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Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.

Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.
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Los Angeles, CA

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Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.

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English


Episodes

Should You Answer If Your Ex Calls?

6/17/2018
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What should you do if you're in no contact and your ex calls but you miss the call and they didn't leave a message? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you should not answer the phone if an ex you want to get back with, calls you.

Duration:00:03:58

No, You Do NOT Love Your Ex

6/10/2018
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Do you love your ex? Do you want them back? In this cutting edge podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you don't really love your ex if you want to get back with them.

Duration:00:03:58

My Ex Insists On Being Friends

6/3/2018
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If you're trying to get your ex back, but they insist on trying to be friends with you while you're trying to do no contact, what should you do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to comments from 2 guys who are letting their ex's push them around and explains why this will only drive the ex's away even more.

Duration:00:04:39

10 Signs You're About To Be Dumped

5/27/2018
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What are the signs that someone is pulling away? Are you about to get dumped? Find out 10 signs to look for. You're not going to like #10! Dating/relationship expert Lucia also reveals the 5 options you have to stop someone from dumping you. You probably won't want to do #5!

Duration:00:10:14

My Ex Broke Up With Me Because I Was Needy

5/20/2018
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Trying to get reassurance from your partner that they'll always love you and never leave you is not attractive and lowers interest level. Being needy and insecure often leads to your partner breaking up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get the security you crave in a relationship and stop obsessing over your ex.

Duration:00:09:10

When Should You Respond To Your Ex?

5/13/2018
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If you want to get your ex back and you've been doing "no contact", there's a very good chance that you'll hear from your ex sooner or later. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you probably shouldn't respond to the first message and what to do instead.

Duration:00:05:25

My Ex Is Dating Someone New

5/6/2018
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What should you do if your ex is dating someone new and you want them back? Should you accept that they've moved on and move on yourself? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you don't have to worry if your ex is dating someone new and how to deal with the situation.

Duration:00:06:31

So You Broke No Contact - Now What?

4/29/2018
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If you're trying to get your ex back and doing no contact, you will probably slip up at least once. That's because dealing with a breakup is very similar to a drug addict trying to get off drugs. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's important that you stick to no contact and what to do when you break it.

Duration:00:03:58

Should You Move On From Your Ex?

4/15/2018
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If you've been trying to get back with your ex but it still hasn't happened, you may be wondering whether you should just move on. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this isn't the question you should be asking yourself and what you really mean when you ask that question.

Duration:00:03:03

When Will My Ex Come Back?

4/8/2018
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There's a certain phenomenon that often happens when you're in no contact and hoping to hear from your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when you are most likely to hear from you ex, other than 6-8 weeks after the point of last contact.

Duration:00:05:53

It's Your Fault Your Ex Broke Up With You

4/1/2018
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When your ex broke up with you, they felt they had a good reason, even if you don't agree. It was based on something(s) you said/didn't say or did/didn't do. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how putting yourself in your ex's shoes and seeing things from their point of view will be helpful in getting them back.

Duration:00:04:37

How to Lose A Girl In 7 Days

3/25/2018
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In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a guy who met a woman online. Things got hot and heavy quickly, but within a week she was pulling away. Lucia explains what he did wrong and what he should have done to keep the fire burning.

Duration:00:15:37

Are You Text Stalking Your Ex?

3/18/2018
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What is a text stalker? What makes someone continue to send texts when the other person isn't responding? In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to an email from a woman who continues to text her ex, even though he told her it's over and he's not returning her texts.

Duration:00:09:02

Break Up Season is Here

3/11/2018
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Spring cleaning, spring break, spring fever and sadly, peak breakup season is coming up. Besides the 2 weeks before Christmas, spring is the other time of the year when a breakup is likely to occur. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to avoid and prepare for a possible breakup.

Duration:00:03:22

What to do When Your Ex Contacts You & Then Disappears

3/4/2018
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Your ex has finally contacted you after you did no contact! You text/chat for a few days and then they go cold. What's going on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the next move to make when your ex ghosts you after reaching out.

Duration:00:05:59

How to Get Your Ex to Text/Call You Back

2/25/2018
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If you're trying to get your ex back and decide to break no contact, you need to at least have a good reason for contacting them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why most people go wrong when they contact an ex and what to say to increase your chances of getting a response.

Duration:00:06:51

Will My Ex Come Back?

2/18/2018
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The #1 question that everyone who wants their ex back asks is, "Will my ex come back?" The answer to this depends on many things, including your ex's interest level when they broke up with you. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the most important factor in whether your ex comes back is how YOU behave after the break up.

Duration:00:05:00

No Contact Means NO Contact

2/12/2018
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People trying to get an ex back often break the "no contact" rule without knowing it. Once you break it, you have to start "the count" all over again and go back to zero. In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the small ways in which you may be breaking no contact.

Duration:00:06:34

My Girlfriend Wants to See Her Ex!

2/4/2018
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What should you do if your partner tells you they want to meet up with their ex? Should you forbid them, break up with them or have a fight? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what to say in this situation so that no matter what happens, you'll remain a high-value partner.

Duration:00:05:42

So Your Ex Liked Your Instagram Post

1/29/2018
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What should you do when your ex starts to like or comment on your social media posts? Should you acknowledge it or ignore it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals that responding to your ex's sudden appearance actually breaks the "no contact" rule and makes it less likely for them to text/call you.

Duration:00:03:38