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Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast with your host, Susan J. Elliott, author of Getting Past Your Breakup. Like Elliott's wildly popular blog, books and Facebook groups, this podcast tackles tough questions about relationships, breakups, life, love and loss based on the GPYB program. New episodes will bring you the advice you need to find health, healing and happiness.

Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast with your host, Susan J. Elliott, author of Getting Past Your Breakup. Like Elliott's wildly popular blog, books and Facebook groups, this podcast tackles tough questions about relationships, breakups, life, love and loss based on the GPYB program. New episodes will bring you the advice you need to find health, healing and happiness.

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Welcome to the Mean Lady Talking Podcast with your host, Susan J. Elliott, author of Getting Past Your Breakup. Like Elliott's wildly popular blog, books and Facebook groups, this podcast tackles tough questions about relationships, breakups, life, love and loss based on the GPYB program. New episodes will bring you the advice you need to find health, healing and happiness.

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@meanpodcast

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English

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9142369394


Episodes

MLT 107 Blindsided!

7/4/2021
The ending of a relationship never feels good, but it feels even worse when you didn't see it coming. In this "Mail. We Get Mail" episode, we discuss 2 scenarios where people - one man and one woman - were each blindsided by the end.

Duration:00:49:23

MLT 106d The Ultimate Boundaries Story - Part 4

6/23/2021
THE FINALE of the MUCH requested 4-part Boundaries episode. If you didn't listen to the other 3 parts, this is not going to have the impact it would have it you had. Yes, I know it's long but all of this is necessary to the importance of the ultimate lesson here.

Duration:00:44:17

MLT Ep 106C The Ultimate Boundaries Story Part 3

6/23/2021
Part 3 - of the MUCH requested 4-part Boundaries episode. It's long but all of this is necessary to the importance of the ultimate lesson here.

Duration:00:45:54

MLT 106B - The Ultimate Boundaries Story Part 2

6/23/2021
Part 2 - Episode 106B - of the MUCH requested 4-part Boundaries episode. There is no intro/outro music in parts b and c and only outtro in d. It's long but all of this is necessary to the importance of the ultimate lesson here.

Duration:00:36:08

MLT106A The Ultimate Boundaries Episode

6/23/2021
The MUCH requested 4-part Boundaries episode. There is no intro/outro music in parts b and c and only outtro in d. It's long but all of this is necessary to the importance of the ultimate lesson here.

Duration:00:40:04

MLT 105B The Rest of the Story

6/20/2021
Continuing on with the rest of the answers to your questions, the future of the podcast and the MLT JOKE that you have to know for future reference.

Duration:00:51:32

MLT Ep 105A

6/20/2021
Podcast 105A explaining where the podcast has been, where it is going and the answer to your recent questions.

Duration:00:49:13

MLT Ep 104b Talking About The Blame Game

1/27/2021
When you grow up being blamed, you find yourself in relationships the same way. It takes work to get out of the habit of blaming and being blamed. Gaslighting and triangulation are deadly to relationships. If you've grown up in a dysfunctional family system, you sometimes fall into this quite naturally. It takes work to learn to be responsible, own what you own, don't own what you don't own, and move out of the blame game. #dysfunction #breakup #divorce #relationships #ACOA I know that most...

Duration:00:41:36

MLT Ep 104a Talking About Obsession, Stalking Your Ex on SM

1/17/2021
#obsession #infidelity #socialme #spying #Gerardot #JennairGerardot #MarkGerardot #MeredithChapman #truecrime Many people have told me that they can't stop following their ex on social media, that they are obsessed with what their ex is doing or has done (cheating). There can be grave results when there is a failure to address obsessing about an ex and their new love or the person they cheated with It's important to block and move on. Obsession is a murky water that will drown you if you...

Duration:00:42:00

Talking About Covert Narcissism and Relationships

1/6/2021
A follow up to some other episodes I've done on covert narcissism. Please go to the YouTube version of the podcast to find links to articles and the MLT/GPYB Narcissism playlist.

