The Autism Dad

In this episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, I sit down with my 25-year-old autistic son, Gavin, for a candid update on his journey. We talk about his transition out of a group home, what he’s learning along the way, and his hopes for the future. If you’re parenting autistic children or supporting neurodivergent kids as they grow into adulthood, this conversation offers both real-world challenges and encouraging progress. Gavin shares openly about work, housing, self-care, and even his dream of becoming a streamer. These insights matter for families navigating the shift from childhood to adult life with autism. What you’ll hear in this episode: Why Gavin left his group home and what families should look out for The importance of stable hours and fair pay when autistic adults enter the workforce How self-advocacy and job coaching can support independence Gavin’s goals for future housing and financial stability Honest reflections on managing stress and remembering to ask for help His interest in streaming, content creation, and sharing his experiences online The role of grandparents and family support in transitional stages Gavin’s approach to self-care and why he’s trying a massage for stress relief If you’re raising neurodivergent kids, this episode is both relatable and inspiring. It shows the ups and downs of supporting an autistic young adult, while also reminding us how much growth is possible with patience, advocacy, and support. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Autism Dad Podcast on your favorite platform so you never miss an episode. You can also visit theautismdad.com for more autism parenting resources, personal stories, and ways to connect. Sponsors Algonot – NeuroProtek® A brain-supporting flavonoid supplement developed by a Yale-trained neuroinflammation expert. Supports brain health, immune function, and neuroinflammation. Save 5% with code ROB5 at ⁠algonot.com Mightier — Help your kids build emotional regulation skills through play. Save 10% with code theautismdad22 at mightier.com. About Rob Gorski Rob Gorski is the father of three autistic children and the host of The Autism Dad Podcast. As the founder of The Autism Dad blog and podcast, Rob shares his family’s 25-year autism journey to educate, validate, and support parents worldwide. His work has been featured on CNN, ABC News, BBC Worldwide, and the Tamron Hall Show. About Gavin Gorski Gavin Gorski is a 25-year-old autistic adult navigating the challenges of independent living, employment, and personal growth. He brings unique insight into the adult autism experience and shares openly about his goals, struggles, and dreams for the future.

Parenting a child with disabilities often means putting your own needs last. But when you’re running on empty, burnout can take over and everyone feels the impact. In this episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, I talk with Dr. Regina Crone and Julie Hornok, co-founders of Labeled and Loved, an organization devoted to supporting moms raising kids with disabilities. Fresh off their appearance on The Kelly Clarkson Show, Regina and Julie share their personal journeys, how burnout affects moms, and why community, connection, and self-care aren’t luxuries they’re essential for survival. Whether you’re navigating autism parenting, raising a child with ADHD, or managing complex medical needs, you’ll walk away from this episode feeling seen, understood, and supported. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The personal stories that inspired Regina and Julie to create Labeled and Loved The unique challenges and burnout risks for moms raising kids with disabilities How to rebuild community when isolation takes over The importance of celebrating small wins that others might not understand How Labeled and Loved retreats give moms a space to rest, connect, and recharge Tips for finding ongoing support through local and virtual “Sisterhood Circles” Why self-care is not selfish when you’re parenting a child with disabilities How to take the first brave step toward prioritizing your own wellbeing Learn More About Labeled and Loved: Website: https://labeledandloved.org Upcoming Retreat: October 10 - 12, Dallas, TX (Registration closes September 10) About Rob Gorski Rob Gorski is an autism parenting advocate, award-winning blogger, and host of The Autism Dad Podcast. A single father to three autistic children, Rob uses his personal journey to educate, validate, and offer practical support to parents raising neurodivergent kids. His work has been featured by CNN, ABC News, BBC, and more. Learn more at https://theautismdad.com. About Dr. Regina Crone Dr. Regina Crone is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with a lifelong connection to the disability community through her younger brother’s autism diagnosis. She co-founded Labeled and Loved to create the community her family never had, offering retreats, events, and ongoing support for moms raising kids with disabilities. About Julie Hornok Julie Hornok is a speaker, author, and advocate whose daughter was diagnosed with autism shortly after her second birthday. After experiencing the isolation and burnout so many moms of children with disabilities face, she co-founded Labeled and Loved to provide connection, encouragement, and resources for mothers nationwide. Sponsors: REM Ohio: Caring for an adult with developmental disabilities can be overwhelming. REM Ohio’s Shared Living program lets you become a paid caregiver for your loved one, with added support through day programs and group homes. Not caring for a loved one? You can still make a difference as a non-family provider. Part of the Sevita Health network. Learn more at rem-oh.com or call 1-330-644-9730. Mightier: Helping kids learn self-regulation through fun, clinically proven games. Visit mightier.com for more info. Listen & Subscribe Official Website: listen.theautismdad.com

