DOTTIE's House by Arvia Few

In this heartwarming episode of DOTTIE’s House, Arvia sits down with newlyweds Sydney and Phil Edwards, a couple whose love story began on the campuses of Spelman College and Morehouse College. From freshman year to forever, their journey is a testament to patience, growth, and choosing each other through every season of life. Both Los Angeles natives, Sydney and Phil started dating as college freshmen and have been together ever since, navigating long-distance seasons, personal growth, and the challenges that come with maturing alongside your partner. Now, at just 27, they’re newly married and more in love than ever. One of the most powerful parts of their story centers on communication. Phil opens up about his journey to therapy, learning how to express his emotions instead of holding them in, and how that shift transformed their relationship. Sydney shares how important it was for her to wait until he was ready, emotionally and communicatively, before taking the next step toward marriage. Together, they unpack what it means to grow with someone, not for someone. This conversation is an honest reminder that love isn’t just about chemistry, it’s about emotional maturity, communication, and the willingness to evolve. Memorable quote: “I had to learn that being vulnerable doesn’t make me weak, it makes me available. Once I started communicating, our relationship flourished.” — Phil Edwards

From Different Worlds to One Love: Samantha & Durelle Bailey Samantha and Durelle Bailey’s love story began in an unexpected place, Instagram DMs long before it was the norm. She was raised in Nova Scotia in a loving, two-parent home; he grew up in Florida facing instability and hardship. But Samantha saw Durelle’s potential, not his past and that changed everything. From her family flying him in for Christmas to building a thriving life together, their journey is a powerful reminder that love and belief can rewrite any story. Now married eight years, the Baileys are successful influencers, proud homeowners, and living proof of what it means to grow together with intention. 🎧 Tune in to hear how they built a partnership grounded in empathy, faith, and possibility.

In this deeply personal solo episode, Arvia opens up about the moments that shaped her marriage, her resilience, and her gratitude for partnership. Just one year into marriage and pregnant with her daughter, Bradlee, Arvia’s father came to live with her and Jason after being diagnosed with lung cancer and given only six months to live. He went on to live for sixteen months, a season that was both challenging and profoundly transformative. Years later, Arvia faced her own diagnosis: breast cancer at 40. She shares the journey of undergoing a double mastectomy, the strength it demanded, and the unwavering support she received from Jason every step of the way. This episode is a reminder that life will test us in ways we can’t predict, but having a partner who stands by your side through it all is a true blessing. Arvia’s story is a powerful testament to love, endurance, and the beauty of choosing someone who chooses you back when life gets hard.

In this deeply moving conversation, Gena and Mathew Knowles open up about their 12-year marriage, a relationship built on love, resilience, and intentional growth. Gena and Mathew met in Houston, where their journey began. Over the past 12 years, their marriage has blossomed into a beautiful partnership grounded in mutual respect and commitment. Their marriage has been tested in profound ways. Six months after Gena’s sister passed away from breast cancer at just 48 years old, Mathew was diagnosed with male breast cancer and underwent a mastectomy. The experience forced him to confront his own mortality and the emotions he had long avoided. When the COVID-19 pandemic hit, Mathew’s fear of getting sick resurfaced and added strain to their marriage. He shared how this period led him back to his male therapist, helping him process grief and fear in a healthy way. Gena and Mathew both emphasize the importance of mental health, sharing that they each had therapy and even went through marriage counseling before they got married — a decision they credit with laying a strong foundation for their relationship. Today, Gena and Mathew split their time between California and Houston, prioritizing quality time together and intentionally nurturing their marriage. They discuss what keeps their love alive and how they create space for each other’s personal growth while staying deeply connected. Despite Mathew’s public connection as the father of Beyoncé and Solange, Gena is clear that their marriage stands on its own. She shares that Beyoncé and Solange have always been lovely to her, but their lives are focused on building their own path as a couple, one that is rooted in love, not celebrity. Why You Should Listen This episode is a raw and inspiring look at love, resilience, and emotional growth. Gena and Mathew’s story is a reminder that challenges, from grief to health scares, can become opportunities for deeper intimacy and stronger connection when faced with honesty, faith, and commitment.

