Real Men Feel with Andy Grant

Exploring Emotional Literacy and Attachment Styles In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant delves into the crucial topic of emotional literacy with guest Alexandra Velez, creator of Secure School. They discuss the importance of recognizing, naming, and navigating emotions as a foundation for emotional intelligence, and how these skills significantly impact personal and relational well-being. Alexandra provides insights into how early life experiences and societal norms shape emotional development, particularly for men. The conversation also touches on attachment styles, their origins, and how individuals can transform their attachment patterns to foster healthier relationships. Practical tools like the emotion wheel are suggested for better emotional management. Alexandra highlights the need for emotional education from an early age to prevent future relational and emotional challenges. 00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel 00:40 Meet Alexandra Velez: Emotional Literacy Expert 01:18 Understanding Emotional Literacy vs. Emotional Intelligence 02:06 The Importance of Emotional Literacy in Daily Life 04:46 Overcoming Emotional Illiteracy 08:40 Practical Tools for Emotional Literacy 12:24 Attachment Styles Explained 17:57 The Role of Technology in Emotional Literacy 19:45 The Vision for Emotional Literacy Education 23:26 Challenges Men Face in Developing Emotional Literacy 25:53 The Availability Awards: Recognizing Emotional Unavailability 29:49 Final Thoughts and Where to Learn More Connect with Alexandra Alexandra Velez — http://www.mysecureera.com/ Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/AlexandraBVelez/ Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/alexandravelezm/ LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandravelez/ YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@mysecureera Resources The Love Pattern Report — https://www.mysecureera.com/my-love-pattern-reportThe Availability Awards by Alexandra Velez — https://amzn.to/4nUVqSg Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 374

Overcoming Trauma and Embracing Vulnerability In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant engages in a heartfelt conversation with Aaron Gambel, an impact-driven life coach and men's group facilitator. Aaron shares his personal journey through a pivotal moment that led him to prioritize his mental health and ultimately pursue a mission to lower male suicide rates. Drawing on his experiences with divorce and emotional healing, Aaron offers insightful commentary on rewriting one's story, facing trauma, and the importance of creating safe spaces for men to express their emotions. Together, they explore the deepest challenges men face and the transformative potential of vulnerability and connection in men's groups. 00:00 Understanding the Subconscious Mind 00:20 Introduction to Real Men Feel 01:04 Aaron Gambel's Turning Point 03:40 The Dark Night of the Soul 05:06 Mental Health College Experience 08:51 Rewriting Your Story 22:17 The Importance of Men's Groups 35:21 Steps to Emotional Awareness 37:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Aaron Aaron Gambel — https://www.aarongambel.com/ Tiktok — https://www.tiktok.com/@aarongambel Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/aaronmgambel/ Resources Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson — https://amzn.to/3KT6VLm The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. — https://amzn.to/3KStzn9 Still Here: How to Succeed In Life After Failing at Suicide by Andy Grant — https://amzn.to/4mSvk17 From the Core by John Wineland — https://amzn.to/433os9Z Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 373

Unpacking Narcissism Real Men Feel host Andy Grant converses with Sterlin Mosley, a therapist, professor, and author specializing in relationships, attachment, and personality dynamics. The discussion delves into the complexities of narcissism, exploring what it truly means, how it manifests in both men and women, and its impact on relationships. Sterlin shares valuable insights on recognizing narcissistic traits, managing relationships with narcissists, and addressing one's own narcissistic tendencies. Listeners are invited to join the Authentic AF community for further discussions on masculinity, emotions, and healing. 00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel 01:13 Understanding Narcissism with Sterlin Mosley 02:59 Types and Traits of Narcissism 10:41 Narcissism in Men vs. Women 15:05 Can Narcissists Change? 18:27 Recognizing Narcissistic Relationships 28:31 Cultural and Developmental Influences on Narcissism 30:48 Sterlin Mosley's New Book and Final Thoughts Connect with Sterlin Sterlin Mosley — https://sterlinmosley.com Substack — https://sterlinmosley.substack.com/ Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/sterlinmosley/ LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/sterlinmosley/ Resources Center of the Universe: Transforming the 27 Types of Narcissism from the Inside Out — https://amzn.to/483i1Hp The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: Recognizing the 27 Types of Narcissism — https://amzn.to/3KfxBWG Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 372

