Art of Spousing

Decision-making is a daily reality in marriage—sometimes small (what’s for dinner?) and sometimes huge (where do we live?). But if we’re not intentional, making decisions together can turn into a battleground or a passive-aggressive standoff. In this episode, we explore how to make decisions as a team, even when you and your spouse see things differently. We’ll walk through practical tools to navigate different decision-making styles, how to build a bridge between future-oriented and present-oriented spouses, and how to seek unity even when you disagree. You’ll also hear some of our personal stories (including Lisa’s hilarious “no snakes or orange shag carpet” church move requirements) and biblical wisdom to help you grow in this crucial area of marriage. Key Takeaways: ✅ Biblical unity isn’t about thinking alike—it’s about thinking together. ✅ Identify your decision-making style and learn how to complement each other. ✅ Build a bridge between your perspectives instead of dragging your spouse across the gap. ✅ When you don’t see eye to eye, focus on listening, compromise, and trust. ✅ Who gets the final say? We unpack biblical leadership and servant-hearted decision-making. By the end of this episode, you’ll have practical strategies to make decisions together in a way that strengthens—not stresses—your marriage. Resources Mentioned in This Episode: FREE Five Voices AssessmentMarriage RebootLearn More HereRelated Episodes: 🎧 The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage 🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect 🎧 Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity Connect with Us: 📸 Instagram: @artofspousing 🌐 Website: www.artofspousing.com 💌 Join our weekly Marriage Practice email for tools & encouragement: Text AOS to 66866 Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us reach more couples who want to build strong, thriving marriages. Know a couple who could use this episode? Share it with them! 💛 Until next time—keep practicing the art of spousing! 🎙️💍

Ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? In this episode, we dive into The Five Voices—a powerful tool that helps you understand your unique communication style and how it interacts with your spouse’s. When you recognize your voice and your spouse’s, you can stop having the same frustrating conversations and start truly understanding each other. This episode will help you: ✅ Identify your Foundational Voice (and your spouse’s!) ✅ Understand why some conversations feel like a constant battle ✅ Learn practical ways to use your voice to build unity instead of conflict If you’ve ever wished for a user manual on marriage communication, this is it! Tune in, take the Five Voices Assessment (link below), and start speaking each other’s language. Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Take the Free Five Voices Assessment Marriage Reboot: One-on-One Coaching with James & LisaSign up for The Weekly Practice Email - Related Episodes: 🎧 Building Momentum in Marriage: The Flywheel Effect 🎧 Breaking Through Communication Roadblocks 🎧 Unleashing the Power of Grace: Strengthen Your Marriage Through Humility Connect with Us: @artofspousingwww.artofspousing.comSubscribe & Review: If this episode helped you, we’d love for you to subscribe and leave a review! Your feedback helps more couples build strong, resilient marriages. And if you found this conversation valuable, share it with a friend who could use these insights too! ❤️ Until next time, remember: A better me = A better we. 💙

This week, James and Lisa dive into a topic that affects every marriage: communication roadblocks. Whether you're struggling with distractions, misunderstandings, or emotional reactions, today’s episode is packed with practical tools and biblical wisdom to help you break through barriers and build a deeper connection with your spouse. Episode Highlights Why Communication is Foundational5 Common Communication Roadblocks & How to Overcome ThemDistracted ListeningJames 1:19Assumptions & MisunderstandingsEmotional EscalationProverbs 15:1Avoiding or Controlling ConflictRomans 12:18Lack of Appreciation and Balance1 Thessalonians 5:11Practical TakeawaysResources & Recommendations Weekly PractiseAOS66866 Episode ThrowbackShifting Gears for CommunicationEnneagram: The Secret to Understanding Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCordMore Than Your Number with Beth and Jeff McCord Get Involved If you found this episode helpful: Work With Us: Marriage Reboot Discovery CallConnect With Us: hello@artofspousing.comartofspousing.comartofspousing@artofspousing@thejamesduvall@lisaduvall

