Dirty Roses Podcast

In this high-glam, high-vibration episode, host Leigh LaRie and guest co-host Charlisa "Chadowboxx" Harris are joined by the ultimate duo of beauty and creativity: Tralice Lewis of Kelly’s Custom Hat Wigs and Ambrosia of The Lam Art Studio. Tralice shares her powerful journey from healthcare professional to becoming the only Black-owned wig store owner in the Pacific Northwest, honoring her late mother’s legacy through "healing hands" and "vibe-architecture." Meanwhile, Ambrosia discusses how she pivoted from a retail boutique to a thriving art and wellness business, tripling her revenue by focusing on community paint and sips and mobile art therapy. The Queens get real about the "thug thistle" of entrepreneurship—from surviving targeted vandalism and internet scams to the manifestation moment involving a DM from Tabitha Brown. They dive into the necessity of collaboration over competition, why "no negative self-talk" is the #1 rule in art, and how a custom wig can be a total game-changer for a woman's spirit. Grab your crown and your sparkling cider—this episode is packed with gems on branding, faith walks, and the power of Black women supporting Black women. Episode Time Breakdown: [00:00][00:22]Product Highlight:[02:10][03:21][03:52][04:36][05:37][06:37][08:46][10:55][12:37][14:11][15:30][16:45][18:50][20:15][21:40][22:50][25:35][28:34][30:30][33:15][34:33]

Get ready for one of the juiciest episodes yet! Host Leigh LaRie and guest co-host Charlisa "Chadowboxx" Harris are opening the vault and diving into your "Dear Dirty Roses" listener letters. From bizarre ex-lover friendships to delusional "magic sticks," no topic is off-limits in this candid and hilarious advice session. Leigh kicks things off by sharing her own "brave but regrettable" experience going live on a national dating platform, only to be "eaten alive" by internet trolls—including a hater who tried to sabotage her live stream with a phone call! The ladies then tackle a series of anonymous letters that will have you clutching your pearls. They discuss the "Mr. Detective" ex who only calls when he senses misfortune, a man looking for the "cheat code" to transition from physical flings to true love, and the "opposite sex best friend" dynamic that feels a little too close for comfort. Plus, don't miss the dramatic reading of the "Delusional Ding Dong" letter and a cautionary tale about why you should never send a dick pic with a ruler next to it—especially to your coworkers! Whether you're looking for dating "cheat codes" or just a good laugh at someone else's misfortune, this episode is exactly what you need. Episode Time Breakdown: [00:00][00:45]Product Highlight:[02:30][04:15][06:40][09:50]Letter #1: Ms. Stubbed Toe & Mr. Detective[12:20][14:45][20:30][21:30]Letter #2: No Play to Foreplay[24:20][25:50][30:00][31:45][34:15]Letter #3: Opposite Sex Best Friends[37:05][43:20][45:10]Letter #4: Secret Lovers[50:50][53:30]Letter #5: Delusional Ding Dong[57:25][01:00:20]actual[01:03:30]Letter #6: The Aspiring Eater

In this powerful episode, host Leigh LaRie and guest co-host Charlisa "Chadowboxx" Harris are joined by Martae Brown—a Northeast Portland native, Jefferson High School alumnus, former professional athlete, and current educator and restorative justice advocate. Titled "Love Letters to the Hood," this conversation is a deep dive into the authenticity and history of Black Portland. Martae shares his journey from "mobbing" to the corner store with the homies to becoming the "Allen Iverson of education," disrupting the school system and speaking at Harvard University. He reflects on growing up in the mid-90s during the height of gang culture, overcoming the "double dutch" of street life and school, and the pivotal role a strong mother and a dedicated village played in his success. Martae gets real about the challenges of being a Black man in education, overcoming early childhood loss, and the importance of "epigenetics"—the feeling that you are a living representation of your ancestors' strength and struggle. This episode is an inspiring testament to grit, resilience, and showing up as your 100% authentic self. Episode Time Breakdown: [00:00][01:30][02:26][03:40][05:42][07:10][09:47][12:17][13:16][16:05][17:20][21:09][24:50][27:52][31:05][33:50][35:21][38:15][41:30][45:36][49:01][53:40][57:25][01:00:44][01:...