This week, we’re talking about something every autism parent needs to think about—but many don’t until it’s too late: water safety and wandering. If you’ve ever felt the panic of not knowing where your child went or struggled to keep them safe near water, this episode is for you. I’m joined by Dr. Molly O’Shea, a pediatrician with the American Academy of Pediatrics, autism mom, and the official pediatrician for Goldfish Swim School. We explore the very real risks around drowning in the autism community and what parents can do to keep their neurodivergent kids safe—starting as early as infancy. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why autistic children are at significantly higher risk of drowning The connection between wandering and sensory-driven curiosity How kids on the spectrum process water differently Why swim lessons need to start earlier than most parents realize How swim programs like Goldfish adapt to neurodivergent learners Why swimming builds more than safety—it builds confidence and cognitive development What parents can expect from a sensory-friendly swim program If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Autism Dad Podcast, leave a review, and check out our amazing sponsors below - your support keeps this podcast going strong. Visit theautismdad.com for more resources, blog posts, and episodes. Sponsors This Week: Algonot – NeuroProtek® A brain-supporting flavonoid supplement developed by a Yale-trained neuroinflammation expert. Supports brain health, immune function, and neuroinflammation. Save 5% with code ROB5 at algonot.com Mightier Created at Boston Children’s Hospital, Mightier helps kids build emotional regulation through biofeedback video games. A helpful tool for autism and ADHD. Save 10% with code theautismdad22 Learn more at mightier.com Guest Bio: Dr. Molly O’Shea is a board-certified pediatrician, autism mom, and the official pediatrician for Goldfish Swim School. With over 30 years of experience, she consults nationally on sensory-friendly care and water safety for kids of all developmental profiles. Goldfish Swim School: goldfishswimschool.com Host Bio: Rob Gorski is a single dad to three autistic kids, the voice behind The Autism Dad blog, and host of The Autism Dad Podcast. Rob shares honest, experience-based insights to help families feel more supported and less alone. More from Rob: theautismdad.com

In this powerful and deeply personal episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, I open up about one of the darkest moments of my life—a time when the weight of burnout, single parenting, and undiagnosed ADHD nearly pushed me past the brink. But more importantly, I talk about the moment I chose five more minutes—and how that choice changed everything. Joining me is Dr. Kristen Guillory, a leading voice in men’s mental health and founder of Candid Conversations for Men. Together, we break down what often goes unspoken, especially for dads raising neurodivergent kids. This isn’t just a conversation—it’s a lifeline. If you're a dad feeling like you're carrying the weight of the world or a parent trying to support your partner, this episode is for you. What We Talk About: - Why men’s mental health is still a taboo topic—and how we can change that - What it’s really like to parent autistic children as a solo dad - The emotional toll of trying to be “strong” all the time - How societal expectations silence men’s pain - The moment I considered giving up—and what pulled me back - How to break the silence and ask for help without shame - The importance of presence over perfection in fatherhood - The five-minute rule that can help you survive even the hardest days This Week’s Sponsors: NeuroProtek®Developed by a Yale-trained neuroinflammation expert, NeuroProtek is a brain-supporting flavonoid supplement designed to help with neurological inflammation often seen in autism. Save 5% with code ROB5 at https://algonot.com MightierMightier helps kids with autism and ADHD learn emotional regulation through biofeedback and fun video games. It's a tool I used personally with my own kids, and it made a huge difference. Learn more at https://mightier.com use the code "theautismdad22" and save 10%. If this episode resonates with you, please consider subscribing and sharing it with someone who needs to hear it. Visit listen.theautismdad.com for all episodes and guest info. You’re not alone—there’s always someone listening. Guest Bio: Dr. Kristen Guillory is a former professor of counseling and social work, a speaker, coach, and founder of KSGL Enterprises. She leads “Candid Conversations for Men”—a national initiative providing spaces where men are seen, heard, affirmed, and celebrated. With over 25 events hosted nationwide, Dr. Guillory is changing how we approach men’s mental health. Website: https://kristenguillory.com Instagram: @drkristenguillory Host Bio: Rob Gorski is the founder of The Autism Dad platform and host of The Autism Dad Podcast. A single father to three autistic children, Rob turned his personal journey into a lifeline for other families. He’s been featured by CNN, ABC News, BBC, and more, and his award-winning blog and podcast reach hundreds of thousands of parents seeking hope and support. Website: https://theautismdad.com Instagram: @theautismdad

Need a smile today? This episode is your dose of joy. Aria—my 9-year-old stepdaughter and fan favorite—is back on the podcast and taking over the mic. From overcoming her fear of water to her growing love for Stranger Things and Taylor Swift, Aria is full of heart, humor, and surprises. Stick around to the end for her incredible rendition of “NeverEnding Story.” You don’t want to miss it. Aria shares her world in a way only a neurodivergent kid can. Whether you’re a parent of autistic children or just need a boost of hope, this episode is a reminder that progress comes in many forms—and joy is often found in the little things. Link to Aria's Minecraft Movie Review: https://pod.fo/e/2c91bc What we talk about in this episode: Aria’s 9th birthday update and summer highlights Overcoming fear of water through swim lessons Her experience at bike camp and learning to ride Confidence-building moments and milestones Music class, school talent shows, and performing on stage What it was like to take a photo with the mayor Her love for Stranger Things (with a disclaimer for younger kids) A behind-the-scenes look at our dog Kacie and birthday plans Aria’s live performance of “NeverEnding Story” from Stranger Things Support our amazing sponsors: 🧠 Mama Bird – Brain-focused multivitamins for kids, created by a neurologist mom. Get 20% off your first order: ⁠lovemamabird.com/theautismdad 🎮 Mightier – Help your child learn emotional regulation through video games backed by science. Mightier has been a game-changer for my family. Try it free for 30 days: mightier.com/theautismdad Love what you hear? Subscribe to The Autism Dad Podcast on your favorite app. Check out past episodes and resources at listen.theautismdad.com. Join the conversation on Instagram: @theautismdad Want to support the show or be a guest? Visit theautismdad.com About Rob Gorski: Rob Gorski is an autism advocate, content creator, and father of three autistic sons. He’s the founder of The Autism Dad platform and host of The Autism Dad Podcast. Rob’s mission is to support and empower families raising neurodivergent kids through honest conversations, lived experience, and practical advice. theautismdad.com About Aria: Aria is a vibrant 9-year-old who loves music, dogs, Stranger Things, and making people laugh. She’s been featured in multiple episodes of the podcast and brings her unique perspective and big heart to everything she does. Let me know if you’d like a short social post or YouTube short setup for this episode.