In this episode, James and Lisa reflect on the lessons learned from 2024 and share practical steps for designing a thriving marriage in 2025. From navigating challenges like caregiving and career transitions to building a vision for the future, this conversation will inspire and equip you to create a marriage filled with intention and growth. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Reflect on the Past YearCast a Vision for 2025Turn Vision into ActionLet Go of What’s Holding You BackCreate Habits of Connection & AccountabilityKey Resources Mentioned: Weekly Practise EmailAOSMarriage RebootClick here Action Steps for This Week: @artofspousingRelated Episodes: Hope Rising: 3 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage This Year The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman Connect with Us: - Instagram: @artofspousing - Website: www.artofspousing.com Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages. Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

In this episode of Art of Spousing, James and Lisa give listeners a behind-the-scenes look at their creative process as they develop a new framework for marriage growth: The Flywheel of Momentum. They share five key priorities that, when practiced intentionally, create synergy and depth in a marriage. From foundational communication to fostering growth, this episode is packed with practical insights, engaging stories, and actionable tools to help your marriage thrive. Resources mentioned in this episode: - Marriage Reboot - The Collective - The Weekly Practise Newsletter - The Five Gears - The Communication Code by Jeremie Kubicek - Stay tuned for updates on the Art of Spousing Marriage Retreat, coming Fall 2025! Related Episodes: Unlocking the Secret Sauce of Lasting Marriages with 3 Key IngredientsSix Practises For Avoiding Complacency in Your MarriageThe Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie GormanConnect with Us: - Instagram: @artofspousing - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox! Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages. Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast! Click here to view the episode transcript.

In today’s powerful episode, James and Lisa welcome Ray and Linda, a couple who overcame deep challenges in their marriage, including a rare and often misunderstood condition called Intimacy Anorexia (IA). Ray and Linda share how this condition impacted their marriage for decades, creating emotional distance and loneliness, even while they appeared outwardly successful. Through honest storytelling, they reveal how discovering IA transformed their relationship and brought lasting healing. Ray and Linda also provide insights for couples who may feel isolated, misunderstood, or stuck, and they offer hope that healing is possible. Resources mentioned in this episode: - Marriage Reboot Discovery Call - The Collective - The Weekly Practise Newsletter - Dr. Doug Weiss Resources Intimacy AnorexiaSin of WithholdingMarried and AloneRelated Episodes: From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration with Travis & Adelle GrahamIntentional IntimacyConnect with Ray and Linda Raya: Linda@onepurposemarriage.com Ray@onepurposemarriage.com Connect with Us: - Instagram: @artofspousing - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox! Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages. Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

In this episode, James and Lisa explore the concept of liminality—the “in-between” seasons of marriage where uncertainty reigns, and you’re not quite where you were, but not yet where you’re going. Whether you're in a major life transition, feeling stuck, or simply unsure of what's next, this episode offers practical advice to navigate these challenging yet transformative moments in your marriage with intention, patience, and grace. James and Lisa also share personal stories from their own liminal seasons and provide hope for couples in similar spaces, especially those facing seasons of deep pain and loss. Resources mentioned in this episode: - The Collective - The Weekly Practise Newsletter Related Episodes: Jeremy & Kourtney Roseberry - Courageous Faith: Finding Strength in the Face of AdversityFrom Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration with Travis & Adelle GrahamNavigating Three Types of Tension in MarriageIntentional IntimacyConnect with Us: - Instagram: @artofspousing - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox! Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages. Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

