What Would Love Do?

Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used Words are powerful. Whether someone is praising you for a job well done or cursing you out in a fit of road rage, you know exactly what’s happening in each situation. But words can also be deeply nuanced, in the case of claiming to love someone. […] The post Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good When we have busy lives, we tend to take the good things for granted. But when you take someone for granted, you run the risk of them getting bored or feeling unappreciated. Ultimately you run the risk of them leaving. This is […] The post 3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest If you’re a regular follower, you know I’m a big proponent of women standing in their power and not giving it away to men. So, even though this title might imply that I’m shifting my views, keep listening. Also remember that it takes two to form a relationship […] The post 5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? Have you heard of this saying: “Men marry women hoping they DON’T change and women marry men hoping they DO change.” I don’t really know how or when this saying originated but I wonder why men and women fall into this trap. Of course, people change […] The post Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki While it’s a good thing that being in therapy is becoming more socially accepted, someone who is in therapy does not always equal the perfect relationship choice. Just like doing personal development work does not guarantee becoming a well-adjusted person. Therapy and personal development have become […] The post Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away I’ve lost count of the times women have told me they are afraid to speak their true feelings because of how their guy will react. Instead of jumping to the idea that this guy must be a horrible human or that she’s a little mouse, let’s […] The post How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 I do believe that most men are decent guys but they are just bad daters. You and I know that personal development work is so important but many guys think that’s just for women or it sounds too woo-woo. And once you get that belief into […] The post Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

What’s A Good Pace for Dating or Relationships? I’ll admit, this is a trick question because there’s no one-size-fits-all rule about how fast or slow a relationship should go. Some people know within weeks if this is the right person for them and others take months to build that trust and respect with someone. I […] The post What’s A Good Pace For Dating or Relationships? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! In recent years I’ve noticed there seems to be a gender war going on: men think women are too entitled or promiscuous and women think men are buffoons who only want sex. Take one quick look at some other YouTube content and you’ll see what I […] The post 97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! Sorry to burst your romantic bubble but Prince Charming isn’t going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Well, maybe someone will sweep you off your feet but unlike those fairy tales, you’re not going to commit to a […] The post What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man While a healthy sexual attraction is important in a long term relationship, chemistry alone is not enough to build a foundation…at least not if you want long term companionship instead of a friend with benefits. Also remember that men and women approach sex differently. Men see it as […] The post Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? In a world of complex relationships, it’s easy to feel lost when faced with silence from a partner, especially during the midlife years when you want to find a long term companion. Instead of living in fear that your relationship is over when he […] The post He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman Understanding attachment styles helps you to understand why your guy does the things he does. In this episode, we’re focused on the fearful avoidant, who is often afraid of abandonment and might have difficulty letting a woman get close to him. My guest today is […] The post Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You Men and women alike bring childhood trauma into their adult lives and relationships. As humans, there’s no way to avoid it because every lesson we learn in our early childhood sticks with us like glue. Hence the reason personal development is so […] The post The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead When you really think about it, the idea of dating is relatively new. In previous centuries, marriages were arranged and there wasn’t much getting-to-know-you-and-falling-in-love. It was more about committing to the best ‘deal’ for each family. In today’s world with smartphone technology, it’s all too easy to fall […] The post STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You As the old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words,” and when you’re looking for a long term relationship, seeing your guy’s actions showing that he’s dedicated and loyal to you validates the words he says. Sometimes it’s nice to have that extra proof that you’re […] The post BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore When you’re committed to the dating process and your intention is to find a partner, it’s important that you keep communication open but that you also stick to your boundaries and values. You should not change to suit someone else and the reverse is also true. So, […] The post Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? Isn’t it exciting to meet someone that you’re attracted to and that seems like a promising partner? And the excitement keeps growing as you get to know him…until he tells you something that throws up a red flag. That something could be […] The post He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) Obsession with anything isn’t good but when you’re pining away over your ex and your days and nights are filled with wishing you could get back together, you get stuck and can’t move forward. Inevitably, this way of thinking will affect every area […] The post How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Generally speaking, men over 40 can be pretty set in their ways and don’t often make the best decisions when it comes to dating and building a stable relationship. It’s often difficult to break old patterns of behavior – or to even recognize that these patterns […] The post Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.