Location:
United States
Description:
Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC's 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you're home Queen! Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. The only thing more certain than a K-1 Visa or a venereal disease is the fact that Jake and Matt will keep you laughing at these lovebirds while also judging their choices. But none of it is mean, because Jake and Matt get it. At the end of the day, aren't we all just looking for our little piece of love? Follow us Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. Find all things Mattie & Poodle at www.realitygays.com. An Audacy Podcast.
Language:
English
Episodes
The Gayly Dose #66: “Schtick Season”
4/24/2026
The boys discuss the cast of “RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars” season 11, as well as two new Netflix offerings, “Big Mistakes” and “Noah Kahan: Out of Mind.” You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:46:56
Life After Lockup S2E42 “Skeletons in the Closet”
4/23/2026
Andrea's secret stuns her friends; Michael gets grilled; Lacey receives startling texts. --- Y'all this is a try before you buy of our classless coverage of Life After Lockup. To listen to the rest of the episodes, join our $5 tier on RG+ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:55:05
Introducing Family Lore
4/23/2026
Family Lore is a weekly narrative podcast that celebrates and investigates ancestral mystique. Each episode begins with a guest sharing a fascinating family legend, followed by a historical deep-dive to uncover the truth and meaning behind the tale. Available now: https://link.pscrb.fm/f0281/FLFD To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:07:43
90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0511 “The Act of Dragging”
4/21/2026
Natalie questions her relationship with Gino when her daughter isn't on board. Vanja storms out of their dance class when Tony embarrasses her with his jealousy. Kim gives Jamal and Larry an update on her daughter. Cortney agrees to help Colt one last time. --- WANT EPISODES COMMERCIAL-FREE? Join the $8 Tier! JOIN RealityGays+ for exclusive content + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:10:40
INTIMATE PORTRAIT Before The 90 Days 0819 “Now Departing” Part 2
4/20/2026
Josh makes a regrettable decision. Laura reveals a big surprise to Michal. Forrest struggles to leave Sheena. Annalyn learns shocking news. Aviva sees a new side to Stig. Rick tries one final time to win Trish back. Lisa confronts Daniel about his other wife. WANT EPISODES COMMERCIAL-FREE? Join the $8 Tier! JOIN RealityGays+ for exclusive content + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:03:04
90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days 0819 “Now Departing” Part 1
4/20/2026
Josh makes a regrettable decision. Laura reveals a big surprise to Michal. Forrest struggles to leave Sheena. Annalyn learns shocking news. Aviva sees a new side to Stig. Rick tries one final time to win Trish back. Lisa confronts Daniel about his other wife. --- You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:02:36
The Gayly Dose #65: “Manchango”
4/17/2026
The boys talk about the Hudson Williams for Peloton ad, as well as new albums from Arlo Parks and Tom Misch. --- You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:37:42
90 Day Fiancé The Single Life 0510 “The Act Of Cobwebbing”
4/14/2026
Liz comes clean about her love life to Villa. Sophie shocks Pedro when she reveals she's going on a date with another guy. Kim jumps into another international romance. Natalie hopes to unleash Gino's wild side, while Vanja and Tony have a blow up on the dance floor. --- You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:12:57
90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days 0817 “Emergency Exit” Part 2
4/13/2026
Elise gets pushed to her limits. Rick hopes to win Trish back. Molly pushes Forrest to return to the US against Sheena's wishes. Aviva is shocked by a change in Stig's plans. Laura considers a big sacrifice to win back Birkan. 13:04 Forrest and Sheena 37:37 Jovon and Annalyn 46:15 Rick and Trisha To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:03:06
90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days 0817 “Emergency Exit” Part 1
4/13/2026
Elise gets pushed to her limits. Rick hopes to win Trish back. Molly pushes Forrest to return to the US against Sheena's wishes. Aviva is shocked by a change in Stig's plans. Laura considers a big sacrifice to win back Birkan. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:10:38
The Gayly Dose #64: “Color Queer-ies”
4/10/2026
