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Each week, comedian Billy Procida sits down with former hook-ups to talk about sex, dating, sexuality and gender. Plus special guests from orgy organizers to sex researchers! RetroFuture by Kevin MacLeod ( Album Artwork by Branson B. II (

Each week, comedian Billy Procida sits down with former hook-ups to talk about sex, dating, sexuality and gender. Plus special guests from orgy organizers to sex researchers! RetroFuture by Kevin MacLeod ( Album Artwork by Branson B. II (
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Each week, comedian Billy Procida sits down with former hook-ups to talk about sex, dating, sexuality and gender. Plus special guests from orgy organizers to sex researchers! RetroFuture by Kevin MacLeod ( Album Artwork by Branson B. II (




Ep. 219: Even Porn Stars Get Social Anxiety at Parties (Ela Darling)

Just because you’re an outgoing, sultry, all-holes sexpot in front of the camera doesn’t mean you’re not petrified of parties when your clothes are on. Ela Darling is more comfortable webcamming to thousands of unknown horny men than being at a party with 50 strangers. I feel the exact same away (about the parties and the webcamming). Ela opens up about the social life of a porn performer (or the lack thereof) and shares her gripe with tacky interview questions. Join us by pouring a vodka...


Ep. 218: Awkward Relationship Questions and When to Ask Them

Every college crew has their Fun Gal. Ours was Sarah. Fun Time Sarah has grown up and slowed down her sluttier ways, settling for a good Catholic boy who she’s trying to talk into some innocent public sex. But as the relationship progresses, awkward questions arise. When is the appropriate time to ask those questions? After this week’s Manwhore Podcast, you’ll hopefully learn that the answer is “not mid-make out at your high school reunion”! PLUS: marriage plans, beach sex, hiding your...


Ep. 217: Artgasms and Escaping Ohio with Madison Young

“All sex is political,” shouts Madison Young during her one-woman show Reveal All Fear Nothing. She shouts the war cry with a stiletto kicked into the air, rope wrapped around her topless body. Her career as a feminist pornographer, performer, and writer pushes against the typical stigma attached to female sexuality and the male gaze. Madison shares her story of escaping Ohio to San Francisco and how she creates authentic sexual performances on camera (as opposed to, what she playfully...


Ep. 216: Stealing Toilet Paper from a Gang Bang with Angela Spera (This Is Why You're Single)

“Don’t you find that hosting a podcast about this stuff, we are just swimming in lube?” says Angela Spera, co-host of the hit dating show This Is Why You’re Single. And she’s right! After appearing on her and Laura Lane’s podcast a couple years ago, Spera joins me to discuss sex, dating, and men who steal toilet paper during dates. We both have faced the burden of dating while podcasting—or podcasting while dating?—and the difficulties of discerning what goes on the pod and what stays...


Ep. 215: Play Party Masturbation Etiquette

“Just don’t be creepy,” might be the most worthless piece of dating advice men receive. My guest Jennifer and I go over the ambiguous instruction and how it carries over into play party etiquette. My friend and former lover also has some valuable thoughts on how to manage tertiary partners when practicing polyamory. ALSO: Someone very close to me said she thought it was disgusting and disrespectful that I talk on social media about eating p*ssy. Know what I think is disgusting and...


Ep. 214: Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex Ed

Jessica Drake is one of the last true stars in the adult entertainment industry. With nearly 20 years in the business, she is one of the most sought-after actresses and wins an award or two nearly every year. Drake, a condoms-only performer, is also an award-winning sex educator. Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex is a series of educational DVDs teaching adults what they didn’t learn in school “through intimate demonstrations performed by some of today’s hottest adult stars.” We tackle...


Ep. 213: From Hassidic Jew to New York Escort

A young Hassidic woman who battled her views on religion grew up to have sex with strangers for money. And there ain’t nothing wrong with that! The more questionable decision was when River Summers mounted her manwhore-ish Tinder date and contemplated having sex with him for free. My guest this week is a wonderful woman and sex worker who recounts our brief (unpaid) time together a few years ago. We also discuss the harmful effects of the new FOSTA/SESTA laws that attack women’s safety,...


Ep. 212: Slut-shaming, Sex Education, and Faking Orgasms with Emily Lindin (The UnSlut Project)

Slut-shaming is a cause near and dear to Emily Lindin’s heart. She published the beautiful and heartbreaking diary and memoir Unslut to shine light on the sexual bullying she faced as a coming-of-age girl. Today she runs The UnSlut Project fighting sexist stigma and shaming. We discuss mens’ roles in building a consent culture. “Get over the fear of friends, brothers, whoever, rolling their eyes at you and being like, “Oh, maybe you’re a cuck.” Cuck off! ALSO: I announce how YOU can win a...


Ep. 211: High School Love Poems and Learning to Orgasm with Remy Kassimir

Remy Kassimir couldn’t c*m…until just a few weeks ago! The How Cum? host joins this week’s Manwhore Podcast to discuss the female orgasm and how it eluded her for so many years. The path includes sex toys, faked orgasms, and lots of masturbation! What was the key to her success? Just some simple suction from a machine with a terrible name. PLUS: transgender military ban, anticipation, high school love poems, knee sex, and #PayForYourPorn! Join me in New York City for ManwhoreCon...