In this episode, James and Lisa return after a few months break to kick off a new season! They take us on a journey through the whirlwind of life changes they’ve faced, from becoming "empty nesters" to James' major career shift and Lisa’s experience caring for her mother. Together, they unpack how they navigated this season of transitions, challenges, and blessings while fighting to maintain a strong connection in their marriage. Key Takeaways: 1. Major Life Transitions: James shares about stepping out of 30 years of vocational ministry to launch a new tech company. Lisa reflects on how they both approached this significant career shift, even as they anticipated becoming empty nesters. 2. Embracing Unexpected Changes: Just as they were settling into their new season, Lisa’s mother moved in with them due to a diagnosis of Lewy Body Dementia. The couple opens up about how this shift in their daily lives impacted their marriage and family dynamics. 3. Fighting for Connection: Despite the disruptions, they discuss how they stayed intentional about prioritizing each other, reclaiming moments of connection, and ensuring their relationship remained a priority amidst caregiving responsibilities. 4. The Importance of Community: They explore the vital role community played during this season, both in providing support and in the emotional challenges of feeling isolated. 5. Lessons Learned: From God’s provision to the power of community and being intentional about nurturing their marriage, James and Lisa share the key lessons they’ve learned through these past months. Resources mentioned in this episode: - The Collective Next Episode Teaser: Join James and Lisa next time as they teach the concept of "liminality." If you’re wondering what that means and how it applies to marriage, don’t miss the upcoming episode where they unpack this intriguing idea! Connect with Us: - Instagram: @artofspousing - Website: www.artofspousing.com - Email Newsletter: Sign up HERE to get the latest podcast episodes delivered to your inbox! Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review. Your feedback helps us reach more couples seeking to build strong, resilient marriages. Thank you for listening! We hope this conversation encourages you to embrace life’s seasons with grace and intentionality in your marriage. We’ll see you next time on the Art of Spousing podcast!