In this powerful conversation, Rob talks with Jennifer Kaufman, educator, and grandmother to an autistic child - about the often overlooked but critical role that grandparents play in the lives of neurodivergent kids. Jennifer shares wisdom from her book Grandparenting on the Spectrum and opens up about navigating her dual role as both a seasoned professional and a grandparent still learning to step back. This episode is a must-listen for parents and grandparents alike who want to create stronger, more supportive relationships without stepping on each other’s toes. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why well-meaning grandparents can unintentionally make things harder—and how to fix that The importance of respecting parental boundaries, even when you “know better” How to build meaningful relationships with autistic grandkids (especially from a distance) Why letting go of old expectations can make room for deeper connection Practical advice for grandparents navigating IEPs, meltdowns, and special routines Tips for handling holidays and vacations with neurodivergent kids The most supportive thing a grandparent can say (and what not to say) How Jennifer’s book can help families communicate, collaborate, and grow together About My Guest: Jennifer Kaufman is an educator, former autism school principal, and author of Grandparenting on the Spectrum: A Journey From Both Sides of the Desk. She’s also the proud grandmother of an autistic child and speaks regularly to grandparent groups about inclusion, understanding, and support. Learn more or connect with Jennifer at: https://www.grandparentingonthespectrum.com Facebook: @GrandparentingOnTheSpectrum Find her book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/40W0L2e About Rob: Rob Gorski is a single dad to three amazing autistic sons and the voice behind The Autism Dad blog and podcast. A nationally recognized autism advocate and keynote speaker, Rob has been featured by CNN, ABC News, BBC, and more. He creates content that supports and validates parents of neurodivergent kids. Learn more at: https://www.theautismdad.com Call to Action: If this episode helped you feel seen, pass it on. Share it with a grandparent, a parent, or anyone helping to raise a neurodivergent child. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and visit: https://www.listen.theautismdad.com for more episodes. You can also support this podcast by checking out our sponsors below. Today’s Sponsors: NeuroProtek® – Brain-supporting flavonoid supplement developed by a Yale-trained neuroinflammation expert. Save 5% with code ROB5 at ⁠https://www.algonot.com. Mightier – Help kids learn emotional regulation through play. Learn more: https://www.mightier.com Use code “theautismdad” for a discount.

When you’re parenting autistic children or kids with high support needs, it’s easy to wonder how it all impacts their siblings. Do they feel forgotten? Overwhelmed? Lost in the shuffle? In this heartfelt episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, I sit down with autism mom Amy Kelly and her adult son Danny for a raw, emotional, and hopeful look at the sibling experience—and why it matters more than we often realize. Amy is a powerhouse in the autism community. She’s the National Director of Family Engagement at Devereux and a longtime advocate for autism support for families. But this episode isn’t about professional titles—it’s about her lived experience as a mom raising profoundly autistic Annie, while trying to meet the needs of her neurotypical sons, including today’s guest, Danny. Danny brings a sibling’s perspective that every parent needs to hear. He opens up about what it was like growing up with a sister who needed constant care, the unspoken pressures siblings carry, and how he’s now leading a national effort to support siblings like him. Whether you’re parenting autistic children or raising neurodivergent kids of any kind, this episode offers valuable insight, encouragement, and a reminder that every child in your home deserves to feel seen. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What it’s really like growing up with a sibling who has autism or profound disabilities Why siblings may feel isolated, unseen, or forgotten—even in loving homes How parents can better balance attention between neurodivergent and neurotypical kids The lifelong bond between siblings, and how it evolves into adulthood Danny’s work creating resources and community through Devereux’s sibling initiative Practical ways siblings can stay connected and prepare for future caregiving roles How autism reshaped (not ruined) their family in powerful ways Why redefining success and independence is key for autistic individuals Subscribe, Support, and Connect: If you found this episode helpful, please consider subscribing to The Autism Dad Podcast on your favorite platform and leave a review to help more families find this content. You can visit theautismdad.com for articles, resources, and updates—or if you’re interested in sponsoring an episode, get in touch. This episode is sponsored by: Mama Bird – Brain-focused kids’ multivitamins designed by a neurologist mom. Get 20% off your first order at lovemamabird.com/theautismdad. Mightier – Help your child build emotional regulation skills through biofeedback video games. Learn more at mightier.com and use the code "theautismdad22" to save 10%. About Rob Gorski (Host): Rob Gorski is a single dad to three autistic sons and the creator of The Autism Dad blog and podcast. He shares real-life stories, insights, and support for parents raising neurodivergent kids. Rob’s work has been featured by CNN, ABC, BBC, and The Tamron Hall Show. Contact: rob@theautismdad.com About Amy Kelly: Amy Kelly, MBA, MNM, is the National Director of Family Engagement at Devereux Advanced Behavioral Health and mom to three kids, including her daughter Annie, who has profound autism. Amy is a national advocate for disability support, working with organizations like the Autism Care Network and the American Academy of Pediatrics. Contact: amy.kelly@devereux.org About Danny Kelly: Danny Kelly is the older brother of Annie, who has profound autism. He co-chairs Devereux’s Sibling Engagement Committee and serves on the National Family Advisory Board. Danny uses his lived experience to advocate for siblings and inclusive support across the disability community.

