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Right Ordered Life: Faith, Family and Purpose

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Ever wish you could stop doing All. The. Things? You know – the soul-crushing weight of a million tasks needed to keep your job and family going? If you’ve ever thought, “There’s not enough time in the day to get everything done. I keep trying but I end up exhausted and grumpy with the people I love. I feel guilty about self-care, get busy, and don’t do it.” – you’re in the right place. Welcome friend!Stacy Santiago, a Board Certified Coach and Licensed Professional Counselor for over 10 years, is giving you the game plan to stop collapsing on the couch and feeling like a disappointment to yourself and your family. Sharing her personal life and experience coaching hundreds of women, Stacy shows you how to get your time and energy back, show up joyful, be at peace, and live a Right Ordered Life of faith, family, and purpose. This ain’t your momma’s self-help podcast. Honest and to the point, Stacy gives you proven tools to trade your overwhelm and exhaustion for a Right Ordered Life you WANT to wake up to each day.

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Ever wish you could stop doing All. The. Things? You know – the soul-crushing weight of a million tasks needed to keep your job and family going? If you’ve ever thought, “There’s not enough time in the day to get everything done. I keep trying but I end up exhausted and grumpy with the people I love. I feel guilty about self-care, get busy, and don’t do it.” – you’re in the right place. Welcome friend!Stacy Santiago, a Board Certified Coach and Licensed Professional Counselor for over 10 years, is giving you the game plan to stop collapsing on the couch and feeling like a disappointment to yourself and your family. Sharing her personal life and experience coaching hundreds of women, Stacy shows you how to get your time and energy back, show up joyful, be at peace, and live a Right Ordered Life of faith, family, and purpose. This ain’t your momma’s self-help podcast. Honest and to the point, Stacy gives you proven tools to trade your overwhelm and exhaustion for a Right Ordered Life you WANT to wake up to each day.

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Tough Decision: Why I’m Pausing the Podcast

12/13/2023
Making tough decisions sucks. I don’t think anyone enjoys the process of making tough decisions because it can quickly spiral into over-thinking, procrastinating, and seeking what ends up being unhelpful advice. And the worst part is the fear of making the wrong decision that could negatively impact us, our families, and the people we serve. But we can’t get through life without coming to forks in the road and making choices. In today’s episode, I’m sharing with you my tough decision: why I decided to pause the podcast and how I built a mindset about it that was positive instead of negative. Don’t worry, this is not goodbye. If you’re listening right now, I THANK YOU. Please know that I want you to be a loyal listener again soon. My plan is to relaunch the podcast in the spring. Same name, same theme of the Right Ordered Life, and more solutions that help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life’s demands, and have joy in a simplified life. God bless you always my friend! -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:11:08

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How to Heal and Have Hope When Nothing Else Has Worked

12/6/2023
Have you ever tried to feel better, to fix the things that are quote “wrong” with you only to find that nothing has truly helped? I get you. That’s why on today’s show, I’m diving deeper into emotional burdens, mistakes we make in dealing with these burdens, and how to finally lift them. I’m telling you the truth that you’re not getting from overly simplistic self-help books, therapists, and Google so you can decide if you want to heal and have hope that you can calm your emotional storms and be empowered to feel good in a life you want to wake up to. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * The top 3 mistakes you make when trying to deal trauma and negative emotion * The 6 conditions for healing and why they work * What you need to speak up, take risks, and give to yourself because the world won’t give it to you -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:19:16

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Proof You CAN Transform: How Erin Did a 180 with Family, Career, and Self-Confidence

11/29/2023
Have you ever felt stuck with no way forward? You know you’re not happy, things aren’t working, but you don’t know how to change it. One of the best things I can do to help you, my friend, is to give you proof that incredible personal and career change IS possible. Pop in your ear buds and listen in because today my special guest, Erin Gehring, walks you through how she went from people pleasing and not even looking at herself in the mirror anymore to being authentic, not worrying about what other people think, and pursuing her dream job. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why Erin had all the things she had ever wanted but still wasn’t happy * What Erin had to FEEL and OVERCOME in order to like herself and make major life and career changes *The 3 keys to healing and feeling confident without people pleasing Get Erin's Body Shape and Styling Worksheet here. You can find Erin at: Facebook Instagram MorethanstyleLLC.com -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:37:31

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How to Stop Thinking "I'll Be Happy When..."