Merry Christmas, and welcome to the season four finale of the Art of Spousing Podcast! As we wrap up another incredible season, we're grateful for the journey we've shared and excited for what Season 5 will bring. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of Christmas, exploring traditions and memories that make this season so special. We reminisce about our own Christmas experiences. We invite some of our Season 4 guests back to share their heartwarming Christmas traditions. You'll hear: - Our Personal Memories: James reminisces about Christmas day at his grandparents' home, filled with music and laughter. Lisa shares a humorous childhood practice of sneakily unwrapping gifts and a heartwarming family tradition involving a special moon pie box. - Decorating the Tree: We hear from the Gormans about their delightful tree decorating ritual, complete with fun music and the three Christmas keys tradition. - Creative Gift Giving: Discover our family's unique tradition of creating riddles for gift tags, adding a touch of mystery and fun to our Christmas morning. - Stocking Surprises: Dive into the debate of where the best gifts belong – under the tree or in the stocking. Hear the Kushes’ story of how their stocking tradition began. - Food and Festivities: From James' standing rib roast tradition to Lisa's pumpkin bread, food plays a central role in our Christmas celebrations. - Embracing Change: We discuss how traditions evolve over time, adapting to life’s changes, as exemplified by the Robinsons and their Christmas Eve celebration. - Gift Giving with a Heart: Learn about the Luffmans' tradition of adopting a family each Christmas and their lively Christmas Eve gathering. - Gratitude and Vision: We share insights from the noble marriage, highlighting the importance of gratitude and vision planning post-Christmas. We invite you to share your Christmas traditions with us. Whether you're newly married or enjoying the golden years, every tradition enriches the festive season. From our hearts to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Join us for this festive episode as we celebrate the love, joy, and togetherness that Christmas brings. Stay tuned for Season 5, where we'll continue to explore the art of nurturing a loving, God-centered marriage. Resources: Marriage Reboot Discovery Call SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa) Life Plan Discovery Call (With James) Support the Podcast: patreon.com/ArtofSpousing Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes, and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this heartwarming episode of Art of Spousing, we welcome Terry and Carol Moss, whose story is a testament to the beauty of God's grace and the power of second chances in marriage. With humor, honesty, and a deep faith, the Mosses open up about their journey from individual struggles and growth to finding unexpected love and unity in a blended family. They share the challenges of blending two families into one harmonious unit, the importance of respect and honor in marriage, and how they've navigated the complexities of co-parenting and step-parenting with grace. Terry and Carol also delve into their passionate work with blended families, offering encouragement, practical advice, and the wisdom they've gained from their own experiences. Whether you're part of a blended family or know someone who is, the Mosses' insights on maintaining a strong marital foundation amidst the "knots" of blended family life are invaluable. Moreover, the Mosses discuss their book "In the Beginning, It Was Not So," where they draw powerful lessons from the very inception of marriage as intended by God. It's an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and above all, an unshakable belief in the covenant of marriage. Join us as we explore the intricacies of blended family dynamics and learn how to strengthen your own family bonds with Terry and Carol Moss. Resources mentioned in this episode: - Marriage Reboot Discovery Call - SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter - In The Beginning, It Was Not So: Seven Marriage Lessons Learned In The Garden For more on Terry and Carol's ministry and to connect with their community, visit: - URL: One Flesh Ministries - IG: @onefleshministries - FB: OneFleshMinistries Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall Other Resources: Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa) Life Plan Discovery Call (With James) SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of "The Art of Spousing" podcast, hosts James and Lisa bring their unique perspectives to the table, discussing the complexities and joys of marriage and family life. We start off with a light-hearted reflection on our own experiences, setting the tone for an episode filled with warmth, humor, and insightful discussions. They revisit a compelling Q&A session from a Re Engag gathering, focusing on pressing questions that resonate with many married couples. A significant part of the conversation revolves around the intricacies of nurturing intimacy in marriage, especially when balancing the demands of parenting. They introduce the concept of 'parent office hours,' a practical approach to carving out precious time for each other amidst the busy rhythms of family life. Diving into the theme of trust and transparency, James and Lisa discuss the delicate balance of managing personal devices and friendships within a marriage. Emphasizing voluntary transparency over control, we share our thoughts on building a foundation of trust and openness in a relationship. Addressing the often-misunderstood dynamics of parenting, they challenge the notion that children are a distraction to marriage. Instead, they explore how children can actually enrich the marital bond. We offer strategies for handling different stages of child development, emphasizing the impact on marital health and unity. The conversation also covers the sensitive topic of setting boundaries with extended family and in-laws. James and Lisa stress the importance of prioritizing the marital relationship while maintaining respectful and healthy relationships with extended family members. Lastly, they touch upon the importance of spiritual guidance in making major life decisions. James and Lisa highlight the need for unity and collaboration within marriage, especially when faced with significant choices. The Art of Spousing podcast is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to grow and thrive in your relationship. Resources: Marriage Reboot Discovery Call SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa) Life Plan Discovery Call (With James) Support the Podcast: patreon.com/ArtofSpousing Other episodes mentioned: Mastering the Art of In-Laws: Navigating Relationships with Grace Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Do you want to deepen your connection and foster a greater understanding in your relationship? Are you seeking a solution to enhance the love between you and your spouse? Look no further. Dr. Scott Symington joins us to share the key to achieving a heightened bond and a more profound connection with your spouse. Discover how intentional acts of love can transform your relationship and bring about a result of enriched love and strengthened commitment. Dr. Symington, co-founder of Act Agape shares how this app can foster intentionality and help you fill you and your spouse fill each other's love tank. Resources: Marriage Reboot Discovery Call SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa) Life Plan Discovery Call (With James) Connect with Guests: Website: actagape.com Dr. Scott Symington IG: @drscottsymington Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Do you long for a marriage that not