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Multiamory.com is a relationship blog and podcast from the perspective of three polyamorous individuals: Emily Matlack, Jase Lindgren, and Dedeker Winston. Our insights come from our personal experience with polyamory, but the information found here is useful for people in any type of relationship. Whether you are poly, considering diving into it, or just looking to have better monogamous relationships, our tips and ideas will help you to have the healthiest, happiest dating life possible.

Multiamory.com is a relationship blog and podcast from the perspective of three polyamorous individuals: Emily Matlack, Jase Lindgren, and Dedeker Winston. Our insights come from our personal experience with polyamory, but the information found here is useful for people in any type of relationship. Whether you are poly, considering diving into it, or just looking to have better monogamous relationships, our tips and ideas will help you to have the healthiest, happiest dating life possible.
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Los Angeles, CA

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Multiamory.com is a relationship blog and podcast from the perspective of three polyamorous individuals: Emily Matlack, Jase Lindgren, and Dedeker Winston. Our insights come from our personal experience with polyamory, but the information found here is useful for people in any type of relationship. Whether you are poly, considering diving into it, or just looking to have better monogamous relationships, our tips and ideas will help you to have the healthiest, happiest dating life possible.

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Episodes

184- Multiamory Answers Your Questions Vol. 3 (Live from Lake Tahoe)

8/14/2018
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This week we're coming at ya live from our first ever patreon retreat in Lake Tahoe, CA! We answer questions from our Patreon supporters, discussing how to avoid scarcity mindset, preventing burnout, fostering inclusivity, Emily's goddess voice, and more! If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and exclusive content and...

Duration:01:01:18

183 - Equal and Equitable Relationships

8/7/2018
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What does it mean to have a relationship that feels "equal"? Is it a fair division of labor? Mutual trust and respect? Treating every partner exactly the same? This week we dive in to equal and inequal relationships, as well as how the concept of equity can help to bring balance to your love life. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also...

Duration:01:05:45

182 - Gamify Your Life

7/31/2018
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If you've listened to this podcast for a while, you're aware that the Multiamory crew are a bunch of gaming nerds. This week, we dive into the principles and psychology behind gamification, as well as how you can gamify your way to self-improvement and better relationships. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and...

Duration:01:00:10

181 - Kim Tallbear

7/24/2018
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We're extra excited to speak to Professor Kim Tallbear. Dr. Tallbear is the author of The Critical Polyamorist blog, as well as several books, articles, and talks on settler sexuality, Indigenous peoples, technology, and relationships. We dig into the details of what settler sexuality is, how it influences our relationships, and the many different ways in which we create extended support networks of kin. You can find more of Kim's work at CriticalPolyamorist.com and...

Duration:00:56:18

180 - The Mono/Poly Paradox

7/17/2018
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It's a questions we've gotten since starting the podcast -- can mono/poly relationships work? We're joined by Phoebe Phillips, author of the Polyammering blog and creator of the "Monocorn Sanctuary" group on Facebook. Phi shares her own experience as the mono side of a long-term polyamorous relationship as well as her guidance for people considering this type of dynamic. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In...

Duration:00:56:01

178 - The Basics of Boundaries

7/10/2018
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Let's look at the fundamentals of boundaries. Boundaries are one of the most powerful and important tools for having healthy relationships, but it’s one that is often misunderstood and misused. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and exclusive content and discussions. You can order Dedeker's book, The Smart Girl's...

Duration:01:08:04

178 - The Basics of Boundaries

7/3/2018
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Let's look at the fundamentals of boundaries. Boundaries are one of the most powerful and important tools for having healthy relationships, but it’s one that is often misunderstood and misused. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and exclusive content and discussions. You can order Dedeker's book, The Smart Girl's...

Duration:01:01:48

177 - This is Your Brain on Love

6/26/2018
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This is your brain. And this is your brain on love. We’re talking about your brain on relationships -- how the different parts of your brain affect how we relate to our partners, and how we can use that to build better relationships. This week's episode was inspired in part by Wired for Love by Stan Tatkin, MFT. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new...

Duration:01:03:32

176 - Christianity and Polyamory (FIXED AUDIO)

6/19/2018
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"Peace be with you! This week we're sitting down with Rev. Austin Adkinson and theologian J.D. Mechelke to dive into the tricky topic of polyamory and Christianity. How is the Christian church handling shifting values around sexuality and non-traditional relationships? What about the church's bad track record with sex positivity? And what the heck is a sword drill? J.D. R. Mechelke (he/him/his) J.D. R. Mechelke currently lives in Minneapolis, MN. He graduated from Augsburg University in...

