The Break Up Break Down

Your sugar daddy of 3ish months goes MIA right before your big vacation...when all of a sudden you get a ransom note from his # asking for 500k. Obviously a scam right?! This week's guest got way more than she bargained for when he finally came back into her life....and revealed the months long investigation he as a part of. What went down?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Green House 17 in Lexington, KY: www.greenhouse17.org - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:45): How they met - (18:24): When the went MIA - (27:24): When he came back - (32:00): Where did he go for all those months? - (49:33): Looking back on her sugaring experiences - (54:46): Advice/reflection - (58:00): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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When you and your new boyfriend have to shack up with your ex, things are bound to get uncomfortable. This week's guest says her shared lease with her ex turned into a shared nightmare with her new boyfriend after her break up. How did they get here?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Safe Harbor in Richmond, VA: https://safeharborshelter.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:32): How they met - (12:16): Her last straw - (16:40): The break up - (20:52): When he wouldn't move out - (24:51): Reflecting/Advice - (27:40): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Sometimes you have to be your own PI when you think your partner is cheating on you. When a gut feeling leads her to pay up to Tinder to see if her mans was out there looking for a side-piece, she was surprised how quickly she was able to find his profile. How did these two college sweethearts get to this place?? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Alternative House in Lowell, GA: https://www.alternative-house.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (05:22): How they met - (09:58): The demise of the relationship - (14:04): What led to the Tinder profile creation - (19:19): Why she stayed - (21:32): The social media posts - (22:16): Reflecting/advice - (25:35): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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No this isn't a swingers love story- but it'd be way more fun (and less heartbreaking) if it was. A group of friends walk into a cabin...and leave with different lovers. What went on in the cabin in the woods that split these couples up? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for New Beginnings in Seattle: www.NewBegin.org - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:40): How they met - (09:00): The cabin weekend - (13:00): Learning what went down when she was asleep - (17:19): The break up - (21:10): Moving on from the relationship - (24:04): Advice - (26:39): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Her ex-wife wasn't paying rent and she wants to know where the money is going! This week's guest gets an an answer that sent her into a panic and making her want to run, run, RUN out of this relationship...and into the arms of her high school sweetheart. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Family Rescue in Chicago: https://familyrescueinc.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:17): How they met - (11:32): When her wife started being shady with finances - (16:30): Her final straw with the wife - (22:51): Their new relationships - (27:57): What she learned/advice - (33:33): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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[SCROLL FOR CW] - When an episode starts with a bloody knife found in the kitchen, you don't think it's going to lead to a break up where both people still care for each other. After a series of harrowing incidents that lead to one of them serving time in jail, how can this week's interviewee still have so much love for her ex? We'll dive into the story when we break down this week's break up. Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Mosaic Family Services in Dallas: https://mosaicservices.org/ways-to-give/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (08:15): How they met - (11:27): What started the demise of the relationship - (18:54): Events where she felt threatened by her BF before the accident - (25:30): Choosing psychology as a career to understand him better - (42:02): Their secret engagement - (43:46): Advice - (48:26): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicidal ideation, self-harm] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS] - When she logged on to her husbands email, she thought me might find something suspicious. What she didn't expect to see were explicit videos from her best friend of 22 years. So why did she still marry him after the evidence was found? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for La Casa De Las Madres in SF: https://www.lacasa.org/donate - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:52): How they met - (16:00): The explicit videos - (22:15): When more infidelity was revealed - (33:13): When she finally left - (33:39): Reflecting/what she learned - (48:54): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicide, suicidal ideation] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Getting cheated on is unbelievably painful and can leave you with deep emotional wounds. Katherine Ripley, LMSW, joins the podcast to comment on this week's main episode's relational topics and gives her professional insight. Katherine explains how to recognize how that trauma will show up in your life and how to tackle it on your own or with a mental health professional!— - Follow Katherine: https://linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist?fbclid=PAAab8jFX7mqwuDALKVAObUzGn2od9bH-H3R-KrwrS1xL29b3O4nGcp27s98E - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we're bringing awareness to Crisis Center North in Pittsburgh: https://www.crisiscenternorth.org/ - This episode originally aired on March 14th, 2023 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:00): How they met - (07:43: How her best friend became her doula - (10:50): When the affair began - (14:08): When she caught them - (18:49): Why she decided to stay with him at first - (21:08): When she was finally done with her marriage - (23:43): How she "broke up" with her best friend - (28:12): Things that helped her through her divorce - (31:51): How her past relationships shaped her future ones - (33:45): How purity culture impacted her marriage - (36:48): Advice she'd give to people wanting to leave their marriage - (38:47): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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You never think things can get worse AFTER the break up, but when you receive a strange message from a man who says your ex is doing some shady stuff on Reddit with your pics....it's safe to say things are about to go down when we break down this week's break up. - Live Podcast Tickets!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Wichita Family Crisis Center: https://wichitafamilycrisiscenter.app.neoncrm.com/np/clients/wichitafamilycrisiscenter/donation.jsp - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:28): How they met - (08:57): When the red flags started to show - (12:58): When things started to deteriorate - (16:01): The shady reddit activity - (24:48): Recovering from the relationship/reflecting - (31:23): Advice - (30:17): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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If you've ever wanted to slide into the DMs of the hot guy in THAT band...this episode is for you. Turns out hooking up with the mysterious musician isn't all it's cracked up to be, but there's a lot you can learn from this week's guest's experience. - Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator - This week we're raising awareness for Partnership Against Domestic Violence in ATL: https://padv.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:24): How they met - (11:12): When they started investigating... - (15:22): When she started to see his true colors - (21:51): Reflecting on the situationship - (24:05): What she learned/advice - (24:45): Teaser Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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