only survives adversity but thrives in the face of it? Are you seeking inspiration and guidance to strengthen your relationship? Look no further because today we have a special guest, Jeremy and Kourtney Roseberry, who will be sharing the key to achieving a resilient and flourishing marriage. They have overcome immense challenges and will reveal their solution for building a marriage that withstands any storm. Get ready to unlock the secret to a marriage filled with unwavering perseverance, vulnerability, and a deep-rooted faith that leads to an unbreakable bond. Resources: Marriage Reboot Discovery Call SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa) Life Plan Discovery Call (With James) Connect with Guests: Jeremy IG: @roseberryjeremy Kourtney IG: @kourtney.roseberry Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of the Art of Spousing podcast, hosts James Duvall and Lisa Duvall dive into the importance of grace and humility in marriage. They've learned a thing or two about this topic through their own experiences and want to share their insights with you. They discuss the power of viewing your spouse through a lens of value, celebrating their strengths instead of focusing on weaknesses. They also introduce the concept of pride and how it can hinder intimacy and cause conflict in a relationship. But don't worry, they've got the antidote: humility. They define humility as having an accurate estimate of your worth and thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself. They provide practical applications of humility in marriage, like putting your spouse first and being quick to listen and slow to speak. By incorporating these principles, you can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. So, if you're looking to improve communication and strengthen your marriage, this episode is definitely worth a listen! Resources: Marriage Reboot Discovery Call SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa) Life Plan Discovery Call (With James) Support the Podcast: patreon.com/ArtofSpousing Other episodes mentioned: Shifting Gears for Communication Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity 10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse! Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode, James and Lisa welcome Cole and Karissa Robinson to the podcast. They share their love story, which begins with an "arranged marriage". Cole's shares candidly about his commitment issues. They hilariously recount breaking up after an introduction to Cole's mother at Disney. Despite three breakups, Karissa stuck with Cole, and they reflect on their rollercoaster journey. They discuss the importance of personal growth and self-reflection before entering marriage. Cole and Karissa share their decision to become foster parents, which initially caused some hesitation. They explain how their church gathering and a vision Karissa had inspired them to foster children. They talk about the challenges and rewards of fostering, including the emotional attachment they develop with the children. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and work-life integration. Lastly, they discuss the impact of investing in the lives of foster children and the support they receive from their church community and share two marriage tips that are sure to help any marriage relationship. Resources: Marriage Reboot Discovery Call SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter Life Plan Discovery Call (With Lisa) Life Plan Discovery Call (With James) Other episodes you'll enjoy: The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman Connect with Guests: Cole IG: @colejbr Jasmine IG: @karissabr Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode, Lisa and James discuss the importance of trust in marriage and relationships. The hosts emphasize that trust is the glue that holds all relationships together and can be built over time through small moments, but can also be broken in an instant. They discuss the concepts of trust builders and trust busters in relationships, sharing examples and stories of couples who have faced trust issues and worked towards restoration. They also touch on the importance of good communication, keeping promises, and the role of honesty and respect in building trust. Throughout the episode, they provide practical tips and tools for building trust in relationships. They end by encouraging listeners to take action and start implementing trust builders in their own relationships. Resources: Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates Hope Ride For Freedom Sponsor James for Hope Ride '24 Unrelenting Pursuit - helping couples get on the road to recovery. Support the Podcast: patreon.com/ArtofSpousing Other episodes mentioned: From Infidelity to Intimacy: A Journey of Healing and Restoration withTravis & Adelle Graham Shifting Gears for Communication Conflict: The Opportunity for Unity 10 Ways to Avoid Misunderstandings with Your Spouse! Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this compelling episode, we explore the powerful impact of the past on our present and future. We dive deep into a conversation about the destructive force of pornography on marriages and relationships, guided by their insightful guests Travis and Adelle Graham of The Noble Marriage. Topics discussed include the journey of healing from infidelity, the importance of personal responsibility, the process of forgiveness, rebuilding trust, establishing boundaries, and the role of God in filling emotional voids. Listeners will gain valuable insights on how to navigate the complexities of infidelity, rebuild trust, and find healing in their own relationships. The episode also highlights practical tools and resources, including an online community and a forthcoming book, to support individuals on their journey to wholeness. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation that offers hope and healing to struggling couples. Resources: Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter Walking Through Betrayal Course (75% discount with code "artofspousing") Other episodes you'll enjoy: The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman The Noble Marriage Resources: Website: thenoblemarriage.com IG: @thenoblemarriage FB: thenoblemarriage YT: thenoblemarriage Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of the Art of Spousing Podcast, hosts James and Lisa dive into the topic of misunderstandings in marriage and provide practical tips to strengthen communication and prevent tensions. They highlight that misunderstandings are normal and even healthy in a relationship, and emphasize the importance of addressing and discussing them. The hosts explore different types of misunderstandings, such as when the speaker is not aware or the listener does not understand. They discuss the responsibility of both spouses as speakers and listeners, and provide ten ways to avoid misunderstandings, including listening to understand, using I statements, speaking calmly and clearly, and avoiding blame, complain, or defend. They also touch on the significance of body language, shared calendars, and practicing patience. The episode concludes with the powerful advice of praying together to maintain unity. Don't miss the next episode featuring Travis and Adele Graham, who will share their story about overcoming infidelity and the impact of pornography in a marriage. Resources: Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication Support the Podcast: patreon.com/ArtofSpousing Other episodes you'll enjoy: Practising the Art of Spousing Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right. Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing! Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

