital concepts. Flexibility in marriage plans is necessary for success. Resources and tools are available to help couples thrive. Sound bites: "We need to talk about all of this." "We need to adjust our game plan." "We are always looking for more tools." Chapters: 00:00 The Importance of Marriage in Faith Communities 02:53 Conflict Resolution: A Timeless Challenge 05:57 Navigating Modern Relationships in the Digital Age 09:05 Balancing Responsibilities in Marriage 11:58 Using Sports Analogies to Enhance Communication 15:01 Resources for Strengthening Marriages Keywords: marriage, faith communities, conflict resolution, social media, relationship advice, communication, marriage ministry, modern challenges, responsibilities, sports analogies

She was the host of a popular parenting podcast and good church girl. So why did it make her have a panic attack? Heather MacFayden joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an honest and vulnerable conversation about the one thing we're doing as moms that is working against us. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46RdzdN

When you're used to working off of blueprints, production schedules, and closing dates, holding it all with an open hand and trusting God's timing can be tricky. Star of HGTV's Fixer to Fabulous Jenny Marrs joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful look into what it means to trust God when your personality and your profession is built on to-do lists and timelines. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46vGmV8

Ever dream of moving out on some land, raising some chickens, and writing some romance novels? Melissa Ferguson, TikTok phenom and all-around fascinating person did just that! Check out how her faith guided her through making big changes in her life in this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46NQoQq

Do you sometimes think you should have been named something else? Spoken poet and author Hosanna Wong joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr for an insightful look at the names we give ourselves contrasted with what God calls us. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3VmhyZj

She's a fellow podcaster and author and she's also a champion of making motherhood fun again! Courtney DeFeo of Pardon the Mess joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with powerful reminders and tips about making motherhood joyful...and funny! Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3VOMYHR

Ever feel leftout, overlooked, and like you don't fit at the 'cool kids' table? Challenges in friendships don't just happen in elementary school; adult women struggle too, and sometimes struggle the most in faith circles. Bestselling author and faith leader Natalie Runion is on the AllMomDoes podcast today with important truths about why our friendships in God can be and why we too often let lies, past hurts, and our own triggers get in the way. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/46oaLEA Key Topics: Guest Information: Follow Natalie Runyon on Instagram and Facebook under "Raised to Stay" Natalie's books are available on Amazon, Books-A-Million

Dave and Ashley Willis bring insight, wisdom, and experiences in their own marriage to the podcast today! They join AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr to talk about why gaming is becoming a big issue for couples, how apathy in relationship has become the new 'conflict,' and what you can do to enrich your relationship now. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4moDIWJ

Why do we think things have to be perfect? What are we trying to avoid in our attempts to make things perfect? Co-founder of Sister I'm With You Jess Johnston is on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr to talk about why we are afraid to show up as our true selves, what role boundaries play in authenticity, and why letting go of perfectionism can be the best thing you can do to find community. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4kwu6au

We are so excited about this summer series. If you are headed out on a road trip or lounging in the yard, get those ear buds in and fill yourself up with this content. We want you to have all this in one place.She runs a successful estate sales business in Austin, TX. And she's learned some fascinating things about how we move through our seasons of life and what it has to do with all of our stuff. Allison Armstrong joins AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr on the podcast! Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4nIta5S

Stress is a part of every day life. We're never going to outrun it. But that doesn't mean it has to take us down. Barb Roose joins Julie Lyles Carr on the AllMomDoes podcast for an in-depth look at what stress is, how to know when you're headed for overwhelm, and how you can be stronger than stress. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/40GFo4T

What does soup have to do with clutter, self care, and Sabbath rest? A whole lot more than you'd think! The incredible Kathi Lipp is back on the AllMomDoes podcast with Julie Lyles Carr and she's serving up great recipes and powerful wisdom in this timely conversation! Show Notes: https://bit.ly/44URytv

You're making all the things happen. You're juggling the kids, the job, the marriage, and the expectations of the people around you. And slowly, you're coming undone. Author Alyssa Joy Bethke and AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr talk about how to get out of the cycle of all the things while stil honoring the things God is asking you to do. Show Notes: https://bit.ly/45Yrm2c