Duration:01:09:23

175 - Adventures in Online Arguments

6/12/2018
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The Internet: making you get in fights with strangers since the 90s! This week we dive into online arguments: how they happen, how to avoid them, and how to most effectively communicate when you find yourself in the thick of it. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and exclusive content and discussions. You can order...

Duration:01:09:40

174 - Numerous Non-Binary Identities (with therapist Dara Hoffman-Fox)

6/5/2018
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Author and gender therapist Dara Hoffman-Fox joins us once again to talk about gender, identity, and the full spectrum that lies outside the traditional binary. We discuss terminology, misconceptions, and the important journey of discovering one's self identity. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and exclusive...

Duration:00:59:07

172 - Polyamory in Movies and TV (Live Show)

5/22/2018
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In this live show episode from our 2018 tour, we're surveying how pop culture has treated polyamory and other non-monogamous relationships in the past year. We look at clips from She's Gotta Have It, Professor Marston & the Wonder Women, Steven Universe, and many more. For the full experience, be sure to check out this episode on YouTube. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to...

Duration:01:18:11

171 - Polyamory, Family, and Children (with Dr. Eli Sheff)

5/15/2018
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We're pleased to have Dr. Eli Sheff back on the show to talk about her 15+ years of research into polyamorous families with children. Sheff shares the shifting trends she has seen over the course of her study as well as some practical tips for polyamorous people looking to cohabit or raise children with multiple partners. You can find more of Sheff's work at https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door. You can support her research on Patreon at...

Duration:01:11:44

170 - Taking for Your Pleasure (with Melissa Mango and Cosmo Meens)

5/8/2018
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Multiamory made some new friends at RelateCon! We sit down with Cosmo Meens and Melissa Mango to discuss their work in consent, pleasure-based touching, and how objectifying your partner can actually be really, really sexy. You can find more of their work at sexlovesoul.com and at happytouch.ca If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get...

Duration:01:04:34

169 - Unapolygetic

5/1/2018
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This week we’re talking about how to be open, honest, and unafraid when talking to other people about your relationships, whether they are someone you are dating, a new acquaintance, or an old friend. -- a little something that we call being unapolygetic. Check out Dara Hoffman-Fox's worksheet for coming out here: http://darahoffmanfox.com/comingoutworksheet/ If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping...

Duration:01:05:01

168 - Communication Hacks: Booster Pack

4/24/2018
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We’re opening our Communication Hacks: Booster Pack! The Multiamory crew walks each other through a communication tip that we recently discovered and thought was super awesome. Learn how switch-tracking, bids, and micro scripts can take your relationship communication to the next level. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra...

Duration:00:59:34

167 - Polyamory and the Law

4/17/2018
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On this episode of the Multiamory podcast we’re at the first annual Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, Arizona speaking with lawyer Jonathan Lane, who specializes in family and immigration law for the polyamorous, kinky, and LGBTQ communities If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and exclusive content and discussions. You...

Duration:00:50:22

166 - Impromptu Bible Study

4/10/2018
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What's the Bible have to say about polyamory? Spoiler alert: it mostly has things to say about questionable polygamy. Join us for an impromptu study on multi-partner relationships and Judeo-Christian values. If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content and new projects, you also get extra rewards and exclusive content and discussions. You can order Dedeker's book, The...

Duration:01:23:44

165 - Polyamory Finishing School

4/3/2018
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"Pinky out! We’re going to polyamory finishing school! Connecting with a polyamorous community is an important first step on someone’s journey so we’re covering the things that will give you a huge advantage at your first meetup. Come learn how to ensure you’ll have the best possible time and set yourself up for success. " If you want to support our show, the best way is to become one of our patrons at www.patreon.com/multiamory. In addition to helping us continue to create new content...

Duration:01:07:44

Multitoury 2018 is GOOOOOOO!

3/27/2018
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#MultiToury2018 is GO! Specific dates and times to come, but look forward to seeing us this April in the following cities! Cities and Dates: April 16th: Toronto, Ontario at The Revival BarApril 17th: NYC at the Public HotelApril 19th: Chicago at Uptown UndergroundApril 22nd: San Francisco at DNA LoungeApril 24th: Portland at The Paris TheatreApril 25th: Seattle at The Jewel BoxMay 9th: LA at the Angel City Brewery And don't miss us at Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, AZ April...

Duration:00:06:15