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Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.

Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.
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Los Angeles, CA

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Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.

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English


Episodes

No Contact Is Not A Sprint, It's A Marathon

10/14/2018
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If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, impatience is not your friend. Your ex didn't decide to break up with you overnight, so they're not going to decide to get back with you overnight either. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you must be prepared for many months to go by before you hear from your ex or before you get back together.

Duration:00:05:14

When Should You Start No Contact?

10/10/2018
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When is the best time to start new contact in order to get your ex back? Should you do it as soon as someone breaks up with you or only after you have tried to talk them out of breaking up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should start no contact and why it’s so effective.

Duration:00:04:24

The Crazy Reason Why You Can't Let Go Of Your Ex

10/8/2018
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If you’re having a hard time letting go of your ex, it’s probably because you are looking at the situation from a certain point of you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what that point of you is and how you should be looking at your relationship instead.

Duration:00:04:44

Should You Respond If Your Ex Wishes You A Happy Birthday?

10/3/2018
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If you're a regular listener, you probably know you shouldn't reach out to your ex on their birthday. But what if your ex reaches out to you on YOUR birthday? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what to do when your ex wishes you a happy birthday, in order to have the best chance at getting them back.

Duration:00:06:30

The Shocking Reason You Want Your Ex Back

10/1/2018
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Do you really want your ex back or is something else going on, that’s causing you to want them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the shocking reason why people often want their exes back, which has nothing to do with love.

Duration:00:04:42

Why It's So Easy For Me To Do No Contact

9/25/2018
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Most people find no contact difficult, if not impossible to do. However, for dating expert Lucia, it's the easiest thing in the world. She talks about her dating experiences and why she has no problem doing the no contact rule.

Duration:00:05:00

How To Respond When Your Ex Contacts You

9/23/2018
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When you finally hear from your ex, should you respond? Are there times when you shouldn't answer your ex's text or call? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains in detail which communication you should respond to and which you should ignore.

Duration:00:05:52

How To Survive Dating Someone Who Is Under 25

9/20/2018
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If you're dating someone under the age of 25, you've probably already found out it has its own set of unique challenges. People that age are fickle and flaky. Dating/relationship Lucia explains how to approach dating someone under 25 so that you'll have the best chance at making it work.

Duration:00:05:01

Will You Get Your Ex Back?

9/16/2018
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When someone breaks up with you, at that moment, you are temporarily powerless. Whether you get your ex back or not often depends on how you react to the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to react to a breakup in order to ensure that you have the best chance at getting your ex back.

Duration:00:04:26

If You're Thinking of Breaking No Contact, You MUST Listen to This

9/12/2018
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If you've been doing no contact and you feel that you're at the breaking point and you want to reach out to your ex, listen to this video first. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a success story from someone who didn't believe they would hear from their ex but eventually their ex called.

Duration:00:05:23

5 Signs The No Contact Rule Is Working

9/6/2018
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If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back and still haven't heard from them, you're probably wondering if it's working. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 5 ways to know that you're not wasting your time and no contact is working.

Duration:00:07:31

Will No Contact Work For Me?

9/1/2018
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No Contact is very effective when someone has broken up with you and you want them back. But will it work in other situations? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a woman who wonders if no contact will work in her situation.

Duration:00:07:35

The 3 Times You're Most Likely To Break No Contact

8/25/2018
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If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you already know that it's difficult to maintain. However, there are 3 situations when it will be more difficult than normal. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what those 3 times are and how to deal with them.

Duration:00:05:01

What Does It Mean If Your Ex Is Viewing Your Snaps/Stories?

8/22/2018
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When someone breaks up with you, you rightly assume they want nothing more to do with you. That's why it's so confusing when you see that they're still viewing your snaps or IG stories. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what this REALLY means and why you shouldn't assume your ex wants to get back together.

Duration:00:05:11

Is It Too Late To Do No Contact?

8/19/2018
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If you begged and pleaded when your ex broke up with you, will no contact still work for you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's never too late to start no contact.

Duration:00:04:00

Breakup to Millionaire

8/15/2018
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A woman who finally got closure almost 35 years after a guy ghosted her, shares her inspiring story of how the break up probably led to her becoming a millionaire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you can't always blame yourself when someone breaks up with you without giving you a reason.

Duration:00:05:23

What To Do If Your Ex Is Being Hot & Cold

8/12/2018
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Did your ex contact you and then pull away when you responded? What's going on? Are they playing games or regretting their decision? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's happening with your ex when they send mixed signals by being hot and cold and how to handle this frustrating situation.

Duration:00:06:36

Does No Contact Work On Women?

8/8/2018
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A dating "expert" is telling men that no contact doesn't work on women. Once they're gone, you can't get them back with no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers the question as to whether no contact works on women and reveals the truth.

Duration:00:04:47

I'm Afraid My Ex Is Going To Move On

8/5/2018
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If you're doing no contact to get an ex back, at some point you'll start to worry that if you don't reach out to your ex, they will move on with someone else. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why reaching out is a bad idea and what to do instead.

Duration:00:05:17

2 Exceptions To The No Contact Rule

8/1/2018
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If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, you may be wondering if your situation is the exception and if you should break it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 2 exceptions to the no contact rule and when you should break it.

Duration:00:05:12