In this inspiring and transparent episode of DOTTIE’s House Podcast, I sit down with Stephanie and Floyd Rance, the powerhouse couple behind the iconic Run&Shoot Filmworks Martha’s Vineyard African American Film Festival (MVAAFF). Married for 28 years, Stephanie and Floyd open up about the highs and lows of growing a business together, raising two children (a Morehouse Man and a current Howard University student), and turning a side hustle into a cultural institution that now attracts thousands of visitors, and boosts Vineyard tourism by nearly 40% every summer. This isn’t just a story about a festival; it’s about partnership, perseverance, and what it really takes to thrive in marriage while building something that matters. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: • The Origin Story: How MVAAFF started as a small side project and the moment they knew it was going to be big. • The Celebrity Factor: Spike Lee, Michael B. Jordan, Tracee Ellis Ross, Mara Brock Akil, and so many more who have graced their stage. • Entrepreneurship & Marriage: The good, bad, and ugly of running a business with your spouse and the practices that have kept them together for nearly three decades. • Tourism Game-Changer: How their festival transformed Martha’s Vineyard into a destination for film lovers and boosted the local economy.

What happens when you give love a second chance, leave behind the traditional lifestyle, and choose to live life fully on the road? In this episode, Arvia sits down, quite literally at her kitchen island, with Lisa and Marty Middleton for one of the most raw, open, and authentic conversations of the season. Lisa and Marty are both on their second marriage and have been married for four years. Their story began decades ago at Howard University, when Marty was a freshman and Lisa a senior. They dated briefly, went their separate ways, married and divorced other people, and later reconnected during COVID. With the world on pause, Marty reached out and what began as reconnection turned into courtship, marriage, and a whole new adventure. They’ve traded in the traditional house for a home on wheels. Living full-time in their RV, they travel the country 365 days a year, visiting friends, fishing, exploring, and soaking in every moment. Though they own land in Georgia (where they built a small shed “home base” with two big chairs, a TV, and a table but no running water), their true home is wherever the road takes them. Marty even left his career behind to join Lisa on this journey, proving that love and partnership often mean choosing each other over convention. This 25-minute, unplanned conversation, recorded around Arvia’s phone in her kitchen while the couple stopped overnight on their way to Martha’s Vineyard, captures the beauty of second chances, the courage to live differently, and the power of authentic connection. 🌟 What You’ll Hear in This Episode: • The story of how Lisa and Marty met at Howard and reconnected decades later. • Why they chose to live full-time in an RV and how they make it work. • The sacrifices and joys of leaving a career to choose love. • What their “home base” in Georgia looks like—and why they rarely use it. • The lessons they’ve learned about partnership, freedom, and living life on their own terms. This is a reminder that love doesn’t have to follow a script. It can show up later in life, take you across the country, and invite you to write a whole new story.

In this episode of DOTTIE’s House, we sit down with Jennifer and Sekou Kaalund, who met in high school, started dating in college, and have built nearly 25 years of marriage rooted in communication and friendship. Jennifer, a Ph.D. and professor of religious studies, was the primary breadwinner early on, while Sekou began a career that would take him from J.P. Morgan , where he founded Black Pathways , to his current role as an executive at U.S. Bank. A pivotal turning point came in graduate school, when they both won a national competition and gained access to the Executive Leadership Council (ELC). The exposure to mentors and executives shaped not only their careers but also their vision for family and legacy. As Sekou says, “It’s hard to be what you cannot see,” and those examples expanded his sense of what was possible. With three children , a son at Morehouse College and two daughters one in high school and one middle school, the Kaalund’s share how family retreats, intentional communication (they’ve never gone a single day without talking since they began dating), and the guidance of mentors have grounded their marriage and elevated their impact. Their story is a testament to how love, mentorship, and intentionality can shape not only a marriage, but a legacy for generations.