The boys discuss the new “Star Wars” series “Maul: Shadow Lord,” as well as Broadway revivals of “Cats: The Jellicle Ball” and “The Rocky Horror Picture Show.” ---- WANT EPISODES COMMERCIAL-FREE? Join the $8 Tier! JOIN RealityGays+ for exclusive content + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:44:27
Interview with Elise of Before the 90 Days
4/8/2026
The boys sit down with Elise Benson from the latest season of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Elise opens up about her herstory, providing a vulnerable perspective on past relationship patterns that have shaped her journey on the show. It is a deep dive into the person behind the persona, balancing high-stakes drama with Joshua (and Nat!) with genuine emotional transparency. We love her! --- WANT EPISODES COMMERCIAL-FREE? Join the $8 Tier! JOIN RealityGays+ for exclusive content + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:28:07
90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0509 “The Act of Monkey Barring”
4/7/2026
Sophie and Liz meet up following their blow up, and Liz reveals a secret connection she left back home. Vanja is worried about Tony's recent controlling behavior. Colt attempts to smooth things over with Diana, the Brazilian side chick he cheated with. Gino and Natalie finally take things to the bedroom. --- WANT EPISODES COMMERCIAL-FREE? Join the $8 Tier! JOIN RealityGays+ for exclusive content + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:05:44
90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days 0817 “Welcome to Your Destination” Part 2
4/6/2026
Elise plans a romantic getaway. Birkan confronts Laura about Michal. Forrest is terrified to tell Molly about his plans. Trisha learns a devastating secret about Rick. Lisa's sexual demand has Daniel stumped. Jovon and Anna don't see eye-to-eye on their vow renewal. You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:01:48
90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days 0817 “Welcome to Your Destination” Part 1
4/6/2026
Elise plans a romantic getaway. Birkan confronts Laura about Michal. Forrest is terrified to tell Molly about his plans. Trisha learns a devastating secret about Rick. Lisa's sexual demand has Daniel stumped. Jovon and Anna don't see eye-to-eye on their vow renewal. You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:09:31
The Gayly Dose #63: “How Do You Like Them Apples?”
4/3/2026
The boys talk about a new TikTok trend, as well as new albums by Robyn, Raye, and Mon Rovîa. You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:41:31
SLOMW S04: An Epilogue with Media Researcher Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas
4/2/2026
Y'all in this episode, We talk with Soraya Giaccardi-Vargas, a media researcher and she shares her insights into how reality TV can both highlight and obscure the realities of difficult domestic situations and production accountability. Find out more about Soraya on the links below: https://www.instagram.com/sorayagiaccardi https://www.sorayagiaccardi.com/ If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:36:26
90 Day Fiancé: The Single Life 0508 “The Act of Being Sus”
3/31/2026
Debbie arrives to try and fix things between Cortney and Colt, but Cortney calls out her enabling ways. Vanja's trip to Maine turns toxic when Sanela grills Tony. Sophie questions if she's ready for a relationship with Pedro, and his overbearing family. Kim is ready to find the daughter she placed for adoption. --- WANT EPISODES COMMERCIAL-FREE? Join the $8 Tier! JOIN RealityGays+ for exclusive content + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:17:23
90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days 0816 “Mile High Club” Part 2
3/30/2026
Forrest and Sheena get a little freaky. Elise confronts Nat. Lisa seeks cleansing by a Nigerian priest. Stig's grand gesture catches Aviva off guard. Trisha's family issues Rick an ultimatum. Emma says goodbye to Morocco. You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:01:09:22
90 Day Fiancé Before The 90 Days 0816 “Mile High Club” Part 1
3/30/2026
Forrest and Sheena get a little freaky. Elise confronts Nat. Lisa seeks cleansing by a Nigerian priest. Stig's grand gesture catches Aviva off guard. Trisha's family issues Rick an ultimatum. Emma says goodbye to Morocco. --- You can gift the gift of gay all year round! https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays/gift JOIN RealityGays+ + Patreon https://www.patreon.com/RealityGays or + Supercast https://realitygaysmulti.supercast.com/ + Apple Subscriptions https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-gays-with-mattie-and-poodle/id1477555097 +Watch us on video www.youtube.com/@RealityGays Click here for all things RG! https://linktr.ee/RealityGays COME at Mattie on Cameo! https://v.cameo.com/e/jnrS9iCLi0b To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Duration:00:54:37