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Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.

Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.
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Los Angeles, CA

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Lucia is a dating andrelationship expert, specializing in "Cougar Relationships". She is the author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, a syndicated columnist and speaker.

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English


Episodes

What Is No Contact?

12/16/2018
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What is the no contact rule? There seems to be a lot of confusion as to what no contact is. Does it mean you don't respond when your ex contacts you? Does it mean you wait 30 days and then contact your ex if you haven't heard from them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia clears up the confusion as to what no contact is and most importantly, what it isn't.

Duration:00:08:25

The #1 Reason Why Your Ex Broke Up With You

12/9/2018
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No matter what the specific reason why your ex broke up with you, it's always a secondary reason. There is only one reason why your ex broke up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why attachment styles, childhood trauma and trust issues are not the main reasons why someone ends a relationship and what the #1 reason for breakups is.

Duration:00:07:43

How To Behave When Your Ex Asks You Out

12/5/2018
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If you've done no contact correctly, at some point your ex will reach out and you'll eventually meet up. You've made it to this point, so don't mess it up now! Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives a detailed account from what to wear, where to sit and how to behave when you finally get together with your ex after the breakup.

Duration:00:07:31

The #1 Way To Find Out How Someone REALLY Feels About You

12/2/2018
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Is there a way to find out whether someone is interested in you, without asking them? Or should you just ask so you'll know for sure? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 foolproof way to find out how someone really feels about you, without having to ask.

Duration:00:05:39

6 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

11/25/2018
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If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're probably on the look out for signs that they want you back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the signs which show that your ex may want you back.

Duration:00:07:41

What To Do If Your Ex Is Angry With You

11/18/2018
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If you're trying to get your ex back, you probably think you need to make sure you don't make them angry, or they'll never come back. This leads to behaving like a doormat and thinking that you have to respond to whatever crumb of attention they give you during no contact. That's why you think you don't want to make your ex angry. What does it mean if your ex is angry at you? Does it mean you don't have a chance at getting back with them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why your...

Duration:00:05:07

Does No Contact Work If You Only Dated A Few Months?

11/14/2018
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If you only dated your ex for a short time - a few weeks or a few months - will no contact still work? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the length of the relationship doesn't determine whether no contact will work.

Duration:00:03:27

Should You Respond To Your Ex's Text?

11/11/2018
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If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and your ex finally texts you, should you respond? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should respond to your ex texting you and more importantly, when you shouldn't respond.

Duration:00:05:50

You Will Never Get Your Ex Back Unless...

11/7/2018
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If you're finding it difficult, if not impossible, to not contact your ex after a break up, you're not alone. It's not your fault. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the biological reason why no contact is so difficult and offers a solution.

Duration:00:06:15

The 60 Day No Contact Rule

11/4/2018
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You may have heard of the 30 day no contact rule but did you know there is also a 60 day no contact rule? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the 60 day no contact rule is and why it’s more effective than the 30 day rule.

Duration:00:06:08

What To Do If You Run Into Your Ex

10/31/2018
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If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you may eventually run into your ex somewhere. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do and what not to do so you don't mess up the progress you've made up to that point.

Duration:00:05:01

When Should You Block Your Ex On social Media?

10/28/2018
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If you’re doing no contact to get your ex back, should you block your ex on social media? If so, when? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when you should block your ex and why it’s so effective.

Duration:00:04:11

How To Manifest A Text From Your Ex

10/24/2018
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Find out how to manifest a text or call from your ex using the law of attraction. Dating/relationship expert Lucia used this technique and heard from her ex within 48 hours. Buy Pam Grout's book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2CTIXLO

Duration:00:09:23

Stop Trying To Get Your Ex Back

10/21/2018
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There is a common mistake most people make when they first hear back from their ex, which will delay the time it takes for the ex to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what you should do instead.

Duration:00:04:53

Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex

10/18/2018
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When you're going through a breakup, you will not be able to get ex out of your mind and will think about them constantly. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this happens and what you can do to deal with this difficult time after the breakup.

Duration:00:05:31

No Contact Is Not A Sprint, It's A Marathon

10/14/2018
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If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, impatience is not your friend. Your ex didn't decide to break up with you overnight, so they're not going to decide to get back with you overnight either. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you must be prepared for many months to go by before you hear from your ex or before you get back together.

Duration:00:05:14

When Should You Start No Contact?

10/10/2018
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When is the best time to start new contact in order to get your ex back? Should you do it as soon as someone breaks up with you or only after you have tried to talk them out of breaking up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should start no contact and why it’s so effective.

Duration:00:04:24

The Crazy Reason Why You Can't Let Go Of Your Ex

10/8/2018
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If you’re having a hard time letting go of your ex, it’s probably because you are looking at the situation from a certain point of you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what that point of you is and how you should be looking at your relationship instead.

Duration:00:04:44

Should You Respond If Your Ex Wishes You A Happy Birthday?

10/3/2018
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If you're a regular listener, you probably know you shouldn't reach out to your ex on their birthday. But what if your ex reaches out to you on YOUR birthday? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what to do when your ex wishes you a happy birthday, in order to have the best chance at getting them back.

Duration:00:06:30

The Shocking Reason You Want Your Ex Back

10/1/2018
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Do you really want your ex back or is something else going on, that’s causing you to want them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the shocking reason why people often want their exes back, which has nothing to do with love.

Duration:00:04:42