In this inspiring episode, Arvia welcomes Danielle and Ryan Williams, a true power couple making waves in both business and life. Married nearly five years, Danielle and Ryan share a unique journey that began as summer interns in New York City, blossomed through their time at Yale and Harvard, and flourished professionally as they both landed spots on the prestigious Forbes 30 Under 30 list, simultaneously while dating! Danielle, a Yale graduate, serves as a Director at Annaly Capital, excelling in the demanding world of finance. Ryan, a Harvard alumnus, has already left a remarkable entrepreneurial legacy. He founded Cadre, a highly successful real estate investment firm, which he has since sold, and is now passionately building his next entrepreneurial venture, already backed by first-round funding. Together, they’re navigating life as parents to two young children, ages one and three, while balancing thriving careers. Tune in as Danielle and Ryan reveal how they manage marriage, parenthood, and professional success, sharing invaluable insights into building a meaningful legacy, nurturing partnership, and supporting each other’s dreams. Highlights: • How Danielle and Ryan’s internship romance evolved into a powerhouse partnership. • Making history together on Forbes 30 Under 30. • Balancing family life with demanding careers in finance and entrepreneurship. • Ryan’s journey from founding Cadre to launching his next venture. • Danielle’s perspective on achieving professional excellence while nurturing a family. Don’t miss this captivating conversation filled with lessons on love, ambition, and creating an impactful life together!

In this episode of DOTTIE’s House, Rev. Dr. Otis Moss III and First Lady Monica Moss open up about their marriage journey, sharing the lessons, the love, and the challenges that come with building a life together. They’ve been married for nearly 31 years, after meeting their freshman year at Morehouse and Spelman. Over the years, they’ve navigated the ups and downs of life as partners, parents, and pillars of their community. They’ve raised two children, built a life in Chicago, and have had a profound impact on both culture and the Black church as a couple. In this conversation, they reflect on what it really takes to sustain a marriage, not just the beautiful moments, but the grief, the growth, and the work that happens behind the scenes. I’m grateful they chose to share this part of their journey with me—and with all of you. We would love to hear your thoughts so please share Listen now on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, Amazon, or wherever you get your podcasts. And please follow us on instagram @arviafew @thedottieclub and @thedottieshousepodcast

In this episode, we're delighted to introduce a remarkable couple, Jara and Trey Poindexter, whose journey together is as inspiring as it is enlightening. Married for nearly four years, Jara and Trey have cultivated a relationship that many admire, building a beautiful life in Houston, Texas, with their adorable son, Kade, who is soon to celebrate his first birthday in April. Jara, 34, is a skilled Ophthalmologist, dedicated to improving the vision and lives of her patients. Her passion for eye care is matched by her commitment to her family, making her an extraordinary example of balancing a demanding career with family life. Trey, 33, is the epitome of an entrepreneur. With a diverse portfolio that spans development, real estate, and social influence, Trey wears many hats with ease. As a member of the DOTTIE team, he serves as the chief connector, showcasing his exceptional ability to bring people together for a common purpose. His entrepreneurial spirit is not just about building businesses but also about fostering community and making a meaningful impact. Meeting in their teens at a Jack and Jill Teen Conference and reconnecting in their mid 20s, Jara and Trey's love story began with shared dreams and ambitions. Through their journey, they have learned invaluable lessons about love, partnership, and perseverance. Their wisdom is not just a testament to their personal growth but also serves as motivation and inspiration for others navigating their own paths in love and life. Join us as we dive deep into the lives of Jara and Trey Poindexter, exploring the intricacies of their relationship, their professional achievements, and the joys and challenges of parenthood. It's a conversation filled with heartfelt stories, practical advice, and the kind of wisdom that only comes from real-life experience. Thank you so much for listening. Please share with your family and friends and follow DOTTIE on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thedottieclub Learn more about how you can get involved and find love at http://thedottieclub.com