Self-Care is Selfless In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Coach Brian Parana, a health coach, husband, father of four, and former owner of a CrossFit gym. Brian emphasizes that the most selfless thing a man can do for his loved ones is to take better care of himself. Throughout their discussion, Brian shares his journey into fitness, insights on balancing self-care with family responsibilities, and the importance of community and accountability. The episode examines the challenges men face in prioritizing their health and offers practical advice for overcoming these obstacles. Listeners are also introduced to Brian's 'Call to Rise,' a 100-day transformation program designed to help men reclaim their energy and leadership. 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Care 00:30 Welcome to Real Men Feel 00:36 Meet Coach Brian Parana 01:32 Brian's Journey into Fitness 03:23 Balancing Health and Relationships 04:53 The Selflessness of Self-Care 05:38 Reframing Mindsets for Better Health 07:49 Success Stories: Transforming Lives 10:17 Common Excuses and Overcoming Them 14:42 The Call to Rise Program 16:20 Building a Brotherhood Through Fitness 22:40 Balancing Family, Work, and Health 26:49 The Importance of Self-Leadership 27:54 Final Thoughts and Farewell Connect with Brian The Call To Rise — https://thecalltorise.com/ Instagram — https://instagram.com/coachbrianparana Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/coachbrianparana/ LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachbrianparana/ Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 371

From Boyhood to True Manhood Real Men Feel host Andy Grant engages in an insightful conversation with Alessandro Frosali, a men's coach and host of the S-T-F-U-A-L podcast. Alessandro shares his transformational journey from hitting rock bottom in his marriage to reclaiming integrated manhood. The discussion explores the crucial differences between boyhood and manhood behaviors, the significance of rites of passage, and the importance of elder wisdom in modern life. Alessandro also highlights practical tools for self-discovery and the value of emotional control, responsibility, and authentic connections in personal growth and relationships. 00:00 Boys Ruling The World 00:26 Meet Alessandro Frosali: A Journey of Transformation 01:23 The Turning Point: What Does It Mean to Be a Man? 05:34 Boy Behavior vs. Man Behavior 14:51 The Importance of Rites of Passage 20:35 Creating Love and Unity: The Mission Behind the Podcast 22:11 Tools for Self-Discovery and Growth 27:03 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks Connect with Alessandro Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/alessandro_frosali/ Alessandro Frosali — https://alessandrofrosali.com/ YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@alessandrofrosali Resources The Making of Men: Raising boys to be happy, healthy and successful by Arne Rubenstin — https://amzn.to/41SYUff The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron — https://amzn.to/4pk53eB Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 370

Transforming Firefighter Wellness Real Men Feel host Andy Grant converses with Robbie Negergal, a veteran firefighter and founder of the Reclaim fitness program. Robbie discusses the physical and mental toll that the firefighting profession can take, breaking down the stigma surrounding mental health, and how his program aims to transform the health and well-being of firefighters. He addresses the cultural resistance to change within the fire service and underscores the importance of community, emotional resilience, and continuous fitness standards. Robbie also shares personal anecdotes that inspired his mission to improve firefighter wellness and outlines his vision for a healthy, sustainable career in firefighting. 00:00 Introduction to the Warrior Mindset 00:21 Meet Robbie Nebergall: Firefighter and Fitness Coach 01:16 The Realities of Firefighting: Mental and Physical Toll 05:16 Changing the Fire Service Culture 17:13 Reclaim: A Program for Firefighters 20:40 Redefining the Warrior Mindset 23:20 Challenges and Future of Fire Service 31:15 Conclusion and Contact Information Connect with Robbie Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/robbienebs SKool Community — https://www.skool.com/reclaim-your-life-3729/about YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@ReclaimFitnessGroup Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 369

