Hangin with Ms. Cooper

o my question to you ladies is this...Is this how a Proverbs 31 woman is supposed to act? I don't need to tell you the answer to that question. You know what it is. So if you feel that way...wouldn't that disqualify you from being considered a "Proverbs 31 woman"? Because clearly what you're saying and expecting isn't lining up with the standards of what is clearly written out for the Proverbs 31 woman.

When I tell you that today's post is going to be a good one..."Please Believe Me!" (in my Jodie's mama voice). Cause honey these terms are taking me out! So right before I decided to sit down and write this post, I was doing my usual social media scrolling in my groups. And I come across a post talking about "Pick Mes". And I have to tell you that it not only caught my attention, but it got me to really thinking about why these women feel so strongly about this term. I read about 100 different interpretations of the term, and the long and the short of it...these women are NOT for women who actually agree with a man's point of view.

In this episode after a long hiatus...Ms. Cooper is back and UNSCRIPTED! Catch up and see what she's been up to and also get an earful of rants that only Ms. Cooper will tell you. She's not holding back...or is she? Tune in and find out!

In this episode Ms. Cooper is talking about anxiety. Anxiety can be very crippling and affects relationships in more ways than one. Tune in and find out how Ms. Cooper personally handles her own anxiety and how she advocates for you to acknowledge and handle yours as well.

Lucas Cool is back! But before you get to hear anymore new content...let's take it back to the days of "The Closer We Get". In this episode, Lucas Cool and Ms. Cooper talk about their experiences when dealing with the ex. Is it REALLY a factor in your relationship? How do you cope? What can you do if it is an issue? Tune in and let's dive deep into the controversy of dealing with the EX.

In this special episode, Ms. Cooper has a different style of content. Lucas Cool and his friend Jonathan have stopped by and dropping science on what their expectations are in dating and relationships. Tune in for some juicy details and also some hard hitting truths about what men want from women.

Ask yourself this question.."is it really that big of a deal if your boyfriend/husband/significant other doesn't reply right away to a test that is just a simple conversation?" If it's an emergency you don't text that..you CALL. Get upset if he forgets something very important, like an anniversary or important event...not if he doesn't text you. Get upset if he is ignoring your calls or not calling you back and it's truly important. But for a text that is something that can obviously wait...it's not worth the drama. Also don't assume the worst either.

It's the age old question that really doesn't have a clear answer for some people. Can a man and woman just really be friends? In some cases...yes...in some cases no. It's a debate that keeps on going and will continue to keep going until the end of time.

Why are you complaining about a job that you applied to? Think about it like this..you started dating which means you were "looking for a job". Your status of girlfriend gave you the "applicant" status for the job of "wife." Your dating time was literally your "interview/testing" phase for the potential job of "wife".

Ladies are always talking about how they can't get a good man and how men are just after one thing. There is so many complaints from women who just want a man who will love and respect them. There are so many women who just want a good man who will treat them the way that they want to be treated. I hear you ladies, I hear you. You deserve to have all that. But in order to do that...YOU NEED TO COVER YOUR ASS UP!

In this episode of Hangin with Ms. Cooper, Ms. Cooper is saying..don't be a Melaine...be a Janay. So what's a drama that is almost. never ending? Is it the battle of the ex's? Or how about the battle of women who want to steal your relationship with your man because she's jealous? Or lonely? Or doesn't really know what she wants, so she tries to string you along...you know like a man does?

There are so many books out there on relationships. There are so many people out there that can say that they have the "magic" formula to help you obtain the love of your dreams. There are people out there that will actually "target" you to say that there is someone out there for you, but take your money in the process before you even meet that one person. The world is full of dating sites, speed dating, random hook up apps...all sorts of things...just to find a relationship.I'm here to tell you...YOU DON"T NEED ANY OF THAT!

What happened to the infamous "old-fashion" days of dating? Where the guy would ask the girl out? There wouldn't be the question of who is paying for the date, because the guy had initiated it. There wouldn't be a question of what was expected either going forward done the line as to who is paying. Like seriously, what happened to that? Now we have men and women questioning simple courtesy about who is supposed to pay. That in itself is just causing an issue about what is really supposed to happen...which is to get to know the person you are on a date with, not who is picking up the tab. Another question that I saw was "what happens nowadays on a date?"

So on my personal Facebook page last week, I asked for honest opinions about the controversial subject of child support. Now when it comes to this subject this actually gets pretty heated between the parents that have to pay child support and the parents that receive child support. Everyone has a reason why they are right or why they are wrong. It's messy! It's emotional! It's dramatic for no good reason! Why? Why is something like child support so controversial and dramatic?

So how many times have you "heard" what was REALLY being said about you? You know what I'm referring to. You yourself have participated in it yourself countless times. Talking about someone what you normally wouldn't say about that person to their face. Those "little" or maybe big things that if that individual knew what you were saying, they would be highly upset.

This generation of men and women are something else! Men are upset with women because they want to be "independent." Women are upset with men because they claim that men are "dogs" or "no good." The battle of the sexes is at an all time high. Why?! Why is there so much disconnect? Why is there so much dysfunction when it comes to getting to "happily ever after?"

This is a revamp of a Classic episode of "Hangin with Ms. Cooper". In this episode, Ms. Cooper is referencing Ciara and her call for ladies to "level up". Level up your attitudes, your skills, your personalities so that you can accomplish those goals. Get that man, get that relationship, get that ring...right? Tune in and find out what it means to "level up".

In this episode Ms. Cooper premieres after a long hiatus. But that doesn't stop her from doing what she's always done which is keep it real and transparent. In this episode Ms. Cooper talks about why it's important to move on from your ex. It's not always classy to keep going back and forth with your ex, nor is it cool to go after the new woman. Tune in and get an honest take on how to keep it classy even when you want to go off.

In this episode, Ms. Cooper breaks down the Proverbs 31 woman and the true inspiration behind the popular chapter. Upon discovering whose words they really are, you will be not only surprised, but inspired by how the irony plays out. Ms. Cooper also helps you to realize that yes you can be a Proverbs 31 woman...in a way that you didn't think about before.

In this episode, Ms. Cooper talks about how insecurity moves in on relationships before the couple is aware that it's already there. Insecurity makes itself known when someone isn't completely honest, or there is infidelity. Tune in and see just how the insecurities of men and women can actually ruin a relationship.