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SWM036 – Sexy Memory Foreplay Game

Looking for a fun and sexy gift for Valentine's Day? Check out our new printable: Sexy Memory - Foreplay Game On sale now until Valentine's Day. Download it today and have it printed and ready tonight. 60 different activities to choose from so you can play at your comfort level. Been getting a ton of great feedback from both husbands and wives. Some like that it forces them to slow down and lets them get really aroused. Others just like that it includes sex :) If you're already one of our...


SWM035 – Anonymous Questions from December 2018

This podcast episode, I'm catching up on some listener's questions that I got back in 2018. You can find the complete questions and answers at Topics include: If you have a question you'd like to have answered, check out our Have A Question page at Find us on PatreonFacebookInstagramTwitterPinterest Or subscribe to our newsletter to get all the info.


SWM034 – Limited Time offer – Intimacy Advent Calendar

This is just a quick podcast episode to let my listeners know about our Intimacy Advent Calendar currently for sale in our shop. You remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day. Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore do they? Well, I wanted to try and recapture that feeling. At the same time, I know many couples struggle...


SWM033 – Sermon – Sex: An uncomfortable topic we need to discuss

This is the audio recording of the sermon I preached in my home church about sex. You can get the full transcript on the website. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.


SWM032 – Is oral sex unsanitary?

Today I'm talking about oral sex and whether or not it's sanitary. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.


SWM031 – How to help your husband be more assertive in bed

I have a lot of wives coming to me asking how to get their husband to be more assertive in bed. The problem is, our society and culture have taught men to be more submissive, and take a back seat with regard to sex. We're either explicitly or implicitly taught that we should let the woman lead in the physical relationship. The problem is that many married women don't want that. They want a husband who is assertive and confident, not waiting for his wife to make the first move and anxious....


SWM030 – Credentials, sex and sickness, falling out of love, self control and how to start leading

Today I'm answering some more questions from our Have A Question page that have come in over the last month or so. This episode I talk about my credentials, dealing with sex drive and long-term illness, falling out of love, self-control and how to start leading when you haven't been. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.


SWM029 – Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives

This episode, I'm answering anonymous questions we've received about fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.


SWM028 – Answering questions about oral sex before marriage, joint bank accounts, toys, dirty talking and grooming

I'm changing up the format of the podcast a bit this week and answering some reader questions.


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SWM026: Last Minute Father’s Day Gift Ideas

Father's Day is this Sunday, and I thought we'd share some last-minute Father's Day gifts for those wives who listen to the podcast. We've got some free options, some not-so-free options and some options that are a bit of an investment, but all of them you can manage to pull off even the day before Father's Day.


SWM025: Preparing for Mother’s Day

Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday, so thought I'd talk briefly about why father's should celebrate Mother's Day in honour of their wives. And today, my wife, Christina, has made the time to join me on this episode. Sort of to make up for the ones I missed recently. So, here we go.


SWM024: Why Do Men Think Sex is a Reward?

Often men see sex as a reward, even when it's not intended for one. Conversely, if they don't have sex, sometimes they feel punished, or that they failed at something. Why is this? I think there are three reasons: Hormones - specifically dopamine, the "reward" hormone. Society - We're taught that sex = winning Sex is a big part of being male


SWM023: It’s all about the relationship

The Bible uses marriage as a metaphor for God's relationship with us many times. I think there's a good reason for it. In this podcast episode, I discuss my belief that all the do's and don'ts, both in marriage, and in the Bible, point to one thing: the relationship. Not that the rules are unimportant, or are not valuable, but that the underlying relationship is far more so. In fact, if we focus on the relationship, on our love for the other person, then all the rules, the guidelines, the...


SWM022: Does my spouse find me unattractive

A couple of years ago I got a message from a reader who was beside herself with unfounded fears that her husband was no longer attracted to her. She hadn't asked him. She had no indication that he wasn't, but she had this deep seated fear that he wasn't. So, I ran a survey, asking spouses about their attraction to their husband or wife. And today I thought I'd share some of results with you, to help anyone else who has the same fears.


SWM021: Spice Jar

I didn't have much time this week to record, so this is a very short podcast episode to let you know about our marriage challenge this week to help you break out of a sexual rut, as well as our new product: The Spice Jar - A printable game to help you change things up in the bedroom tonight.


SWM020: 7 Dirty Fighting Techniques That Should Not Exist In Your Marriage

I once heard it said that the definition of conflict is two people in the same ZIP code. Well, in marriage the people are a lot closer than that, and this inevitably spawns conflict. Now, conflict isn't bad, in fact, it can be good and healthy. Conflict forces us to grow, to see another person's perspective, to seek unselfish solutions. But, if conflict is dealt with in an unhealthy manner, then it can be damaging. Today I'm going to share with you 7 damaging conflict behaviours that you...


SWM019: How long does a sexual awakening take?

Sexual awakenings are a point where a low-drive, gatekeeper or refusing spouse suddenly realizes that sex is important to the marriage, and that their behaviour needs to change. However, just because there is often a single instant where this realization becomes clear, it can take time, sometimes years or decades, to actually change their behaviour.


SWM018: Judaism had it right all along

Let's face it, Christianity is not the perfect religion we like to make it out to be. At least, not the way we imperfect humans play it out in our lives. And one area of life that we've really made a mess of over the centuries is sexuality. In this facet of life, Judaism seems to have gotten it right, and I think we should have paid more attention to them.


SWM017: 8 Things I don’t want to admit as a Christian Marriage Podcaster

A few years ago, I wrote a post called 16 Confessions of a Marriage Sex Blogger. In it I shared a bunch of things that I thought might be interesting to people, to sort of help my community get to know me a bit more. Today I'm going to take a slightly different direction and share with you 8 things that I don't want to admit as a Christian Marriage Podcaster. While these might help you get to know me more, I'm also wanting to show you how to be transparent, to show you that it's okay to...