Embracing Vulnerability In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Dawud Wallace, a speaker, entrepreneur, and advocate for emotional wellness rather than suppressing them, and advocates for creating safe spaces for men to share and support one another, especially among Black men. They discuss themes such as caregiving, grief, mental health, and masculinity. Dawud shares his personal experiences of caring for his sick mother from a young age, dealing with grief, and the importance of vulnerability. They explore the societal 'man box' that restricts men's emotional expressions and how Black men face even tighter constraints. Dawud emphasizes that true strength lies in facing and understanding one's emotions, not suppressing them, and advocates for creating safe spaces for men to share and support each other. They also touch on the importance of accountability, the value of fun and joy, and how to break free from societal expectations. Dawud's book, 'When a Brother Needs a Friend Too,' serves as a guide for those navigating similar challenges. 00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel 00:21 Meet Dawud Wallace: A Journey of Emotional Wellness 01:15 The Importance of Vulnerability and Emotional Expression 04:57 Navigating the Man Box 06:20 The Role of Self-Reflection and Spirituality 09:42 The Impact of Emotional Isolation on Black Men 14:57 Redefining Masculine Strength 17:06 Understanding Vulnerability and Fatherhood 17:24 Prioritizing Mental Health in Black Men 19:50 The Importance of Accountability 22:32 Legacy and Principles 24:05 Embracing Fun and Joy 25:03 Handling Grief and Tough Times 26:23 Takeaways from the Book 29:19 Connecting and Spreading the Message 30:01 Final Thoughts and Gratitude Connect with Dawud Dawud Wallace — https://www.whenabrotherneeds.com/ Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/whenabrotherneeds Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/whenabrotherneeds Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 368

Exploring Vulnerability: Nick Jonsson on Executive Loneliness and Mental Health In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Nick Jonsson, a TEDx speaker, bestselling author, and mental health advocate. Nick shares his personal struggles with loneliness and isolation despite outward success, his battle with alcoholism, and how hitting rock bottom led him to ask for help. They discuss the stigma around male vulnerability, the unique pressures facing high-achieving men, and practical steps to foster emotional honesty both personally and professionally. Nick emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for men to open up and the need for cultural shifts in how masculinity is perceived. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles 00:24 Welcome to Real Men Feel 00:34 Meet Nick Johnson 01:20 Nick's Journey Through Loneliness and Isolation 02:40 The Struggles of High-Achieving Men 04:06 The Turning Point and Asking for Help 05:47 The Role of Men's Groups 06:57 Sobriety and Its Impact 09:43 Challenges of Male Executives 15:23 Cultural Differences in Expressing Loneliness 25:04 The Importance of Belonging 27:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Nick Nick Jonsson — https://www.nickjonsson.com/ LinkedIn — https://sg.linkedin.com/in/nick-jonsson Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/jonssonnick/ Resources Executive Loneliness by Nick Johnsson — https://amzn.to/4mmFqrA Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 367

Embracing Vulnerability: A New Vision for Men's Mental Health In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes therapist, author, and speaker Ethan Getchell. After a personal tragedy with the suicide of his younger brother Austin, Ethan shifted his career to focus on men's mental health. He discusses the importance of vulnerability, the impact of digital relationships, the challenges young men face today, and the differences between therapy and coaching. Ethan also shares insights into his journey through grief and his mission to turn pain into purpose while advocating for emotional vulnerability as a strength for men. 00:00 The Power of Vulnerability 00:27 Introduction to Real Men Feel 00:33 Meet Ethan Getchell 01:11 A Personal Journey into Mental Health 01:42 The Silent Suffering of Young Men 03:53 The Turning Point: Embracing Therapy 08:00 Challenges in Men's Mental Health 10:59 A New Vision for Masculinity 11:57 Coaching vs. Therapy 14:33 Advice for the Hopeless and Helpless 16:15 Supporting Someone Not Ready for Help 19:05 Turning Pain into Purpose 20:26 Ethan's Book: Things In My Pocket 22:52 Hope for Men's Mental Health Movement 24:02 Final Thoughts and Connection Connect with Ethan Ethan Getchell — https://heyman.pro/ LinkedIn — http://www.linkedin.com/in/ethangetchell Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/ethangetchell/ Resources Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves — https://amzn.to/4fCZVO3 The Anxious Generation by Jonoath Haidt — https://amzn.to/4fzazWa Things In My Pocket by Ethan Getchell — https://amzn.to/4lpvVXd Substack — https://ethangetchell.substack.com/ Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 366