Ep. 210: Defending James Deen and Porn Star Drama with Jay Taylor

Jay Taylor is a hustling porn starlet managing dozens of clip stores with her boyfriend at Slamdog Films. She’s coming up in the industry having shot with some of porn’s big stars like Nina Hartley, Cherie DeVille, Chanel Preston, and…James Deen. Deen, one of her closest friends, has been accused of rape and sexual assault by multiple porn actresses (which he denies). "I was devastated and sick to my stomach for two days, but never once did I deviate from James’s side. Not once,” Taylor...


Ep. 209: Kicking Ron Jeremy Out of AVN with Ginger Banks

Fans approach porn performers and other sex workers with grabby disrespect. “I’ve seen so many comments like, ‘She’s a porn star. She gets grabbed all the time on set, so why shouldn’t we grab her on the street?” recalls cam girl Ginger Banks. “Do we go up to UFC fighters and just punch them in the face and say, ‘That’s your job!’” Sex workers are people, too. In light of FOSTA/SESTA and the subsequent shut down of websites that kept women safe, social justice is overlapping with the adult...


The Filthiest Podcast Episode Ever Made! (Ep. 208)

This is the filthiest podcast episode I have ever made. Sarah wanted to blow me. Why? Great question. I arranged three drivers to take her different legs of the journey from her city to mine. And, naturally, she had to thank each of these men with some head! Stranger play sounds like the easiest way to get murdered in the face—but gosh is it fun! Let her story encourage you to make your dream a reality. Many people cite logistics, safety, or fear to explain why they haven’t pursued their...


Ep. 207: How to (Respectfully) Hit on Women on the Subway with comedian Eagle Witt

“Most men aren’t confident enough to approach women on a train,” says comedian Eagle Witt. This week’s Manwhore Podcast guest stresses the difference between street harassment and real world flirtation. My guest believes that women will speak up when they want you to leave them alone. “A woman is not mute,” Witt insists. “She will turn you down—quickly. And when that happens, the most important thing is that’s it. Once you get turned down, disengage.” Two straight men discuss how women...


Ep. 206: How to Fight Fairly with Your Partner (Nicoletta Heidegger)

Nicoletta Heidegger is an MFT associate and sexologist who thinks there’s nothing strange with being a sex-loving smartypants. “I can be a slut and a scholar at the same time. It doesn’t have to be either/or,” she shares. That’s why she started the Sluts & Scholars podcast! Heidegger joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to discuss how to fight fairly with your partner and how to handle being called out on social media. Can you guess who that second one is directed towards? ALSO: I...


Ep. 205: The End of a Slut Streak—Sex Parties, Intimacy, and Platonic Love

Men sometimes fall folly to the mantra, “Once a slut, always a slut.” It’s at the heart of most of the slut-shaming that occurs in this world. One slut I know has since hung up her scarlet letter—although she’s not certain she’ll stay retired forever. Anna SuperSlut named herself such while making a tear through New York City’s Tinder scene. “New York City is one of the best cities to be a slut in!” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. “There’re so many men to choose from.” But...


Ep. 204: Don't Approach Porn Stars at Whole Foods —Ryan Driller

Ryan Driller is a machine. So says Ryan Driller. Being a male porn star, you kind of have to be. Shoots can take hours, and you have to be able to get rock hard and ready to go at a moment’s notice. Then you also have to be kind of good at sex. Ryan shares his pre-porn weight loss journey as well as his queer encounters with fans out in public on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. Life is just really tough for the guy with abs, women, and a cock that won’t quit! ALSO: My dear friend Emily Lubin...


Ep. 203: When Butch Chicks Exhibit Toxic Masculinity

Dudes aren’t the only people who can exhibit toxic masculinity. Pre-woke comedian Elsa Waithe was a queer, butch fuckboi once upon a time. But now she is a leader in the New York City activist movement, leading protests against racial oppression and anti-queer Trump antics. Activism even led her to Love in a fascinating Black Lives Matter meet cute. Hear her story and start making a protest sign! Check your privilege at the door—and roll your eyes at me if you must! ALSO: Dillon Birdsall...


Ep. 202: 24/7 Dom/Sub Dynamics and Unethical F*ckboi Behavior

We all have our shameful moments. I happen to have many of them. Allison joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to reminisce about my peak fuckboi phase in 2015. She and I sit down and “go to the tape” reading our final text exchanges that led to me losing out on a second date. ALSO: a kinky newbie is nervous about entering a 24/7 d/s relationship with a man she’s known for 2 weeks. Is this normal kink or is he a controlling psycho? PLUS: Tinder, casual sex, break-up text messages,...


Ep. 201: Trans Porn, Visibility, and Changing the Adult Industry with Venus Lux

Transgender porn star Venus Lux has run off to join a bunch of queers living in the woods of Tennessee. “Follow the trail of glitter and you’ll find your tribe!” Although Venus Lux is planning on her life after porn, she still plans to use her success to change how trans is treated by the adult entertainment industry and its fans. “Can I make a difference? Can I make a change? Can I motion a revolution?” I think she can! This special Manwhore Podcast comes to you from the AVN Awards in Las...


Ep. 200: Don't Listen to Your Stepson's F*ck Show

OMG! This is episode 200! Who would have thought that my penis could carry a show for this long?! I kid: we all know the ladies are the true stars of this show! On this milestone episode of The Manwhore Podcast, I hand the hosting duties over to two gorgeous fanwhores to interview me. They ask who I’m going gay for, why I stopped talking to my family for two years, what is it about gambling that’s so fun, and if I ever had to “come out” as polyamorous—and more! PLUS: AOL chat rooms,...