Welcome to "DOTTIE's House," where we introduce you to the inspiring journey of Ayanna and Kevin Clunis, a couple who have mastered the art of balancing a successful marriage with demanding careers. Married for 23 years, Ayanna and Kevin are not just life partners; they are influential figures in the corporate world. Kevin serves as the Senior Vice President at Ross Stores Inc., and Ayanna is a partner at TPG. Their journey is unique, having intermittently navigated a long distance marriage. Presently, Ayanna is in Dallas while Kevin is in New York City. This arrangement has added a dynamic layer to their relationship, showcasing their adaptability and commitment as their roles and companies have evolved over the years. The Clunises stand as a shining example of true partnership, a bond that they acknowledge began even before their marriage. As Kevin eloquently puts it, "Our partnership started way before we got married." In this episode of "DOTTIE's House," Ayanna and Kevin open up about their journey, demonstrating that it is indeed possible to have it all. Central to their enduring marriage is their emphasis on strong communication and prioritizing each other, regardless of the physical distance or the pressures of their high-powered jobs. Join us as Ayanna and Kevin Clunis share their insights on maintaining a successful marriage, thriving in high-profile careers, and nurturing a family, all while staying deeply connected. Their story is a guiding light for anyone looking to balance professional success with a fulfilling personal life. Tune in and be inspired by the remarkable story of Ayanna and Kevin Clunis on "DOTTIE's House." Follow The Dottie Club on Instagram at http://insagram.com/thedottieclub Learn more about The Dottie Club at http://thedottieclub.com

Meet Robyn and Zak Wallace, a dynamic couple celebrating 15 years of marriage and a journey that seamlessly intertwines the worlds of music, business, and culinary excellence. Robyn, a seasoned Data Scientist with a diverse background in Corporate America, brings her analytical prowess to the table. Her journey alongside Zak, a former artist and songwriter who carved his niche in the music industry, is a testament to the power of love, partnership, and shared dreams. Together, they co-founded Local Green Atlanta, a culinary gem known for its delectable and healthy offerings. Their success didn't stop there; they ventured into the enchanting world of Disney, establishing Local Green Orlando, a groundbreaking achievement as the first Black-owned restaurant within the iconic theme park. Zak takes center stage as the charismatic host of Aspire TV's "City Eats." In the first season, the couple embarked on a culinary odyssey, visiting 26 restaurants, with six of them earning the prestigious Michelin stars. Beyond the accolades and achievements, the Wallaces share the secrets to their enduring connection, their openness to new opportunities enriching not only their personal lives but also propelling them to remarkable success in the culinary and entertainment realms. Join us on this extraordinary ride as we unravel the love story behind the success of Robin and Zak Wallace—a tale of love, dreams, and the pursuit of culinary excellence. Follow Dottie's House on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/dottieshousepodcast/ Follow the Dottie Club on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/thedottieclub/ To learn more about events and matchmaking with the Dottie Club, visit https://thedottieclub.com/

In this captivating episode of DOTTIE’s House, we uncover the enchanting love story of Tonya and Steve Pemberton — a narrative that proves true love can withstand the test of time and circumstance. Picture this: a summer on Martha's Vineyard, where Tonya and Steve's paths first crossed. Love sparked instantly, but destiny had other plans. Tonya was engaged to be married, and the timing wasn't right. However, fate had more in store for them. A year later, they found each other again on the vineyard, but this time, Steve was unavailable. The twists and turns of their early encounters set the stage for a love story that would unfold over the next 26 years. Join us as we dive into the details of this juicy, rollercoaster romance — the missed chances, the perfect timing, and the undeniable connection that ultimately brought them together. Against all odds, the Pembertons celebrate over two decades of marriage, a testament to the power of following one's heart. Discover the secrets to their enduring love as Tonya and Steve share their insights on building a life founded on trust, commitment, and respect. From overcoming challenges to cherishing the joys of family life, their journey is a roadmap for anyone seeking inspiration in matters of the heart. Meet the dynamic duo: Steve, an accomplished HR executive and bestselling author of "A Chance in the World" and "The Lighthouse Effect," and Tonya, a seasoned professional with a master's degree, a background in education, pharmaceutical sales, and currently thriving as a bar instructor. In this episode for DOTTIE's House, we also shed light on Steve's unique background, growing up in the foster care system. His resilience and determination to build a loving family of his own add another layer to this inspiring tale. Love conquers all — a story of passion, resilience, and the sweet reward of living life to the fullest. Pick up Steve's book, "The Lighthouse Effect: How Ordinary People Can Have an Extraordinary Impact in the World" here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310362326 Follow the podcast on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/dottieshousepodcast/ Follow DOTTIE on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thedottieclub Sign up for updates about in-person events, matchmaking and more at http://thedottieclub.com