Harnessing the Power of Essential Oils for Men's Wellness In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Corinne L. Casazza, an international bestselling author and essential oils coach. They explore the benefits of essential oils as a tool for mental and emotional wellness. Corinne explains the origin of essential oils, their applications, and the effects they have on emotions and mood. She shares her journey with essential oils and offers practical tips on how men can incorporate them into their daily lives to manage stress, anxiety, and promote overall well-being. 00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel 00:15 Meet Corinne L. Casazza: Essential Oils Expert 01:09 Understanding Essential Oils 02:58 Aromatherapy and Its Benefits 05:39 Using Essential Oils for Emotional Wellness 08:21 Practical Tips for Essential Oil Use 14:08 Essential Oils in History and Personal Stories 18:10 Final Thoughts and How to Connect Connect with Corinne Corinne L. Casazza -- https://egyptianoiloracle.com/ Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/groups/766867797019807 Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/corinnel.casazza/ Resources Essential Emotions Book and Wheel — https://amzn.to/45opCNI Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 365

Exploring Divorce and Fatherhood with the Team Behind 'Guys Night' Movie In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant delves into themes of fatherhood, vulnerability, and masculinity with the creative team behind the upcoming film 'Guys Night.' Writer, producer, and actor Niko Vitacco, director Dave Eichhorn, and producer Andrew Baird discuss how the film, inspired by Niko's childhood with a single dad, tackles emotional openness and resilience during difficult times. They explore the impact of divorce, the importance of showing emotional vulnerability, and the support gaps for single fathers. The episode also touches on the challenges of indie filmmaking and the power of storytelling to foster empathy and healing. 00:00 Introduction: The Power of Movies 00:27 Welcome to Real Men Feel 00:30 Meet the Creative Team Behind 'Guys Night' 01:35 The Inspiration Behind 'Guys Night' 03:08 The Importance of Telling This Story Now 04:53 Emotional Vulnerability and Personal Discoveries 07:04 The Role of a Producer in Filmmaking 09:05 Directing 'Guys Night': A Personal Connection 12:36 Production Challenges and Community Support 16:13 Impact on Personal Relationships 27:28 Nostalgia and the 1980s Setting 29:47 How to Support 'Guys Night' 31:48 Final Thoughts and Hopes for the Film Connect with Guys Night Support the cause -- https://givebutter.com/guysnight Website -- https://guysnightmovie.com Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/guysnightmovie/ Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Join the Authentic AF Community | ⁠http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 364

Transforming Tragedy into Purpose: Youth Mental Health and Mentorship In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant has a heartfelt and hopeful conversation with Chris Coulter, a father, entrepreneur, and advocate for youth mental health. Chris shares his personal journey of grief and transformation after losing his daughter Maddie to suicide. He discusses the impact of his loss on his life and the creation of The Mentor Well, an online mentoring service designed to support young people through life's challenges. Chris emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and the need for honest conversations to help teens navigate their struggles. He also offers insights into the importance of parental role and the misconceptions around youth mental health and suicide. 00:00 Introduction: Embracing Vulnerability 00:23 Meet Chris Coulter: A Journey of Grief and Action 00:59 The Impact of Loss: Maddie's Story 04:37 The Birth of Mentor Well 07:21 The Role of Mentorship in Youth Mental Health 13:01 Navigating Grief and Finding Purpose 20:33 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence 21:18 Challenges and Misconceptions in Youth Mental Health 22:58 How Mentor Well Works 28:14 Chris Coulter's Personal Growth and Advocacy 34:27 Conclusion: Real Men Feel Community Connect with Chris The Mentor Well -- https://www.thementorwell.com/ LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/chriscoulterfinishline/ Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 363

