User Guide to Humans

In this pivotal episode of "We Don't Have a Clue About Love," Mim Kempson and Katie Eden Todd dive into the essence of the Neutral relating style. Neutral, often misunderstood and overlooked, is a distinct energy that balances between the assertive Masculine and the receptive Feminine. Katie explains how Neutral traits shape our interactions, decision-making processes, and our approach to conflict and stress. She unveils the strengths and challenges of being Neutral, highlighting how this style influences both personal growth and relationship dynamics. Join us as we explore: The defining characteristics of the Neutral style. How Neutrals navigate life's challenges and relationships. The common misunderstandings about Neutral energy. Practical insights for Neutrals to harness their strengths and mitigate their challenges. Whether you identify as Neutral or interact with someone who does, this episode offers valuable insights to help you understand and appreciate this unique relational energy. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how Neutrals contribute to balance and rationality in a world dominated by action and emotion. Watch now to discover more about the Neutral style and how it might be influencing your life and relationships!

In today’s episode, Mim Kempson and Katie Eden Todd explore the often misunderstood and misrepresented Feminine energy. Dissecting societal stereotypes that traditionally align Feminine energy exclusively with women, this discussion challenges these norms by demonstrating that Feminine traits can manifest in anyone, regardless of gender. Katie delves into the characteristics and dynamics of Feminine energy, highlighting its inherent kindness, warmth, and nurturing capabilities, which are often overshadowed by societal expectations. She explains how Feminine individuals can be misunderstood in relationships and discusses the shadow side of Feminine energy, including passivity, avoidance of conflict, and a tendency towards co-dependency. The conversation aims to empower listeners to recognize and embrace their own Feminine qualities constructively and authentically, encouraging a balanced integration with other energy types for personal and relational growth. Join us as we dismantle stereotypes and uncover the profound depth of Feminine energy. Remember to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated with our series as we continue to unravel the complexities of love and relationships.

Welcome to "We Don't Have a Clue About Love." In this episode, Mim Kempson and Katie Eden Todd explore the dynamics of the Masculine energy in relationships and personal growth. Join us as we delve into the traits that define Masculine energy — its decisiveness, passion, and intensity — irrespective of gender. Katie, an expert in archetypal therapy with over 35 years of experience, discusses the challenges and strengths of those who embody this energy, providing insights into how it shapes interactions and perceptions. In This Episode: Discover what makes the Masculine tick: from their need for quick decisions to their expansive vision of life. Understand the dual nature of Masculine energy, including its light and shadow sides, and how these aspects influence personal and professional relationships. Learn how to effectively communicate with, and understand, individuals who primarily operate from Masculine energy to foster deeper connections and mutual respect. Whether you identify with Masculine energy or interact with those who do, this episode offers valuable perspectives on navigating the complexities of these powerful traits. Subscribe and join us in unraveling the mysteries of love and relationship dynamics. Watch, learn, and transform the way you relate to yourself and others.

Welcome to "We Don't Have a Clue About Love," a series dedicated to unraveling the complexities of how we relate through the lens of Masculine, Feminine, and Neutral (MFN) styles. Join Mim Kempson and Katie Eden Todd as they delve into these relational dynamics that shape our interactions and self-awareness. Katie Eden Todd, an archetypal therapist, author, and speaker with over 35 years of experience, brings her profound knowledge of personality patterns to the forefront. This episode sets the stage for understanding MFN, a transformative model that Katie has refined over decades, simplifying the vast world of archetypes to three core types that resonate deeply with our modern experiences in relationships. As Katie shares her journey from exploring 113 archetypes to distilling them into a trio that encapsulates the essence of all human interaction, listeners will gain insights into how these styles manifest in life and relationships. The discussion explores the origins and applications of MFN in making sense of our actions, preferences, and the ways we give and receive love. Whether you're seeking to improve your relationships, enhance your self-understanding, or simply curious about the dynamics of human interaction, this series promises to offer valuable perspectives and tools. Tune in as we explore the nuances of each style in detail and discover how embracing this knowledge can lead to more fulfilling connections and a deeper understanding of oneself. Remember to subscribe for more insightful episodes as we continue to explore MFN in depth. Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments, and let's grow together in our journey towards love and self-discovery.