11/22/2023
Truth bomb! Your brain is programmed to fool you into thinking that when you get what you want, you’ll be permanently satisfied. If you’re like me, you’re tired of falling into the lie that you’ll be happy when you have or achieve something. On today’s episode, I’m showing you how to crush this lie and arm yourself with the strategy to keep your mind present and satisfied in who you are and what you have right now. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why your brain believes the lie that when you get something you want, you’ll be satisfied. * The real reasons you can’t stay satisfied…you always default back to THIS. * 2 Specific strategies to stop thinking “I’ll be happy when" – and it’s not a gratitude journal! -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:15:18

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This 1 Thing Will Give You Peace with Accomplishing LESS

11/15/2023
What if one simple thing could help you stop striving to feel like you’re enough? What if you didn’t have to cross all the to-do’s off your list and please other people just so you don’t feel like you’re failing? Listen in because this one small shift that I’m sharing with you today is a game-changer. It will do a 180 on your measure of enough and lighten your burden of achieving to feel worthy. That’s coming up… BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * The terrible mistake I made when I used the wrong measure of worth * The two sentences that will completely change your need to do and accomplish more * How God sees the seeds of love you sow and the unseen but magnificent effect they have in His Kingdom -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:12:59

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How to Easily Know Your Strengths (without taking tests)

11/8/2023
Knowing what you’re good at and how to use your strengths is confusing. Most of the time we ignore our strengths because we don’t know their value or maybe it feels too prideful to focus on them. We need to burst this bubble because not knowing or downplaying your strengths hurts your confidence, fulfillment, your God-given purpose, and even your children. Stay tuned because I’m going to show you why knowing your strengths is super important and three specific activities you can do today that will not only uncover your specific strengths but help you believe in them. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * 4 Must-know reasons why finding your strengths and believing in them is super important. * How to use the most effective strategies to uncover your strengths and avoid 4 big mistakes. * 3 Specific activities including the Genius Zone that will help you clearly know your strengths! -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:24:24

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Feeling Overwhelmed? Here’s Why Overwhelm Is a GOOD Thing.

11/1/2023
Feeling overwhelmed is something you either detest or have come to tolerate as your normal daily life. I spent many years shackled to overwhelm like a ball and chain. I wanted to escape it but didn’t know how or why I was stuck chained to it. Now that I’m in a place of peace and right order, overwhelm is like an old scruffy friend that pops up and actually helps me. Sounds weird right? Tune in so you can flip overwhelm upside down and have the power to view it not as the enemy you detest, but the helper you’re grateful for. That’s coming up… BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * The 2 game-changing ways overwhelm is a GOOD thing. * How to leverage overwhelm as a signal that something isn’t right. * The key questions you need to ask yourself so you can shift out of overwhelm into your natural window of peace that God designed for you. -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:15:59

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Is God your BFF? 5 Characteristics of Friendship with God

10/25/2023
Friendship. We know we need it. We are not meant to be alone. But often, we don’t act like God is our best friend. If you don’t feel close to God, maybe it’s not that you don’t want God to be your all in all, but maybe you don’t know how? I know I struggle with the “how” of friendship with God – knowing how to get distractions out of the way, overcome my weaknesses, and how to simply love Him in return for loving me. What does friendship with a mostly silent, invisible God look like anyway? Let’s figure it out together in today’s episode! BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * The most likely reason you’re not spending the amount of time you want with God and how to break down this barrier *The 5 characteristics of friendship with God that put you on a path to deeper connection and greater trust *The 12 minute morning routine training video that will help you set up smooth, God-centered morning habits to fuel your day – for free! -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:17:30

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How to Let Go of Control and Fully Trust God with Kaela McKaig

10/18/2023
Nope! Over my cold dead body. Have you ever had that kind of resistance to letting go of control? I have. Let’s be honest…when God asks us to give up love, friendship, your home, income – all measures of certainty and comfort – we struggle HARD. Today my guest Kaela McKaig, is here to share her life-changing story of letting go and the key to trusting God to bring you through your trial to the other side. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL LEARN: * 4 Reasons you don't want to let go...are you making these mistakes? * How you know you can trust God and what happens when you do * 4 Specific things you can do each day to practice trusting God * The light bulb moment that was a total life-changer for Kaela and will be for you too! You can find Kaela: - On Instagram: @kaelaprays - On her Podcast: His Word, My Walk **Grab her free tool Powerful Prayers here -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:36:25