Navigating Transformation In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant converses with Ritchie Nkana, an award-winning author, former banker, and transformation coach. Richie shares his journey from a successful banking career to becoming a transformation coach, driven by a need for personal growth and change. The discussion explores the motivations behind change, common blind spots and misconceptions among high-achieving men, and the relationship between physical fitness and professional success. Ritchie emphasizes the importance of daily discipline, mental health awareness, and the power of asking for help. The episode also highlights Ritchie's unique insights into integrating personal well-being with professional success, offering actionable advice for men striving to lead lives of authenticity, purpose, and power. 00:00 Introduction: The Illusion of Success 00:20 Welcome to Real Men Feel 00:34 Meet Ritchie Nkana: From Banker to Transformation Coach 01:17 The Turning Point: Desperation to Transformation 03:41 From Personal Struggles to Helping Others 04:59 Challenges of Shifting Identities 06:39 The Body and Bank Connection 09:45 Misconceptions and Blind Spots in High Achievers 13:15 Redefining Masculinity and Mental Health 15:35 The Importance of Openness and Vulnerability 18:27 Measuring Success and Personal Growth 21:53 Daily Habits and Rituals for Success 26:33 Final Thoughts and Contact Information Connect with Ritchie Ritchie Nkana -- https://ritchienkana.com/ LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/ritchienkana/ Resources The Body and Bank Connection: How to Exercise Your Way to Financial Fitness, by Ritchie Nkana -- https://amzn.to/46epYIZ As A Man Thinketh, by James Allen -- https://amzn.to/4kQjZ0H Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, by Susan Jeffers -- https://amzn.to/3TNtR04 Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Get support, growth, and brotherhood in the Authentic AF community. Join at http://realmenfeel.org/group Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.org YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 362

Discovering Inner Peace: A Radical Approach to Stress with Dean Graves In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Dean Graves, a spiritual philosopher, author, and coach, to delve into the complex phenomenon of stress. Together, they explore the deeper meanings of stress, why men experience it more intensely, and how to address it beyond mere coping mechanisms. Dean provides a unique perspective, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and emotional honesty. He reveals that stress is a spectrum and that true healing comes from revisiting unresolved moments and making sense of them. Through a blend of philosophy and practical advice, this conversation serves as a guide for anyone feeling overwhelmed or seeking inner peace. 00:00 Introduction to Stress and Expectations 00:25 Welcome to Real Men Feel 01:12 Defining Stress with Dean Graves 03:22 The Spectrum of Stress 05:09 Healing Trauma and Emotions 06:47 Awareness and Consciousness 15:16 Gender Differences in Stress 21:54 The Path to Awakening 33:40 Meditation and Self-Healing 36:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Dean Dean Graves -- https://www.ddeangraves.org/ Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/deanhalf Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/simpleenlightenment/ LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/dean-graves-985390239/ Resources Enigma of Consciousness: A Spiritual Exploration of Humanity's Relationship to Creation by Dean Graves -- https://amzn.to/4lNdHzw Chatting with the Arcturians Podcast -- https://open.spotify.com/show/6lw6ciJPfhhJaQydEnUHDw?si=4ebac8cf780445a9 Simple Enlightenment Podcast -- https://open.spotify.com/show/52aVtnZmCNNJOGLeFm2ZyY?si=c8d9a566c4a544ab Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Book a Clarity Call with Andy and get clear on your goals, what's in your way, and what you can do about it at https://theandygrant.com/talk Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 361

The Power of Men's Groups: Healing, Growth, and Brotherhood with Nicky Billou In this episode of Real Men Feel, Andy Grant interviews Nicky Billou, a prolific podcast guest and advocate for men's growth. Nicky shares his transformative journey following a devastating divorce, highlighting how men's groups helped him heal and grow. The discussion explores the significance of male-only spaces, the benefits of serving others, and the importance of personal investment in self-development. Nicky also talks about the founding of his men's organization, the Sovereign Man, and the impact of robust, supportive group dynamics on men's lives. Key lessons include the significance of strong support networks for men, the three M's (mind, muscle, and money), and the critical need for men to challenge and push each other toward growth. 00:00 Welcome to Real Men Feel 00:35 Introducing Nicky Ballou: Advocate for Men's Growth 01:20 Nicky's Journey Through Divorce and Healing 02:06 The Power of Men's Groups 06:47 Creating and Leading Men's Organizations 10:07 The Importance of Investing in Yourself 13:59 Reclaiming Masculinity and Avoiding Stereotypes 16:29 The Role of Physical Vitality in Men's Growth 19:03 The Impact of Men's Groups on Personal Success 22:39 Nicky's Vision for Men's Work and Legacy 23:25 Final Thoughts and How to Connect 28:34 Conclusion and Invitation to Join Authentic AF Connect with Nicky Nicky Billou -- https://www.sovereignman.ca/ Facebook -- https://facebook.com/thethoughtleaderrevolution Instagram -- https://instagram.com/nickybillou LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickybillou/ Resources No More Mr. Nice Guy author Robert Glover on Real Men Feel -- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-VKOPmuWKA&t=6s The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma -- https://amzn.to/45UJfyY Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Book a Clarity Call with Andy and get clear on your goals, what's in your way, and what you can do about it at https://theandygrant.com/talk Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org RMF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 360