Welcome to "Use a Guide to Humans," hosted by Katie Eden Todd and Erika Renstrom. In this engaging session, we explore the essence of love and relationships. Drawing on 30 years of experience, Katie and Erika unravel the hidden dynamics in our relationships and discuss their new course, "The User Guide to Love." They delve into understanding true love, the impact of past experiences, and family dynamics on our current relationships. Using the iceberg analogy, they highlight the unseen forces shaping our love lives. This discussion offers insights into self-awareness, emotional wounds, and "soul contracts," providing a deeper understanding of our love and relating styles. Join us on this enlightening journey to transform your approach to relationships and deepen your connections, starting this Valentine's Day.

In this podcast we discuss Katie's theory of the upside down iceberg. Where things that are supposed to play a 1/9th part in our life now take up 8/9ths - and that this is the very reason we are Soul-Sick.

In this episode, Katie Eden Todd speaks about her 30 year journey from professional musician to therapist to founder of her unique model of Archetypal Self-Therapy. Katie shares her unique journey from playing the trumpet in orchestras to pioneering a new approach in therapy, blending her love for music and psychology. She reflects on the limitations of traditional therapy she encountered in her early career and how psychodrama opened new avenues for her. Katie's passion shines through as she talks about helping clients realize their potential, not just mentally but holistically, exploring the deeper, often unseen parts of the psyche. It's a fascinating conversation about self-discovery, healing, and the transformative intersection of music and therapy.

Shadow work, often misunderstood as a negative or frightening pursuit, is revealed in this enlightening series as a source of immense personal growth and self-acceptance. Each episode peels back the layers of the human experience, presenting shadow work not as an exercise in shame, but as a journey to embrace the rejected, pain-wrapped aspects of ourselves. This podcast is an invitation to shift perspectives on our innermost struggles, recognizing that every shadow conceals a gift waiting to be uncovered.

Dive into today's episode as we journey into the depths of self-discovery, challenging life's twists and turns, and explore the cosmic dance between soul and personality.

In this enlightening episode, we delve deep into the profound connection between soul sickness and mental health. "Soul sickness" describes the deep-seated dissonance many feel when they're misaligned from their authentic selves. Coupled with the alarming rise in mental health issues, especially among the younger generation, understanding this connection has never been more urgent. We'll explore the repercussions of living in a rapidly changing world, the underpinnings of depression and anxiety from a soul perspective, the unique challenges faced by Gen Z, and the transformative power of self-awareness.

In this episode, which is the first we simultaneously post to YouTube, we're talking about where to start when we feel hopelessly stuck, confused, dispirited or Soul Sick. What thread do you start pulling?

Soul Contracts are the lessons contained in every single one of your relationships. How well you learn to tend to your lessons and pain is directly reflected in (particularly) the second half of your life.

Original sin, feminism and societal expectations. This episode has it all. Introducing to you all to Lilith Feminine.

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of self-awareness, emphasising the significance of 'Iceberg Awareness', 1/9 is seen, 8/9 is unseen. We explore how society's expectations, encapsulated in the 'mezzo' (mezzanine) layer, often limit our understanding to just the visible one-ninth, leaving the vast majority of our emotions, patterns, and personal histories unexamined. The invisible eight-ninths, although challenging to uncover, hold the keys to transforming our lives. When we delve into these unseen depths, tracing patterns and getting clarity of our personal histories, we unlock illuminating revelations about ourselves. By 'cracking open' this invisible part of our lives, we create the possibility for profound change.

With a brand new Quiz and website just launched Erika and Katie get together to discuss the themes coming up around Solstice. Truths are wanting to be acknowledged, do you know what Persona is wanting to be heard in your life?

In this episode, added in November 2022, Katie along with Mentor and Primary Elven Swan Leanne delve in to the other side of the Swan Persona.

We are calling these times the Bird Age. Since the death of Queen Victoria II attempts from our MFN to re-take control are stirring up a lot for people! Masculine wants to maintain Power, Feminine wants to maintain Attachment and Neutral wants to maintain Control. A great way to 'stay in Adult' is to look at your Soul Map Joy Line - Persona #3 and Persona #5 will name where you can find TRUE JOY - because guess what - hedonism/addictions isn't it!

Meet Jordi, a primary Hot (warrior) Swan

Meet Nat, a Primary Raven and our Head Coach and Mentor here at Katie Eden Todd. A brilliant and deeply loving truth teller.

The charming and elegant Lisa embodies the glorious Peacock beautifully. Listen for clues on how this entrancing Archetype comes accross as her Primary influence.