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The Best Kept Secret to Healing: Parts Work

10/11/2023
Do you ever feel like there’s a tug of war inside of you – a part of you feels one way, a part of you feels another way and you can’t figure out what to do? Or, do you struggle with extreme bursts of emotion or coping behaviors that you can’t seem to stop? There’s an answer for all this and I’m not just sharing information about it. Today I’m sharing my personal journey with a type of inner healing, a therapeutic modality that is really helping and giving me hope. I want you to have that hope too – that you can heal from painful emotions, confusion, and inner conflict so you can have so much more peace. That’s coming up… BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * What Internal Family Systems (IFS) parts work is and why it’s so effective for boosting self-compassion, decreasing negative emotion, and breaking free from coping mechanisms * How IFS can liberate you from 3 big mistakes you’re making * Two specific exercises to get you started doing your own parts work today! IFS Resources What is IFS? Dr. Tori Olds Visual Depiction of Manager, Firefighter, and Exile Parts Directory of IFS trained therapists Book: We All Have Parts: An Illustrated Guide to Healing Trauma with Internal Family Systems -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:24:42

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Being Happy is Too Hard. Try THIS Instead and See What Happens!

10/4/2023
Do you ever feel like you should be happy most of the time? But honestly, you probably don’t feel happy most of the time. There are lots of reasons why, but trying to fix them all feels like a game of whack a mole – happiness-draining problems never stop popping up. So what do we do about this? Join me in this episode to explore a very different perspective to help you let go of frustration so you can feel lighter and encouraged in a fresh way. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why expecting happiness can be unrealistic and an illusion that keeps us UNhappy. * A highly descriptive analogy to help you visualize a different goal of life. * How to make the simple shift that makes daily life a whole lot lighter and more encouraging. -> Talk with Stacy 4 Questions for Reflection: 1. What does keep going look like for you? You might need to gently invite your inner critic to step aside quietly as you do this so you don’t end up judging yourself or feeling like you need to make the “keep going” a measure that’s hard to live up to. 2. How does your vision of keep going help you take on the yoke of Jesus and make your burden light? 3. How can you feel more gratitude? 4. What do you want to ask God to help you with? -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:18:35

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The Fulfillment Blueprint: Find Your Ideal Career or Calling

9/27/2023
What if there was a blueprint that revealed your best-fit career? Or a clear roadmap to what you should be doing with your life right now? Oh but there is! For over a decade with hundreds of clients, I’ve been using the most comprehensive fail-safe tool for knowing who you are and what fulfills you. In this episode, I share my personal struggle with finding fulfillment at work – the random decisions, confusion, and mistakes. Maybe you’ve struggled to find purpose or to be happy with your job too? There’s a “way out” of making mistakes and staying stuck in work you don’t want to do anymore. Listen in because I’m showing you how to build YOUR must-have Fulfillment Blueprint starting today so you can make the right career decisions, feel confident, and see the full picture of who you are and what you have to offer. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: BONUS: Click here to get your Fulfillment Blueprint template. Click here for the Purpose Blueprint. -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:24:36

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What to Say When Someone Makes You Angry

9/20/2023
Do you ever fly off the handle or get firey when someone triggers you? Yep, I’m nodding my head here. Getting angry and responding with yelling, arguing, or passive aggression can bring up feelings of shame, anxiety, guilt, and even embarrassment. So how do you deal with people who set off your angry firework show? Tune in to uncover the root cause, what anger really means, and what to say in difficult situations... BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● Examples of my personal triggers and how I’ve tried to understand my anger on a deeper level (and how you can too!) ● Why realizing that your anger is about you gives you POWER ● The 2 ways you can handle people who make you angry including exactly what to say ● The 5 step power process to stop negative emotional spirals and diffuse angry reactions -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:26:08

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Can I Be Authentic?