Harnessing Miracles and Personal Transformation: Nick Prefontaine's Journey In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes back Nick Prefontaine, a motivational speaker and bestselling author, who shares his incredible journey of recovery from a life-threatening snowboarding accident at the age of 14. Nick discusses the synchronicities and miracles that aided his survival and recovery, his experience working with Andy through Life Activation and Soul Retrieval sessions, and the impact of these experiences on his personal and professional life. Nick emphasizes the importance of persistence, trust, and energy work in overcoming trauma and achieving life's goals. The episode also touches on men's resistance to energy work and the benefits of embracing it. 00:00 Miracles and Synchronicity 00:23 Introduction to Real Men Feel 00:36 Nick Prefontaine's Journey 02:14 The Snowboarding Accident 05:10 Recovery and the STEP System 07:33 Life After Recovery 09:14 The Power of Storytelling 13:05 Energy Work and Healing 17:12 Soul Retrieval Experience 23:24 Reflections and Advice 34:15 Conclusion and Resources Connect with Nick Nick Prefontaine -- https://nickprefontaine.com/step Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/nick.prefontaine.7 LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickprefontaine/ Resources Nick's Prior Appearance -- https://www.realmenfeel.org/overcoming-trauma-with-nick-prefontaine-the-step-system/ Life Activation -- https://theandygrant.com/lifeactivation Soul Retrieval -- https://theandygrant.com/service/soul-retrieval/ Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Book a Clarity Call with Andy and get clear on your goals, what's in your way, and what you can do about it at https://theandygrant.com/talk Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org RMF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 359

Embracing Vulnerability and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome with Kendra Dahlstrom In this episode of Real Men Feel, Andy Grant welcomes executive coach and speaker Kendra Dahlstrom to discuss the challenges of imposter syndrome and its impact on high achievers, especially men. Kendra shares her experiences with imposter thoughts and highlights the importance of vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and authenticity in leadership. Together, they explore the significance of integrating personal worth beyond achievements and the role of humility in effective leadership. The conversation covers practical strategies to handle self-doubt and the cultural shift needed to redefine success and leadership in the modern age. Key takeaways include recognizing vulnerability as a strategy, questioning the validity of imposter thoughts, and promoting emotional intelligence as a learnable and crucial skill for leaders. 00:00 Introduction and Host Welcome 00:22 Guest Introduction: Kendra Dahlstrom 01:02 Discussing Imposter Syndrome 06:04 Imposter Syndrome in High Achievers 15:43 The Role of Humility in Leadership 19:35 Kendra's Personal Journey and Podcast 34:04 Concluding Thoughts and Contact Information Connect with Kendra Kendra Dahlstrom -- https://kendradahlstrom.com/ LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/kendradahlstrom Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/kendra.dahlstrom/ The Unworthy Leader Podcast -- https://open.spotify.com/show/4yXxXkHjoY35KaSKykVSsW?si=ce68c134df504de3 Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Book a Clarity Call with Andy and get clear on your goals, what's in your way, and what you can do about it at https://theandygrant.com/talk Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 358

