Securely Single

If your emotions were a body, what would they look like? Join us as we continue the conversation on trauma, triggers, how they show up in our relationships. Let's discuss how to navigate our triggers and the big emotions that come up when a trigger is present.

These dating streets! So much to navigate especially when trauma is present and shows up in our dating relationships. Join the conversation as we discuss attachment styles how this affects how we show up in relationships. Let's discuss some tools to help navigate the complicated world of trauma in dating relationships and finding tools to support whole and healed relationships.

Welcome back to Securely Single! Father Wounds - what are they, do you have one? Join us as we discuss how they come about, how do they affect our love and dating relationships? Grab a pen and let's talk about instructions every girl needs hear from her father to prepare her for successful relationships. For more information on Father-Daughter Talks visit www.rcblakes.com.

Welcome back to Securely Single! Have you ever been ghosted? If you have you know what it feels like. Have you ever ghosted someone? Stats say 50% of us ghost. Why? Is there a better way to end or move on from a relationship? How do we heal from being ghosted and handle this going forward? Join the conversation!

Hi Securely Single Family! Join us today as we revisit our first episode and listen in as we cast vision for Securely Single!

The Real You - Join the conversation surrounding You, You and God, You and Others. Are you living the REAL you? What does this mean and how do we live securely as the real you? Psalm 139 in the Passion Translation is read over you - do you agree with what God says about you and how intentional He is with you? This is good - Living the REAL YOU is beautiful and freeing especially as we prepare for the Adventure of Marriage! Thanks for joining us!

What is Gratitude and how do we live a life full of thankfulness? How does the lens of gratefulness change out perspective on life? Join the conversation about living a secure life through positioning ourselves with an attitude of gratitude. Leave with some fresh idea of how to choose thankfulness each day.

Welcome 2022! Join Risper & Jeanette as they talk about the word HOPE. What is hope? Who do we hope in? Why do we need hope? When we think of trust and waiting with expectancy do we realize this is hope? Listen in as we talk through active expectancy and remaining positive while being hopeful in the waiting. Lets be secure in hope!

Lets be thankful for 2021 and look forward to 2022! Join Risper and Jeanette as they talk through remembering 2021. Thankfulness along with intentionally assessing ourselves changes our perspective. Happy New Year!

It is the Holiday Season! Spending time with family, friends and enjoying the festivities of the season - Joy, Laughter and Fun. Yet for many of us the holiday season reminds us of the ones missing from our gatherings or the tough times and moments of reality. How do we acknowledge our sadness or aloneness and yet choose the be happy and hopeful this holiday season? Listen in as Risper and Jeanette share about remaining secure during the holiday season!

Today Risper and Jeanette talk through the book, "Making Sense of Men: A Woman's Guide to a Lifetime of Love, Care and Attention from All Men" by Alison Armstrong. What makes men attracted to a certain woman? Learn some insight into the traits of a women that attract men and how to be secure in who you are and what makes you attractive!

Todays episode is a continuation from last week Secure + Prayer Part 1. A great guide to prayer is found in Matthew 6:9-15. Prayer is communication with God and as you listen in feel the invitation to cultivate this time with God. Be intentional whether its a place or space you meet with Him and keep the Word of God by your side along with a journal to right down what He is saying. Prayer is intimacy and powerful as when we pray it not only changes us but aligns for His kingdom here on this...

What does it mean to pray? Why pray? How do we pray? Join Risper & Jeanette as they talk through prayer. Prayer is a conversation that never ends. Have a prayer request? Let us know by connecting at our website: www.securelysingle.com

Hello Securely Single Family! Welcome to this conversation featuring your host Risper. Listen in as Risper challenges us to face our internal fear and beliefs which cause us to have limitations in life. Risper addresses a few of the top 40 fears most of us have and invites us to see where are we at with these fears? How do we move from fear to faith and what are the steps to take to remove these limiting beliefs so we can take risks. Lets live life to the FULLEST and THRIVE! Referenced in...

Listen in as Risper and Jeanette read Psalm 68:5-6. Our God is a Father to the fatherless, defender of widows - He places the lonely in families. He is a God full of goodness. What does our community look like? Do we have deep relationships in our lives? If so how are we secure in community? Make sure to check out our website www.securelysingle.com, we'd love to hear from you!

Join Risper & Jeanette as they candidly talk through dating. Risper leads a series of questions to get us thinking about how intentional we are when we date? What is our purpose and goal in dating? Do you have a list of qualities you desire in your future spouse? Where do we find people or how do we get found by our special one? Let talk through the reality of dating today and challenge ourselves to find security in God with our dating life.

Transitions are apart of life. Have you ever thought about preparing for the transition to marriage as a single person? How do we prepare? How do we finish our single season well while preparing for the married life? Listen in as Lady Risper and Lady Jeanette talk through Marriage Prep. Have ideas on content for conversation? Let us know at our website: www.securelysingle.com

Have you ever pondered the importance of the process to your promise? God's word, the Bible is FULL of promises. There are also many examples in the Bible of the process to the promise which seemed to not go as planned. God has purpose in the process He leads us through and much has to do with our character and our belief in who our God is. Do we also realize its not all about us, He has a greater impact than us. Join Lady Risper and Lady Jeanette as they talk through the process.

Today we continue Secure + Random Conversations :) In this episode we talk through expectations, inquiring of the Lord, commitments, finishing well, knowing our seasons and the faithfulness of our God! We Love You. We remain in prayer over you! Thanks for joining us!

Hello Friends! Today Lady Risper & Lady Jeanette invite you into random conversations. Friends talk about all kinds of things and in this episode you are invited to take part in the conversation. From Yom Kippur and the Hebraic roots of faith to speaking words of life and modeling the love of Jesus you will leave being encouraged and exhorted - We've split our talk into two episodes so make sure to tune in next week for the continuation!