9/13/2023
Do you ever feel fake, over rehearsed, or walking on eggshells trying to say the right thing? It’s on my heart to share with you 2 ways I’m choosing to be authentic and how you can be more courageous and comfortable showing up as your true self. Oooh are you ready for that kind of honesty and freedom? Heck yes! Tune in because… BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● Why we put “makeup” on our personality and worry about what other people think ● What I refuse to do in marketing (because gimmicks and persuasion suck) ● How I’m going to be even more direct, honest, and transparent with you on the podcast ● 3 Specific ways you can practice being your true self starting today -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:18:21

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Take Care of Yourself Before You Clean Your House

9/6/2023
Do you feel like your house is always a mess? Or maybe you’re constantly striving to get all those tasks done - food prep, laundry, emails - while disheveled drawers and overstuffed closets lurk in the background. Worrying about how your home looks and getting everything done creeps up and pushes away space for something critical…your health and wellbeing. So today I’m taking a stand for you and saying, “Take care of yourself before you clean your home.” Let’s help you go from tired and disappointed to lighter, in control, and taking care of your mental, physical, and spiritual health – even if your home isn’t always clean and pretty. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● Why we go after achieving the to-do list 10x harder than taking care of ourselves ● The new beliefs you need in order to free yourself from guilt and let go of disappointment, worry, and failure ● 3 Specific steps including simple systems that make freeing up time for YOU easy! -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:16:22

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Feel Lonely? How to Feel Wanted and Connected (3 Proven Steps!)

8/30/2023
Do you ever say to people, “I feel lonely today. How lonely do you feel?” I’m guessing that’s a big NO. Loneliness is REAL and pervasive but because it’s such a deeply personal, vulnerable experience we don’t speak up about it. We either cover over it with coping mechanisms and distractions to numb out or try different solutions that don’t work. On today’s episode, I walk you through three ways to go from feeling lonely to wanted and connected. It’s a special formula and it’s not what you expect. Tune in to start feeling better TODAY! BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● How we create loneliness and why we don’t realize it creeping up like weeds in a garden ● The 3 proven steps that build meaningful relationships and a profound sense of feeling wanted and connected ● What to do if someone ghosts you or says “no” to your effort to connect Click here to read the "I Thirst" letter by Mother Teresa. -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:19:11

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What Every Woman Needs to Know about the Power of Her Words

8/23/2023
What if you could harness the power of your words to feel good, do more, and be more like Christ? Yeeeessss 😊 My friend, you’re in the right place if you want to start using emotional adjectives, self-labels, and empowering statements that lift you up! To learn how, tune into today’s episode where I give you three specific tactics to amp up your power for more joy and energy just from intentionally using a few different words in your daily thoughts and conversations. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● Why we don’t pay attention to our words and look outside ourselves to feel better ● The fascinating science that proves your words, intention, and emotions effect your physical environment ● 3 specific solutions that easily give you the power to have more positive thoughts and emotions so that you can feel better than “blah” and enjoy your daily life! -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:20:02

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How to Design Your Life AND Follow God’s Will with Kylee Robinson

8/16/2023
What’s next for you? What are you intentionally designing your life to be? If you’ve ever struggled to dream and do great things while following God’s will, this episode is for you. On today’s episode, we’re showing you how to break the mold of cultural expectations and waiting in uncertainty so you can hold space to dream, take risks, and figure out what God is asking you to do. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● What holds women back from dreaming and the KEY question that opens to door to new possibilities ● What to do if your husband doesn’t share your vision ● Steps to go from uncertainty to clarity and trust in your dreams and God’s will Grab Kylee's free guide: 5 Steps to Quit Procrastinating and Break Down Your Goal Click here to visit Kylee's website. -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:45:03

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3 Things to Say No to and How to Say It

8/9/2023
Would having the confidence and skill to say “No” to demands on your time, resources and emotions make your life a lot easier? Yeeeessss 😊 When you say “No” to these 3 things, you’ll have MORE mental bandwidth, achieve more goals, and feel so much lighter! Tune in because today’s episode gives you a firm handle on what to say “No” to and HOW to say it. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● Why it’s so easy to get sucked into busyness, complexity, and “blockers” ● What you MUST put in place before you start saying “No” or nothing will change ● How to say “No” – example language you can start using today! -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:15:33

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How to Keep Moving Forward When You're Struggling

8/2/2023
Have you ever struggled to get back on track after a major loss or disruption in your life? People tell you, “Look at the positive” and “Just keep moving forward” but that’s way easier said than done. On today’s show, I walk you through my client’s struggle to refocus and take care of her family again after what she calls a “bomb that went off and reshuffled everything.” BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN: ● Why the reaction to grief and loss is so different for everyone ● The key to bringing yourself back into the present moment so you can refocus and regain momentum ● Three major takeaways that will spark your motivation to rise up again -> Talk with Stacy Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be... If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects. -> Talk with Stacy

Duration:00:18:52