In this episode of the podcast, James and Lisa talk with guests, Greg and Julie Gorman, founders of Married for a Purpose. The Gormans share their recent trip to Africa and the impact they had on couples there. They discuss the challenges and benefits of working together as a couple and the importance of setting boundaries. They also provide recommendations and advice on navigating tough decisions as a couple. The conversation highlights the need for unity, good communication, and finding common ground. They mention resources such as the Marriage Reboot, the Couplepreneur video curriculum, and the Peacemaker tool. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize one's marriage and seek growth together. Listeners are encouraged to check out the Gormans' resources and share the episode with others. In the next episode, James and Lisa will discuss communication and how to avoid misunderstandings in relationships. Resources: Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot SUBSCRIBE: Monthly Newsletter COUPLEPRENEUR Other episodes you'll enjoy: The Marriage Reboot: Reset, Rebuild & Find Common Ground With Greg and Julie Gorman Greg and Julie Gorman Married For a Purpose Resources: Website: marriedforapurpose.com IG: @marriedforapurpose FB: marriedforapurpose Books: What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Marriage: Unlocking 10 Secrets to a Thriving Marriage Married for a Purpose: New Habits of Thinking for a Higher Way of Living: 52 Weekly Devotions for Couples Two Are Better Than One: God Has a Purpose for Your Marriage What I Wish My Mother Had Told Me About Men Gentle Whispers: Experience God's Promises In Life's Storms Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here

Welcome to the preview episode of Season 4 of the "Art of Spousing" podcast. In this 19-minute teaser, your hosts James and Lisa give you a sneak peek into the season ahead. James and Lisa highlight the various topics that will be covered and guests who will appear throughout Season 4, giving listeners a taste of what's to come. This season promises a range of perspectives and fresh insights on marriage, relationships, and the art of successful spousing. Resources: Schedule a Discovery Call about Marriage Reboot SUBSCRIBE: Email Updates Support the Podcast: patreon.com/ArtofSpousing Other episodes you'll enjoy: Practising the Art of Spousing Connect with us: Send Questions and Comments to: hello@artofspousing.com Website: artofspousing.com FB: artofspousing IG: @artofspousing James IG: @thejamesduvall Lisa IG: @lisaduvall SUBSCRIBE ON: Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts Amazon Music Join us as we explore the intricacies of marriage, the ups and downs, the joy and challenges, and the sheer art of spousing. Remember, it's not just about being married; it's about mastering the art of doing it right. Stay tuned for the upcoming episodes and make sure to join the conversation on our social media platforms. Happy spousing! Art of Spousing is edited using Descript...the all-in-one audio & video editing application. Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here