Duration:00:46:15

MLT Ep 103 Talking About Those Holiday Blues

12/27/2020
Many people are having a hard time this year. The pandemic makes post-breakup holidays even WORSE. Hope this episode helps in some small way.

Duration:00:34:19

MLT 102b Talking About Empath, Empathetic, & Some Shane Dawson

12/23/2020
A funny thing happened on the way to the word of the week. It became the YT topic of the week. Discussion of the misused word EMPATH and Empathetic and a bit about Shane Dawson (this is less about him and more about the general use of the word). The description on YouTube has links to others' videos about Shane #empath #empathic #empathetic #shanedawson #narcissist #boundaries #metaphysical #psychic #codependency #sciencefiction #grieving #identification #sensitivity

Duration:00:40:14

MLT Ep102a Talking About The Definitive Chris Watts Part 2

12/19/2020
The second in a series we talk about Chris and Shanann meeting and not being honest about who they were. It wasn't straight-up dishonesty but it was more or less 2 facades meeting each other. All of the groundwork is here for what would become a troubled marriage...trouble that is unknown to everyone until the last final fatal weeks.

Duration:00:50:53

MLT 101 Talking About Geoffrey Paschel's DV and Custody Cases

12/13/2020
While this has been around a bit, there have been some channels reporting misinformation about this case and I needed to address some of this as well as use this as an opportunity to talk about DV, custody, boundaries & coparenting with a personality disordered ex. There is a lot of information on here, but PLEASE ask questions about leave comments about this story, domestic violence and custody, visitation, etc. #geoffreypaschel #90dayfiance #custody #domesticviolence #boundaries...

Duration:00:36:05

MLT Ep 100c Talking About the Grief Process and Closure

12/12/2020
In this episode we talk about grief from a psychological and legal standpoint. We talk about the role of the victim in the legal system (both criminal and family) and the grief process and no contact and boundaries with coparent. Dealing with ex threatening selfharm if you breakup with them (listen to the Male Stalking podcast talking about #travisalexander and #ryanposton victims of #jodiarias and #shaynahubers and NOT being friends with the ex.) PLEASE LEAVE COMMENTS ON THE YOUTUBE VERSION...

Duration:00:36:06

MLT Ep 100b The Definitive Chris Watts Part 1

12/11/2020
Part 1 of the series: The Definitive Chris Watts where we will be talking about the legal issues the psychological issues and the relationship issues between Chris and Shanann and Nicole and his family. How did everyone miss his personality disorders? Please leave comments and questions or to suggest things for future episodes on the YouTube version: https://youtu.be/7MRAvoOpZAo

Duration:00:47:22

MLT Ep 100a Welcome Back to Season 3

12/11/2020
Welcome back to Season 3 of the Mean Lady Talking podcast where we will be talking mental health relationships breakups divorce children custody nocontact NC dating movingon

Duration:00:10:01

MLT 99c Talking About Internet Addiction, Sex Addiction, Porn Addiction, Betrayal Trauma

12/3/2020
Here it is the LAST episode in Season 2!!!! And as promised we are covering 3 types of addiction: internet, sex and pornography and for the last 2, the effect on partners, which can result in betrayal trauma. https://youtu.be/ud-MyavgJPc

Duration:01:01:35

MLT 99B More Smorgasbord

11/28/2020
More preview of Season 3, more loose ends tying up - talking about Chris Watts, the nitwit network, narcissism, ASPD, a discussion of troubling YT and TT personalities like Zoe Laverne and ACE Family, "Stan" behavior, recommended channels for some lulz.

Duration:00:35:19

MLT Ep 99A Season 3 Preview Tying Up Loose Ends

11/28/2020
99A a preview of Season 3, a return to the horrible Psychology Today debacle (for a reason), cyberbulllying, name calling, quick take on the Stauffers, and tying up loose ends in Season 2. I will link to all the channels mentioned in parts A & B as soon as I finish up with C.

Duration:00:34:53