Is your child struggling—and you’re not getting answers from “normal” tests? Hit play. This could change everything. In Part 2 of my powerful conversation with Dr. Theoharis Theoharides, we explore how neuroinflammation, mast cell activation, and overlooked biological factors can affect autistic children. We dive into my son Gavin’s journey, how traditional testing failed us, and what we discovered when we looked deeper. If you’ve ever felt dismissed or unsure where to turn next, this episode will give you new hope and direction. Why this matters: Too often, symptoms like gut issues, eczema, or extreme food sensitivity get brushed off. Dr. Theo shares what many pediatricians miss—and how identifying and treating the right things can dramatically improve quality of life for neurodivergent kids. What We Cover: What neuroinflammation means for autistic children How mast cells can impact behavior, speech, and health Why standard labs often miss important clues The difference between food allergies and food sensitivities What to test for—and how those tests can uncover treatable issues Gavin’s personal health journey and the lessons we’ve learned How to support your child without trying to change who they are Why we need real research, not empty promises Sponsor: Mama Bird Mama Bird Kids Multi+ is brain-focused nutrition for neurodivergent kids. Designed by a neurologist and autism mom, these supplements support focus, mood, and learning—without sugar alcohols or artificial dyes. Available in liquid (ages 1+) and gummy (ages 4+). Get 20% off your first order at lovemamabird.com/theautismdad Mightier helps kids learn emotional regulation through fun, biofeedback-powered games. Developed by clinicians at Boston Children’s Hospital and Harvard Medical School, Mightier is a screen-based program that teaches kids to stay calm under pressure—while they play. USe the code "theautismdad20" to save 10% Learn more by visiting https://theautismdad.com/mightier Enjoying the podcast? Please follow or subscribe so you never miss an episode. For more support, visit theautismdad.com, where you’ll find expert interviews, honest parenting stories, and trusted resources to help your family thrive. Guest Bio: Dr. Theoharis Theoharides Dr. Theo is a renowned physician-scientist and expert on mast cells, allergies, and neuroinflammation. With decades of research and hundreds of publications, he helps families uncover treatable biological conditions often missed in traditional autism care. Learn more at drtheo.com and algonot.com. Host Bio: Rob Gorski Rob Gorski is the father of three autistic children and the creator of The Autism Dad blog and podcast. He’s been sharing his family’s 25-year autism journey to help other parents feel seen, supported, and empowered. Rob’s work has been featured by CNN, ABC News, BBC, and more.

Could neuroinflammation be driving your child’s symptoms? This episode will change how you think about autism and health. In this two-part series of The Autism Dad Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Theoharis Theoharides, one of the world’s leading experts in neuroimmune medicine and mast cell research. We dig deep into how inflammation in the brain—driven by overactive mast cells—can contribute to the struggles many autistic and neurodivergent kids face, including sensory issues, eczema, gut problems, chronic sinus issues, and even regression. Dr. Theo doesn’t just talk theory—he shares actionable steps and science-backed insights that have the potential to improve quality of life for families like ours. I even share some personal stories about my sons, and how this research explains things we’ve experienced for years. Whether your child is dealing with eczema, unexplained aggression, or GI issues, this episode may offer a new lens on what’s going on under the surface—and what you can do about it. In this episode, we discuss: What mast cells are and how they can impact the brain How neuroinflammation may be linked to autism, ADHD, and chronic conditions The surprising connection between eczema and autism Why symptoms like gut issues and behavior changes are often misunderstood The role of vitamin D, folinic acid, and glutathione in autism support How stress can trigger mast cell activation and impact behavior What testing and natural interventions parents can explore How to think critically about supplements and avoid misleading claims This episode is sponsored by Safe Place Bedding Safe Place Bedding provides medically necessary, insurance-covered safety beds that help neurodivergent children sleep safely and securely—at home or while traveling. They’ve just launched the Safe Place 300, a permanent safety bed option with integrated monitoring. Visit https://safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad to learn more. If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app. You can also visit listen.theautismdad.com for more episodes, resources, and to leave feedback.