In this power-packed episode, host Leigh LaRie sits down solo to interview Portland’s ultimate power couple: Crystal Chanel, CEO of Press Release Marketing, and Chef Kiara, the culinary mastermind behind Kitchen Killa. This episode, "Seasoned & Strategized," dives deep into the intersection of high-end branding, luxury culinary solutions, and the beautiful reality of a successful queer Black marriage in business. Crystal and Kiara share their incredible journey from South Florida to the Pacific Northwest, explaining how they navigated an "accelerated" relationship that started as a professional client-consultant dynamic. From moving across the country on a private jet to fulfill a private chef contract to building a multi-staffed culinary empire in Portland, they reveal the real work behind the "glamour." They discuss the "cobbler’s kids" syndrome in marketing, the necessity of building a team that is smarter than you, and why "humility with confidence" is the key to providing luxury service. Plus, they get real about the microaggressions they face as Black women business owners in the whitest city in America and why they prioritize giving back through their annual Community Cookout. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or looking for relationship goals that actually work, this episode provides the strategy and the seasoning you need to elevate your life. Episode Time Breakdown: [00:00][01:10][02:45][05:10][07:15][09:25][13:10][15:35][20:15][22:45][24:50][28:15][31:10][34:35][36:45][39:40][43:55][47:50][49:40][54:35][57:40][01:02:50]

Get ready for an episode filled with uncontrollable laughter and raw honesty! Host Leigh LaRie and guest co-host Charlisa "Chadowboxx" Harris are joined by the multi-talented G Wade—comedian, podcast host, community advocate, and US Army veteran. In this episode, G Wade shares the hilarious origin story of his name (and why he’s technically a "Second"), his accidental journey into the military, and how he transitioned into the comedy world after realizing he was funnier than everyone else at the open mic. The conversation takes a deep dive into his 10-year military career as a combat medic, including his time in Iraq and how those life-and-death experiences led him to a practice of meditation and self-care. From "Private Burger King" stories to the "comedy equation" (Tragedy + Time = Comedy), G Wade keeps it real about his current divorce, navigating fatherhood, and his unwavering dedication to community outreach through Cultivate Initiatives. Plus, things get wild as the group discusses "designer crack" theories for affluent neighborhoods and why G Wade plans to start smoking crack at age 70. Tune in for a masterclass on how to balance masculine energy, community service, and a professional comedy career—all while keeping your "man unit" intact! Episode Time Breakdown: [00:00][01:15][02:05][04:20][05:40][07:55][10:15][11:35][13:05][16:22][17:50][18:45][20:33][21:19][25:55][28:55][31:45][36:00][40:40][43:40][46:55][48:35][49:45][51:40][56:15]

Welcome to Season 7, the lucky number! Host Leigh LaRie is joined by special guest host Charlisa "Chadowboxx" Harris (CEO of Mylani Vegan Hair & Body Care) for an exciting season premiere and recap of everything that's happened since Season 1. Leigh and Charlisa discuss the latest news and journeys, including co-host Nik B.'s inspiring weight loss and gastric bypass revision journey! They dive into Season 6 favorites, celebrating the most hilarious and moving moments with guests like Reggie (Chocolate Dope), B Wall, Ferguson (Popcorn Papi), Chyna (the female entertainer), Art Williams, and Zach Bayer (Queen’s Court). Charlisa also opens up about her personal growth since Season 1, focusing on self-care, healthy boundaries, and the challenges of dating as a successful, independent woman. Don't miss the dramatic and hilarious throwback to Charlisa's infamous Alpo Sloppy Joe story, which is still haunting everyone's childhood memories! They preview the incredible lineup for Season 7, featuring guests like Tralice Lewis, G. Wade, Alexis McKinney, Crystal Chanel & Chef Kiara (Kitchen Killa), David Jefferson & Kela Jones (Returning Blaque to Love), Damala Badon (Cupcakes and Comebacks), and Martae Brown. Tune in as they kick off Season 7—a season dedicated to wellness, growth, and living your best, most authentic life! Episode Time Breakdown: [00:00][01:04][01:40][03:20][04:30][07:10][09:08][11:40][13:45]Product Highlight:[15:00][18:35][22:25][25:00][30:40][34:30][37:18][39:09][44:26][47:25][49:25][50:50][55:00][57:50]