Sherene and Derek Lewis, a couple whose love has stood the test of time for over 30 years, invite you to join them on a heartfelt journey through the ups and downs of their extraordinary life together. Their love story began at Hampton University, where destiny brought them together. Derek, a retired and successful Pepsi executive, shares candidly about the challenges they faced while dating and how they navigated the complexities of their early relationship. But their story is not just about love—it's about a partnership that endured countless moves and changes. Sherene's transition to becoming a stay-at-home mom was a pivotal moment, and they openly discuss the adjustments they both made to accommodate this change. Derek, with a successful corporate career, sheds light on the profound importance of having Sherene by his side as he climbed the corporate ladder. Together, they raised three wonderful children while also facing unexpected health challenges that tested their strength and resilience. Join Sherene and Derek Lewis as they share their remarkable journey, filled with love, career accomplishments, and unwavering support, proving that a lasting marriage is built on trust, partnership, and enduring love. Follow Arvia on instagram at https://instagram.com/arviafew Follow The Dottie Club on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thedottieclub Learn more about The Dottie Club at http://thedottieclub.com

Today, we’re chatting with a true power couple: Danielle Cadet and Jonathan Wiggins. Danielle is the Executive VP and Head of Content at Essence and Jonathan is the VP and Legal Counsel at Blackrock. Danielle and Jonathan, married for four years, have already traversed a remarkable journey together. Their shared path has led them to acquire two homes, nurture a vibrant two-year-old daughter, navigate the heartache of losing a parent, and execute a significant relocation. The depth of their resilience is truly inspiring. Their narrative resonates not just with the ease of their initial connection, but also with the profound challenges they've confronted. Their story underscores the significance of choosing a compatible partner, as life's unpredictable twists and turns underscore the importance of such decisions. Follow The Dottie Club on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thedottieclub To register for our database and learn about upcoming events, go to http://www.thedottieclub.com

"We would not be where we are today without one another.” Today, we are talking with Deputy Commissioner and Chief Operating Officer of the NBA Mark Tatum and his wife, Founder and CEO of Landit, Lisa Skeete Tatum, a true power couple. Lisa and Mark show what is possible when you approach dating from an authentic, open and intentional mindset. They make it clear they would not be where they are today if it were not for each other. Mark and Lisa share the story of how they met and how they created not only amazing careers but a strong family built on strong values, trust, unconditional love and respect. Follow DOTTIE on Instagram at http://instagram.com/thedottieclub To become a member of DOTTIE, apply at http://thedottieclub.com

Welcome to DOTTIE’s House! DOTTIE’s founder and certified matchmaker – Arvia Few has been building a community of Black, talented, young, ambitious individuals with an appreciation for cultural connection both socially and romantically. Her mission is to accelerate meaningful relationships with the ultimate goal of creating more Black families, marriages, and opportunities for wealth creation. The pandemic, online dating apps rooted in bias, and evolving cultural norms have only amplified the challenges, but we are committed to reversing the trend. With host Arvia Few, you will hear real, juicy, and vulnerable conversations around love, dating, and marriage in our community. It’s going to be a situation! We hope you’ll join us. Follow us on Instagram at https://instagram.com/arviafew?igshid=MzMyNGUyNmU2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr http://instagram.com/thedottieclub Join the movement at https://thedottieclub.com/