Episode Summary: In this powerful and deeply human episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, I sit down with husband-and-wife team Jeremy Dyen and Dr. Mika Gupta, co-founders of Mama Bird, to explore the emotional and transformative journey of parenting a child with Down syndrome. We talk about: Navigating a life-changing diagnosis Finding purpose in unexpected places Supporting your child’s unique needs without losing yourself in the process How their personal journey led to creating brain-focused supplements for kids and families Whether you’re parenting a child with a disability or looking for inspiration from parents who truly get it, this is an episode you don’t want to miss. Topics Covered: Birth and diagnosis stories NICU experiences and emotional aftermath Early intervention and the Family Hope Center How Down syndrome changed their worldview Building Mama Bird from lived experience The importance of brain health and nutrition Parenting tips, mindset shifts, and daily struggles Advice for newly diagnosed families This Week’s Sponsors: Autism 360 The Autism 360 program helps parents become confident leaders in their child’s care by providing expert-led coaching and support. Learn more at ⁠autism360.com Safe Place Bedding Safe Place Bedding provides medical-grade, customizable, and insurance-covered sleep solutions for children with disabilities. Their new permanent bed model, the SPB 300, includes a built-in monitoring system. Learn more at ⁠https://safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad⁠ Mightier Mightier is a biofeedback-based gaming platform that helps kids learn emotional regulation skills through fun, engaging play. It’s clinically tested and loved by families. Learn how it can support your child at ⁠https://theautismdad.com/mightier⁠ (Use the code theautismdad20 and save 10%) Guest Bios: Dr. Mika Gupta is a board-certified neurologist, autism mom, and co-founder of Mama Bird, a company creating brain-first vitamins and supplements for children and families. Her personal journey raising a child with Down syndrome deeply informs her professional mission. Jeremy Dyen is a musician, dad, and co-founder of Mama Bird. With a background in mindfulness and creative arts, Jeremy brings a unique and compassionate perspective to parenting and product development. Connect with Mama Bird: Visit lovemamabird.com to learn more about their brain-focused supplements for kids and families. Follow The Autism Dad: Instagram Facebook Podcast Website Support the show: If you found value in today’s conversation, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast app.

In this powerful conclusion to our three-part Special Needs Financial Planning series, I’m joined once again by Katy Bryan, a Special Needs Financial Planner with Skylight Financial Group. In this episode, we tackle the toughest part of the journey—planning for our child’s future after we’re gone. This isn’t easy to talk about, but having a plan in place can ease a lot of the anxiety many of us carry every day. Katy and I dive into what end-of-life planning looks like for special needs families, including estate planning, guardianship, housing options, and how to prepare siblings or support systems for what’s ahead. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why end-of-life planning is one of the most important steps for special needs families What a Special Needs Trust is and how it helps protect your child’s future The growing importance of ABLE accounts and how they work Understanding guardianship vs. power of attorney Housing challenges and how to prepare your child for independence How to make sure your wishes—and your child’s—are honored when you’re not there Why it’s never too late to start planning, even if you’re behind Meet Katy Bryan: Katy Bryan is a licensed financial professional and special needs financial planner at Skylight Financial Group. With over 14 years of experience, Katy has helped families across the country build financial strategies that support long-term security for children with disabilities. Her empathetic approach makes complex planning more manageable and less overwhelming for parents. Email Katy: kbryan@financialguide.com Learn more: https://www.skylightfinancialgroup.com/ This Week’s Sponsors: Safe Place Bedding Safe Place Bedding provides medical-grade, customizable, and insurance-covered sleep solutions for children with disabilities. Their new permanent bed model, the SPB 300, includes a built-in monitoring system. Learn more at https://safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad Mightier Mightier is a biofeedback-based gaming platform that helps kids learn emotional regulation skills through fun, engaging play. It’s clinically tested and loved by families. Learn how it can support your child at https://theautismdad.com/mightier (Use the code theautismdad20 and save 10%) Connect with Me: Website: https://theautismdad.com Email: rob@theautismdad.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/theautismdad Podcast: https://listen.theautismdad.com If this episode resonated with you, please consider leaving a review, sharing it with someone who needs it, or reaching out to let me know your thoughts. Your feedback keeps this community strong.

Show Notes: Special Needs Financial Planning (Part 2) — The Autism Dad Podcast In this episode of The Autism Dad Podcast, Rob Gorski continues the special needs financial planning series with guest Katy Bryan from Skylight Financial Group. Katy specializes in helping families of children with disabilities plan for the future and shares key steps to prepare for your child’s transition to adulthood. Rob and Katy discuss why everything changes at age 18: managing assets under $2,000, understanding Social Security benefits (SSI/SSDI), and navigating Medicaid. They explore common questions around special needs trusts, guardianship, and power of attorney, and offer tips for finding a financial or estate planner with real disability expertise. Rob shares his own family’s journey—the struggles, learning curves, and how resources like vocational programs made a difference for his kids. Highlights: Social Security (SSI/SSDI) eligibility after 18 Managing assets and income to maintain Medicaid/benefits Special needs trusts, guardianship, and power of attorney The value of working with planners who “get” disability families Building a sustainable budget and future plan for your child How to access local job training and support resources Guest Info: Katy Bryan, Skylight Financial Group Email: kbryan@financialguide.com Thank You to This Week’s Sponsors: Safe Place Bedding Safe Place Bedding creates portable, durable beds for children and adults with special needs. Their new Safe Place Bedding 300 offers advanced monitoring for safer, better sleep. Learn more at safeplacebedding.com. Autism 360 Autism 360 provides families with practical tools and expert guidance for therapy, education, and everyday life—personalized to help your child thrive. Discover more at autism360.com. Connect with Rob: Find more episodes, resources, and ways to connect at theautismdad.com. Have questions or feedback? Reach out through the website! If you found this helpful, please subscribe and leave a review—see you next week for part three! Disclaimer: Catherine Bryan is a registered representative of and offers securities and investment advisory services through MML Investor Services, LLC, member SIPC, OSJ, 1956 Carter Road, Suite 200, Cleveland, Ohio 44113, Phone: (216) 621-5680. California Insurance License #4175736. The information in this podcast is not a recommendation and is not intended as financial, tax, legal, or estate planning advice. You should seek guidance from a qualified financial advisor, accountant, and attorney regarding your personal situation.