Exploring Masculinity and Sensitivity: A Conversation with Ben Curtis In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant engages in a heartfelt conversation with Ben Curtis, an award-winning actor, musician, speaker, and coach who is passionate about guiding men toward thriving in all aspects of life. Ben shares his journey of growing up as a sensitive man, the challenges faced due to societal expectations of masculinity, and the founding of Dude Nation, an organization that fosters healthy masculinity. Key topics include the impact of sensitivity on male identity, the myths surrounding masculinity, and the importance of community and emotional intelligence. Ben also introduces innovative initiatives like Dude Nation's AI coaching assistant, Aiden, designed to offer support and resources for men. Through personal anecdotes and deep reflections, Ben and Andy aim to dispel harmful stereotypes and foster spaces where men can feel, express, and connect authentically. 00:00 The Burden of Self-Reliance 00:22 Introduction to Real Men Feel 00:35 Meet Ben Curtis: Actor, Musician, and Coach 01:37 The Birth of Dude Nation 02:51 Growing Up Sensitive 03:27 The Power of Sensitivity 04:46 Challenges and Realizations 11:16 The Importance of Emotional Boundaries 16:33 Myths of Masculinity 19:49 The King Archetype and Masculinity 21:29 The Dude Nation Gathering Idea 22:32 Introduction to Dude Nation 23:01 Creating Safe Spaces for Men 25:47 The Role of Community in Men's Health 28:28 Transformative Stories from Dude Nation 34:06 Challenges Men Face Today 41:46 The Evolution of Masculinity 45:07 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with Ben Ben Curtis -- https://thedudenation.com/ Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/thedudenation Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/the_dude_nation/ TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@bencurtis4235 YouTube -- https://www.youtube.com/@BenCurtis Resources Dude, You're Getting Well Podcast -- https://open.spotify.com/show/2hZUEOinJaWKInhkyG1qme?si=daa3d24d1e4941b7 Aiden, the AI coach -- Call 845 470 DUDE. Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Book a Clarity Call with Andy and get clear on your goals, what's in your way, and what you can do about it at https://theandygrant.com/talk Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 357

Resilience, Leadership, and Maximizing Your Potential In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Darrell Williams, a White House Communications Agency Hall of Fame member and the CEO of Alliant Seminars Coaching. Darrell shares his journey from Compton, California, to a distinguished career in the military and beyond, emphasizing the importance of leadership, focusing on strengths, and the power of resilience. They discuss the evolving nature of leadership, the significance of self-management, and how everyone has unique strengths that can be nurtured and maximized. Darrell also delves into the impact of mentorship, community support, and the value of not comparing oneself to others. 00:00 The Way to Horrify a Man 00:13 Welcome to Real Men Feel 00:31 Introducing Darrell Williams 00:56 Darrell's Journey from Compton to the White House 02:53 Leadership Lessons from the Military 04:27 Serving at the White House 09:57 Adapting Leadership Styles 14:35 Maximizing Your Calling 18:27 Turning Down Fast Money with Wit 19:30 Mentorship at a Young Age 21:12 Recognizing Hidden Talents 23:33 Daily Habits for Success 24:43 Defining Success Beyond Money 25:54 The Importance of Male Support Networks 28:15 Pride in Mentorship 33:59 Final Thoughts and Contact Information Connect with Darrell Darrell Williams -- https://www.allianceseminars.org/ Facebook -- https://www.facebook.com/allianceseminars Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/allianceseminarscoaching/ Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Book a Clarity Call with Andy and get clear on your goals, what's in your way, and what you can do about it at https://theandygrant.com/talk Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 356

A Journey Through Grief and Transformation In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Marko Petrovic, a visionary world explorer and two-time bestselling author who connects ancient wisdom with contemporary living. Marko shares his transformative journey, from the loss of his mother and betrayal by a mentor to his nine months of silence and exploring sacred sites worldwide. The discussion delves into pivotal moments that led Marko to embrace modern mysticism, the importance of rites of passage, and how aligning the gut, heart, and mind can impact daily decisions. Marko also talks about the Mara Project and its mission to bring people closer to direct experiences and sacredness in everyday life. 00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel 00:18 Meet Marko Petrovic, Visionary and Author 01:00 Marko's Journey to Modern Mysticism 03:12 The Role of Grief in Transformation 07:26 Understanding Rites of Passage 09:05 Aligning the Gut, Heart, and Mind 13:20 The Importance of Ceremony 15:28 The Mara Project: Bridging Ancient Wisdom and Modern Living 20:42 Connecting with Sacredness in Everyday Life 24:33 Practical Steps for Spiritual Growth 27:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Marko Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/meetmarko/ Resources Soul Path by Marko Petrovic -- https://amzn.to/4mEB1kf Embrace of The Elements by Marko Petrovic -- https://amzn.to/4mAtWRI The Soul Path Podcast -- https://rss.com/podcasts/soulpath/ Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast: Book a Clarity Call with Andy and get clear on your goals, what's in your way, and what you can do about it at https://theandygrant.com/talk Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info! Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org RMF Facebook Group | http://realmenfeel.org/group YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel #RealMenFeel ep 355