DRPS6E9 Episode 9 | Reel Reactions | Dirty Roses Podcast This week, hosts Leigh LaRie and Nik B. are reacting to real-time content, from social media clips to viral videos. They're tackling some of the internet's most debated topics, including gender roles, dating expectations, and the "three F's" of relationships. Grab a drink and get ready for some unfiltered, honest, and hilarious takes on all things love, lust, and perception. Episode Highlights & Timestamps: [00:00] Intro: Welcome to Dirty Roses Podcast Loved this episode? Don't forget to subscribe and leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Want to see the video? Watch this episode on YouTube! Season 6 Sponsors: Nebula 9 Vodka www.Nebula9Vodka.com https://nebula9vodka.com/pages/where-to-buy www.PridefullyPoured.com www.Scent2BeCandles.com www.BetterDaysWest.com Your Podcast's Social Media: Follow Leigh LaRie: @LeighLaRie on all platforms #DirtyRosesPodcast #LeighLaRie #NikB #ReelReactions #DatingAdvice #RelationshipGoals #GenderRoles #Podcast #LoveAndLust #TalkingStage #HighValueMen #ComedyPodcast #PortlandPodcast

DRPS6E8 Episode 8 | Power & Partnership: Love, Legacy, and the Industry w/ Kilaa & Terrance "Cool Nutz" Scott | Dirty Roses Podcast Get ready to be inspired! In this episode, Leigh LaRie and Nik B. welcome a real-life power couple and two of their dearest friends, Kilaa and Terrance “Cool Nutz” Scott. They open up about their beautiful and hard-won journey in love, life, and legacy. Discover the surprising origin of their love story, from a friend's setup to a pivotal moment over Popeye's and a first date that took place at Chuck E. Cheese. Kilaa and Terrance share their secrets to navigating two demanding and different careers—Terrance as an international music icon and manager, and Kilaa as a healthcare guru and community advocate. They offer candid insights on balancing family life, handling conflict, and the importance of faith and patience in building a successful, long-lasting partnership. Episode Highlights & Timestamps: [00:00:00] Intro & Welcome with Kilaa & Terrance "Cool Nutz" Scott. [00:02:00] The famous Luster’s hair story from Leigh's childhood. [00:04:30] Leigh's hilarious first encounter with the "Cool Nutz" legend. [00:09:00] The origin of their love story: Monique, MySpace, and a single-word message. [00:15:00] The Popeye's call that won Terrance's heart. [00:18:00] The Chuck E. Cheese date that showed Kilaa he was "the one". [00:23:00] Navigating two demanding careers and the "ebb and flow" of support. [00:28:00] Handling conflict and learning to argue as a couple with different upbringings. [00:32:00] Kilaa's perspective on being a "celebrity wife" and sharing her husband with the world. [00:37:00] Terrance on leveraging his platform to support Kilaa's mission for health equity. [00:41:00] The truth about Kilaa's "Grammy-nominated" singing career. [00:44:00] The craziest things Terrance has witnessed on the road: watching greatness happen. [00:51:00] Terrance's journey from "Portland rapper" to a music industry icon. [00:58:00] Their advice for couples: take "perfect" out of the equation. [01:05:00] The foundational importance of faith, accountability, and grace. [01:10:00] Thanking the guests & celebrating Kilaa's recent "Woman of Impact" award. [01:15:00] Nebula 9 Vodka & Dirty Roses Podcast Updates. Loved this episode? Don't forget to subscribe and leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Want to see the video? Watch this episode on YouTube! Guests: Kilaa Scott: Instagram: @KilaaScott Terrance “Cool Nutz” Scott: Website: www.CoolNutz.com Instagram: @CoolNutz Season 6 Sponsors: Nebula 9 Vodka Website: www.Nebula9Vodka.com IG: @Nebula9Vodka Where to buy: https://nebula9vodka.com/pages/where-to-buy Drinks Handcrafted by: Pridefully Poured Website: www.PridefullyPoured.com IG: @PridefullyPoured Product Highlight: Scent 2 Be Candles Website: www.Scent2BeCandles.com IG: @Scent_2_Be_Candles