While my production computer is down, I’m re-releasing this powerful episode that so many parents found helpful the first time around. If you’re raising a non-speaking or minimally speaking child, or if you're trying to better understand apraxia and communication differences in autism—this conversation is for you. I’m joined again by Samantha Fox, M.A., CCC-SLP—an incredible speech-language pathologist and founder of Beyond Speech Therapy Center. Samantha specializes in working with non-speaking autistic individuals and is a certified Spelling to Communicate (S2C) practitioner. We talk openly about: What apraxia really is—and how it’s often misunderstood Why some autistic kids can understand language but still can’t speak The difference between language delays and motor-based speech challenges Why “presume competence” isn’t just a buzzword—it’s essential My son Emmett’s experience being non-speaking and how it shaped my perspective A powerful message from 17-year-old speller Kaden that will absolutely stay with you This conversation will challenge assumptions and give you a new way to view communication struggles. Whether you're a parent, therapist, or educator—you’ll walk away better informed and hopefully more hopeful. 🎧 Listen now anywhere you get your podcasts or at: https://listen.theautismdad.com This episode is sponsored by: 🛏 Safe Place Bedding Safe Place Bedding creates custom, in-home safety beds for kids with autism and other special needs. Learn more at safeplacebedding.com 🎮 Mightier Mightier helps kids build emotional regulation skills through biofeedback video games developed at Harvard Medical and Boston Children’s Hospital. Try it today at mightier.com

This episode is being re-released for Autism Awareness Month. In this powerful and important conversation, I’m joined by returning guest Dr. Whitney Casares. She’s not only a Stanford-trained pediatrician and public health expert, but she’s also an autism mom raising two differently wired kids. Together, we tackle a topic many of us try to avoid—puberty. This episode is packed with practical advice, validation, and real talk for parents raising autistic and neurodivergent children. We explore how puberty may present differently, how to support our kids through emotional and physical changes, and how to have open, shame-free conversations about boundaries, hygiene, sex, and self-care. Whether your child is verbal, non-speaking, cognitively delayed, or anywhere in between—this episode is for you. Key Topics Covered: Puberty differences in neurodivergent vs. neurotypical kids Hygiene and body safety tips for autistic tweens and teens How to talk about periods, masturbation, and boundaries without shame Why our kids need honesty—not fear or avoidance Handling sensory issues around puberty-related products Parental self-care in the midst of emotionally hard conversations This conversation was originally uncomfortable for me to have—but I’m so glad I did. Your kids will benefit when you feel more empowered to guide them through this stage of life. Guest Info: Dr. Whitney Casares is a pediatrician, author, public health expert, and autism mom. Learn more at www.modernmommydoc.com This episode is sponsored by: Mightier: Mightier is a clinically proven program that helps kids learn emotional regulation through gameplay. Developed by clinicians at Boston Children’s Hospital and Harvard Medical School, Mightier uses biofeedback and video games to help kids build skills to manage big feelings in the moment. It’s great for kids ages 6 to 14 and especially helpful for those with autism, ADHD, anxiety, or sensory challenges. Learn more and try it free for 30 days at ⁠mightier.com/theautismdad⁠. Autism 360 The Autism 360 program helps parents become confident leaders in their child’s care by providing expert-led coaching and support. Learn more at autism360.com Safe Place Bedding Safe Place Bedding provides inflatable and permanent safety beds for kids with special needs. Their products offer peace of mind and better sleep—for the whole family. They even help navigate insurance. Learn more at safeplacebedding.com Connect with me: Instagram: @theautismdad Blog and resources: https://www.theautismdad.com Support the Podcast: https://listen.theautismdad.com

