What Would Love Do?

High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity. But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something […] The post High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days. In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal. But what happens when you decide you […] The post What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for. Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex? Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health […] The post Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family. The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the […] The post Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right. But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and […] The post Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure. Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection. Those […] The post Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic. Let me remind you that no one […] The post Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS Isn’t it so easy to focus on the negative things in life? I realize that many of my videos sound pessimistic about finding love or how to avoid the wrong person but I really am a hopeful romantic! In fact, I find great inspiration from real […] The post Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up In my experience, it seems as though the most successful couples start off as friends first. So often we’re stuck asking, “Is there chemistry between us?” when we really should just focus on getting to know one another. Let’s have a DEEPER […] The post Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

5 Ways Men Need To Step Up When Dating You So often we’re meeting people from a place of loneliness and lack. We often want physical intimacy right away instead of determining if this person is right for us. When we don’t hold high standards for the guys we date, it’s no wonder the duds […] The post 5 Ways Men Need To Step Up When Dating You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust and Open His Heart To LOVE Monogamy and exclusivity are often considered the most important levels of commitment but my guest, Sabrina Rising, believes that leading with trust belongs at the top of that list. Sabrina starts our conversation talking about how trust is the foundation of […] The post Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust | Open His Heart To LOVE appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life Dating hyper-focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection when we really need to just sit back and focus on getting to know the other person. Do they share my values? Do we share the same type of lifestyle? Are we entering into this relationship for the […] The post THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men The “friend zone” has a bad rep. Normally we think of that as the place where all hope is lost for having a romantic relationship. But what if you consider the friend zone as the place where you start off to build a long lasting and meaningful […] The post This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Secret to Getting Closure When He Ended It (It’s Not What You Think) Today we’re going to dive deep into the often complex and messy process of getting closure after a breakup, especially when you don’t get the clean ending you hoped for. Listen in as I share a recent, meaningful conversation with my ex […] The post Secret to Getting Closure When He Ended It (It’s Not What You Think) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him A common challenge in dating today is the need for accelerated learning. In midlife, the dating process seems sped up because we’ve heard so many times not to waste time with guys who aren’t aligned with our values, lifestyle, and dreams. While that […] The post THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You So many people are in the dating marketplace because they want superficial needs met. You will find those who are looking for a committed relationship but with the easy hookup culture, it’s easier to focus on superficial instead of deep seeded desires. Let’s have a […] The post What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You In today’s dating world there are a LOT of signs that a guy isn’t ready for a relationship. But I dislike focusing on the negative all the time, so let’s turn the tables and talk about the signs that shows he IS ready for a relationship. […] The post 3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS So many people are in “situation-ships” because they value the freedom and independence. Without a firm commitment, they can continue living their lives while having a friend with benefits to suit their needs. Those who are co-dependent also jump from one relationship to the next […] The post The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things Many of us have difficulty expressing our feelings, so it makes sense that we’ll notice changes in a partner’s behavior before we hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore.” Being present in your relationship and making time to connect on a […] The post When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Love Women Who Surprisingly Do THIS Should midlife men be expected to pay for everything? It’s one thing to talk about courting a woman and paying for the dates but once that period is over and you decide to commit to one another, is this still expected of men? We’re talking finances in this […] The post Men Love Women Who Surprisingly Do THIS appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.