Episode 7 | The Black Mannequin Challenge w/ Bryan Walden | Entrepreneurship & Life Lessons | Dirty Roses Podcast Get ready to be inspired! In this episode, Leigh LaRie and Nik B. welcome the "Pop-Up King" himself, Bryan Walden, the visionary behind The Black Mannequin brand. Bryan shares his incredible journey from illegal hustling to becoming a successful entrepreneur, master barber, motivational speaker, and community advocate. Discover the surprising origin of "Black Mannequin," how Bryan manages multiple thriving businesses (clothing, sea moss, barbering), and the secrets to his relentless hustle. He opens up about balancing a demanding career with family life, the unique challenges of working with friends, and the profound lessons learned from his past. [00:00:00] Intro & Welcome to the "Black Mannequin Challenge" with Bryan Walden. Loved this episode? Don't forget to subscribe and leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Want to see the video? Watch this episode on YouTube! Guest: Bryan Walden (The Black Mannequin): TheBlackMannequin.com @TheRealBlackMannequin @MannequinCuts Season 6 Sponsors:

Episode 04 | Skripper Chronicles Part Deux: That Thong w/ Chyna | Dirty Roses Podcast It's "Skripper Chronicles Part Deux" and it's getting real! Leigh LaRie and Nik B. welcome the incredible Chyna (@QueenChyna_), a veteran dancer with 12 years in the industry, for an unfiltered conversation about the world of exotic dance. Chyna spills all the tea on her journey into dancing, from a CNA to a seasoned pro, detailing the realities of juice bars vs. full nude clubs in Portland. She shares shocking stories from the stage, her strict personal boundaries with clients, and the wild experiences that shaped her rules. Plus, hear her candid take on industry camaraderie, navigating challenges like pimps, and her future entrepreneurial ventures aimed at supporting other dancers. This episode is packed with jaw-dropping revelations and fierce independence! Episode Highlights & Timestamps: [00:00:30] Welcome Chyna: Veteran dancer & the "Skripper Chronicles Part Deux"! Connect with Chyna: IG: @QueenCh...

Episode 03 | Jack of All Trades: Increasing Your Value w/ David Ferguson | Dirty Roses Podcast Get ready to elevate your mindset! Leigh LaRie and Nik B. welcome David Ferguson, Portland's living legend, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and owner of Joe Brown's Carmel Corn! In this inspiring episode, David shares invaluable insights on building multiple successful ventures, from real estate to music publishing, and what it truly means to be a "Jack of All Trades" who has has mastered them all. Discover his unique journey of increasing personal value, the brutal truths of entrepreneurship, and how he navigates a demanding career while prioritizing self-care and finding balance. David also opens up about his philosophy on relationships, success, and the powerful lessons learned from failures and the Black community in Portland. Episode Highlights & Timestamps: [00:00:30] Welcome David Ferguson: The "Popcorn Papi" & Portland's living legend![00:02:40] Introducing David's empire: Ferguson Consulting & Publishing, Joe Brown's Carmel Corn, North Bar, Ferguson Realty, and Portland Kid Publishing.[00:05:00] Real Estate as the foundation: His 21-year career and how he got started.[00:09:00] What truly qualifies an entrepreneur: Foresight, discomfort, and risk-taking.[00:13:30] Dissolving businesses & navigating the corporate vs. entrepreneur path.[00:15:30] Building a trustworthy team: Vetting people and overlapping business/personal.[00:19:00] Self-care as a mogul: Meditation, exercise, and the joy of chocolate gummy bears.[00:21:00] Passion vs. Profit: Music as a passion, real estate as the financial driver.[00:23:00] Understanding Music Publishing: The 300% ownership concept.[00:27:00] Demanding respect: Overcoming underestimation as a seasoned professional.[00:29:45] Work-Life-Family Balance: Sacrifices made & finding peace in purpose.[00:35:00] Children as legacy & motivation: David's sons and their roles.[00:37:00] Dating & relationships for successful men: Navigating sincerity vs. masked interest.[00:40:00] The ideal partner: Someone who aligns with (or supports) his entrepreneurial lifestyle.[00:46:00] Childhood examples: The power of "what not to do."