April is Autism Awareness Month, and this episode with Dr. Tay is one of the most important conversations I’ve had. We dive into how autism shows up differently in girls—and why so many are missed or misdiagnosed. If you’re a parent, educator, or just want to better understand the nuances of autism, this one’s a must-listen. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Taylor Day (aka Dr. Tay), a licensed psychologist who specializes in neuroaffirming care for autistic kids—especially girls. We talk about how autism can look very different in girls compared to boys, why so many girls are misdiagnosed or missed altogether, and what parents can do to make sure their daughters get the support they need. Dr. Tay breaks down the most common signs of autism in girls, how masking can complicate the diagnostic process, and why co-occurring conditions like anxiety often delay a proper diagnosis. This conversation is full of insight and practical advice for parents and caregivers—especially those who feel like something’s going on but can’t quite get answers. What we talk about: Why autism is harder to spot in girls Masking, camouflaging, and missed diagnoses What to look for if you suspect your daughter might be autistic The role of anxiety and other co-occurring conditions How to advocate for your child when doctors don’t listen Getting evaluations and choosing the right provider About Dr. Tay: Dr. Taylor Day is a licensed psychologist and the founder of Dr. Tay Concierge Clinical Care. She specializes in early diagnosis and support for autistic kids, with a focus on neuroaffirming care for girls who often present differently. She’s also the host of the Evolve with Dr. Tay podcast and creates free educational content for parents on social media. Website: drtaylorday.com Instagram: @the.dr.tay Podcast: Evolve with Dr. Tay (available on all major platforms) About Me: I’m Rob Gorski, host of The Autism Dad Podcast. I’m a single dad to three amazing autistic kids and I’ve been sharing our journey for over 15 years to help support families like mine. Through my podcast, blog, and social media, I aim to educate, empower, and connect with parents raising neurodivergent kids. Website: theautismdad.com This episode is sponsored by Mightier. Mightier is a clinically proven program that helps kids learn emotional regulation through gameplay. Developed by clinicians at Boston Children’s Hospital and Harvard Medical School, Mightier uses biofeedback and video games to help kids build skills to manage big feelings in the moment. It’s great for kids ages 6 to 14 and especially helpful for those with autism, ADHD, anxiety, or sensory challenges. Learn more and try it free for 30 days at mightier.com/theautismdad. This episode is also sponsored by Safe Place Bedding. Safe Place Bedding makes affordable, portable safety beds for kids with special needs. These beds offer a secure, comfortable sleep space and are a game changer for families dealing with sleep issues or elopement concerns. Safe Place also helps parents navigate insurance so you may not have to pay out of pocket. Visit safeplacebedding.com to learn more and check your insurance coverage.

Today’s episode is full of joy and Minecraft magic! Rob is joined by a very special guest, Aria. Aria is Kelly's 8 year old daughter with autism. Fresh off seeing the new Minecraft Movie, Aria shares her thoughts, favorite moments, and tips for parents wondering if it’s a good pick for their kids. They also dive deep into the game itself—breaking down game modes, favorite mobs, plushies, add-ons, and the endless creativity that makes Minecraft such a hit for kids and grownups alike. Whether you're a longtime Minecraft fan or just curious what the hype is about, this lighthearted conversation is guaranteed to make you smile. Aria, you're amazing, and we’re all so proud of you! 🎮 Topics Covered: Aria’s honest review of the Minecraft Movie (spoiler-light) Game modes in Minecraft (survival, creative, hardcore, and more) Minecraft add-ons, plushies, and lava chickens Differences between Java and Bedrock editions Why Minecraft is great for all ages This week’s episode is sponsored by: 🛏 Safe Place Bedding If your child struggles with sleep due to sensory needs or safety concerns, Safe Place Bedding can help. Their customizable, medically necessary bed enclosures offer peace of mind—and they even help families navigate insurance. Learn more about their brand-new permanent model, the Safe Place 300, which now includes monitoring features. 👉 Visit safeplacebedding.com for more info. 🧠 Autism 360 Autism 360 is an all-in-one, parent-driven program built to help families raising autistic kids get expert support in key areas like behavior, communication, sensory needs, and more. It’s flexible, affordable, and guided by professionals who get it—because many of them are parents too. 👉 Learn more at autism360.com — Connect with Rob: 🌐 TheAutismDad.com 📸 https://instagram.com/theautismdad If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to leave a rating, share with a friend, and let Aria know she did a great job!

In this special Autism Acceptance Month episode, I’m re-sharing an important and personal conversation with my oldest son, Gavin. Gavin is 25 years old, autistic, and immunocompromised. In this episode, we talk about his journey toward independent living and why he’s choosing to move into a group home. Gavin shares his thoughts, hopes, fears, and goals—including launching his own YouTube channel and building a sustainable future for himself. We discuss: What Gavin is looking for in a group home Health and hygiene concerns due to his compromised immune system The emotional challenges of touring potential homes Gavin’s budgeting process and side-hustle plans His passion for gaming and creating a relaxed, inclusive online space This is a real, unfiltered conversation about growing up, letting go, and navigating life with autism. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or self-advocate, I hope this episode helps you feel seen and less alone. 🎧 Listen now and share with someone who needs to hear this. Want to support the podcast or be a guest? Visit theautismdad.com for more info, contact links, or to explore sponsorship opportunities. This episode is sponsored by: 🛏️ Safe Place Bedding If your child struggles with sleep, safety, or elopement, Safe Place Bedding offers custom in-home safety beds that can truly make a difference. Their beds are portable, insurable, and now include new monitoring options for added peace of mind. Visit safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad to learn more and explore their newest model—the Safe Place 300. 🧦 Parker & Talia Parker & Talia creates tag-free, sensory-friendly essentials that help kids feel comfortable and confident. Founded by a fellow autism mom, their clothes are soft, inclusive, and made with love. Get 10% off your order with code THEAUTISMDAD at parkerandtalia.com.