Episode 02 | When Life Gives You Lemons, Make Chocolate Dope w/ Reginald Parham | Dirty Roses Podcast Get ready for an incredibly "dope" conversation as Leigh LaRie and Nik B. welcome the man, the myth, the legend himself, Reginald "Reggie" Parham, founder of Chocolate Dope! In this raw and hilarious interview, Reggie shares his wild journey from Wisconsin to Portland, his multiple brushes with the law (including an unbelievable story about weed and police at the Idaho border!), and how life's curveballs inspired him to create a thriving clothing brand. Discover his entrepreneurial struggles and triumphs, his unexpected health battles, and his candid (and often shocking!) takes on relationships, dating, and what men really think about "sterilization." Plus, hear why he loves Portland and how the Black community shaped his business acumen. You don't want to miss this one! Episode Highlights & Timestamps: [00:00:30] Welcome Reggie Parham, founder of Chocolate Dope![00:01:45] Reggie's journey from Wisconsin to Portland: Life after prison & finding "the best weed."[00:04:30] The birth of Chocolate Dope: From rap merch to a cacao-inspired brand.[00:06:50] Reggie's legal troubles: A shocking Idaho border story and beating a case.[00:15:20] Entrepreneurial struggles: Battling diverticulitis & a brother's betrayal in the music industry.[00:23:45] Balancing artistry & business: Reggie's multifaceted career.[00:26:00] Reggie's wild life story: From New York to Florida, Dallas, Denver, and more![00:31:00] Dating and relationships: Reggie's candid (and hilarious) "sterilization" theory on condoms.[00:44:30] Navigating life as an entrepreneur: Store robberies, growth, and Portland's unique culture.[00:54:00] Top qualities Reggie looks for in a partner (brace yourselves!).[00:57:30] Craziest thing for love? Reggie's honest take on "toxic honesty."[01:03:00] From prison "P-Nice" merch to Chocolate Dope: The brand's origin story.[01:10:00] Advice for aspiring entrepreneurs: Go hard every day![01:14:00] Reggie's favorite cities and unforgettable travel stories. Connect with Reginald Parham & Chocolate Dope:

Episode 01 | Game Six: Recap Episode | Dirty Roses Podcast What up, Rose Buddies?! Get ready for Season Six of Dirty Roses Podcast! Leigh LaRie and Nik B. are kicking things off with their famous recap episode, diving deep into all the juicy discussions and hilarious moments from last season. Hear about their personal updates, epic podcast festival adventures (taco drama included!), and a sneak peek into the amazing guests and topics lined up for Season 6. Episode Highlights & Timestamps: [00:00:30] Welcome to Season 6: The Recap Episode![00:01:30] Nik B's big relationship update and life in 2025.[00:05:00] Leigh LaRie's solo birthday dates and breaking her dating rules![00:09:40] The infamous Afros and Audio Podcast Festival and "Taco Lady" drama.[00:19:00] Season 5 Rewind: Favorite episodes like "In Killing Color" (Black Serial Killers), "Healthy Co-Parenting," and "Delusional Dating."[00:32:00] "What Men Want" with Will: Our highest-viewed and most feedback-driven episode![00:35:00] "Coloring Outside the Lines" (Non-Traditional Dating) with Queen Drissy.[00:39:00] "Stress, Love, & Burnout" with Dr. Cassandre Dunbar.[00:43:45] "Winning Together: Marriages & Business" with Dominic and Kenda Lawson.[00:50:30] "Barbershop Talk" with Uncle E: Exploring men's perspectives on hot topics (and muffins).[00:59:00] Season 6 Sneak Peek: "Reel Reactions," Black Mannequin Challenge, Skripper Chronicles Part 2, David Ferguson of Joe Brown's Carmel Corn, Power & Partnership with Cool Nutz & Kilaa.[01:14:00] Listener Letters: Advice on marriage, first-time experiences, and friend drama (submit yours!).[01:19:00] "When Life Gives You Lemons, Make Chocolate Dope" with Reggie.[01:22:00] "Off With His Head: Life After Queens Court" with Zach Bayer from Peacock's "Queen's Court."[01:29:00] "Beyond the Influence" with Celebrity Barber Art Williams of Influential Grooming Lounge.[01:35:00] Meet Our Team: Labs Media, Kenny X. Hamlett (Producer & Editor).[01:39:00] Season 6 Sponsors & Product Highlights: Scent 2 Be Candles, Nebula 9 Vodka, Pridefully Poured.

Ladies are you ready to hear what men talk about? Fellas, does this episode sound familiar? Leigh LaRie and NiK B welcome Uncle E for a candid conversation exploring the male perspective on relationships. This episode delves into common complaints men have, communication challenges, views on body enhancements, and hot topics like sex and settling down. It's a revealing look at what men discuss behind closed doors. Find Our Guest: Uncle EIG: @Uncle_E12Facebook: Eric CheathamIG: @WineOnTheWaterBaltimore Sponsors: Dirty Roses Podcast is grateful for the support of Poetic Justice Foundation. This organization helps entrepreneurs build successful businesses by providing resources, mentorship, and community. They believe in the power of collective action to overcome challenges and create positive change. Learn more at www.ThePoeticJusticeFoundation.org or on Instagram @PoeticJusticeFoundation. Product/Brand Promotion: Looking to level up your life skills? Check out "Life Skills for Teens and Young Adults: What You Should Know and Learn by 25" by Christopher Kendrix. This comprehensive guide covers everything from financial literacy to relationship building, and is a must-read for anyone navigating the challenges of adulthood. Grab your copy today on Amazon: https://a.co/d/h8scisz Don't miss a single juicy moment! Subscribe: Head over to DirtyRosesPodcast.com and subscribe on all your favorite podcast platforms, including YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, and more!Connect: Follow us on social media @DirtyRosesPodcast, @LeighLaRie, and @NikB_NikB for behind-the-scenes fun, bonus content, and to join the conversation.Share your story: Got a crazy dating story, a burning question, or just want to share your thoughts? Submit your letter to DirtyRosesLetters@gmail.com.Collaborate with us: Want to feature your product or service on our platform? Interested in sponsoring an episode or the entire season? Contact us directly at DirtyRosesPodcast@gmail.com. Rate and Review: Loving the show? Show us some love by leaving a 5-star rating and review on your favorite podcast platform. We appreciate your feedback!

Get ready, Rose Buddies! Leigh LaRie and NiK B welcome Dominic & Kenda Lawson to explore the dynamics of "winning together" in marriage and business. Dominic & Kenda share insights on balancing individual projects and collaborative work, effective communication strategies, and their journey of building a life and business together. The episode delves into their personal and professional relationship, how they navigate challenges, and the secrets to their success. Find Our Guest: Dominic LawsonIG: @the_real_dominiclawsonKenda LawsonIG: @eatteachcreate Sponsors: Dirty Roses Podcast is grateful for the support of Poetic Justice Foundation. This organization helps entrepreneurs build successful businesses by providing resources, mentorship, and community. They believe in the power of collective action to overcome challenges and create positive change. Learn more at www.ThePoeticJusticeFoundation.org or on Instagram @PoeticJusticeFoundation. Product/Brand Promotion: Looking to level up your life skills? Check out "Life Skills for Teens and Young Adults: What You Should Know and Learn by 25" by Christopher Kendrix. This comprehensive guide covers everything from financial literacy to relationship building, and is a must-read for anyone navigating the challenges of adulthood. Grab your copy today on Amazon: https://a.co/d/h8scisz Don't miss a single juicy moment! Subscribe: Head over to DirtyRosesPodcast.com and subscribe on all your favorite podcast platforms, including YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, and more!Connect: Follow us on social media @DirtyRosesPodcast, @LeighLaRie, and @NikB_NikB for behind-the-scenes fun, bonus content, and to join the conversation.Share your story: Got a crazy dating story, a burning question, or just want to share your thoughts? Submit your letter to DirtyRosesLetters@gmail.com.Collaborate with us: Want to feature your product or service on our platform? Interested in sponsoring an episode or the entire season? Contact us directly at DirtyRosesPodcast@gmail.com.Rate and Review: Loving the show? Show us some love by leaving a 5-star rating and review on your favorite podcast platform. We appreciate your feedback!