Welcome to Part 1 of a powerful three-part series focused on special needs financial planning. In this episode, I’m joined by the amazing Katy Bryan, a Chartered Special Needs Consultant from Skylight Financial Group. Katy brings over 14 years of experience helping more than 250 families plan for their future. We’re breaking things down into real, understandable steps—starting with the basics. This episode focuses on the early stages of the journey—from diagnosis (or even before) to preparing for the unexpected. We talk about what parents should start thinking about when they first realize their child may need lifelong support, and how to start planning financially without being overwhelmed. What We Cover: Why financial planning matters early in the special needs journey Common challenges families face right after diagnosis How and when to reach out to your county Board of Developmental Disabilities (DD) Understanding Medicaid, Social Security, and how income affects eligibility What a waiver is and why you want to get on the list ASAP Navigating stigma, burnout, and the lack of direction many parents feel The emotional toll of those early years—and why it’s okay if you’re not thinking long-term yet When to start thinking about special needs trusts, STABLE accounts, and other tools Katy helps parents shift from survival mode to building a solid financial foundation for the future—one step at a time. Whether your child just received a diagnosis or you're several years into the journey, this episode is full of validation, guidance, and real-world advice. Guest Info: Katy Bryan Chartered Special Needs Consultant, Skylight Financial Group 📧 Email: KBryan@financialguide.com 🌐 Licensed to work nationwide This Week’s Sponsors Safe Place Bedding Give your child the gift of better sleep with Safe Place Bedding’s travel-friendly, sensory-friendly sleep solutions. Visit: https://safeplacebedding.com/theautismdad Autism 360: Autism 360 is a neuro-affirming app for parents of autistic children, offering 24/7 expert guidance, personalized plans, and practical support for daily challenges. Trusted by thousands, it provides affordable, real-time help. Use the code “theautismdad” to save 10% https://smartlink2.metricool.com/public/smartlink/autism-360-robtheautismdad Mightier Mightier helps kids self-regulate emotionally through biofeedback-based video games. Learn more & save 10% with code 'theautismdad22': https://www.mightier.com If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Your support helps bring more resources to families like yours. Thanks for being here, and I’ll talk to you next week! Disclaimer: Kathryn Bryan is a registered representative of and offers securities and investment advisory services through MML Investors Services, LLC. Member SIPC. OSJ: 1956 Carter Road, Suite 200, Cleveland, OH 44113 • (216) 621-5680 CA Insurance License number: 4175736 The information in this podcast is not a recommendation and is not intended as financial, tax, legal or estate planning advice. You should seek guidance from a qualified financial advisor, accountant, and attorney regarding your personal situation. CRN202803-8296799

This week’s episode is deeply personal and incredibly important. I’m rereleasing this conversation from a previous season because the message still resonates just as strongly—and it’s something every parent, educator, and professional working with non-speaking kids should hear. What started as a simple audio test with my son Emmett turned into one of the most powerful and emotional conversations we’ve ever had. We were just testing out some new podcasting gear, but Emmett opened up in a way I hadn’t expected. He shared vivid memories of what life was like before he could speak—how it felt, what he understood, and how frustrating and lonely it was to be trapped in his own thoughts with no way to communicate. We talk about: • Emmett’s memories of being non-speaking as a toddler • The emotional toll of not being understood • How he experienced the world, despite being assumed “incompetent” by some • What it felt like when he finally broke through and began to speak • The importance of presuming competence in non-speaking individuals • Simple things we did to support communication and why they mattered • Emmett’s advice to parents trying to connect with their non-speaking kids This conversation is a reminder that language doesn’t equal intelligence. Just because a child can’t speak doesn’t mean they aren’t listening, feeling, thinking, or understanding. I’m so proud of Emmett for opening up about this. His voice is one that needs to be heard, and I’m excited to continue this father-son dialogue in future episodes. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Follow me online: • Podcast Website: listen.theautismdad.com • Blog: theautismdad.com • Instagram: @theautismdad • Facebook: facebook.com/theautismdad

Episode Overview In this solo episode, I dive into a topic that’s been weighing on my heart—validation in the autism community. There’s a growing divide between those who see autism as a superpower and those who experience it as a significant disability. Both perspectives are valid, but we need to recognize that no single experience defines autism. Key takeaways: Autism exists on a vast spectrum, and no two experiences are alike. Some individuals thrive and see autism as a strength, while others face profound challenges. We must validate and respect all perspectives without dismissing or diminishing anyone’s experience. Parents and autistic individuals alike should be able to share their personal journeys without fear of judgment. Unity within the autism community is crucial to advocating for better understanding and support. Why This Matters Many parents and autistic individuals feel unseen when their experiences are dismissed. Whether autism is empowering or disabling, every perspective matters. By supporting each other and allowing diverse narratives to coexist, we can create a more inclusive and understanding world. Resources and Links Connect with me: TheAutismDad.com Join my private parenting support group: theautismdad.com/support Listen Now: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Podcast Website Want to Sponsor or Be a Guest? Contact me at theautismdad.com/contact. Let’s continue this conversation. What’s your experience with validation in the autism community? Drop your thoughts in the comments or tag me on social media. New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe and leave a review if this episode resonated with you. Follow on social media: Instagram | Facebook Thanks for tuning in. See you next week. This Week’s Sponsor: Safe Place Bedding If you’re looking for a safe, comfortable, and travel-friendly sleeping solution for your autistic child, check out Safe Place Bedding. Their durable, inflatable safety beds help create a secure sleep environment at home or on the go. Designed by special needs parents, these beds offer peace of mind and better rest for the whole family. Learn more and shop now at SafePlaceBedding.com.